I need help....

[Christi90]

I'm am a male transexual. My name is Thomas. My parents absolutely hate transgenders..... Thats why I cant tell them.... I want someone to just come to my house & take me away with them.... So I can live my life as a girl..... I seriously want that. Is there anyone here that can help me become a woman?

[trekker]

I'm am a male transexual. My name is Thomas. My parents absolutely hate transgenders..... Thats why I cant tell them.... I want someone to just come to my house & take me away with them.... So I can live my life as a girl..... I seriously want that. Is there anyone here that can help me become a woman?
Just step back a minute and think clearly about you relationship with your parents. It' may not be as bleak as it seems. Parents love their children even though they may be a pain in the ass. Your parents love you. Get a good education and be self sufficiant. There are others out there who will understand you.

[Naoki_ninja]

Im sorry that your parents are being stupid noobs. I can't help make you a woman, but I can say that nomatter how much you parents may disapprove, always stay true to who you really are.(man, i sound like F@#$%^& Dr.Phil!!!!)

[Christi90]

Just step back a minute and think clearly about you relationship with your parents. It' may not be as bleak as it seems. Parents love their children even though they may be a pain in the ass. Your parents love you. Get a good education and be self sufficiant. There are others out there who will understand you.
I've done that. They've specifically said if they ever found out I was TG they'd kick me out of the house, disown me & everything.... Thats why I need someone elses help.... I'm 17 but I know if someone doesn't help me I may never become female. That scares me alot. The one thing I always wanted was to go to prom, homecoming, & just plain school as a girl. I wanna hang out at the mall, have a boyfriend, just do regular girl things..... I want someone to get me out of here.....

[trekker]

I've done that. They've specifically said if they ever found out I was TG they'd kick me out of the house, disown me & everything.... Thats why I need someone elses help.... I'm 17 but I know if someone doesn't help me I may never become female. That scares me alot. The one thing I always wanted was to go to prom, homecoming, & just plain school as a girl. I wanna hang out at the mall, have a boyfriend, just do regular girl things..... I want someone to get me out of here.....
Fuck magic powers pulling you out of hell. You have everything you need in your heart.

[Christi90]

Fuck magic powers pulling you out of hell. You have everything you need in your heart.
I need money & someone to help me. My heart cant do any of that. I try to stay happy around my parents but Its hard.... I'm even female in my dreams..... I've thought about killing myself a few times......

[Christi90]

Please someone help me..... If you know how to help me please email me.

[trekker]

Please someone help me..... If you know how to help me please email me.Talk to your guidance councelor about college education, further your education. You can do it if you try. Be honest with yourself and the people who support you. Talk it out.

[Christi90]

Talk to your guidance councelor about college education, further your education. You can do it if you try. Be honest with yourself and the people who support you. Talk it out.
I'm homeschooled right now & I dont go to college until the end of 2008...... I have noone to "talk it out" too........ Thats another reason I desperatly want to leave...... Also the guidance counselors around here tell your parents everything you tell them here until your 18...... Please someone just come & take me away.....

[trekker]

I'm homeschooled right now & I dont go to college until the end of 2008...... I have noone to "talk it out" too........ Thats another reason I desperatly want to leave...... Also the guidance counselors around here tell your parents everything you tell them here until your 18...... Please someone just come & take me away.....
Tallk to me.

[Christi90]

I want to be a girl now.... I wanna go to the prom, homecoming, wear make up & feminine clothes, have a boyfriend & everything..... I wanna be a teenage girl... If I wait any longer it wont be possible.

[Samhain]

Ok two things, learn to accept help when its offered to you, Trekker has said that you can talk to him, he can't make you into a woman but he has offered you support.

and this process isn't going to happen over night, as much as you may want it too, changing your physical sex is a long and difficult journey, on all levels and it can't be rushed.

there are ways of starting the process, if you are intent on doing this, but even if you where living in the perfect enviroment, it wouldn't happen right here, right now.
it may be what you want, but rushing into something like this wouldn't be what you need.

however that does'nt mean that you aren't going to be able to have support and help in the mean time
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[trekker]

Ok two things, learn to accept help when its offered to you, Trekker has said that you can talk to him, he can't make you into a woman but he has offered you support.

and this process isn't going to happen over night, as much as you may want it too, changing your physical sex is a long and difficult journey, on all levels and it can't be rushed.

there are ways of starting the process, if you are intent on doing this, but even if you where living in the perfect enviroment, it wouldn't happen right here, right now.
it may be what you want, but rushing into something like this wouldn't be what you need.

however that does'nt mean that you aren't going to be able to have support and help in the mean time
S
Attraction is what it is. You must be true to yourself.

[Samhain]

Attraction is what it is. You must be true to yourself.
thats fine trekker but it doesn't take away from the fact that the transexual journey is a long a difficult one, its not going to happen quickly
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[Christi90]

I know it'll take a long time.... At least a year just for the hormones....... But I'm confused about a few things. Since about march certain things started to happen like in my Dreams I'm now a girl instead of the usual dreams of me being a boy.... & just recently I found myself attracted to other men.... Did this happen to you too?

[trekker]

I know it'll take a long time.... At least a year just for the hormones....... But I'm confused about a few things. Since about march certain things started to happen like in my Dreams I'm now a girl instead of the usual dreams of me being a boy.... & just recently I found myself attracted to other men.... Did this happen to you too?
I wished that I was a girl when I was in my teens..

[Innocent Angel]

I want to be a girl now.... I wanna go to the prom, homecoming, wear make up & feminine clothes, have a boyfriend & everything..... I wanna be a teenage girl... If I wait any longer it wont be possible.
Oh, god. I know the feeling. Unfortunately, i feel its far too late for me now. When i was 17, i thought i had plenty of time to do the things i wanted. Then, before you know where you are, you're hitting 30 and your life is a million times worse than it was when you were 17.

If you really do feel as desperate as you say you are, you need to start trying to do something soon. Or you'll end up like me, a hollow shell who has no identity, just existing from day to day without a single thing to show for my miserable existence. You have time on your side, and if you're determined enough, and can get the right help, im sure you'll be just fine.

[Samhain]

Oh, god. I know the feeling. Unfortunately, i feel its far too late for me now. When i was 17, i thought i had plenty of time to do the things i wanted. Then, before you know where you are, you're hitting 30 and your life is a million times worse than it was when you were 17.

If you really do feel as desperate as you say you are, you need to start trying to do something soon. Or you'll end up like me, a hollow shell who has no identity, just existing from day to day without a single thing to show for my miserable existence. You have time on your side, and if you're determined enough, and can get the right help, im sure you'll be just fine.
so what advice would you give to her then, wwith regards to the practicule side of moving away from home?
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[Innocent Angel]

so what advice would you give to her then, wwith regards to the practicule side of moving away from home?
SSeeing as i am in the process of trying to do that now, i really dont know what advice to give as regards to that. Plus, the ins and outs of moving home, is probably entirely different where she lives to where i am. Where i live, good quality rented accommodation is practically impossible to get hold of. So if you dont have the money, and dont want to live in a hell hole, then you've got a very long waiting game if you want a half - decent place. All i will say to her is, if in her heart of hearts she knows who she is, and she knows for a fact her parents wont support her, she needs to get out as soon as possible. I didnt do that, and that's a decision i will bitterly regret for as long as i live :(

[Christi90]

Seeing as i am in the process of trying to do that now, i really dont know what advice to give as regards to that. Plus, the ins and outs of moving home, is probably entirely different where she lives to where i am. Where i live, good quality rented accommodation is practically impossible to get hold of. So if you dont have the money, and dont want to live in a hell hole, then you've got a very long waiting game if you want a half - decent place. All i will say to her is, if in her heart of hearts she knows who she is, and she knows for a fact her parents wont support her, she needs to get out as soon as possible. I didnt do that, and that's a decision i will bitterly regret for as long as i live :(
& thats why I want somebody to come & help me..... Please is there any way someone could come & get me? I have it all planned out.... If someone comes within the next 1-2 weeks I could leave with the person who comes. My mom will be gone from 8:30 to at least 9:10..... & then again from 11:20-12:20..... Please I dont wanna be like Innocent Angel. :(
If you come & get me I'll do anything for you. Anything..... Please if you could help me contact me at Olorin90@yahoo.com

[Christi90]

I'm very afraid that what happened to innocent angel will happen to me... I'm getting very depressed. Please is there anyone here that would be willing to take me away from here?

[Samhain]

if you want people to believe your serious about this, the last thing you should be doing is arranging for someone to come and get you off the net
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[Christi90]

I dont wanna be 30 or 40 & still be male..... I dont care how I just wanna become female....

[Samhain]

I dont wanna be 30 or 40 & still be male..... I dont care how I just wanna become female....
well to be honest, when you started asking for anyone to come round your house, I started to think that you where just having a joke.

But presuming your not, what you are doing at the moment, should someone take you seriously is a good way of getting yourself hurt, njured or even killed.

people on here can give you help and advice but it has to come from the point of view that this isn't going to happen over night
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[Innocent Angel]

& thats why I want somebody to come & help me..... Please is there any way someone could come & get me? I have it all planned out.... If someone comes within the next 1-2 weeks I could leave with the person who comes. My mom will be gone from 8:30 to at least 9:10..... & then again from 11:20-12:20..... Please I dont wanna be like Innocent Angel. :(
If you come & get me I'll do anything for you. Anything..... Please if you could help me contact me at Olorin90@yahoo.com
No, you dont want to end up like me :(

You definitely need some kind of support. Im not sure what if any services there are in your area to help you. But for a lot of people, support is very important. Im convinced if id had the support when i needed it most, id probably be living a life now. Im not sure i should be giving advice, as ive made a total mess of my own life. But i know the mistakes i made, and if i could go back i would do things very differently.

I really dont think just wanting anyone to just come and pick you up is a very good idea. Then again, if i had net access at your age, i may have been doing a similar thing. Its difficult when you know there's only one thing that can set you free from your hell, but you cant find anyway of achieving that. But wanting just anyone to pick you up probably isnt the way to go. Desperation can make people do very foolish things though, i suppose.

[Christi90]

I just want to leave...... People here seem nice & understand what I'm going thru..... Thats why I asked here & not on Myspace, IGN, or something....

[Christi90]

I just want to leave...... People here seem nice & understand what I'm going thru..... Thats why I asked here & not on Myspace, IGN, or something....

[ava_elise]

leaving is the worst thing you can do. There is most likely a support center in your area. Do some looking and you will probably find one. I know how it feels to want to go to prom and homecoming and school as a girl. I deal with it every day. But get friends who love and support you, and then you can be yourself at their house, and even though the outside still doesn't show it, you can still be yourself at school and out with your friends.

[Applespark]

I just want to leave...... People here seem nice & understand what I'm going thru..... Thats why I asked here & not on Myspace, IGN, or something....
sign up for a tribe.net account too. there are many threads and "tribes"-(groups)there and people who are realy far out and open minded too. Check it out.

[Imagine17]

What I suggest you do is see a therapist, maybe one that specializes in dealing with transexuals. After a few months of therapy (length and circumstances will probably depend on your therapist) you can have the therapist write a letter to a doctor to prescribe you horomones so you can start HRT. Thats how you need to start off.