Held it in?

[eirek]

I was wondering

[sonik]

holy shit that sounds painful

:eek:

[eirek]

:eek: Yeah I know thats why I was asking....

[Mintaoism]

yeah you just do it and hold the very base of your dick. You know the kind of bump line that all the juice comes from. Just hold that tightly at the bottom and keep going. you may still get a bit but alot less than per usual..


Not to Tight ;)

[sonik]

Its really not that messy, why the hell would you want to hold it in?

ugg

:(

[TerminalMadness]

That sounds dumb; I read that when a guy is having sex or masturbating and he suddenly stops, the sperm builds up and you get blue balls. This condition makes your balls blue and makes them hurt until the sperm is released.

I've heard of prolonging your orgasm, but holding it in? Hmm.

[Bohemian_Child]

But why the hell would you want to do that? Grab a tissue, jesus. That cant be good for you, and in my experience its not THAT messy and well... why would you do that?

[mick_jagger_is_so_hi]

Dont hold it in!! Cum all over ur girl!! we luv it!!

[Fractual_]

Umm, yeah. All that cum has to go somewhere; if it ain't coming out of you, chances are it's backfireing to someplace. You've got a lot of delicate plumbing up inside there, and what your talking about could easily screw things up. I'm not just talking out my ass here. I read about this very subjuct eleswhere, and while I can't quite remember how it causes harm, rest assured it can and will.
lmao********

[Fractual_]

Dont hold it in!! Cum all over ur girl!! we luv it!!
i wish all of you felt that way

my ex gf: no no not on me -moves back-

me: -has orgasm all over his own bed-

[DandelionPrincess]

hmm...has she tried it? b/c i was a bit reluctant at first, but I'm the type of person who'll try anything at least once and i actually liked it a lot...it feels really good on my skin and it makes my skin a lot smoother, the best kinda lotion there is! :D

[TerminalMadness]

Uh--um--Dandy, I don't think there's really any words on Earth in response to your post. :eek:

[missfontella]

Oh there's a response....try Jergens

[DandelionPrincess]

^i have...still not as good...not as fun either

[keng123]

hmm...has she tried it? b/c i was a bit reluctant at first, but I'm the type of person who'll try anything at least once and i actually liked it a lot...it feels really good on my skin and it makes my skin a lot smoother, the best kinda lotion there is! :DYOU RULE!! guys there's nothing better than a girl that knows what she likes and wants. and yea dude pinchin off a load ain't good for you.

[AutumnAuburn]

i wish all of you felt that way

my ex gf: no no not on me -moves back-

me: -has orgasm all over his own bed-
Hmmm... So, I guess swallowing was out of the question.... Bummer....

[dj_reegz]

errr ah...

My guess is it would prabably fuck up your prostrate (Sp?). But forgetting physical problems. that would be sexually frustrating:(.

Kleenex
Condom
A lover who likes your love in all it's forms :D ;)

those are all much safer suggestions

[Omniwulf]

Ok those pipes in there are not ment to be pinched off. once the taps open.it is going to come out. pinching it off only delays what will happen. You could only hurt yourself. And the act of getting super arroused and then not allowing yourself to cum will indeed give you blue balls. BTW blue balls is a name giving to the condition.. I dont beleave I actualy had blue colored balls when I got it.. It was just something very very painful. trust me. you dont want to go there.

[eirek]

Yeah, thats why I have never actually done it. Just heard it and was wondering. I'll make sure to tell him he's screwing him self by doing it. Thanks

[meishka]

kegel exersises. i'm almost to the point of havng an orgasm without ejaculation. the cum is supposed to go up it the bladder i think.

[missfontella]

Guys can do kegels????? Ya learn something everyday

[TerminalMadness]

Why would anyone want to hold in the most incredible pleasure on Earth? It's unfathomable.

[invisible]

i dont like the idea to hold in the sperm. i dont get the nice feeling...

[Mintaoism]

Well that's the thing about women cum (discharge)isn't it? Some think that it's piss cause it comes form the urethra, and they hold it in thinking it would be urine

[Pablo]

hmm...has she tried it? b/c i was a bit reluctant at first, but I'm the type of person who'll try anything at least once and i actually liked it a lot...it feels really good on my skin and it makes my skin a lot smoother, the best kinda lotion there is! :D
You like that a lot? why have we only done it like twice, i thought it was fun too, very erotic. :)

[mimosa]

Quote:
Originally Posted by mick_jagger_is_so_hip
Dont hold it in!! Cum all over ur girl!! we luv it!!

i wish all of you felt that way

my ex gf: no no not on me -moves back-

me: -has orgasm all over his own bed-
__________________


I think it's sad that some girls don't like that.

[Pablo]

Umm, yeah. All that cum has to go somewhere; if it ain't coming out of you, chances are it's backfireing to someplace. You've got a lot of delicate plumbing up inside there, and what your talking about could easily screw things up. I'm not just talking out my ass here. I read about this very subjuct eleswhere, and while I can't quite remember how it causes harm, rest assured it can and will.
Its called retrograde ejaculation, and doing this could definetly cause it, if it hapens you can get an infection similar to a womans yeast infection, but deeper inside your body and much trickier to treat.

And i just found out my girlfriend likes to be cummed on, if only she was here. (Do you really enjoy that dandilionprincess? really? :))

[Mui]

Dont hold it in!! Cum all over ur girl!! we luv it!!
This is gospel! You deserve an award!

[cbrmale]

You are talking about non-ejaculatory orgasms. That's where a man has an orgasm but no ejaculation. If you train yourself, you can have multiple orgasms in a session. No ejaculation equals no loss of erection.

You just keep going till you get to the point and then stop and squeeze the right way. Everything feels the same, throbbing, wave of pleasure and so on. After a few moments, start up again and keep on going. You are not holding back pleasure, just having more of it.

And the cum isn't supposed to go anywhere, certainly not the bladder.

I can do either, but I always finish with an ejaculatory orgasm. Nice and big, the final one can be huge.

I don't necessarily count, but on a couple of occasions I have had five or six orgasms, including one ejaculatory, in a single one-hour session.

[Ikarion]

I used to masturbate allot, now only once a week.

Masturbating often made took well control of my body, i once or two i actually reached orgasm without ejaculating, but without sequeezing my penis or nothing, juts controling the contractions. But i wont make again beacuse i think it´s not healthy. When you feel your in a point of no return stop stimulating the gland, if you´re not circuncised let the sking cover it (avoid that the skin get reatraced around the gland) and gently press the gland in all her surface like you would want it to reduce her size (every man know the gland swells a little when masturbating) concentrate this brief and gentle press more in the tip and avoid the circular area where the Head of the penis ends. After this it´s all about control of the inner contractions, exale all air in your breathing in the most relaxed way you can.

Any way, i realise that after 1 or 2 spaced in time ejaculations, instead of jacking of energically for an half an hour the body starts building up in the next days allot of testosterone. If you don´t ejaculate you´ll maintain levels cosntant, not feeling to tired or depressed, but also not too horny.

[Pablo]

Yeh id say training to not ejacualte when you come is a lot better then trying to pinch it off, that could be bad. And the one after all those where you do ejacualte will be way intense. But i dont necisarily loose my erection when i cum and i can keep going weather i ejaculated or not, atleast 2 to 4 times.

[Tykn130]

Why would you hold it in. Just let it out ill feel much better when its out then in.

[dee]

Fuck that, just hold it in with your dick muscles and then build up another load then splatter her twice as much. That's the way to do it.

[DandelionPrincess]

to pablo:

how many times do i need to say it? :p

Yes!

ps. i love you! :D

[Pablo]

well the thing is its a really big turn on but only if im sure you actually really enjoy it. Besides you always ask if i actually enjoy eating you pussy, when with how much i get into it and the way i do it its pretty obiovious that i love it. Mmm i could sure go for some of that now. *sigh*

[ArtistofPeace]

Dude, that's like blue balls taken to an extreme right there. I know that when a guy gets horny and worked up...but doesn't cum, it can hurt a lot (hence, blue balls). So...purposely holding it in?! That's gotta be fucking painful...and dangerous. It's gotta go somewhere!!! Let it out!!! haha...:)

[Spinner]

Look I tried that and it's very painful.
Anyway, I really didn't do a good job of holding it in and I ended up cumming in the girl's eye.

[moonshyne]

Dude, that's like blue balls taken to an extreme right there. I know that when a guy gets horny and worked up...but doesn't cum, it can hurt a lot (hence, blue balls). So...purposely holding it in?! That's gotta be fucking painful...and dangerous. It's gotta go somewhere!!! Let it out!!! haha...:)
I think that's just an excuse guys use to make girls feel sorry for them and let them finish. My man says that it is annoying, in the fact that you're still horny, but that it's more of an urge rather than pain. I think guys think they can guilt trip you into letting them finish the deed (or let you finish it for them) if they tell you it hurts them.

[Pablo]

I think that's just an excuse guys use to make girls feel sorry for them and let them finish. My man says that it is annoying, in the fact that you're still horny, but that it's more of an urge rather than pain. I think guys think they can guilt trip you into letting them finish the deed (or let you finish it for them) if they tell you it hurts them.
why should a guy need any excuse to finish?

[lascara]

I always make my sub wait to orgasm, sometimes a few hours sometimes weeks, blue balls keeps him on his toes, his chastity belt helps when he is in a naughty mood. Waiting means he builds up lots of cum this can only be a good thing when he does get relise, he loves it and it keeps him in line.

Ailsa

[EroticCookie]

I despise blue balls...that feeling sucks so much. It bothers you all day long...grrr....

[Pablo]

yeh, dont say we make it up to guilt women, it aches, its like the felling you have when recovering from a kick in the balls, not as bad as just after you get kicked but that ach that lingers, except with blue balls it lingers for a really long time, usually untill you do "finish"

[moonshyne]

why should a guy need any excuse to finish?
Just sometimes when a girl gets tired out, or for some reason its just not working out. I've noticed that guys seem to try to use that excuse when you give em head.:D Like a reminder "if you don't blow me till I cum it's gonna hurt me," kind of thing. :p Not that i've just been out giving head, but i've heard men talk, and I've known other girls who have heard the same line.

[thehipsterdufus]

dude, let it flow -- wait 15-20 minutes and go again - you'll usually last longer the second and third (and more) rounds than the first, and a sore dick is better than that blue ball feeling!

[ArtistofPeace]

I think that's just an excuse guys use to make girls feel sorry for them and let them finish. My man says that it is annoying, in the fact that you're still horny, but that it's more of an urge rather than pain. I think guys think they can guilt trip you into letting them finish the deed (or let you finish it for them) if they tell you it hurts them.
I don't think it's a fucking excuse. I've never had anyone guilt trip me into "finishing the deed" because I don't need any guilt tripping. Why WOULDN'T you finish your man off? I've heard that blue balls fucking hurts, especially if you work a guy up a few times and are interrupted before he comes. So, I'd have to disagree with you here. I believe that it hurts...

and um...lascara...you sound inherently EVIL...

[lascara]

and um...lascara...you sound inherently EVIL...
MMMMmmmm maybe but I have never had any complaints form my lovers, I am a sadist so I guess I am slightly evil minded. So long as its SSC then I dont see the problem.

Ailsa

[moonshyne]

I don't think it's a fucking excuse. I've never had anyone guilt trip me into "finishing the deed" because I don't need any guilt tripping. Why WOULDN'T you finish your man off? I've heard that blue balls fucking hurts, especially if you work a guy up a few times and are interrupted before he comes. So, I'd have to disagree with you here. I believe that it hurts...

and um...lascara...you sound inherently EVIL...
Lol, it sounds like someone forgot to take their happy pill today.

Awww, you're such a self sacrificing soul.

You can believe what you want, but I've been told by MEN that it really doesn't hurt, that its more of an annoyance.

[Pablo]

Lol, it sounds like someone forgot to take their happy pill today.

Awww, you're such a self sacrificing soul.

You can believe what you want, but I've been told by MEN that it really doesn't hurt, that its more of an annoyance.
it really depends on what happens, if your sore go ahead and quit, but dont object if the guy takes care of himself, hehe

[moonshyne]

Nothing wrong with that ;)

What about when women don't get off? I've read that the majority of women go through their entire lives never even having an orgasm. Does anyone think that they have their own female version of blue balls? :p Just a thought.

[Pablo]

Nothing wrong with that ;)

What about when women don't get off? I've read that the majority of women go through their entire lives never even having an orgasm. Does anyone think that they have their own female version of blue balls? :p Just a thought.
Thats odd, mygirlfriend usually has a few before i come. But thats why the sore thing comes up. She comes once or twice and gets to exausted to keep going before im done, i guess ive got the situation a lot of women have to deal with.

[Tony Montana]

Pablo, you're a maricon. You'z always on the writing forum talkin' shit, then you come on here and brag about your massive dick and freakish stamina. You are full of shit.

[Pablo]

Pablo, you're a maricon. You'z always on the writing forum talkin' shit, then you come on here and brag about your massive dick and freakish stamina. You are full of shit.
um. what have i said on the writing forum, i rarely go there. I dont remember putting anyone down. And i havent made up anything i just have a really great girlfriend, you probably think shes fake too. Well i know it seems like gloating to you, but belive it or not, there are people who dont live with their parents, and can make their girlfriend happy, its not just something you read about in magazines, live the dream man!

[The Penis]

shut up, he;s right. go bang your "girlfriend" with your ten inch cock and quit talking about it all the goddamn time.

[drewbee]

umm... it doesn't hurt anything to hold the cum in... Infact it helps me out with sex.

Not only do I have an orgasm, but its how I have multiple orgasms... Yes Guys can have multiple orgasms... kegals are such a wonderful thing... that and your penis doesn't go very limp and if it does its only for a few seconds when you hold it in. It doesn't hurt anything... shit it makes everything better for me... lol

[drewbee]

You can believe what you want, but I've been told by MEN that it really doesn't hurt, that its more of an annoyance.
Blue Balls dont hurt? Omg. lol. It feels like someone has just came up and kicked you in your balls, and your balls are turning inside out. But their is nothing you can do about it except take it (or get off). I for one can't even walk when I ahve it ahhh... females... (theoretically speaking) think of a cramp in your vagina... their is ntohing you can do except wait it out... ya know... Errr Yeah they hurt.

[Pablo]

this guy who told you it didnt hurt probably hadent really expeirienced it, probably thought he had some time when he got really turned on and nothing happened. Its only really bad when you really get going and are worked up to where your about to cum and then something interupts it. Think of it this way, if things dont go how there suposed to in your stomach just a little bit, it hurts, when im about to come i can actually feel the stuff building up back there, so who knows what happens to it if the action stops then, but if your stomach getting food at an unusual time or with a bit too much oil or something can make it hurt, what do you think it feels like when your testicles, which are far more sensitive than your stomach get a back up of cum that was about to be launched out?

[DandelionPrincess]

go bang your "girlfriend" with your ten inch cock and quit talking about it all the goddamn time

*sigh* i wish he would, but hes over a thousand miles away from me now and i'm horny! two whole months cold turkey, sheesh. paul come back!

[Pablo]

hehe

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