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erzebet1961
01-14-2007, 04:36 AM
Ok Ladies...heres a chance to introduce yourselves and tell us a bit about you .
Welcome to the Lesbain forum !
topper
01-17-2007, 03:30 PM
Hi there!
Before I post anything here, I would like to have permisson. I have questions that can only answered by bi/lesbian women. There are several things that you might also inquire of me. My wife is currently enjoying bi/les pleasures with a close friend, with my approval and encouragement. I have also had the pleasure of being in a threesome with 2 lesbian friends. No, they didn't play with my cock, but I sure added to their enjoyment and we all had a great time. This seems to be the only place that I could expect to get a respectful or knowlegable answer.
I would be curious about other married women who enjoy the company of other women and their husbands attitudes, if they know.
I think we can all learn and love from each other.
Peace, love and Orgasms.
Can you dig it?
erzebet1961
01-17-2007, 04:17 PM
Hi Baby....you might get better responses in the bi forum
lutsko67
01-30-2007, 02:24 PM
Hello ERZEBET 1961.
Im Kat aka mustang67. I m a 39 soon 2 be 40 Lez. I am happy some1 finally created a forum just for lez women. I was so getting bored of most gay/lez posts by men askin about dick size and other crap. Im in a great partnership w/ a woman who I had a crush on since H.S. She never knew how I felt about her, cause I thought she was str8. Well 23 yrs later I find her on another site 4 datin for Lez women. She never left our area in Pa. (Pennsylvania) she has been here the whole time, kinda like next door thingy. Anywho, I am a talk a holic and a smartass. I also am a str8 from the womb Hippee. I was at Wood-stock in 1969, even if I was only 2yrs.old and in cloth diapars. I got a pic of my mom holdin me and my dad smokin his bong and smilin. So, I was a hippee b 4 I could say the word. I am heavily involved in environment and am a strong advocate of marijuana becoming legal. I also am into politics. I love having a good debate w/peeps. I am also a democrat, so dont judge b 4 u know me. Thats my motto. Anywho, peace n good vibes 2 u , Kat
MissMarnie
02-05-2007, 03:04 PM
Hiya guys. My name's Marnie. I'm 20 turning 21 soon. I've only been out of the closet for a few months now. I came out of a long-term arranged relationship which I didn't want to be in and eventually left and moved away. I'm in Australia. For the last few months I've been living with a friend for mine I went to school with who moved away years ago. Since I'd seen her last she's become a Hippy. It was such a change from my extremely conservative Christian uprbringing. She's also openly gay, though we're not involved. We've been living together and slowly she's been really opening my eyes to nature, earth and my own lesbianism. I really feel this is the person I should be.
Peace and love to all human kind, and to you all. I'm very honor to be among such fine people.
M.
erzebet1961
02-05-2007, 03:35 PM
Its verry nice to have you amongst us Miss Marnie.....I hope you are comfortable.
MissMarnie
02-05-2007, 03:48 PM
Thanks Erzebet for the kind welcome. I hope to be comfortable not just here but in my own self eventually.
Stella_Drives
02-06-2007, 05:46 AM
Hey fellow lady lovers!
My name is Bailey. I spend the majority of my time on the forums in the Marijuana section.. ha. But regardless, I'm a 20 year full time student in the great state of Vermont. I am bisexual and currently have a beautiful girlfriend who is living abroad in Africa. Because of this, I am extremely sexually deprived, haha. I'm out to my parents, grandparents, friends, professors and whoever else I meet in life. I'm really comfortable in my own skin and I do not define myself by being a lesbian, it's just a part of who I am.
I hope there are more lesbians on the forums, things seem kind of dead! :(
l-foote
02-06-2007, 06:06 PM
Hey Everyone,
my name is Lauren, and I'm 17, still in high school. Not so much for the education because I was an early grad and came back to "upgrade". Lets just say I make my money doing "business deals" at lunch and such ;-). I beat box, and one day I hope to become famous for it, since there aren't many females out that can drop crazy beats. I freestyle a little bit too on the side. Most people don't usually suspect that I'm gay, because I'm just me.
Moon_Beam
04-09-2007, 10:51 PM
Hey!
I'm moon beam, 21, from the UK! I don't quite know what I am - but I am happy either way!
I have a beautiful girlfriend who is the best thing ever in my life!!
I don't label myself, I try to be me each day and have fun!
Love and peace
lutsko67
04-10-2007, 02:59 PM
Welcome Moonbeam, i-foot, miss Marnie, and Stella. Hello and happy 2 meet every 1.
Life is what u make of it.
So, learn, live, and love in it, and always, just be ur self!!
Nirvana56789
04-10-2007, 08:53 PM
Hey there..
I'm Karli..im 16
Im very laid back and shy but very open minded..
I love film, music, nature, working out, watching sports, and reading
Hope to talk to ya soon!
xoxo
Karli
lovejanisandgrace
04-15-2007, 06:42 AM
Hi everyone! Funny realizing-I'm-bi-story: I've always been most attracted to redheads (being one myself), and I have finally come to the realization that the most beautiful redheads seem to be women! Now I know that love can't be defined by body parts.
AutumnsMoonChild
04-15-2007, 07:58 AM
My name is Autumn. I'm borderline lesbian. I'm from Canada & I love music, dreams, theology, marine biology and..flowers. :D & other things in nature. *naturefreak* Nice to meet you all.
crazy daisey
04-22-2007, 10:44 PM
i fancy girls and cant cum unless i think of being with a girl. im with a man and no chance of ever comeing out. but ive never been with a girl. can anybody help me i am always masterbateing to the thoughts of giveing pleasure to a woman.
my life feels like a liveing hell.
Howling Wolf Ruka58
04-27-2007, 01:13 AM
Hey!! I'm new here. Just joined today. Kinda nervous but I hope to make a lot of friends
honeyfugle
04-30-2007, 07:35 PM
well... i'm actually bisexual, but i'm half-way lesbian, so i'm gonna introduce myself here AND YOU CANT STOP ME MWAHAHAHAHA lol
anyway... as you can tell i am a bit of an oddball. :)
i am 16 yrs old, female (bet you never guessed) and am comfortable in my own skin. i'm from london and im a vegan, and i love to spend time with my friends.
i have fancied women before, and with good reason... women are just beautuful creatures.
my friend calls me a "hippy in denial", but i'm not sure if i am a hippy or not. i just like the scene. the people here are cool and so open-minded.
anyway i call her "floral, not normal, satan's bumbuddy, vampire bitch" so ya know.
(i'm just rambling on and on now... better wrap it up...)
SO! i'll be lurking round the GLBT boards... bye everyone. :)
wanted
05-16-2007, 02:06 PM
Hello girls!! Wanted from sunny South Africa!! I am 26 almost 27 – broke up recently with my lovely girl (sigh). Trying to meet people from all over the globe – hope this is a good start!?!? Lol!
fishface4000
05-18-2007, 12:19 AM
i'm sophie :)
BlAzInIt4:20
07-01-2007, 07:50 AM
I am new to this site, and i am so glad their is a lesbian forum. so i jsut wanted to say hello.. i will be making new threads soon http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/smile.gif.
ILoveOrangeJelly!
07-09-2007, 07:30 PM
Hi everyone :)
I'm Lucy, I'm 23 years old from London x
Hello. Im Sakura(Japanese). I live in PA now and i have a girlfriend.
tassi_angel
08-09-2007, 06:04 AM
hey all. I've just found thie site and have been reading threads for two hrs now... very pleased with everything I have read...
I"m from Tasmania, Aus, Mother of two..Was with their father up until a yr ago, when I told him of my feelings towards woman and he was very supportive... Suprisingly..lol..I live in a smallish country town, so as you could all gather I haven't got alot of people to relate to.. I am in my first relationship with a woman, have been together for 3mths and going strong.. Enjoying every minute of it...;)
So hope to get to know you all betta in time,,,
Tassi_angel........ (hardly an angel though)...lol
oceandreams72
08-13-2007, 02:45 AM
Hi everyone, i've just joined and would love to meet other gay women from around the world to chat to online and hopefully make some new friends along the way :)
Reindeer56
08-16-2007, 06:55 AM
http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/newsmilies/5/various/10.gif I'm Jean, I live in central Texas, and my son just introduced me to this site! Although I'm in recovery myself, I agree in principle with the efforts to de-criminalize marijuana. I am an animal lover; I have an adolescent companion parrot, a geriatric cat, & a middle-aged dog. Oh, & of course there's my young adult son!! http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/smile.gif If I could afford to feed more, I'd have more! http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/newsmilies/party.gif
I look forward to getting to know you all; we still live in a society that does not support the free expression of one's identity unless you're in a metropolitan area... & I've been living in little towns for too many years now! I'm not in a relationship, & am not looking for one at present. I've found that I don't know how to choose a partner or behave in a relationship, so right now I'm choosing not to torture anyone else until I know I can do better!! http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/newsmilies/smilielol5.gif
lilsexydread
08-23-2007, 11:38 PM
what up?
I'm sexy dread from chicago trying to make new friends
Wynter0226
08-24-2007, 06:45 AM
Hi all. I just joined today and left a little introduction in the introduction place. But i thought I should say hi here to all my fellow lesbian sisters. More about me in my profile or the intro forum.
lovelorned
08-26-2007, 05:13 PM
Hey, everyone, my name is Shalena..and I"m 17 years old and live in Florida/..:)
oceanflower13
08-28-2007, 10:30 PM
High to all other hippiechicks.I am from topanga canyon california,has anyone gone to topanga days or earth day.I am so happy to find this site.I live in az now.Is there any hippie out there in az
Love and Peace Naturehippie
steph_r
09-05-2007, 11:44 AM
Hey girls! Great to see this site has some forums for us gay ladies :)
Will be great to chat to you all!
h0neyfugle
09-10-2007, 07:48 PM
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Harmoiny
09-17-2007, 05:43 PM
Hi I'm Chrissi,
From N.Ireland. Just thought I'd drop a line in here aswell as the introduction page. I'm Bi Sexual and currently in a relationship, but would love to chat and make some friends on the site. Everything seems really cool and friendly here. I'm currently studying construction and the Built Environment and finding it very enjoyable and one day hope to travel the world and become an Architect! That's the plan anyway lol.
Well, look forward to talking to you all =]
shellacbreaks112
09-30-2007, 05:00 AM
Hi- I'm Sarah. I'm in college right now and I spend most of my time reading, drawing and listening to music. I love anything artistic. I'm hoping to meet some cool people here.
Hey all the name's faye. I have been out since I was 15 or so. I orginally indentifed as bi. And I guess in the sense that I have been physically attracted to men. But with women I am attracted on a much deeper level physically, emotionally and artistically. So in that sense I am Lez. I actually just met a great gal but I don't know where it's going yet. :) Nice to ya'll;)
MorningSunshine
10-30-2007, 07:36 PM
My name is Maria! I am 14yo from Israel. Hopeing to make some new friends... And have some fun time! http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/smile.gif
BRiasur
11-19-2007, 08:16 PM
Hey Guys, I am new to the group. I,m 40 years old. I am self employed and own a custom Photo Lab with my partner of 13 years. I have a special needs child who is 18. 3 dogs, 3 cats.I love gardening and being outdoors. The rest you,ll have to ask me.
indie
11-25-2007, 10:07 PM
ah hi i'm new to all this. just a quicky on me, i'm 18 at college studying art, very very laid back.. (bit of a stoner), i love art, photography ,tattoos, film, music and keeping fit. er i came out to my mates and my mum this summer but no1 else in my family. so i am new to it all. well like i said, hi to every1 here! ^_^
SpinneyWitch
12-14-2007, 01:30 AM
Hiya,
I'm 42, happily living with my partner of 10 years. We work with children, both at home and out at festivals. We have a 16 year old son and an assortment of fledgling 'foster' children.
Over the last 18 months we have had another woman come into our lives and are in a 3-way relationship. She weaves in and out of our homelife as she earns her money elsewhere.
Looking forward to meeting you all.
funkyfate
01-02-2008, 08:07 PM
Hello!
I'm a married lesbian. I'm 25. Been with my husband 6yrs. We have 2 children together. I'm happily in love with my bestfriend/gf. My dh is NOT supportive and therefore I had to go back into denial around him. I'm however out to my family, friends and my inlaws. I live a difficult life and can't wait to get out of my marriage and share my life with my gf.
I'm new here and not sure everyone's situation and hoping that I'm not the only married lesbian. I do love my husband but it's love because he's given me my daughters.
I'll share more as I get comfy here. Can't wait to talk to you ladies!
MyChem11
01-31-2008, 09:18 PM
hey everyone! My name is Hannah. I am 17...18 in march. ((finally)) im fairly new here. I am bisexual. I recently broke up with my girlfriend of a year....im not really sure whats gunna happen there, though. But, i just thought i'd introduce myself and i hope to meet some nice people. :)
http://www.hipgallery.com/photopost2/data/500/l_e41e49773ee84b9e59b98eb191cd385d.jpg
MollyBoston
02-01-2008, 10:22 PM
Hi, I'm Molly. I'm more or less straightish, but I've hooked up with girls and it was wonderful, and I'd happily do it again if it happened to come up. (Particularly if it were with MyChem - you're beautiful! :) lol)
MyChem11
02-01-2008, 10:47 PM
Hi, I'm Molly. I'm more or less straightish, but I've hooked up with girls and it was wonderful, and I'd happily do it again if it happened to come up. (Particularly if it were with MyChem - you're beautiful! :) lol)
lol, why thank you Boston. ;) ;)
Hi, my name is Amber. I'm 24 and a professional student. I still like the boys fairly well but I've had more longer-term relationships with women. Pleasure to make all of yalls acquaintence :)
catch22
02-02-2008, 09:45 PM
Hi there
Im Kassia, I'm 17. I'm pretty much out. My parents, not so accepting but hey I keep on doin what I want. Im with someone right now shes in some of my pics. We both couldnt be happier. I am pretty shy but have recently become more outspoken. I dont really have a problem with people unless they want to criticize my girlfriend or I, I'd like to say people would have quite a problem on their hands if they did criticize .
All I have to say is I can't wait until I'm 18
See you all around
Kassia
http://www.hipgallery.com/photopost2/data/510/th_PICT0287.jpg
MyChem11
02-02-2008, 11:31 PM
Hi there
Im Kassia, I'm 17. I'm pretty much out. My parents, not so accepting but hey I keep on doin what I want. Im with someone right now shes in some of my pics. We both couldnt be happier. I am pretty shy but have recently become more outspoken. I dont really have a problem with people unless they want to criticize my girlfriend or I, I'd like to say people would have quite a problem on their hands if they did criticize .
All I have to say is I can't wait until I'm 18
See you all around
Kassia
http://www.hipgallery.com/photopost2/data/510/th_PICT0287.jpgyur hot. :P
catch22
02-03-2008, 05:25 AM
Why thank you!
thats a pretty sexy pic you got there yourself.
MyChem11
02-03-2008, 07:26 AM
Why thank you!
thats a pretty sexy pic you got there yourself.
you're quite welcome babe... ;)
Elithustra
02-09-2008, 12:23 PM
Hey! I'm Elithustra. I usually post a bit before remembering to introduce myself and despite every effort not to do that here, I did! Anyway, I'm here now.
I'm 24, lesbian, living in Victoria, Australia. I don't have any kangaroos or koalas in my backyard, although I do have a possum causing some trouble...
In a relationship with a wonderful woman, whose American accent has apparently rubbed off on me! We can't hear it, though!
Into a lot of different things, from music to marijuana. I jest! Well, at one point in my life I wouldn't have been. Anyway, main hobbies include reading, writing, internet and driving my kitten Zeus insane with a feather duster.
That's about it! Great to be here.
signofthetimes
02-11-2008, 08:50 PM
I'm Katy, 17, Nebraska. I used to identify as bisexual but recently have noticed that I rarely if ever even stop to look at guys or care about having relationships or encounters with them. That being said, there aren't a lot of girls around here that I like/like me. My last real relationship was about 5 months ago, and she's now very happy with an extremely hot new girl. Definitely sucks.
Anyway, I'm at school right now, and I'm bored out of my mind, so if anyone would like to talk definitely drop me a line. I hope to make some new friends soon, cause I'm at the point where I need 'em.
MollyBoston
02-11-2008, 08:54 PM
Aw, doesn't it suck when your ex gets with someone who's totally hot? ...although it also sucks when they get with someone kindof ugly, because then you end up thinking "Well, if they can only get an ugly girlfriend...omg does that mean I'm ugly too?!" The best is when they never get with anyone again. Die lonely, exes! just kidding. mostly.
MyChem11
02-12-2008, 12:44 AM
Aw, doesn't it suck when your ex gets with someone who's totally hot? ...although it also sucks when they get with someone kindof ugly, because then you end up thinking "Well, if they can only get an ugly girlfriend...omg does that mean I'm ugly too?!" The best is when they never get with anyone again. Die lonely, exes! just kidding. mostly.
hahahahaa
agreed.
Wandering_Soul
03-02-2008, 12:08 AM
Wow, I'm totally terrible at these intros, don't know quite what to say so I guess I'll stick with the basics. I'm a 20 year old university student from Miami. I technically say that I'm Bi, although I do find myself most attracted to women. Okay, so I'm more lesbian than I'd like to admit...damn me and my diplomacy! I got out of my first real relationship 3 months ago and it has been tough, but I'm moving on in the world. Now, if anyone could explain to me why lesbian exes hang around after breakups and try to be your friend...please do explain it to me! I've noticed it is some kind of odd practice...which oddly enough I am masochistic enough to enjoy a lot. :P
I came out of the closet about a year ago to my mom. It hasn't been easy, and she's taken the word Bi literally and has now taken every opportunity to remind me of the presence of men in the world. We shall see where this ends up!
As for me, I'm a pretty straight forward kind of girl. I love to read and spend time discussing things with my friends (and just about anyone really). I can be a little shy at first, but I eventually do warm up. I guess thats about it. Hope to meet some nice people and spend a nice time here. :)
spinningtop
03-11-2008, 02:16 AM
Hey gals,
I've already posted a bit and forgotten to introduce myself, I'm Kat, 29.... um, bad at intros. I love the love in this forum, much better and more supportive than any others I've seen, so thanks everyone, you all rock! I'm not out as such, but over the last few months have started thinking more and more about my attraction to chicks and nursing a crush on my lesbian friend - so, yeah, nice to read all your posts, keep em coming.
Best wishes
Puppycrush15
03-11-2008, 05:09 PM
Hi! I'm 15, and I'm a lesbian. I've been out for about 1 year and a half to everyone but my parents... which I'm still working on yea. I'm Kate, um... I have a passion for music, and I love to sing/songwrite. And I love animals; I have 3 dogs and 2 cats!
MollyBoston
03-11-2008, 05:23 PM
Hi Top and Puppy! Hope you stick around. Good luck coming out to both of you. And good luck with your lesbian friend, Top! (What does "not as such" mean?)
Puppy, I love animals too...I wish I could have a dog. Stupid apartment.
spinningtop
03-11-2008, 09:50 PM
I'm not out as such... well I guess that means that I am simutaneously trying to avoid labelling myself and define myself! a few years ago I fooled around with a few women, and loved it, but it never went anywhere in terms of a Relationship or conencting on any level other than physical. So I kinda drifted back to boys and am now in a straight monogamous relationship. But last year I met this lesbian chick and, BAM! I was besotted. She's so cool and intelligent, speaks her mind, which I love - gush - I haven't felt this way about chicks for ages, and had sort of forgotten about it, or at least put it to the back of my mind. Anyway, my partner knows I used to like girls but I guess we both thought it was just a part of my life back then and I've 'moved on'. Apparently not!
MollyBoston
03-11-2008, 10:17 PM
Aw man, so you've been nursing a crush on this girl for like a year? Wow. Does she know how you feel? Does she have a girlfriend? Oh, wait...you're with a guy right now. That makes it way more logistically difficult to be a lesbian, huh. See, this is why boys are lame - they always ruin everything. How long have you been with him, and are you into him? And could I possibly ask more questions?
spinningtop
03-11-2008, 11:25 PM
Sure, ask away!
I haven't had a crush on her for a whole year. I realised that I started to really like her about 6 months ago and then we both went travelling (not together, geez that woulda been interesting!) so I haven't seen her for ages. Which is probably part of the problem, my pragmatic side says that crushes are so often divorced from reality and when you don't see the person for a while they become kind of angelic in your mind. Anyhoo, I've been with my partner for nearly 8 years!! holy shit! And, yes, I am totally into him :) We have a house and a cat together.
Sigh, maybe it's the 7 year itch a year late?
No, she doesn't know how I feel, I never let on that I had re-discovered my latent lesbian side. She doesn't even know I'm bi, I didn't really even know till recently. Ok so the thing is I'm sure she's not interested in noodles, un-decideds, whatever, and deep down I don't want to hurt her or my boyfriend so I'm not planning on acting on any of this in my current gushy crushy state.
Hey I feel better, thanks for listening Boston! Have a great day
xx
MollyBoston
03-12-2008, 01:11 AM
Ooooh wow, eight years! Awesome! I enjoy both houses and cats!
And I TOTALLY get those crushes too. I have this friend who moved away and now we email all the time and I'm convinced that he's the perfectest guy ever...despite the fact that when he was here I totally wasn't into him.
So how do you think the guy would react if you told him you feeling...a bit lesbiany these days?
spinningtop
03-12-2008, 03:11 AM
Haha yes I do feel a bit lesbiany! Hmm, I don't really know. I think he'd be pretty worried that I was going to leave him. But honestly, I don't know. He'd probably be hurt and feel inadequate, and question our relationship. Basically I don't want to go there. Have you ever acted on a crush or does it just kind of wear off after a while? You're in a relationship, right? Did you ever tell your partner that you had a crush on someone else?
MollyBoston
03-12-2008, 03:35 PM
I'm pretty open about my girl crushes. (Not about the boy crushes - he'd feel much more threatened by that.) I've always said real clearly that I fully intend to hook up with a girl again whenever the time is right.
We were talking about this just last week, actually. While watching girl-on-girl porn, which is a great conversation starter. lol...the deal we have is that I'm totally open to ffm threesomes and we'll totally go for that if it ever comes up, but he also understands that my desire to be with a girl isn't the same as my desire to be with a girl and him at the same time.
If it ever happens that I hook up with a girl, I'll tell him about it and he'll be okay with it (or at least accept that it's part of the deal so he has to suck it up). He gets his threesome fantasy; I get to hook up with chicks all by myself, too.
That was one of the big things, making him understand that having a girlfriend who's a little bit bi sometimes doesn't mean nothing but threesomes. Because of course the minute you talk about it with your boyfriend, he instantly starts thinking about threesomes. But I think it's the best deal for both sides; we both get what we want. (Okay, it's slightly better for me because I like threesomes and girls...but it's as close as we can get. And hell, he can hook up with dudes if he wants to.)
It's all a little bit theoretical; our relationship is new enough (about a year) that I don't really want to hook up with anyone else right now. And we all know that talking about something while watching girl-on-girl porn is WAY different than actually doing it. But we've done what we can to be ready for it.
One of the big things here is that, as a noodle lesbian (lol), I doubt I'm going to want an actual relationship with a girl. If I did, we'd have to have all kinds of complicated talks about polyamory and stuff and I'm not at all sure how that would go. When I think about girls it's generally kind of romping around and having a good time with each other - not an emotional commitment, which is a whole different animal.
And no, my crushes don't really wear off. I've had a crush on this girl I know since the moment I met her. (And I'm sure she totally knows, too, because I get all blushy and look down too much when I'm hanging out with her.) She's SO pretty, and really fun and tough. She's in a committed relationship though, and she's never given even the slightest hint that she's attracted to me. She seems to like butch women. My bf knows I like her, though. He thinks she's hot too.
God, sorry that was so long.
spinningtop
03-12-2008, 09:46 PM
Hey, thanks for sharing all that. I like long posts. Right now I can't really imagine myself in a relationship with a girl, even if I was single I'd probably just be looking for some fun and games. But I was thinking about it yesterday and I realised that if I ever did hook up with this - or any other - woman I would not want to be with a noodle! If anything I want a head-to-toe Lesbian!
My crush is kind of like that, she's never been with a man, she's kind of dykey, I think she's single now. I saw a photo of her last gf and she was quite feminine. I'm pretty sure she'd not be into a threesome with a guy involved, in fact, my bf knows her, they were roommates once and they never got along, they completely DESPISE one another... she might as well live on the moon and not speak English lol!
Damn those impossible crushes that don't wear off! You never know, this chick you like might be like me, hiding her feelings cos she's in a committed relationship...?
MollyBoston
03-12-2008, 10:21 PM
I could go either way as far as noodles vs. "real live" lesbians. The girl I have a crush on is sorta in-between...she has long hair, but she could definitely bench press me.
Ha...so much for the threesome idea. Actually you can perfectly well still hook up with this girl and have a threesome with some other girl. Honestly, the girls I fantasize about threesomes with and the girls I fantasize about having sex with are totally different girls.
And despite my boyfriend thinking she's hot, I'm pretty sure my crush isn't interested in a threesome. My impression is that real lesbians have zero interest in being the third wheel for some couple's mutual fantasies.
It's possible that she's hiding her feelings, but I'm usually pretty good at figuring out when people are into me. But then it's usually guys, who can't keep anything secret at all.
So are you hanging out with this girl a lot recently? I assume she's back from traveling now?
I think you might as well try bringing it up with your boyfriend. What's the worst that could happen? He'd freak out and you'd say okay, fine, and you're back to where you started - which I suppose is deciding whether to cheat on him or to suppress your attraction to girls for the rest of your life.
spinningtop
03-12-2008, 11:15 PM
Oh god when you say it like that... cheat on my bf or go quietly mad in a closet, hmm nice options. Oh, but I know you're right, Boston, I'm just not quite ready to deal with it right now. I need some time to think about how to handle this, broach the subject with Boy, or not, whatever. Shit, I get to 29 before I realise I'm not as straight as I thought I was.
That's so awesome that you have this honest communication in your relationship, I read one of your journal posts (alright, I read all of them...lol!) and your guy sounds pretty open to variety. That's special, good on both of you!
Ok I'll be honest, I haven't seen this girl in 5 months, she's back in town and I've been avoiding her a) because I'm nervous to see her and b) because of this big falling out between her and my bf. I'm thinking that I really need to see her, take her out of this idealistic, runaway fantasy and put her back into reality right infront of me, before I decide that I'm in love! No I'm not *in love* with her, I've just had all this time to ponder the things I like about her and feed this crush. I need to find out if it's real or not.
Ok, right, I'm going to invite her for coffee. Eeek!
MollyBoston
03-13-2008, 07:50 PM
Sorry to make the two most obvious options sound so stark. There're all kinds of ways to work it out, I'm sure. And hey, at least you're not like 60 or something.
Gah...I kinda regret writing that journal stuff. When normal people I'm talking to mention that they're read it it makes me feel really weird. I do like writing smut - I like to write anyway, and it's fun - but that stuff's pretty hardcore. It makes me feel weird, even though I know this forum is supposed to be the place I fly my freak flag high and all that.
But yeah, I feel really lucky to be with my boyfriend. He's good at making sure we both talk about things. It's not like he's perfect - he does other things that are stupid and lame - but sexually and, um, communicationally(?) we do pretty well.
I know when we're at our best, too. It's when we're sitting around together in our apartment just drinking wine and talking about stuff and we're on our second or third glasses. That's when we really feel great about each other and we're always having a lot of fun. Anything I'm scared to talk about, I bring up at exactly that moment. You probably have moments you can identify too, those times when you both feel the best about each other, right? It's all about strategy, lol.
Totally, totally a good idea to hang out with her! It'll definitely help sort things out one way or another. It'll probably turn out she slurps her coffee really loudly or something and that'll be the end of it, lol...let us know when you've talked to her!
spinningtop
03-14-2008, 04:14 AM
Am I normal? Oh dear :)
Aww don't feel weird, dude. I LOOOOVE smut! Espeicially pieces written by girls, it's really honest, ya know? and you're a great writer! If you can't be free here then where the hell can you be??
MollyBoston
03-14-2008, 06:16 PM
Well, I feel a little better now that I realize you've got some of the same kinks.
I also just realized that you're the same person I was talking to in the "Not sure if I should be here" thread. I somehow completely failed to make that connection. Duh.
emmy350
03-17-2008, 04:58 AM
Hello, my name is Emily. I'm 17, and still in high school, but about to graduate! Um, I don't know what else to say here.
Salivrah
03-17-2008, 11:37 AM
Aloha
I am Salivra im from Germany i make ambient Music love the nature permaculture painting spirituality usw
I wiuld love to know more people from arround the world
Peace Salivra
phillyzbossfemme
04-01-2008, 01:25 AM
Waz sup ma name is Mz.Femme... I am from Philly...20yrs old...black female...aggressive femme. I heart shopping....blowing green....and going to the club. I have no children... i work fulltime @ at bank and I do me!!!!! Im very opinionated...and i love getting my hair and nails done. I love soft butch females!!! Toodles
sengai
04-19-2008, 05:06 AM
Hollah!
I recently stopped denying that I love women.
I am a lesbian!
Open-minded, Anarchist, Feminist, Hippy-Folk-Punk, Artist, Vegan, Crafty, blah... blah... blah...
yasmin333
05-07-2008, 08:31 PM
I'm Yasmin, call me Yaz...If you like.
I'm 18 and i live in the UK.
I love driving, music, movies, go carting, peircings, tattos, funky hair and clothes.
Umm, thats about it really.
Oh...
I have snake bites (lip rings - incase you don't know what that is).
And i have tunnels.
I'll be getting my nose peirced soon =]
I love colourful rainbowy things...Like beads and necklaces =]
Yep, thats it.
Hello everyone.
liptonguechik
05-17-2008, 08:26 PM
Hi girls I go by MiMi, I turned 16 last December and originally from Vietnam, moving to California in a couple months.
I love listening to music, playing guitar, hanging out, shopping, clubbing, dancing, photography, cinemanography, social working, helping people, chatting and playing vidoe games.
I'm new here, just joined an hour ago and I hope to get to know all of you here. :]
asynchronicity
05-28-2008, 04:11 AM
I am new to the Hip Forums. I am soon to be 30, my life is happily entwined with another woman, and I am about to make a major move into NYC.
I am an audio engineer as well as an Ordained Clergy Person in the Church of Spiritual Humanism. I offer my knowledge in the Hip Forums Free School, as well as spiritual counseling for free.
I go by either Asynchronicity or MaddyBlue. I maintain several blogs, one of which is my spiritual path blog.
I love to write and meet new people.
knattyk420
06-05-2008, 07:53 PM
Hi 34(35 in july) bisexual woman. I hope its ok to post here sense I'm not a "pure" is that the right word ? lesbain used to be but fell in love with a person who just so happened to be a man and my soul mate. But it would be really nice to talk to more likeminded women. have a great day!
Liv3Organic
06-09-2008, 04:19 AM
Hey
Im 17 live in the sunny state...I just hope to meet some people like me and not be judged.
mystik_lilac
07-03-2008, 08:05 PM
Welcome! :D
asynchronicity
07-03-2008, 11:28 PM
Hi 34(35 in july) bisexual woman. I hope its ok to post here sense I'm not a "pure" is that the right word ? lesbain used to be but fell in love with a person who just so happened to be a man and my soul mate. But it would be really nice to talk to more likeminded women. have a great day!
I don't think many people are "pure" lesbian, as demonstrated by the late great Professor Kinsey. So, welcome. What do you want to talk about?
mayohiorun
07-08-2008, 09:35 PM
hey there. my name is samantha, im 18. new to this forum
and...i just broke up with my boyfriend because i see myself dating more girls. check out my page!
Pretty In Pink
07-16-2008, 02:34 PM
My name is Sarah, aka Pretty In Pink, I'm 30 years old and I'm here to meet new friends;)
msindeependant
07-31-2008, 08:29 AM
Hello Ladies! I am here on mission to ask for all of your help! My girlfriend of 3 years and I have recently decided to get hitched! With new legislation in California, we all know that this is possible now. I am a Cali native although my girl and I currently live in Phoenix, Az. We are planning a beachside ceremony in Santa Barbara. It should be lovely. Unfortunately, my family is not well off and my girl has a LESS than supportive family. We don't even know that they'll attend our special day, let alone help us pay for it. That's where all of you come in! I just recently set up a blog at ourbigfatgaywedding.blogspot.com detailing our special day and telling you all about my partner and I. You can go there and help support our union as well as our pocketbook through Google AdSense. So, if you would like to know more about our upcoming day, have a suggestion or wedding story of your own, I would love to hear about it. Poke around the site. See what you think, add your two cents while helping us make a few! Thanks so much for your help girls! I know our GLBT family will come through for us!
msindeependant
07-31-2008, 08:32 AM
Hi girls, can you visit my blog and help support my upcoming wedding to the love of my life at ourbigfatgaywedding.blogspot.com. I would really help us out. And you get to learn all about our wedding trials and tribulations. Think of it as a gay soap opera. :)
iminlovewithagirl
08-06-2008, 10:45 PM
Hi my name is Brittany and i have been dating this girl for the past six months and it is just been really difficult for the both of us to cope with. We so badly want to be like other "normal" couples it's just we don't feel others except us as lesbians. For once it would be great to go out in public and hold hands and kiss her in a respective way (i don't mean make out with her :D) without all the staring and and wispering. Other then that this is the best i have ever felt. We love each other soooo much it is hard to believe that we only met almost 2 years ago. We are planning on getting married and having kids. The only problem is we both haven't come out yet to our family and friends. We are waiting until we feel the time is right. So yeah that is about it.
Hi ladies! I'm Jess. I just joined and wanted to say hello. I'd love to meet some cool people and have some good conversations. Drop me a line if you want.
Love and Light.
alisha_23
08-18-2008, 09:08 PM
hay im lisa,im 23 gay snigle mom from scotland
me_is_me
08-18-2008, 11:47 PM
hey. im becky. 15. think im bi but prefer girls. i love reading, writing and all things sexual. i am a drama fanatic (its what i go to school for.) i am currently working on a sexuality based peice which is fucking fabulous as i am in a very homophobic class. its shocked them i think that me and my also bi friend are willing to be so open about our sexualities. xx
Stellar Stone
08-29-2008, 02:17 AM
Hi, I'm Stellar. I just joined and don't quite know where to start on this forum, it's massive! But I suppose the introductory area would be a logical first post choice. I identify as an asexual lesbian and stone butch. I still sometimes feel confused about my sexuality. I look forward to chat with the people here and explore other topics.
daysye
08-31-2008, 04:02 AM
hey there fellow sisters....i have finally decided to introduce myself on here....some of you may already know me, and for those of you that do not....my name is stacey i am 24 and live in indianapolis....i was born and pretty much raised in pa....i have been out to my friends since i was 16, my dad since i was 18 and my mom since i was 19....there are a few selected people in my families that know....the ones that i have not told probably know....my family is a very hard family to live with....so the ones that i want to know already know.....
MayQueen~420~
11-12-2008, 01:08 AM
Hi everyone my name is Tiffany and I'm 25 I came out when I was 16. I live in the central florida area near Tampa(I hate it here) and I have a wifey we will be together for 4 years on the 25th, my how time flys. My family can not stand it that I'm a lesbian and they still think its a faze but whatever their loss right? Its soo nice to meet all of you lovely ladies feel free to drop me a line anytime you need to talk or if you are bored.
Peace and Love to All
MayQueen~420~
11-12-2008, 01:09 AM
Hi Daysey I love your Janis pics she rocks. I so would have hooked up with Janis is I was alive back in the day. I'm still trying to find that fucking time machine but untill then Im stuck.
Saikoh
11-15-2008, 05:45 PM
Same for the Janis pic! I'm in love with that crazy woman! and her crazy voice!
Ladies! It's so nice to find such a nice forum. I'm a lesbian hippie artist life lover... or something like that. I'm just here to write and read about the different relations one can have with a woman. If I can I'll help out, having some experience. And if I ever seek advice I'm counting on you all :)
I'm almost 20 now and tend to attract both sex, although it is known that I only touch girls. What I find surprising and most flattering, is to be able to convert straight girls easily, not into lesbians totally, but to ask themselves some serious questions about what truly attracts them. I do not think that one's sex should determine if yes or no we're attracted to the person. I love girls not just because I find their bodies incredibly beautiful, but also because because mentally there is a charm I usually don't find in guys. Even their negative thinking can be charming, like jealousy.
I find so many things beautiful in women, yet I've never been able to love anyone in particular. Either I love them all, or nobody. :) which is problematic, in a way.
thanks for reading my random thoughts ;p
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