have you ever

[Samhain]

wished you could be the oppersite sex for just a little while to experince it?
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[mynameiskc]

abso-freaking-lutely. i wake up every morning thinking that my wish was granted and i was put into the body of a woman (which is what i really wanted) yet STILL feeling like a stranger in a strange land. how silly, huh? i feel like my mind and my body are in constant battle, with my mind being the outside observer. i don't really wanna become a man, though. i feel like being a woman IS the adventure. does any of that make sense?

[Samhain]

abso-freaking-lutely. i wake up every morning thinking that my wish was granted and i was put into the body of a woman (which is what i really wanted) yet STILL feeling like a stranger in a strange land. how silly, huh? i feel like my mind and my body are in constant battle, with my mind being the outside observer. i don't really wanna become a man, though. i feel like being a woman IS the adventure. does any of that make sense?
I feel like I'm in a strange body, like I wasn't really ment to be here and I have all this unusual equipment!!
but although I wasn't ment to be here, it doesn't feel uncomfortable, more rather unusal and exciting, is that along the same lines?
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[erzebet1961]

Sure, I even did the whole butch thing for a short while when I were younger, but it didnt suit me ....

[Samhain]

don't forget theres a poll!
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[mynameiskc]

I feel like I'm in a strange body, like I wasn't really ment to be here and I have all this unusual equipment!!
but although I wasn't ment to be here, it doesn't feel uncomfortable, more rather unusal and exciting, is that along the same lines?
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that's exactly it.

[Samhain]

that's exactly it.
hey maybe we're like ying and yang, except we're both a bit of both!
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[hippychickmommy]

No, I'm a total girly-girl and I love being female; I can't say that I've ever wished to be the opposite sex, even for just a little while!

[Samhain]

No, I'm a total girly-girl and I love being female; I can't say that I've ever wished to be the opposite sex, even for just a little while!
That actually doesn't surprise me at all!
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[mynameiskc]

makes perfect sense to me, too.

[TreeFiddy]

definitely...I mean all in all I'm fine being a guy and don't consider myself transgendered, but sometimes I just get very very sick of what is seen as "masculine" ("guys who cry are PUSSIES!", etc.) and being expected to live up to that. Sure, girls have other pain-in-the-ass societal expectations, but a change would be kind of nice...

I made a thread in the Mens Issues forum a while ago about how sometimes I really wish I could give birth to a child...that's the main appeal of somehow becoming a woman for me.

[mynameiskc]

you know, i've had two kids, and i love them. but being pregnant? it's totally shitty. i hated every moment of it. and that makes you feel like a failure, because people act like you're supposed to be on cloud 9 all the time. i would rather dave carried and delivered the babies. i have a flesh apron now, for god's sake. and breastfeeding is kind of a pain in the ass. easier and better than formula, though, so you do it.

but then, i'm really really tired right now. my youngest is teething and incredibly cranky, my husband is out of town on vacation and i'm here with the girls...alone.

[Samhain]

I've never felt the need to fit into gender sterotypes for guys, I wonder why I have never felt the pressure to do this, after all, I come from a very straight family and grew up in a very conservative area, but have always been very feminine, I suppose to be honest, theres more chance of it snowing in hell than me passing off being masculine convincingly!!
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[mynameiskc]

yeah, i never really fit anything.

[Samhain]

It's good to just be unique though!
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[clementinexo]

of course. especially at that time of the month argh

[Samhain]

I would love not having to shave my face
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[honeyhannah]

I hate that I have such a delicate girly look and that is really not my personality at all, but because I'm quiet and shy at first people assume that I'm really like that.

I think about being a man lots, as a kid my mom would call me 'boy', like it was my name... *shrugs*

I think she still does from time to time.

[HiatusMcGee]

I'd like to be a man just for a short while, not because I want to be a man but just to experience typical male things, to see how it is to be seen as stronger, automatically more successful, respected etc.

[HiatusMcGee]

and pee standing up.http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/embarassed.gif

[erzebet1961]

Hahahaha....I love your sig pic.....thats what I call justice !!!!!!!

[Samhain]

I'd like to be a man just for a short while, not because I want to be a man but just to experience typical male things, to see how it is to be seen as stronger, automatically more successful, respected etc.
yeah sometimes as you probably know, males that don't encompass those things get given a hard time, still you could always enjoy peeing standing up!
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[mynameiskc]

Hahahaha....I love your sig pic.....thats what I call justice !!!!!!!'cept he actually killed the deer and did the pic as a joke. seems disrespectful to me. i just take them home and eat them with as much dignity as i can manage. you already killed it, don't go making joke photos with it's carcass.

[Samhain]

'cept he actually killed the deer and did the pic as a joke. seems disrespectful to me. i just take them home and eat them with as much dignity as i can manage. you already killed it, don't go making joke photos with it's carcass.
this is really go of topic but how do you know he killed it?
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[mynameiskc]

odds are good...

but still, it was a teasing thing, but i guess the irony is lost without my free cat picture in my signature, since it was hypocracy-style humor over a dead cat...

[Samhain]

odds are good...

but still, it was a teasing thing, but i guess the irony is lost without my free cat picture in my signature, since it was hypocracy-style humor over a dead cat...
well I'm more grateful than you'll ever know about you moving that pic, so back on topic, any more insights about the oppersite sex?
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[mynameiskc]

not at the moment. i suppose having the instinct to watch and enjoy football would be helpful, but i wasn't taught sports of any sort by my parents. they wanted me in pink, playing with dolls and reading quietly in my floral bedroom. i looked terrible in pink, preferred red, dismembered and buried my dolls (they were barbies, pointy hands, gave me nightmares) and climbed trees to read instead.

[Sus]

I mostly like being a woman, but I think it would be a real adventure to be a guy for awhile...

[Gothic Twist]

No i dont wish to be the opposite sex because, I have grown up with the fact my dad was dissapointed I was a girl, so for years I have tryed to please him by doing stuff guys do with their dads like fishing and fixing cars and stuff... at one point I dressed like a guy and began using weights.. but then desided, that it wasnt right, doing all of this to impress him, when I should be happy in who I am.

[cloudpie]

I am looking forward to the development of cyborgs to the point where physical gender can eb changed on a whim

[cloudpie]

but then cyborgs are my answer to every problem :P

[cloudpie]

gender is a social illusion, and i'll be damned if it'll stop me being who i want or wearign what i want or whatever. being a girl would be cool but it would give me almost as many limits as being a guy. It's not what body you got, it's what you do with it!

[Samhain]

gender is a social illusion, and i'll be damned if it'll stop me being who i want or wearign what i want or whatever. being a girl would be cool but it would give me almost as many limits as being a guy. It's not what body you got, it's what you do with it!
I would suggest that you are comfortable with your body, as a lot of transexuals and transgendered people would disagree with what you have just said.
I see it as a sweeping statement that can't be applied to everyone
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[Nair]

Yes I've deeply thought about every, gender and sex I've heard of. I've wondered about being a neuter, I've wondered about being both male and female, I've wondered about becoming the opposite sex I was born, as well as thinking about being born the opposite sex I was born, and getting a sex change. I've pretty much thought deeply, about what it must feel like for all genders and sexes. Being a cisgendered feminine woman, masculine man, being an androgynous female, or an androgynous male, being a masculine female, or a feminine male, being intersexed, being a feminine, or androgynous, or masculine intersex, being a transexual, and just about everything inbetween. I don't think there is any gender or sex, I never thought of what it was like to be, if I had a choice... Like say I changed gender and sex everyday, and would've lived as virtually ever gender within a few months, I would likely take it perhaps.

And would I be the opposite sex for just a day? Yes. For life? If I could magically press a button, swiftly change my sex while still retaining androgynous traits, and it was painless and I lived in a much more accepting society yes. But considering all the time it takes, transition being painfull and such, it seems like merely a part-time wish, which while for some people it may be worth it, just isn't worth it in my case I feel. I sometimes feel sad about being the sex I am, but I just don't feel strongly enough (or bold enough) to change sexes. Ever since I came out as androgynous, I've gradually felt less and less like my heads going to explode.

[Samhain]

Yes I've deeply thought about every, gender and sex I've heard of. I've wondered about being a neuter, I've wondered about being both male and female, I've wondered about becoming the opposite sex I was born, as well as thinking about being born the opposite sex I was born, and getting a sex change. I've pretty much thought deeply, about what it must feel like for all genders and sexes. Being a cisgendered feminine woman, masculine man, being an androgynous female, or an androgynous male, being a masculine female, or a feminine male, being intersexed, being a feminine, or androgynous, or masculine intersex, being a transexual, and just about everything inbetween. I don't think there is any gender or sex, I never thought of what it was like to be, if I had a choice... Like say I changed gender and sex everyday, and would've lived as virtually ever gender within a few months, I would likely take it perhaps.

And would I be the opposite sex for just a day? Yes. For life? If I could magically press a button, swiftly change my sex while still retaining androgynous traits, and it was painless and I lived in a much more accepting society yes. But considering all the time it takes, transition being painfull and such, it seems like merely a part-time wish, which while for some people it may be worth it, just isn't worth it in my case I feel. I sometimes feel sad about being the sex I am, but I just don't feel strongly enough (or bold enough) to change sexes. Ever since I came out as androgynous, I've gradually felt less and less like my heads going to explode.
maybe your gender needs to be a bit of everything one day, everything of one another day and no gender at all some days, i'm sure I could find something on this if I looked hard enough, watch this space.

I also think society wants us tied down to being one sex, so well done for bucking in the face of tradition!
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[Nair]

maybe your gender needs to be a bit of everything one day, everything of one another day and no gender at all some days, i'm sure I could find something on this if I looked hard enough, watch this space.Thats probably it really. Having a whole lot of things at once, and society trying to force you to strictly, and only make one permanent choice. Never saw a logical reason why some took it so seriously... I think a lot of overtly stereotypical, hypermasculine, and hyperfeminine, (A person who never lets themselves cry, could be the first, and I guess someone tries to force themselves not to get sexual urges in the name of "Truly being feminine, both which may lead to intense frustration), would be too examples of this.

I am not talking about girly girls, girly guys, masculine guys, or Butch woman... Neither highly masculine guys, or women, or highly feminine men or women... I am only speaking of things at stereotypical 'Purest' extremes.

I also think society wants us tied down to being one sex, so well done for bucking in the face of tradition!
S:D I'll do almost anything, which doesn't permanently, or have long term effects my gender flexibility really. Becoming more muscular, or such would be too long term. I tend not to like permanent or long lasting chances I think. I generally tend to have my hair combed or brushed in various ways, depending on how I feel at any given time. As well as sometimes keeping my face completely devoid of facial hair, but when I am feeling rough I'll temporarily grow some. All I really seek is being highly flexible. One of the reasons why I love my combat boots... They aren't permanent, and I can swiftly put them on or remove them, with no long term effects. I've felt both pressures really, the pressure to "Either be Gi Joe or Barbie".

Quite ironic, how someone who can never be accepted by such tradition, and acknowledges such, can still be manipulated in a sense. Either way I am not a masculine man nor a feminine woman... And due to these I am not compatible with tradition, yet ironically in the past, parts of me have gotten controlled by it. I don't think it gets any more traditional than those two types of Dolls. I've known I can never be 'normal', so why bother forcing myself to adhere to such ideals? Many will not accept a feminine male, or one with homosexual desires, but then something illogical in my head tells me "Become Barbie and they'll accept me!", but thats just me subconsciously conforming to "Gi Joe or Barbie, there is no inbetween" type views.

[Samhain]

maybe you need to find a way of just being yourself, as you get older that may include living in an area where you can just be yourself as well
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[a_rabid_pineapple]

I view myself as both feminen and masculine in my personality so I guess until they make a magic gender changing machine that can switch you back and forth, I think I'll stick with what I already got. But yeah I wouldn't mind being a guy for a while. =)

[doorknob]

Of course! Everything is worth trying. Too bad somethings are impossible.

[Samhain]

I view myself as both feminen and masculine in my personality so I guess until they make a magic gender changing machine that can switch you back and forth, I think I'll stick with what I already got. But yeah I wouldn't mind being a guy for a while. =)
gender changing machine would be sooo cool!! and I suspect very popular!
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[honeyhannah]

Yeah! We should get those science guys to make one for us all!!!

[erzebet1961]

I would probably wear it out switching back and forth !!!!!!

[mynameiskc]

well, you know, one of the things i find primarily aggravating is that for every cup size you gain in your bra, people treat that as 10 points less iq you have. and if you're pretty and happy, too, by god, the you must be an idiot bimbo. men and women alike. i enjoy talking to people more online because they can't see me and make assumptions about my intelligence level...then, once people get an idea of who i am, i show them what i look like. they tend to be invariably surprised. i must admit, i enjoy their shock.

at the same time, my face at rest, like when i'm thinking or just zoning out, tends to look angry. so people get the wrong impression then, too. i've learned to school my expressions into that of pleasantness (which sometimes gives me a headache, holding it, my big ol' cheeks are very heavy.) i'm a bundle of miscues, i guess.

but last night, thinking about how i'm frequently treated like a helpless moron while people talk to my breasts or stare at my face, i began to ponder the concept of "penis envy." and it's not so much that i want a penis, i just want people to treat me the way i feel inside, which would be, in the classifications of our current societal standards, as a man, and a fairly homely one at that.

[Samhain]

define homely for me please in the concepts of this thread
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[mynameiskc]

poor skin, thin, greasy hair, bad teeth. rather like steve buschemi, which is probably the reason he's #1 on my gimme list and i find him so attractive.

[Samhain]

poor skin, thin, greasy hair, bad teeth. rather like steve buschemi, which is probably the reason he's #1 on my gimme list and i find him so attractive.
and your saying people see you like that? - I don't believe it!!
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[mynameiskc]

no, that's how i see me. sometimes i feel like a gigantic queen in a short female body, most times i interact like steve buschemi. dry, sarcastic, marginalized, unattractive. i get so wrapped up in how i see myself that it causes a bit of static in how other people perceive me.

[HiatusMcGee]

im sure that's how people could see your personality but there is no way you look like steve.:H


i saw a movie when he was young and he was actually cute.

[mynameiskc]

i think he's utterly adorable. if i wasn't married, i'd probably stalk him.

[HiatusMcGee]

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/d/d4/Steve_buscemi.jpg (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Image:Steve_buscemi.jpg)


I heard he is the voice of Templeton in Charlotte's Web... I can't wait.

Yeah as a man I'd be a better looking Steve.

[cerridwen]

I think it'd be interesting to be a guy for a day... see what it's like to walk the world from a guy's point of view, just for kicks...

[Rainbow Starlite]

Oh hell yes. I do NOT want to be a man, but if I could for one day just to experience it, I absolutely would!

[hailtothekingbaby]

I think everybody wants this. Male, female, gay, straight, everyone.

[eleventhdr]

I feel this way a lot of the time. if abd when given the real life option i would change mtyself to female in a,omute i want to be a girl so bad sometime's it hurts!
Not to have been born the way it was suppose to be female oh well Jay Femm name Suzy Ann!

[eleventhdr]

sorry minute

[Envy]

This is how I feel all of the time.

I know that I'm in the wrong body. It drives me to insanity.

[crud3w4re]

Yes, so I can know what it feels like to finger myself :p

[Samhain]

Yes, so I can know what it feels like to finger myself :p
well you can do that as a male too
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[crud3w4re]

yup lol but it must differ greatly from a pussy.

[Apsenniel]

always wondered that if i was being born in a female body, would i still be transgendered? i have no clue :s,
ow well i'm young and time will tell, like they say :--)

[Innocent Angel]

I dont know how to answer that question....have you ever wished you were the opposite sex? I wish i had a female body, sure. But how can i wish i was female, when i already feel im female on the inside? I was just cursed to be born in a male body when my mind is female.....

[Samhain]

I dont know how to answer that question....have you ever wished you were the opposite sex? I wish i had a female body, sure. But how can i wish i was female, when i already feel im female on the inside? I was just cursed to be born in a male body when my mind is female.....
do you know when I hit submit on this thread, I realised the difficulty that transexuals may have answering it and in a way I think its a question for people who aren't transexual to compare
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[lionman80]

No way! Labor, periods, and boobs. Also being shorter and having to wear makeup. I would hate to be a woman. There is too much maintenance involved. Being a man is so much easier!!!!!!!!!!!!

[simkin]

I love my own body too much to ever want to give it up.

Being able to understand the perspective of women would be nice, but I've never felt the urge to gain the perspective that way.

[SlickyPants]

I am completely happy being a guy. I don't think I'd want to be a woman even just for a little bit just to see how it is.

That being said, I wouldn't mind being a woman for a little while so I could get some lovin' from some straight guys I think are hot.http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/newsmilies/drool5.gif

[*Andy*]

Yeah who hasn't :D I've always wondered what it would be like to have to sit to pee..

[*Atari*Love*]

yes

[knotdirty]

I've always wanted to know what a male orgasm felt like. But that's about it...I absolutely love being a woman.

[Samhain]

I've always wanted to know what a male orgasm felt like. But that's about it...I absolutely love being a woman.
probably not that much different than a womans but a lot less often!
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[Jerimiah]

When I was 22, I was bet $200. that I wouldn't dress in drag, and walk on Hollywood Blvd.. I did it and collected the money.After I collected the money I headed home, Thats when I got picked up by a guy. That night he took me out and treated me like a lady. It was later that he became the first guy to fuck me.WOW.

[PresidentialScandal]

No, I have always enjoyed being a boy... I don't know what benefit there would be to be a woman for a day or whatever! I'm perfectly content having a penis.

[Sherlock Holmes]

No. I did go through a feminine stage when I was a teenager, but I grew out of it.

The thought of buying tons of makeup, having a period, bearing a child, and having to buy special clothing doesn't appeal to me.

[Loveminx]

I think a penis would be fun for a little while...

[Claudio63]

I once thought about it, for about a moment. But I really like my penis. We've had some good times together. I couldn't part with him. Ever.

[Drew_445]

No. I did go through a feminine stage when I was a teenager, but I grew out of it.

The thought of buying tons of makeup, having a period, bearing a child, and having to buy special clothing doesn't appeal to me.
:agree:

kudos to you

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[mexi0803]

Hasn't everyone wanted to test it out? I would kill--well not literally--to be a man for a day. I would screw everything that moved and maybe even some that didn't lol

Bisexual Jewelry (http://www.gblpridejewelry.com)

[Rigby]

That's a BIG yes- I want to be a man for a day so I can get some action with some gorgeous beautiful fags... I *heart* them...

[Rigby]

I want to know how it feels to fuck beautiful women with a real cock, too