kiss and tell

[animaliberation6]

i have a bisexual friend that has a crush on me. one day he asked me if he could kiss me. i said sure because many people already think that i am gay so why not try something new. this being my first kiss i was kinda freaking out. well, after we kissed i kind of became addicted to kissing. it didn't matter who it was (boy or girl) as long as i could kiss someone. i recently told my friends and now they all seem to think that i am gay. what are your opinions?

[Earthy Mama]

kiss whoever you'd like and don't worry about what people think you are. It doesn't matter if your gay or not... if that effects their friendship w/you then they aren't good enough in the first place. All that matters is that you know what you like and you don't have to define it or tell it to anyone.

[Moro]

"Gay is a box" I say, if I may quote a character from an excellent book I just finished reading (What Happened to Lani Garver).

There's no such thing as normal. Just be whoever you are. If people call you gay, who cares? I have people coming up to me almost daily, asking "Are you The Lesbian?"

Yeah, they say The Lesbian, like that. It makes me feel like some kind of superhero, you know? "Here comes The Lesbian, leaping tall buildings in a single bound! With her amazing lesbian powers..."

Hmm, to put myself in a box, I'm bisexual (that's a pretty big box). But, hey, put yourself in any box you want, just don't let other people wrap it for you, got that?

~Moro (formerly NaturesLittleGirl)

[kier]

nah, i'd go for open minded, it sounds nicer and shows you aren't stopped by the boundries of the sex of your partner :)

[Omniwulf]

Be true onto yourself and let others beleave as they will. There is no need to brand yourself with others names just to please them. I myself am Sexual.
Thats the only brand I'm willing to use. i'm not gay i'm not strait and in my view it matters not who or even what I love so long as one does love.
Boundries can only lead to pain and suffering.

[velvet]

Omniwulf! I just saw this post of you.. I was wondering what took you so long to get back! Yeay... you're back! *hug* :)

[lanalou]

i love kissing...its soooo sexy....i love the feel of the tongue...the warmth of the persons mouth...the way that spy at each other when you pull away for a breather and the butterfly feeling you get when the person you are kissing is the one that you are in love with.....*sigh*..... too bad i don't have that anymore....the world continues to suck ass once more :(

[Omniwulf]

Omniwulf! I just saw this post of you.. I was wondering what took you so long to get back! Yeay... you're back! *hug* :)
What? me not come back? no way. this place is way kewl ! :D
and people like you are what make it so great , Lov you too.



As for kissing.. (( drools )) oh yea, LOVE THAT !
Mind you I can't kiss anything or anyone, but when I do find someone who's kissable..ohh its so heavenly.. I can do it for hours.. throw in some fondling too and I can't get to much happier.

[Venus2578]

man i really miss kissing. haven't seen my bf for months, ldr's suck ass btw. i love kissing. the warm wet soft feeling, exploring their mouth slowly with your tongue, the familiar pressure of their moist lips against your own mmm. i could kiss for hours soft and tender or hard and insistent, god i'm horny now lol!

[Willy_Wonka_27]

kissing rocks!!!!

[Omniwulf]

Sighs.. Wish i had someone to kiss right now. my dogs lips are not the best for kissing.. all though he does a mean toung :D

[velvet]

Doggy breath.... yuck! ;)

[luna99]

who cares what people think??? I love kissing as well.... it should be a sport! everyone should greet each other by kissing... (ok, well, maybe not..there are some people I wouldn't want to kiss)....

but anyway.. I'm a girl and I've kissed women before, but I don't think that makes me bisexual or a lesbian... it's just a fun thing to do and is very sexy and sensual....

enjoy yourself! do what you like and don't worry about what people think!
Kissing is just hot. *SMOOCH*

[dirtybongwater]

Who doesn't like to be kissed? ITs not some sort of sacred ritual that should only to be performed on your partner. Its just a kiss, and i feel as though its the proper way to greet all my female friends, even around their b/f's.

As for my guy friends, They get either a handshake or a hug.

[luna99]

*gives dirtybongwater a sweet kiss* :p (with tongue or without?)

[imabuildingburning]

OOH! WITH! WITH!! I wanna see some scandalous action go down...

[luna99]

mmmmmmmmm.. with pleasure! ;)
I bet he's a great kisser too....... mmmmmmmmmm
*sigh*

[Mintaoism]

yup it don't matter who you kiss as long as they want to be kissed

[NatureFreak412]

Didnt people use to kiss on the cheek to greet like a long time ago, I wouldnt kiss a dude tho, I like the softness and sexyness of girls.

[velvet]

Here in the Netherlands, especially 'round Amsterdam, it's common to kiss on the cheek (three times.. left, right, left) when you meet. Unless it's boy - boy.. than they only shake hands. It's also not unusual to kiss on the lips as a general welcome, but that really depends on the individual.. I only do it with one of my male friends.

[monosphere]

Velvet, you can kiss me anytime!:p

I don't remember the last time I kissed someone. I know it was on New Year's Eve, but I was so drunk that I don't remember the kiss.

Mono

[SapphireSerenity]

I think you should kiss whoever you want whenever you want... Kissing is fun and you can't get preggy that way !

~ Sapphire

[HippieFlowerGirl67]

A group of girls and I were up at one of the girl's cabins for the weekend for her b-day and one night one of the girls and I didn't want to go to sleep and so she asked me if I wanted to expirement and I said sure and so we kissed and then we went into the living room part in the dark and talked and then we talked about the kiss and asked if it made me want to do it again and inside I guess I wanted to but didn't want to get too deep into anything that I thought was weird or whatever, so I said 'I dunno'. But after the kiss I think my mind started thinking/saying I was gay. It was weird. I dunno. Sometimes I think I am but I don't think so....

[RxHEAD]

I am sort of like Julia Roberts in the Movie 'Pretty Woman'. I do not kiss anyone. Male or Female. I have not been able to kiss another person in years. I envy those who still have the ability to kiss and to love. Keep kissing, and never give up on love. Peace

[amethystrse]

I love to kiss. To me it doesn't matter if your a man or a woman, you just have to know how to kiss (and my hubby has to not mind. hehe). I'm bi amd I like to be with both men and women anyway, so it's not a big deal for me. I don't see why it would be anyways. I mean, other than a deformity of society there's really no reason to be concerned.

What would make you gay or bi or straight isn't just the enjoyment of kissing. It would be more what the kissing does for you. Do you feel like you would want to do other things with the guys or the chicks? If so, then that could be an indication. Do you have romantic feelings? etc.

Personally, though, I wouldn't worry about it. Just go with your feelings and let them dictate what you do and don't do. Not labels.

*hugs*