Going out with a Bang?

[topper]

This was a good news/bad news weekend. Good news was that my bi buddy was promoted and he was being transfered to the Mid West. Bad news was that I was loosing my bi pal. He was the only person that i could have ever experimented with without the fears that accompany the gay lifestyle.
It looked like it was going to be our last time together for a while. My wife and I invited him out for a farewell diner, then went back to our place.
While we sat in the kitchen having coffee, my wife suggested that we give him something special to remember us by. Truth was, my wife and I had already talked about having him for a threesome. When I had brought up the topic to him , he said that he would do it, with my wife, for the experience. She was the only woman that he felt comfortable enough with to do it.
We made off to the bedroom and had an unforgettable night. We lived out several fantasies at the same time. My fantasy of a MMF threesome, my wifes fantasy of a MMF threesome, my wifes fantasy of enjoying a big cock(which he had). He is bigger then the stripper I hired for her birthday, and best of all, I kissed my wife while having my cock sucked and ate her while he ate me. Then to top it off, she shared his cock with me, sucking him back and forth.
My wife was totally wiped out after her first double penetration. It was one time I didn't mind having the smaller cock, since I was the one to put it in her ass. There is no comparison to experinecing the real thing. Even he was thrilled at how much fun we all had together.
We are really going to miss him. I'm also going to miss my bi adventures. I don't think I could ever be comfortable enough to even talk about thing like that to anyone else, except here.

[Samhain]

well, how far is he moving away cause i'm thinking vacations.....
and I agree in an open relationship its often difficult to find someone that you trust to have the right combination of a 3 some, but that doesn't mean it won't happen again.
do I take it that was your first experince of a new comer into your marriage?
S

[mynameiskc]

yeah. we moved away from our buddies. it's been sorta sad. but i think we were growing apart anyway. but still, finding a friendship like that is a rare and valuable thing.

[Samhain]

yeah. we moved away from our buddies. it's been sorta sad. but i think we were growing apart anyway. but still, finding a friendship like that is a rare and valuable thing.
but it can happen again you think?
S

[mynameiskc]

oh yes. dave and i have found a couple who we enjoy having out with and chatting with very much. they're also attractive. we haven't been able to "have fun" yet, with the kids, holidays and weather, but we talk all the time.

[Samhain]

oh yes. dave and i have found a couple who we enjoy having out with and chatting with very much. they're also attractive. we haven't been able to "have fun" yet, with the kids, holidays and weather, but we talk all the time.
so if you don't mind me asking, how does it work, cause dave isn't really up too playing with other guys is he?
or would he if it was in group play?
S

[mynameiskc]

he's totally straight. when we're with another couple, there's no physical sexual contact between him and the other man. if there was accidental, he wouldn't freak out. but he wouldn't be into it. i guess if a man came on to him, he'd be creeped out about it the same way i was when that guy a few weeks ago tried to kiss me. but anyway, i'm free to avail myself to either of the other couple, and he's free to avail himself of either, as well, though i just don't think he's going to even experiment like that. he feels nothing physically for other men.

[Samhain]

he's totally straight. when we're with another couple, there's no physical sexual contact between him and the other man. if there was accidental, he wouldn't freak out. but he wouldn't be into it. i guess if a man came on to him, he'd be creeped out about it the same way i was when that guy a few weeks ago tried to kiss me. but anyway, i'm free to avail myself to either of the other couple, and he's free to avail himself of either, as well, though i just don't think he's going to even experiment like that. he feels nothing physically for other men.
would you make that clear cause i can imagine other wise a man at some point grabbing hold of his dick and trying to suck it in the throws of passion :ack:

[mynameiskc]

something like that is made very clear at the initial dating phase. men can get really hinky about their sexuality, and some, when they feel threatened, can get INCREDIBLY upset. it's like watching a couple of bulls circling each other, figuring out how to get alone. meanwhile us ladies typically just go ahead and openly discuss the details and relay them to our partners. it's not like that in EVERY negotiating phase, some people don't negotiate, they just get to it. but those aren't the sort of people we connect with. but on the website we use, there's a questionaire where such things are clarified. you can contact them or not, depending on your sexual compatibilities.

[Samhain]

something like that is made very clear at the initial dating phase. men can get really hinky about their sexuality, and some, when they feel threatened, can get INCREDIBLY upset. it's like watching a couple of bulls circling each other, figuring out how to get alone. meanwhile us ladies typically just go ahead and openly discuss the details and relay them to our partners. it's not like that in EVERY negotiating phase, some people don't negotiate, they just get to it. but those aren't the sort of people we connect with. but on the website we use, there's a questionaire where such things are clarified. you can contact them or not, depending on your sexual compatibilities.
does he get jealous seeing you having sex with another man?
or if one of you has a better time than the other?
S

[mynameiskc]

nah. dave's easy going like that. i'm the one who occaisionally needs reassurance, since i'm currently overweight. he KNOWS i'm not going anywhere. he didn't have the father and brothers i did. knowing something rationally and accepting it completely are two different things. but when i'm feeling insecure, i tell him. he accepts it, he alters his behavior, and he respects my feelings. i think that alone is how i learned to trust.