How rude!

[Samhain]

I have noticed quite a few people on the hip forums recently that can only be described as having bad manners (and I'm not talking about my friends on here, so don't anyone get paranoid!) I'm sure theres always been rude people on here but I've only noticed it recently.
So I've decided a plain 'thats just rude' response works best.
Not saying I'm upset or offended, just point out they have bad manners, I've often felt a bit inadaquate in the past, thinking I wish I had said something, why didn't I think of something, and now I think 'thats just rude' shows that I don't accept whats being said, but actually doesn't require too much energy spent on a person that probably doesn't really care less what my thoughts are.

I'm thanking Tara for this, who said to me 'thats just rude' when I was staying with her, about a comment I made (not about her) and I really admired your directness!

another form of directness I like is when people try to drag me into a bitchy conversation about someone else when I say 'its not up to me to judge' it not only keeps me out of it, it says load and clearly that I think they're being judgemental.

So I'm going to make an early new years resolation, heres to being even more direct, than I am already!
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[indian~summer]

i am rather rude at times though
and there are alot of times where i am rude just to get people shocked so they do respond with "well that's just rude"
sometimes being straight forward like that validates the rude poster

*my 2 cents*

*walks away now*
:)

[Samhain]

i am rather rude at times though
and there are alot of times where i am rude just to get people shocked so they do respond with "well that's just rude"
sometimes being straight forward like that validates the rude poster

*my 2 cents*

*walks away now*
:)
its about me knowing I have said something, first and foremost.

however Jessica a lot of people can be hurt and offended by rudeness, so if this is not your intention I would avoid, trying to shock people.
I also think that being rude to people is a great way of getting people going of you quickly
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[indian~summer]

i do not want to offend people, i just like shocking
but i think the main reason i do it, is because alot of people get really uptight....in some way i want to try and get them to loosen up...

i am glad that you are going to stand up and say something sam, it's a good thing to do :)

[Samhain]

i do not want to offend people, i just like shocking
but i think the main reason i do it, is because alot of people get really uptight....in some way i want to try and get them to loosen up...

i am glad that you are going to stand up and say something sam, it's a good thing to do :)
I think you should rethink being rude to people, if you don't want to cause upset.
I say this to you as a friend
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[indian~summer]

ok i'll try :)
i really do have a mentality of a 15 yr old boy tho

[mamaKCita]

sometimes i have the mentality of a 5 year old. i've seen it. it's the closest comparison. but i don't set out to hurt anyone, unless they strike first. then i'm RIGHT DOWN THERE IN THE MUD WITH THEM. i can't help it. it's my nature. but you ever have someone jump your ass or hurt your feelings, you just ring me up and i'll fuck them up for you. i like it.

[denise-louise]

another form of directness I like is when people try to drag me into a bitchy conversation about someone else when I say 'its not up to me to judge' it not only keeps me out of it, it says load and clearly that I think they're being judgemental. that may be so, but you helped me realise on another thread that thinking someone rude is also a judgement. thanks, because that brings more clarity to my thinking, as well as balancing my reactions to people's posts. http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/newsmilies/3/set12_b/sunny.gif

[Samhain]

that may be so, but you helped me realise on another thread that thinking someone rude is also a judgement. thanks, because that brings more clarity to my thinking, as well as balancing my reactions to people's posts. http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/newsmilies/3/set12_b/sunny.gif
everything is a judgement and thats fine, providing we realise that our own truths aren't always everyone elses
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[warmhandedcanadian]

*b U U U U U U U U U U U R P!*

[Samhain]

*b U U U U U U U U U U U R P!*

I don't mean to be rude but.......

84 points

[warmhandedcanadian]

In yo face muthafuka!

[mitten_kitten]

How rude. :D

RRRRrrrrrrrrrrriiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiipp. Excuse me. :embarrassed:

[Captain Zeep]

It's funny how any given thread in here can degenerate into silliness without warning.

[Samhain]

It's funny how any given thread in here can degenerate into silliness without warning.
HOW RUDE (BTW when typing it you also have to say it in an English accent)
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[mamaKCita]

i always hear that in an english accent.

[TARABELLE]

but you ever have someone hurt your feelings, you just ring me up and i'll fuck them up for you. i like it.
Hoo boy, do I need you around right now, both of my boys have managed to effectively stomped on my feelings this week. I'm battling tears constantly, the big ole butts! And after all these years! You'd think I'd have developed tougher skin.

[mamaKCita]

that sucks. what on earth crawled up their asses and died?

[warmhandedcanadian]

Hoo boy, do I need you around right now, both of my boys have managed to effectively stomped on my feelings this week. I'm battling tears constantly, the big ole butts! And after all these years! You'd think I'd have developed tougher skin.

damn, bad bad men.


:hug:

[Shatarag]

I dont understand why people have to turn there nose up at people.
Who are we to say were better than anybody. I'm so sick of money being the first thing people use to define who a person is.
So heres what i say
You can never know anyone as well as yourself,and truely you spend your whole life trying to finde yourself. So to circle back around here...


How do you know anyone???????
You dont .Don't Judge! and Minde your own.

Shatarag:}

[mitten_kitten]

I dont understand why people have to turn there nose up at people.
Who are we to say were better than anybody. I'm so sick of money being the first thing people use to define who a person is.
So heres what i say
You can never know anyone as well as yourself,and truely you spend your whole life trying to finde yourself. So to circle back around here...


How do you know anyone???????
You dont .Don't Judge! and Minde your own.

Shatarag:}
Well, how rude. :rolleyes:

You of course realise that by telling us not to judge, you are judging us and are therefore a hypocrite. :D

[mamaKCita]

teehee. that's always been my favorite catch-22

[Shatarag]

You bring up an interesting piont.:& .But we could pass this buck all day.By calling me a hypacrit....and so on and so forth....and then...lol.Why can't we just except people for who they are?:H

Well, how rude. :rolleyes:

You of course realise that by telling us not to judge, you are judging us and are therefore a hypocrite. :D

[Shatarag]

maybe the universe is looking at us trying to size us up to....teehee. that's always been my favorite catch-22

[mitten_kitten]

You bring up an interesting piont.:& .But we could pass this buck all day.By calling me a hypacrit....and so on and so forth....and then...lol.Why can't we just except people for who they are?:H
I have no intention of passing the buck all day. I am just pointing out a fact.
I am who I am, and I don't accept people being rude or nasty to me.

If you enter a thread and immediately contradict yourself, be prepared to be called out. :)

[Shatarag]

Your contradicting youself... My statment backs your ..I agree theres no reason for people to be rude..I'm not on this sight to argue..A fruitful debate Is nothing more than a healthy way to learn something new about someone else, and maybe understand a another persons piont of view..i'm not saying your wrong.I'm saying speak your minde..Becare thow throwing stones in glass houses..lol ....Its amistake we all make everyday without realizing it...

I have no intention of passing the buck all day. I am just pointing out a fact.
I am who I am, and I don't accept people being rude or nasty to me.

If you enter a thread and immediately contradict yourself, be prepared to be called out. :)

[mamaKCita]

perhaps your stance was a bit too aggressive for your first foray into the crowd.

[warmhandedcanadian]

I'm wondering about the meaning of that smily he used at the end of the quote, it looks threatening.

[Shatarag]

lol..Yeah gggrrrrrrr...lolI'm wondering about the meaning of that smily he used at the end of the quote, it looks threatening.