Anybody else got thug issues?

[missfontella]

I try to get with the good boys cause I know I need to grow up and get a responsible "lifemate." But only thugs turn me own. Its nothing like a few bullet wounds to get my juices flowing...right down my leg. Am I alone here? Ladies?

[makno]

im like that about girls ,i think like dominican gangster girls with cool facial knife scars are hot .i like scars to be on cheekridge nose ridge or side of forhead! a woman i knew when i was a kid ,when theese guys were tryinto kill her man mike,took off her spike heel shoe and drove it into one of ems skull [killing him instantly]a real down girl ,ready to die fighting ,ready to protect crew .is the sexiest of creatures. purto rican girls who pull a thousand dollar piece of smack out of their pussies {that is a vision you never forget}right in a room full of motherfuckers ! bullet holes are kind of borring looking {just roundthings}i like knife ones .i got a wide jagged scar right over my heart.i have ducked a lot of bulettes in my life , but never caught one !had em wizzin inches by my ear {sound you never forget!crak crak is ok crakthud crak thwap is not that means they are bouncin off shit neer ya! but its easy to take a gun away from someone {ive done it a dozen times long ones and short}try grabbin a krife!they demand respect!

[AutumnAuburn]

Oh yeah, bad boys turn me on, too... :)

[Fractual_]

yep.. your alone.

[Ginge]

Thuggish type boys seem to be attracted to me the most, but blech! Not my cup of tea.

To be perfectly honest, I'd take a nice, geeky, shy boy anyday. :)

But that's just me. lol

[ZePpeLinA]

I don't like thugs, they make me nervous.. I'd rather have a nice peace-loving hippie boy.

[osiris]

thugs are just dirty ghetto politicians, manipulating the system within which they reside for their own personal gain without regard to the detrimental effect it will have on the others who toil away to try and preserve some semblance of a balanced and fulfilling life amidst the corruption and poverty.

fuck thugs. thugs need to grow up, and be men.

much love :)

[makno]

yall sterotypin ,no one loves peace more than someone forced by circumstance to live with violence. people dont ask to be born in gettos . i learned more about ethics from criminals when i was a kid , than by putting on lectures and having dinner wiyh noam chompski or howard zinn. i ve been cheated by nice peace loving hippie kids , a lot more than getto kids , and to be riped off by someone who can afford to pay you , is truly sad. to be put in danger by some yuppie scum in dredlocks whos never had a moment of danger in his life is a real insult!...ive seen acts of compassion , sacrifice ,and love in the desperate inner citys of america that are as rare as hens teeth in the suburbs or elswhere ! when you live in a do or die world , you lern the value of loyalty , friendshipand , acceptance of people as they are! honesty is paramount in theese situations ...you can be a fony two faced ass when you got a check commin from mom n dad and your sitting in harvard square drinking 5 $cup of coffee. try doin that in dorcherter or south boston and when your peeps back way from ya , the tigers rush in !....i think that the sterotypical thug that your speak of , would be someone who went looking to cause trouble for no reason , posturing and confrontative .those people last but weeks before they are dispatched in a truly dangerous environment! you lern politics disgression deferal and the absolute stupidity of revenge in a real getto ! also the total value of peace and love! ...so try to be more open minded lil hippies...we used to leave the toughest streets on the east coast to go to rainbow gatherings before you were born! everybody hasnt had your ..."advantages" ... i thank god i havnt , at least i know i saw love in the real , not the artificial!!!!

[Mui]

lol i know a lot of girls who say they only go fer the thug-look... most of the times they just end up hooking up w/ some white boys from the suburb who think they are thugs because they listen to eminem and 50 cent... their aint no thugs in my city! All the real thugs (professional thiefs, vandalizers, kriminals) are people you would never expect... Everyone else dresses that way cuz they like the music... that doesnt make them bad though.

[makno]

yea wisconcin is dissapointing ,in racine and milwakee ,..there are quasi thug types ....but not a whole lot , just loosers who couldnt make it in chi.

[Ginge]

Hmm. Well, I understand what you mean, Manko.

However...

I think you misunderstood. You seem to think that people have something against those who grew up in the ghetto. That's not true. There's a big dfference between someone born in the "ghetto", and a thug. Not all people from the ghetto are thugs, and not all thugs are from the ghetto. I'm from the "ghetto", and I'm HARDLY a thug, nor do I act like I'm "ghetto." However, that is not to say I'm an uptight, snobby, too-good-for-my-roots, brat.

You speak of stereotypes in your post. I can only speak for myself here, but I can safely say that just because I don't like thugs doesn't mean I'm a rich, priviledged, Harvard yuppie who "drinks $5 cups of coffee and gets a check from mom and dad." FAR from it, actually.

So now who's stereotyping?

[Mui]

but how does a girl determine whos a thug? By the way they dress? if that's so, they probably arent getting w/ a thug...

the people who really control the crime do not look like thugs... an thats a fact :)

[makno]

i didnt say you were a yuppie ginge , but there are yuppies in harvard square as we speak , i got a lot of friends that died cuz alphabet city was gentrified ...all those comfy cheep gettos are now overly expensive playgrounds for the super ritch even some of the beautifull rural places i have lived are gentrified to the point of excluding or marginalizing to servants , the former ocupants !...peace ginge we be talkin bout two different things!

[Ginge]

Ahh, I see. Yeah, I know there are TONS of yuppies in Harvard. Some of which who will probably go on to be bigger corporate criminals than any thug, I'm sure.

Mui, to me, a thug is simply a hoodlum. A ruffian. Dress means nothing to me. The thug boys who are attracted to me are true thugs. Albuquerque is rather small, so we all know who's who. Everyone's mom knows everyone else's mom...that sort of thing. So, I know who these boys are, grown up with some of these boys, and know they're nothing but trouble.

I've dated boys with baggy jeans and jerseys before. They weren't thugs, they just liked hip-hop. LOL And one, who I got along with the best, dressed like a hip-hopper, but listened to everything but hip hop. So really, dress says nothing. Neither does music, for that matter. I was just using it as an example. ;)

Now, if you walk around wearing a shirt that says "Hitler Pride!" or something of that nature, then yes, I feel dress DOES say something about you. But that's another story...

[makno]

moi is correct the people who control crime dont nessecarily look any way ,and the smart ones never deploy violence capritiously!the closest to you moi would be in aurora ill. ......and those boys out west, yea they are crazy troublmakers , not lookin for a way out just to die . hard asses like that didnt last a week way back when , cuz their antics were bad for buisness and they were delt with acordingly! ...of course i would rather be in some comfy student center talking about politics or philosophy , but i never forget those valient boys i knew!

[osiris]

dude, i fucking grew up in the ghetto too. Poeple that adapt to the political environment of gang warfare instead of growing up and giving it their backs perpetuate that environment and make it harder for those of us who are too fucking poor to move away and just want to raise our fucking kids in peace. those people who grow to understand peace and love because of that environment cease to be thugs, because they grow up! they turn their back to the gangs and start taking care of families.

so i stand by my statement. fuck thugs, they need to grow up and be men. our scars ain't nothing to be proud of, but something to learn from, and teach with, and people who perpetuate that image are ignorant, no matter where they live.

much love :)

[Ginge]

Exactly Osiris. :) Thugs aren't about peace and love, because if they were, they wouldn't be thugs. Know what I mean?

Poor Missfontanella. She just asked if anyone here was attracted to thugs, and we turned it into a big debate. lol

[osiris]

i admit, that is a sore spot for me. i grew up around so many ignorant fucks who thought it was all about being a player and taking what they wanted without regard to other people's well-being... and you know, some of them changed, and they would say the same thing i am. but the ones who would cling to that image with pride... well, frankly, most of them are fucking dead.


much love :)

[serra]

"thugs" here are just damn posers, there is no ghetto where i live, they just wish their was. it's pathetic. and stupid.
i don't find them attractive at all, i find them annoying. with their psedo homie accents, i say, fuck off, you are white and you live in the middle of canada, piss off! pull your pants up and go back to the suburbs. the real inner city kids don't have enough money to look like thugs.

[serra]

keep in mind i was talking about my city, not all cities!




and i agree with whoever said they prefer a nice nerdy guy any day. i love my nerd boy!

[missfontella]

Ok, I feel the need to clear this up. I'm attracted to thugs for basic primal reasons. I like strength and feeling protected. All women are attracted to power (whether they admit it or not) Power is what you percieve it to be. Ideally, I would rather have a reformed thug, somebody who has been there and done that but learned from it. Someone smart enuff to have moved on to a productive life, but if things get crazy (life does that) he can go all out. Think Russell Crowe in Gladiator. (getting hot) Our whole society accepts action heros as sex symbols but when I wanna do Ray-Ray from down the street after he kicks somebody's ass, then I'm strange. Yeah, right.

Also there are degrees of separation in thughood. Some are self-serving bastards. Some are doing what is necessary to survive. Some are copying what they have seen. Some have serious mental issues. They are kinda like PEOPLE that way. Nobody is absolute. Being human is being a ball of contradictions.

[sicko]

nothin gets me hot like a thug girl

[AutumnAuburn]

Yes, Russell Crowe in Gladiator... Very hot, indeed...

I'm attracted to "dangerous" types. One of the most dangerous, dark-aura'd guys I was ever with, was totally clean-cut and very nerdy. But boy he curled my toes... ;) Everyone I knew hated him, passionately, because of his darkness. But that sense of danger attracted me like a magnet. Incidentally, he never did hurt me, in any way that wasn't consentual, anyway... :)

I've dated my share (and married my share) of "nerds". But, if I'm in the line at the grocery store and there's a big, burly biker and a guy who looks like an accountant, standing next to me, I'm gonna be thinking about the biker guy, not the accountant. LOL

Yeah, I think it's a primal thing. I do feel safer with big guys, especially big guys with a proven track record of being tough. I also agree that I think the reformed tough guys are the best. Because it's the best of both worlds. The respectability and stability of a clean-cut guy, with the possible danger of a ruffian.

[honeyhannah]

Ok, I feel the need to clear this up. I'm attracted to thugs for basic primal reasons. I like strength and feeling protected. All women are attracted to power (whether they admit it or not)

Power is what you percieve it to be. Ideally, I would rather have a reformed thug, somebody who has been there and done that but learned from it. Someone smart enuff to have moved on to a productive life, but if things get crazy (life does that) he can go all out. Think Russell Crowe in Gladiator. (getting hot) Our whole society accepts action heros as sex symbols but when I wanna do Ray-Ray from down the street after he kicks somebody's ass, then I'm strange. Yeah, right.

Also there are degrees of separation in thughood. Some are self-serving bastards. Some are doing what is necessary to survive. Some are copying what they have seen. Some have serious mental issues. They are kinda like PEOPLE that way. Nobody is absolute. Being human is being a ball of contradictions.
Absolutely!

I disagree, I am not at all attracted to power, and it is not a matter of not admitting to it.

No, I don't think it's strange, I know other people who feel that way. I'm not one of those people.

[makno]

yea i guess we lern that honesty is punished on theese fourms...god forbid you should think ray ray is cute . and lets take being men away from men !accountants like the ones at enron , are safe lookin nerdy guys , who stole billions from retirees!!! ...but they are ok cuz they dont look threatnin...jo jo sells a lil crack to buy clothes a sandwitch and a subway pass and hes the enimy of all ...sure people!

[Jimmie]

hello serra .you little minks .you love what ever you like im with you all the way.

[jo_k_er_man]

To be perfectly honest, I'd take a nice, geeky, shy boy anyday. :)

But that's just me. lol

Oo.... Oo.... pick me pick me

[jo_k_er_man]

And as for thugs, girls that dress like thugs and act it are just plain stupid, im sorry but i cant stand being around thugs, that use to be my way of life, and i've matured alot of late, thugs are just too dumb and ignorant for my liking

[Bloody_Kisses]

But only thugs turn me own. Its nothing like a few bullet wounds to get my juices flowing...right down my leg. Am I alone here? Ladies? come to this town. take them all away, please.

[innocentpoison333]

Thugs no I don't like them don't like a guy who beats the shit out of other people. If i were to like any kind of bad boy it would be the stubborn kind who hates the world and thinks fuck it all and gets in trouble in school for skipping class and acting like an ass or like he doesn't care in class. If I met a guy like this Ide want to get inside his head find out the real him, and why he acts the way he does. Ide want to make him show other emotions to me besides anger. Ide want to change him, but not too much....

[see in blonde]

Thugs ar fucking pussies. I laught at them. Coming from DC I have dealth with the real thugs my entire life. But right now me and my roommate came back from chilies to let my dog out, i missed him. Now I must go drinkl .25 drafts at lighthourse. everyone have a good night and remember, fuck thugs. They are a joke to humanity.

P.S. I am drunk, and love everyone on this site.

have peace and good vibes.

[MusicMan19]

If by "problem" you mean having to deal with their child-like, asinine remarks on the way to work each day, sure. Good thing I'm a music teacher and can pick and choose my students. I used to work with these unintelligable cretinoid day-in and day-out.

A "bad boy" is an awesome guy to date until you find that he can't pay for anything, is completely self-absorbed, can't get credit or a loan, and acts like he's 15 years old.

If you want a bad boy, don't go for a thug. Go for a rocker. He's actually got feelings and will generally make sense when he trys to construct a sentence. Ofcourse, this could be why rap music is intellectually and creatively void. The people making it are lacking in substance and any redeeming qualities whatsoever.

Not to be an asshole really, but any female who finds a man beating another human being "hot" or "sexy" is simply working on primality and nothing else. Your brain has to work at the most primitive level possible to find something like that even remotely attractive. You know what protection really is? Money. Clout. Physical strength means nothing and fighting means nothing. Think about it in real context. A human (ape in this context) beating on another human for the sake of...what? You're physically assaulting someone else. That's really an incredibly impressive thing, honestly! Kudos to any man who can do that effectively, and kudos to any woman who is primitive enough to find that sexy.

[tigerlily]

hehehe... like that last comment about rock stars...

i used to totally go for thugs.. my friends would laugh at me b/c i'm totally white and give off really innocent vibes, or used to anyway, and so for me to like thugs was comical. then i actually dated one (one that actually had stab and bullet wounds, two kids, was in the penn twice)... and yeah... after i realized what the fuck HE was all about I got out of that phase. Now I totally go for nice, slightly dorky boys :) they're so much more fun!

[MusicMan19]

I'm a dorky boy! heh Will be until I become a rock star. If I do become a rock star, though, honestly... I'll be a very generous philanthropist. And guess the first investment I'll make with my 30M sum-odd dollars? Cleaner schools, parks and sufficient housing in the inner-cities. Why? Because I don't hate thugs, I hate what produced them. Take away the chance for a ghetto, and you take away the chance for an otherwise decent and able person to become a thug. And, the cleaner and safer the housing and schools, the better the chances that those most able inner-city kids will become able inner-city adults, who go to college with the white kids who live in the hills, and make some money and a safe life for themselves. You notice, when blacks get money, move to the suburbs and have children, 9 times out of 10, they have a decent, intelligent child who goes on to be something useful and productive. The cycle will perpetuate itself as it already has been on a very minor scale if more well-to-do people begin taking the plight out of sight, you know what I mean?

And then maybe, just maybe, they'll make some decent music. lol

[see in blonde]

IM A DRUNK BOY!!!!

I just wish there was a girl i could let me gouard down to. no sense in getting to know these drunk club and abr girls. just one i could connetcy with, it girabes the life meaning.

[see in blonde]

too many. passed ot in my bed.

[peacefuljeffrey]

I try to get with the good boys cause I know I need to grow up and get a responsible "lifemate." But only thugs turn me own. Its nothing like a few bullet wounds to get my juices flowing...right down my leg. Am I alone here? Ladies?
OMG, I can't turn around without you posting something that makes me lose more respect for you and the choices you make.

Why any self-respecting person would like the shit-eating criminal-type, or find some allure in them, is beyond me and beyond most other rational human beings as well.

But maybe that's the problem: maybe you don't have any self respect.

The scenario you described is just pathetic.

-Jeffrey

[peacefuljeffrey]

thugs are just dirty ghetto politicians, manipulating the system within which they reside for their own personal gain without regard to the detrimental effect it will have on the others who toil away to try and preserve some semblance of a balanced and fulfilling life amidst the corruption and poverty.

fuck thugs. thugs need to grow up, and be men.

much love :)
EXCELLENT post.

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

[peacefuljeffrey]

yall sterotypin ,no one loves peace more than someone forced by circumstance to live with violence. people dont ask to be born in gettos . i learned more about ethics from criminals when i was a kid , than by putting on lectures and having dinner wiyh noam chompski or howard zinn. i ve been cheated by nice peace loving hippie kids , a lot more than getto kids , and to be riped off by someone who can afford to pay you , is truly sad. to be put in danger by some yuppie scum in dredlocks whos never had a moment of danger in his life is a real insult!...ive seen acts of compassion , sacrifice ,and love in the desperate inner citys of america that are as rare as hens teeth in the suburbs or elswhere !
This is really funny: You decry our "stereotyping" and then you go and stereotype, yourself! That makes you a hypocrite, bub.

And puhlease, save your "honor amongst scumbag criminals" bullshit for someone who might actually believe that kind of crap. You're trying to convince me that carjackers, drug pushers, muggers, murderers, rapists, are the salt of the earth.

Get fucking real, loser.

This may have been the reality you saw growing up, but it sure as fuck ain't the way life ought to be.

you can be a fony two faced ass when you got a check commin from mom n dad and your sitting in harvard square drinking 5 $cup of coffee.
Nooo.... YOU don't "stereotype"! Stereotyping is wronnnnng!

i think that the sterotypical thug that your speak of , would be someone who went looking to cause trouble for no reason , posturing and confrontative .those people last but weeks before they are dispatched in a truly dangerous environment! you lern politics disgression deferal and the absolute stupidity of revenge in a real getto ! also the total value of peace and love! ...so try to be more open minded lil hippies...we used to leave the toughest streets on the east coast to go to rainbow gatherings before you were born! everybody hasnt had your ..."advantages" ... i thank god i havnt , at least i know i saw love in the real , not the artificial!!!!
Is living in the inner city to blame for the pathetic state of your ability to express yourself in coherent written sentences?

-Jeffrey

[peacefuljeffrey]

Exactly Osiris. :) Thugs aren't about peace and love, because if they were, they wouldn't be thugs. Know what I mean?

Poor Missfontanella. She just asked if anyone here was attracted to thugs, and we turned it into a big debate. lol
She demonstrated how ignorant her choice-making apparatus is. That doesn't deserve sympathy, it deserves to be told how dumb it is.

We live in a pathetic, sick world, when people try to emulate the lowest criminal types and violent thugs, and "thug" and "pimp" are words that actually cause people to feel respect for someone. That is well and truly fucked up.

-Jeffrey

[peacefuljeffrey]

"thugs" here are just damn posers, there is no ghetto where i live, they just wish their was. it's pathetic. and stupid.
i don't find them attractive at all, i find them annoying. with their psedo homie accents, i say, fuck off, you are white and you live in the middle of canada, piss off! pull your pants up and go back to the suburbs. the real inner city kids don't have enough money to look like thugs.
LOL! THANK you! I LOVED this post!

Yeah, nothing's funnier (in the "sad-funny" way) than some white kid trying to "talk ghetto." What fucking losers.

-Jeffrey

[MusicMan19]

While I agree with some of the things you've said, I really don't know that you can justify calling yourself "peaceful" Jeffrey.

[stonr]

lmao, im a guy and honestly im kinda an average joe im not a head banger with black hair eye liner fishnet stockings, and i am definetly not a rapper in throbacks with 200 dollar shoes on with a gucci hat or sumpoo. i am a white guy like 6feet dirty blonde hair, blue eyes, i do have my eares gauged though ,and u know what i am not gettin any luvin here, and it sux big time. theres so many nice lookin girls at my school to but they are hoes with a cpital h, or really hard to get to u know the kind that only talk to you if u are a football player. me i like an average girl that likes me for who and what i am not what i have. so ya and as far a feeling go i owuldt go so far to say im all hard and tough but i have feelings like any other human, i have money and credit to but if you fuck with me in the wrong way believe me u will have a 165 pound body commin straight at u with fists swingin and if u piss me off enought i wont stop until the body is lymph

[DuhDude]

Rather depressing. It occurs to me that many of the world's problems (war, violence, hated) would lessen if people were not attracted to bullies. I think it is positively the worst personal trait one can have. It on par with voting republican.

Sadly many women have this attraction. Bullies also seems to be the choice for "the other guy" when/if your S.O. cheats. A close friend of mine (thin pot smoking hippy) was threaten by his wife's f*cking partner like this. However I (a total pacifist despite being a big black guy) was there and he backed off. This little coward didn't want a fair fight. I guess this was the art of fighting without fighting. Gadly as I did want my assed kicked. I can not understand attraction to such distateful group.

Attraction to violence is not a hippy trait. On the other hand, you're very beautiful women in fact so beautiful that I can put aside my core moral foundation which have defined my life if you want to hook up ;-)

[hippychickmommy]

Ok, I feel the need to clear this up. I'm attracted to thugs for basic primal reasons. I like strength and feeling protected. All women are attracted to power (whether they admit it or not) Power is what you percieve it to be. Ideally, I would rather have a reformed thug, somebody who has been there and done that but learned from it. Someone smart enuff to have moved on to a productive life, but if things get crazy (life does that) he can go all out. Think Russell Crowe in Gladiator. (getting hot) Our whole society accepts action heros as sex symbols but when I wanna do Ray-Ray from down the street after he kicks somebody's ass, then I'm strange. Yeah, right.

Also there are degrees of separation in thughood. Some are self-serving bastards. Some are doing what is necessary to survive. Some are copying what they have seen. Some have serious mental issues. They are kinda like PEOPLE that way. Nobody is absolute. Being human is being a ball of contradictions.Power IS incredibly hot. No doubt about it. I wouldn't want to be with anyone that I didn't feel safe and "protected" with. It's not an attraction to violence and wrong-doing, it's an attraction to knowing that your man will not let people walk all over him OR you.

My hubby is far from a thug, that's not his style, but I know that man will fight tooth and nail for myself and our kids if it came down it. He doesn't put up with crap from anybody, never has, and probably never will. But he's a softie when it comes to the kids and I, and that's just the way I like it. ;)

Peace.

[MusicMan19]

There's a difference between being attracted to a bully and being attracted to a man who won't take shit and with whom you're protected. Most men can take care of business when it comes time to do so.

[indescribability]

There's a difference between being attracted to a bully and being attracted to a man who won't take shit and with whom you're protected. Most men can take care of business when it comes time to do so.
i say 'some' not most men most men i think are not used to having to 'take care of business' but to want a thug for 'protection' is kind of like keep a rabbid guard dog sure he can protect you but that protection is coming at the cost of raising the daily risk with which you live my best friends mom dated a 'thug' because our house was in the middle of a giant, ghetto shit storm and he was about the nicest guy around he beat up some guy talking shit to my friends mom i was impressed he did not even say anything to the guy just heard what he said walked out and leveled the rude bastard two days later our house got hit by a drive by because the guy that got leveled did not appreciate it and had more friends than our friend

i dont knock anybody for who they date but some people need to take closer looks at the 'thugs' they choose im not saying all are bad or good but like everybody else they have their ups and downs

[lynsey]

heh no I've never gotten that attraction. I like incredibly sweet clean cut guys with huge hearts. Even in high school I always liked the nice boys.

[gentle revolutionary]

"Power IS incredibly hot. No doubt about it. "

Rather depressing. It occurs to me that many of the world's problems (war, violence, hated) would lessen if people were not attracted to bullies. I think it is positively the worst personal trait one can have. It on par with voting republican.

Sadly many women have this attraction. Bullies also seems to be the choice for "the other guy" when/if your S.O. cheats. A close friend of mine (thin pot smoking hippy) was threaten by his wife's f*cking partner like this. However I (a total pacifist despite being a big black guy) was there and he backed off. This little coward didn't want a fair fight. I guess this was the art of fighting without fighting. Gadly as I did want my assed kicked. I can not understand attraction to such distateful group.

Attraction to violence is not a hippy trait.
Couldn't agree more. It's very understandable from an evolutionary point of view (the female attraction to violence - as long as it isn't directed towards them directly, dominance, leaders of the pack etc. ...we're a fucked up species), but for a long time I couldn't really understand this female attraction to insensitive bastards. One thing's for certain - it hasn't got anything to do with ethics.:confused:

[missfontella]

Power IS incredibly hot. No doubt about it. I wouldn't want to be with anyone that I didn't feel safe and "protected" with. It's not an attraction to violence and wrong-doing, it's an attraction to knowing that your man will not let people walk all over him OR you.

My hubby is far from a thug, that's not his style, but I know that man will fight tooth and nail for myself and our kids if it came down it. He doesn't put up with crap from anybody, never has, and probably never will. But he's a softie when it comes to the kids and I, and that's just the way I like it. ;)

Peace.
Thank you for actually reading my post and understanding my point

I would argue with some people in this thread but they are debating on something that has nothing to do with my point

so thanks for staying on topic

[missfontella]

and agreeing with me

[mynameiskc]

I try to get with the good boys cause I know I need to grow up and get a responsible "lifemate." But only thugs turn me own. Its nothing like a few bullet wounds to get my juices flowing...right down my leg. Am I alone here? Ladies?
anyway, back to topic. yes, i like men to be very manly. otherwise i end up pushing them around. thankfully i managed to find a truly reformed, grown-up now "bad boy." it's really nice. he's already proved what a fucking bad ass he is, and doesn't feel the need to compete with the puppies anymore. it's bliss.

[missfontella]

http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=61676

[mynameiskc]

haha. i just watched that video the other day. those gals are somethin else. eye candy so good they make your teeth ache.