Men don't cry

[Mui]

If they do, they are pussies.

[Lodui]

Why would we... we're to busy rulling the earth.

[FreakyJoeMan]

Mui, weren't ya complainin bout yer weird-ass pussy in another thread?

[seejai]

ime a girl and i personly like it when guys cry. its sexier when they do that instead of trying to be really tough

[seejai]

trust me, most women agree

[Lodui]

*points seejai to the pure bull label*

Don't worry you're young, your taste in men'll get better.

[seejai]

oh shut up.my taste in men is fine. better than yours in women. how could the first ladies be hot??

[Lodui]

What you don't think power is sexy?

[seejai]

sometimes. but sensitive is better

[DarkLunacy]

Every now and then like around 6 months mark I lose it and breakdown and go kinda pychotic for a day or so filled with laughing, tears, rage, hate, despair, suicidal thoughts, desire to kill etc etc. Then I'm ok....

[Lodui]

You can be sensitive and not cry like a baby when you stub your toe.

[DarkLunacy]

Yo man I've been stabbed in the arm and I've been jumped with bats... Didn't shed a tear (let off a few swears though). If having a mental breakdown makes me a pussy then so be it

[seejai]

ime not talking about being a baby,but just if some one close dies or something...

[John221]

I'm a guy, I cry over everything from music to poetry, and you can say what you like, I'm not ashamed of it at all. :)

[Lodui]

I'm a guy, I cry over everything from music to poetry, and you can say what you like, I'm not ashamed of it at all. :)
You better hold me back Dark Lunacy :H

[FunkyPhreshMama]

I make men cry on a daily basis!! I am one bad ass mother........................... well you know where I was going with that one......................

[Strawberry_Fields_Fo]

I hate it when guys cry. I cry at the smallest things, so maybe that's having a double standard. But if I'm freaking out I want someone strong and stable to support me; if we're both crying it would be annoying. The only time I think a guy is justified in crying is when someone close to him dies. I'm a pussy when it comes to emotions and physical pain--I need someone to balance me out.


-Kate

[dhs]

It takes a strong man to cry and it takes an even stronger man to laugh at that man




*crying and laughing*

[Lodui]

Heh, thats great DHS.

[Willy_Wonka_27]

i never cry...i dont have a reason to...but i would if i like broke my arm or somthing

[JohnnyX]

I was working one time and sliced my arm open. I stitched it up myself and never shed a tear but put Forrest Gump on and the floodgates just open. I guess I'm a pussy.

[DarkLunacy]

Oh oh! Tonight I flew five feet down into solid concrete head first. No tears here! Am I still a pussy for getting mentally overwhellmed from time to time?

[meishka]

read the book the dangers of being male. then u take u crying guys philosophie and...

[green_thumb]

I don't cry very often, but I do sometimes and I'm not really ashamed.

[iscreamchocolate]

i like it when guys cry. I like it when guys show their feelings and their sensitive side through crying instead of acting all mucho about it and saying that theirs sand in his eyes or whatever. I don't see what the problem is with guys crying.. I mean girls cry so why not guys?? Is it just because woman are supposed to be weak and fraile and then men are supposed to be a bunch of "incredible hulks." I think that crying is a good thing. I think that crying lets out a bunch of shit and removes madness and removes evil and makes room for more happiness. Crying is a good thing. So in conclusion. I think guys can cry whenever they damn well want and I don't find a problem with it at all.

[DarkLunacy]

You like emo guys huh?

[sm0key42o8]

I cry, i guess i am a big pussy, well they say you are what you eat...if that is so i am you and you could be me, if ya wanted 2...

[Corster]

If your a real man your not afrade to show your emotions. Personly I havent cryed in a long time. Im not saying guys should cry all the time like little pussys but there are reasons to cry, a situation being you love a girl and been going out for o I dont know lets say 3 years and she just comes up and you have no idea that she hates you and just says that to your face. That personly would be a reason to cry for me. (hopefully that never happes:confused:)

[iscreamchocolate]

You like emo guys huh?
what do you mean I like emo guys??? what's "emo"???

[Orsino2]

If they do, they are pussies.I cried this week... :sunglasse

[keowyn]

I haven't cried since some time in my early teens.


I tried a couple of times though. Few times I just really, REALLY felt like shit about things that were happening. Damn, I wanted to cry so bad, but nothing.

I don't know what that means, but I guess I don't cry anymore.

[born_to_boogie]

hmm :eek: personally, i think men should cry more often. that way they'd be able to prove theyre not heartless after all :X but theyre too 'macho' i reckon to do it. and are scared about hurting their 'pride'. :rolleyes:

[John221]

what do you mean I like emo guys??? what's "emo"???
Emo is emotional rock, and it's fan's are quite renowned for their bad haircuts and for crying in a dark corner. Apparently.

[mynameiskc]

i hate seeing men cry. my ex was very emotional. it was very tiresome. i don't cry much either, it gives me a headache and runny nose. very undignified. however, when my husband cries, it's a pretty huge deal, usually concerning death, and it tears me the fuck up. don't be crying in front of me unless your mother or best friend died.

[HappyHaHaGirl]

One time I wrote my boyfriend a break up letter, because my family was kind of subtly pressuring me into getting rid of him, but I couldn't do it. I accidentally left the letter at his house, though, because it fell out of my purse and he read it and thought I meant it. So I wrote him another letter about how much I love him, and he cried. It was weird. Looking back, I don't know if it was because he loved me, too, or if he felt guilty for dragging me along and using me.... oh, well.

[GanjaPrince]

I love to cry all the time! However not sad, pained tears that most people on this thread seem to be talking about. Although I have at times cried those. Not often though, detachment works much better when it comes to such passing negative emotions.

I'm referring to beautiful tears of bliss, tears of joy, tears of ecstasy, as energy races up your spine and you are overwhelmed with the EXTREME beauty of everything, as all your desires are fulfilled... It is healing, like all your deepest wounds, your pains are washed away in endless fields of bliss. You find yourself crying at a bird flying across the sky, a hug between friends you watch from a distance, the sun, a glint in someone's eye, a breathe, an eternal moment called now that we share. Love, love, love, my brothers and sisters!

However I am not knocking any type of crying, people should cry all the time, for any reason, positive, negative or nuetral, it is good to express and release what is inside, laugh, cry, smile, sing, dance, breathe!

Don't be another cold robot faking thier life away, dying inside.

Here is some good quotes about crying.

"Become Drunk, O mind, with the wine of bliss. Fall upon the sacred earth weeping and chanting the holy name. Fill space with your lion's roar, whirling round and round, both arms raised high, giving away the mahamantra to all conscious beings. Transform limited desire into the radiance of Krishna, and swim night and day in the wild sea of rapture. The universe is now submerged beneath the waves of ecstatic love." - RamaKrishna

"The cloud weeps, and then the garden sprouts.
The baby cries, and the mother's milk flows.
The Nurse of Creation has said, Let them cry a lot.

The rain weeping and the sun burning twine together
to make us grow.
Keep your intelligence white hot and your grief glistening
so your life will stay fresh.
Cry easily like a little child."

-Rumi, mystic poet


My brothers, do not let them fool you, acknowledge your inner woman, we have both masculine and femaine, reguardless of your sexual orientation.

Explore and understand yourself, do not run and hide, find balance, and move beyond both. Balance will give way to more and more peace, more and more confidence, more and more love and understanding of self, as the journey deepens.

[Mui]

haha yeah i like crying too just posted this to see wha tkind of replies i'de get...

machoism is fucking lame

[mynameiskc]

sorry man, that would still fucking irritate me. i've had enough of people who can't control their emotions out of respect for the space of others. i'm sick of it.

[fitzy21]

people rarely see me cry. i don't do it publicy, nor in front of family. unless of course, something big has happend...like the time when some fucking punk ass kids tried to run my sister over...i was at school in vermont when this happened. i brokedown from that, because i had confronted those punks before i went to school, about 30 of them and i guess they didn't listen to my words because they ended up trying to hit my sister with a car.

yea, but i rarely cry unless something big happens.

meh, woot woot!

[GanjaPrince]

sorry man, that would still fucking irritate me. i've had enough of people who can't control their emotions out of respect for the space of others. i'm sick of it.
Well my sister, but there is no such thing as personal space, we are all one energy field, that means all of you, every little part, emotion, thought, action, skin, body, brain, energy is meshing and interacting and part of everything in this universe, whether you are aware of it or not.

the real respect is in showing unconditional love and flowing with the harmony of the universe which could include restraining or releasing depending on the situation.

:)

So no need to aplogize for your mind's reaction to a behavior, your mind will do what it will do, no need to fight with it, it just needs love like everything else.

[Lodui]

machoism is fucking lame
Better then being an effeminate little bitch.

We all have problems. And I'd forgive a girl for being overwhelmed, but I'm not going to hold my buddys hand just because he got ditched for another jerk. Maybe if he hadn't been bawling like a girl in the first place, he wouldn't have gotten dumped. The only scenarios which I would cry are 1: Lost someone really dear to me or 2: been pepper sprayed. Neither of those have happened... lately, no tears. Just take it like a man.

[Lodui]

Heh, nobodu take that post too seriously. I was only being mostly serious... oh common don't cry :X

[mynameiskc]

Well my sister, but there is no such thing as personal space, we are all one energy field, that means all of you, every little part, emotion, thought, action, skin, body, brain, energy is meshing and interacting and part of everything in this universe, whether you are aware of it or not.

the real respect is in showing unconditional love and flowing with the harmony of the universe which could include restraining or releasing depending on the situation.

:)

So no need to aplogize for your mind's reaction to a behavior, your mind will do what it will do, no need to fight with it, it just needs love like everything else.
yeah, i think people like me have their role to play just as anyone else does. one thing i can't stand is when people cry over the dumb shit the do over and over. and sometimes they cry when action needs to be taken. there's alos those times when other people's crying robs their companions of their turn, you know what i mean? i also mean this in those times when you wanna cry because something is so nice. one thing that bugs me is when i'm really enjoying something, then someone gets all showy about their emotions, and i swear to GOD, it's because they want my attention. people can be such energy leeches.

[iscreamchocolate]

Emo is emotional rock, and it's fan's are quite renowned for their bad haircuts and for crying in a dark corner. Apparently.
welll ummm... i don't give a shit if "emo" guys cry or any guy for that matter... they can cry if they damn well feel like it...

[DarkLunacy]

Yeah and I'll kick the shit outta them if I feel like it :D Which I do :D

[iscreamchocolate]

hey! what's wrong with a guy crying??? I don't find anything wrong with it....

[Mui]

nothing is, they are just CRAZY!!!!!!!

[mynameiskc]

you cry a lot, mui? i didn't take you for that type.

[s3kip]

I cry all the time but I can't help it; I love onions

[Mui]

you cry a lot, mui? i didn't take you for that type.
I've done my fair share of crying... most of us have all been there... nothing pisses me off more than men who have to act bad-ass all the time... like i said machoism is for retards.

[mynameiskc]

I've done my fair share of crying... most of us have all been there... nothing pisses me off more than men who have to act bad-ass all the time... like i said machoism is for retards.
i'd have to say a good space in the middle is the best place to be. i can't stand phoney macho men, i can't stand watering pots, either.

[avacado_salesman]

I guess I am a pussy.

[mynameiskc]

so, are you guys just bawling like babies all the time?

[Mui]

only when necessary

[mynameiskc]

when is "necessary?"