Masochism

[Nathan11]

I, myself, enjoy pain, to a certain extent during sex or foreplay. I was wondering how many people enjoy this. Sometimes I feel a little strange for this...please, let there be someone out there.

[Darius]

im a guy but hell i understand it so im sure your not the only one out there

[AutumnAuburn]

I like bondage and mild-to-moderate pain. Enough to get my attention, but not enough to really hurt...

[WayfaringStranger]

i like spanking, and bonage, and things rough at times, but i dont enjoy beatings or actual pain, just a good amount of force on both sides, but not all the time cus cuddlin and huggin and makin love is where its at for me.

[Venus2578]

i like some pain when a guy fucks me, like having my nipples pinched, bitten a lil bit, just thrusting into me really hard. i'd luv to try spanking or biting other places on my body but haven't found anybody willing yet lol

[DarkLunacy]

I like hair pulling... Dont know if that counts but yeah... Like mine pulled and pulling...

[meishka]

i have cuffs on my bd and make my own toys. need i say more

[mjoda]

I love being spanked/tied up/handcuffed ect, nothing too painful or serious, but my problem is that the guys I've been with haven't really been into doing any of these things to me. I wish I could find someone who I could have a fun and equal relationship with, and a little bit of S&M in the bedroom too!
I've asked guys to spank me before and they give me this little pat on the ass, saying they're "too afraid to hurt me" grrr...anyone else with this problem!?

[Mintaoism]

A little pain at the end of foreplay is always nice. During the actaully sex, pain makes me lose my boner :o

[Venus2578]

i'd luv to be tied up and blindfolded during sex, handcuffed maybe. still trying to convince my bf to do that and the spanking thing(i've gotten the don't wanna hurt you line too) hurt me damn it i like it lol, not that i see him much anyway, he's like 500 miles away.

[Mintaoism]

500 miles! He must have a huge dick if you can't see him when he's having sex with you!

[Bohemian_Child]

ive never actually done anything painful other then had a guy do the whole melted wax thing... but now and then some roughness is definately fun.

[cherryiceangel]

After watching the movie Secretary I have a whole new idea of masochism...its good to see that thats not "realistic"...at least not here lol

[thisismike]

Well.... I better not try standing up "now"....

[CrAzYStaRR]

When Im having sex, I like for when the guy cums to punch me in the kidneys.

[cherryiceangel]

When Im having sex, I like for when the guy cums to punch me in the kidneys.
The kidneys? aren't you worried about peeing on him?

[Nathan11]

In Your Kidneys?

[CrAzYStaRR]

I forgot to put J/K, I do know someone that likes that though, but she's kinda on the man-ley side.

[moon_flower]

Oh yea, anything that has to do with pain or torture...I'm game!

[cherryiceangel]

clothespins on nipples....ouch! *shivers*

[Mr MiGu]

bite me....

[peacefuljeffrey]

I love being spanked/tied up/handcuffed ect, nothing too painful or serious, but my problem is that the guys I've been with haven't really been into doing any of these things to me. I wish I could find someone who I could have a fun and equal relationship with, and a little bit of S&M in the bedroom too!
I've asked guys to spank me before and they give me this little pat on the ass, saying they're "too afraid to hurt me" grrr...anyone else with this problem!?
This seems to always be the case -- those who want a certain something are always not finding the people who would do it, and those who would do it have trouble finding those who want it. Too bad you're in Canada. I'm playful in all the ways you described, and haven't found a playmate for it. :confused:

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

[Fleassy]

I went through a faze when i was 16 of getting the guy i was with to tie me up and slap me round the facxe and have a go at me... it was self punishment because id cheated on him many months before and felt terrible. For him it was geting his anger out.. but at the time for both of us it was just kinky.

But since then ive only really been into deep biting on the neck (shivers at the thought) and ive had a guy slap my bum during sex thats all good and cool but its when he started saying "yea bitch fuck yea bitch" that it began to get to me, guys really do know how to make a girl feel special :p
Yea and since then? ... well i still like biting as i said spanking sometimes comes into my head but ... hopefully when it happens without the degrading comments, and as someone else said deep hard thrusting! OH YEA! :) :D
But i really need my softer stuff though... infact sometimes i like it to be virtually no movemtn down their just kissing and touching and carreseing the rest of the body.

[peacefuljeffrey]

But since then ive only really been into deep biting on the neck (shivers at the thought) and ive had a guy slap my bum during sex thats all good and cool but its when he started saying "yea bitch fuck yea bitch" that it began to get to me, guys really do know how to make a girl feel special
... hopefully when it happens without the degrading comments, and as someone else said deep hard thrusting! OH YEA!
Something tells me that if you've managed to get into bed with a guy who would EVER say something like "yeah bitch fuck yea bitch" that you have SHIT taste in guys. How could you get close enough to be in a position to have sex with someone but not yet know that he was that kind of shitbrained asshole? I mean come on, girl, where's your sense of taste in men?? Are you just fucking guys because they're there? Sounds like you're hooking up with womanizing losers, and getting just what one should expect out of it.

-Jeffrey

[Fleassy]

lol no not quite. Actually he was a lovely guy we were together for 7 months and although we had our problems towards the end he treated me fine at the begining... he just got a bit carried away with the sex department.

Its intruiging how you picked up on that but not on the guy who was happy to pin me down and slap me round the face and spit on me *shrug* ... now he was fucked up... but i was 16 and he was my first love..and to be honest..i was pretty fucked up too.

And as far as my taste in mes goes... and fucking guys because they are there? .... so stupidly not true. Yea so ive kissed a few frogs in my times but everyone does before they find their prince... and fucking guys because they are there? .... not quite, often ive had no say in the matter in the past so dont get started on that.