oldwolf
12-11-2006, 01:14 PM
Breaking Patterns
Old Wolf,
I hope I'm not making assumptions in asking for some sharing of the way.
And I hope I'm not looking outside myself too much in asking another.
I'm just very lost right now. And I don't want to go into anything too much becuase I still tend to come from ego, and relate to others in a way that is fearful of judgement.
But if you would want to share any words in the ways of breaking patterns and drama and co-dependence it would be truly appreciated.
My email is
(email address deleted for privacy)
Namaste
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First off, thank you for your P.M. - ....I bring in the green energy (money) by way of a paperroute from 5 > 7 hrs; ea night on the road in the country - a wonderful alone time (sometimes with another, which makes for good communication) ... you gave me much to think about on tonights route in order to answer you as best I might.
I will try to be concise, yet not too wordy - to make understandable, yet fairly whole.... not an easy task ....so often we See apparent contradictions.
First off .....Empowerment of the individual is the opposite of co-dependence.
As such it is up to the individual to take and assign value from what is given - by way of communication or experiences. So you on your part, must See what resonates and even without full understanding use as best you might that which does - knowing that in the Doing , fuller understanding is part of the process. (so you use that which resonates with you ,even without full understanding of it - finding out what resonates within takes Being Still - which I shall go into shortly ; - that which does not resonate you put in abeyance - you do not use but keep in the back of your information storage in case at some point a greater awareness leads to resonation).
So much of our program is how we See things.
Often there seems to be a conflict between the role of the individual and the Whole - our Connections (relations - amerindian) so to speak. As in all things a Balance is needed. The ego's job is to insure the survival of the individual - only if we try to abnegate that (fight) in some way do we make it an asdversary. When we recognize we are All Connected and the job of process land (life - maya - material plane) = Change = Learning/Growth, then the apparent dichotomy become less conflicting.
As an individual, our job Is to Learn and Grow - to experience And Learn from ..... As such we Draw the experiences to us - much by how we perceive the medium of our experience (as an alone individual - or as part of a Whole... or some flavor between)....... do we perceive things happening to us - as a victim, or that we help in the co-creation. If we Are all connected, part of a Whole - it stands to reason that some form of Co-Operation - that the parts work together in the environment of the Whole. So ... this supports the concept of co-creation - or that we do indeed draw and create and choose that which we decide we need as lessons/experiences.
To Know what resonates we must learn to shut off the inner dialogue....Stop and Listen....no comparisons, no judgements (as opposed to observation without assigning value) Just (ha) being Attentive. (as In Be Still and Know that I Am = God...... learning to Listen and Pay Attention to the HigherSelf). Meditation helps because in that process we learn to stop the dialogue and often are in a state of reception - (Active Listening is a bit more specialized). Going (usually best if alone) into a beautiful nature setting can instill that momentary pause in the Awe and Reverence - which is a similiar altered (from the usual programmed, preoccupied) state as meditation.
We are not taught in this society how to stop the comparisons, assigning value (judgement, guilt), - how to do/have observation without the usual complications of babble - - as a matter of fact - this society strongly encourages judgements and comparisons as a way to continue fostering co-dependence - seeing that in order to maintain "order" (enforced co-operation with their egenda), they must keep you dependent on this society - and do all in their power to maintain it.
So to make yourSelf the authority goes against what we are taught as part of this society - but is an important, necessary step to Self empowerment.
When we start acknowledging that we are here to Learn and grow - things Change. The understanding of Detachment (un-attachment) and the falling away of the dramas naturally occurs. When we identify with the Self (higher/god self) the concepts of pleasure/pain .....desires, become less impotant - what becomes important is to Grow - there is no such thing as not fair or I deserve - instead there is the Bliss of Becoming More.
Geez - I could probably go on ... but this is all intertwined - and far from complicated - very Simple - We Are part of a Whole - and from this so much more become more and more apparent as we all grow on in Awareness and expand our consciousness,
What an Adventure !
So don't take is so personal... the biggest gifts you can ever give yourSelf is laughter ....... and the remembrance that we continue long before and long after this small timer goes back to the Earth who gave us the sustenance for this trip.... and Reverend thanks is always part of Being True to Self.
Blessings along the Way - Lessons we Learn
Namaste (my spirit bows to your spirit)
P.S. - I will be posting this under Connections in the Waysharing Forum as this may help others - I shall of course delete your email address - Again - thank you .... any clarifacations we can help bring to each other helps All, and sometime we best Listen when inspiration comes to help answer questions - even if we're the ones channeling the answer.
Blessings to All
(HO HO HO [bah humbug] LOL)
Old Wolf,
I hope I'm not making assumptions in asking for some sharing of the way.
And I hope I'm not looking outside myself too much in asking another.
I'm just very lost right now. And I don't want to go into anything too much becuase I still tend to come from ego, and relate to others in a way that is fearful of judgement.
But if you would want to share any words in the ways of breaking patterns and drama and co-dependence it would be truly appreciated.
My email is
(email address deleted for privacy)
Namaste
-----
First off, thank you for your P.M. - ....I bring in the green energy (money) by way of a paperroute from 5 > 7 hrs; ea night on the road in the country - a wonderful alone time (sometimes with another, which makes for good communication) ... you gave me much to think about on tonights route in order to answer you as best I might.
I will try to be concise, yet not too wordy - to make understandable, yet fairly whole.... not an easy task ....so often we See apparent contradictions.
First off .....Empowerment of the individual is the opposite of co-dependence.
As such it is up to the individual to take and assign value from what is given - by way of communication or experiences. So you on your part, must See what resonates and even without full understanding use as best you might that which does - knowing that in the Doing , fuller understanding is part of the process. (so you use that which resonates with you ,even without full understanding of it - finding out what resonates within takes Being Still - which I shall go into shortly ; - that which does not resonate you put in abeyance - you do not use but keep in the back of your information storage in case at some point a greater awareness leads to resonation).
So much of our program is how we See things.
Often there seems to be a conflict between the role of the individual and the Whole - our Connections (relations - amerindian) so to speak. As in all things a Balance is needed. The ego's job is to insure the survival of the individual - only if we try to abnegate that (fight) in some way do we make it an asdversary. When we recognize we are All Connected and the job of process land (life - maya - material plane) = Change = Learning/Growth, then the apparent dichotomy become less conflicting.
As an individual, our job Is to Learn and Grow - to experience And Learn from ..... As such we Draw the experiences to us - much by how we perceive the medium of our experience (as an alone individual - or as part of a Whole... or some flavor between)....... do we perceive things happening to us - as a victim, or that we help in the co-creation. If we Are all connected, part of a Whole - it stands to reason that some form of Co-Operation - that the parts work together in the environment of the Whole. So ... this supports the concept of co-creation - or that we do indeed draw and create and choose that which we decide we need as lessons/experiences.
To Know what resonates we must learn to shut off the inner dialogue....Stop and Listen....no comparisons, no judgements (as opposed to observation without assigning value) Just (ha) being Attentive. (as In Be Still and Know that I Am = God...... learning to Listen and Pay Attention to the HigherSelf). Meditation helps because in that process we learn to stop the dialogue and often are in a state of reception - (Active Listening is a bit more specialized). Going (usually best if alone) into a beautiful nature setting can instill that momentary pause in the Awe and Reverence - which is a similiar altered (from the usual programmed, preoccupied) state as meditation.
We are not taught in this society how to stop the comparisons, assigning value (judgement, guilt), - how to do/have observation without the usual complications of babble - - as a matter of fact - this society strongly encourages judgements and comparisons as a way to continue fostering co-dependence - seeing that in order to maintain "order" (enforced co-operation with their egenda), they must keep you dependent on this society - and do all in their power to maintain it.
So to make yourSelf the authority goes against what we are taught as part of this society - but is an important, necessary step to Self empowerment.
When we start acknowledging that we are here to Learn and grow - things Change. The understanding of Detachment (un-attachment) and the falling away of the dramas naturally occurs. When we identify with the Self (higher/god self) the concepts of pleasure/pain .....desires, become less impotant - what becomes important is to Grow - there is no such thing as not fair or I deserve - instead there is the Bliss of Becoming More.
Geez - I could probably go on ... but this is all intertwined - and far from complicated - very Simple - We Are part of a Whole - and from this so much more become more and more apparent as we all grow on in Awareness and expand our consciousness,
What an Adventure !
So don't take is so personal... the biggest gifts you can ever give yourSelf is laughter ....... and the remembrance that we continue long before and long after this small timer goes back to the Earth who gave us the sustenance for this trip.... and Reverend thanks is always part of Being True to Self.
Blessings along the Way - Lessons we Learn
Namaste (my spirit bows to your spirit)
P.S. - I will be posting this under Connections in the Waysharing Forum as this may help others - I shall of course delete your email address - Again - thank you .... any clarifacations we can help bring to each other helps All, and sometime we best Listen when inspiration comes to help answer questions - even if we're the ones channeling the answer.
Blessings to All
(HO HO HO [bah humbug] LOL)