Does this happen with anyone else?

[Lanze]

I fall in love with people, male or female it does not matter. I want to be there for everyone, and lift them up when they fall. While I am truly gay, as in i could never even be aroused by a women no matter how hard I try. I still feel as if I love some women to the point where I wouldn't mind marrying them, but I would never do much more than kiss them.

[bkcmar]

Stick with friendships with women. If you enter a romantic relationship with a woman, you are setting yourself and the woman up for disaster. Be true to yourself. My closest friend is a woman. I think she is wonderful and I probably love her more than anyone else. However, as much as we love one another, I could never delude myself into entering into a marital relationship with her.

Do not confuse love and physical attraction.

The women that you love, deserve an honest relationship with a man.

[KewlDewd66]

Stick with friendships with women. If you enter a romantic relationship with a woman you are setting yourself and the woman up for disaster. Be true to yourself. My closest friend is a woman. I think she is wonderful and I probably love her more than anyone else. However, as much as we love one another I could never delude myself into entering into a marital relationship with her.

Do not confuse love and physical attraction.
Well said, bkcmar.

Yup, it happens to me all the time. To make it worse, I would have no problem having sex with a woman, too. I did it for 10 years and I loved it. But, I still like being with men much more. And I would never do anything to hurt anyone, simply because I am promising something, I know, I will not likely fulfill.

So, just make friends and stay away from hurting other guys and gals.

KD

[amp7325]

It happens to me too, almost exactly like that. I was just thinking about a girlfriend from last year (before I was honest with myself about being gay), and I realized that I could fall in love with her again, but I wouldn't be interested in a physical relationship. I'm just going to try to ignore it.

[mushie18]

i have two very close girl friends.

probably closer to me than all of my guys friends.

i love them, but i could never pursue a sexual relationship with them.

..maybe if i was really drunk ;)

[Lanze]

i have two very close girl friends.

probably closer to me than all of my guys friends.

i love them, but i could never pursue a sexual relationship with them.

..maybe if i was really drunk ;)Well we better get the booze.

[txbarefooter]

same here. a girl friend I've know for 32 years we're close but I'm not interested in her in the physical way, just as a good friend.

[Echelon]

The same happens to me, though since I'm bi, I'm appealed to both sexes both mentally and physically (though usually, I find women more attractive though I find men to be so much more mentally supportive and more physically pleasing).

[Duncan]

I have very close female friends, but the thought of wanting to do more than kiss them never comes into play. Marrying? Why on earth. BTW I find I usually have a different set of standards for women. I will tend to cut women a lot more slack when it comes to what they say and how they say it (probably because the possibility of having anything romantic isn't on the table). Consequently, if I have told a woman to get out of my life forever, chances are she had crossed the line big time... usually with issues of trust.

[TsuzukiAsato13]

Sometimes being just friends is more fun, anyway. There's no chance to do something that makes your relationship akward.