the warmhanded Poll

[Samhain]

Should she???

[hippychickmommy]

From what I've seen on here, I'd go with giving up the husband, but then again, matters like that aren't so cut and dry, nor an easy decision.

[Samhain]

Jess do feel that you can answer the poll yourself!
S

[andcrs2]

Has it boiled down to an either/or R/L proposition?

[Samhain]

Has it boiled down to an either/or R/L proposition?
again in English please!
S

[warmhandedcanadian]

I think he needs to know why "the poll".... like maybe I have been forced to quit pot in order to keep the husband.

Since he is a huge chronic pot head I'd say quitting pot would be for my own personal growth .... right now where I am staying my friend is also a habitual pot user, so it wuld be difficult for me to quit. However when I smoke it lately, I feel sadder (if that is possible) than before I smoked it, unless of course Whose Line is it Anyway is on, that show always makes me laugh when high. Damn that Canadian Colin Mochary is sooooooooooooooooooooooo funny.

If I let go of my husband, that will help me to grow stronger etc. right? Stop pining over my situation ..... live in the moment not in the past yadda yadda.... but 16 years is a long time.

[seamonster66]

16 years ago I wasn't even born yet...

anyway, how about taking a break from both?

Pot sucks when you have something on your mind, the opposite of an escape

[Samhain]

16 years ago I wasn't even born yet...


so that made me laugh so hard!
S

[Samhain]

Jess ive just had this image of you being interviewed on a tv chat show
'so Jess why did you ditch your man?'
'well Jerry I was on the internet and I saw this poll.....'
S

[warmhandedcanadian]

I know...lol. The poll is a good idea. Of course when I tell my reality friends about it they are going to think I'm even more of a frickin nutjob than I already am... but hey they are too stoned to think any different right?

And Gary if I quit both what the hell will I do?

[andcrs2]

I think he needs to know why "the poll".... like maybe I have been forced to quit pot in order to keep the husband.Nice call. *g*
Since he is a huge chronic pot head I'd say quitting pot would be for my own personal growth .... right now where I am staying my friend is also a habitual pot user, so it wuld be difficult for me to quit. However when I smoke it lately, I feel sadder (if that is possible) than before I smoked it, unless of course Whose Line is it Anyway is on, that show always makes me laugh when high. Damn that Canadian Colin Mochary is sooooooooooooooooooooooo funny. You could always smoke again somewhere down the Road after things have smoothed out...
If I let go of my husband, that will help me to grow stronger etc. right? Stop pining over my situation ..... live in the moment not in the past yadda yadda.... but 16 years is a long time.I was told likewise after my SO (of over a decade) *poof* left.
I had to hit bottom before I saw there truly was Wisdom in that advice. *Honest Injun*


You really don't wanna go there - the 'bottom' sux...

[nimh]

And Gary if I quit both what the hell will I do?live life

find some hobbies, find yourself

i dont know, if i knew all the answers i would be able to give up my own ex

::sigh::

ps, seamonster66, are you a born again? your not even born yet comment reminded me of those xtian zealots. :p

[AshtonsMom]

From what I have heard about her "husband" if you will, my vote is for letting go of him. Jess is a sweet person and deserves better. :D

[warmhandedcanadian]

Thank- you everyone. He is being an ass.... but we have 3 children, a house, debts, great sex ..... and actually had a somewhat good relationship... what has happened obviously needed to happen. I don't know what will become of "us" but I do know I consider him my family and my soulmate..... this is all very difficult for me. I do know that I am not going to b e held completely responsible for what's happened. Along with him graduating from university, he has changed. Become god-like in his mind. I really hope that he will just "get it"..... I mean understand what the hell is going on here. That's what I wish for.

I have court tomorrow.

[andcrs2]

I have court tomorrow.No biggie/ piece of cake.

You'll do Fine... *s*

[warmhandedcanadian]

Just as long as it doesnt get remanded again. I need this to be over.

[seamonster66]

I vote that Jessica should come down to my house with pot and without her husband, and we should go sit in the park

[warmhandedcanadian]

All alone with in the ark with some ot?

That sounds absolutely erfect!

[warmhandedcanadian]

If she has to decide between him and the pot... then she should do him a favor and choose the pot...huh?

Is this a dis at me?

Go back to your lair.

[seamonster66]

why don't you buy an ugly corsette thing, post pics of yourself in it, and wait for the desperate and overly polite to come compliment you? It would also help if you were a little uglier, then people would feel the need to show you excessive love.

but since I know you are above that, why not come on down to the park and chill with me and watch the sun go down

[warmhandedcanadian]

but since I know you are above that, why not come on down to the park and chill with me and watch the sun go down
Wahhhhhhhhhh. That is so beautiful.

*sniff


Why are all the real men taken........ and not overtly slutty?

[andcrs2]

Just as long as it doesnt get remanded again. I need this to be over.If it is remanded again consider that
the longer this is drawn out the greater the possibility
he may screw up to your advantage.

It's terribly difficult but there's
more to be gained in working with the system
v.
allowing the system to work against you/ provoking you
into screwing up.

Be patient.

[warmhandedcanadian]

How will he screw up to my advantage?

[warmhandedcanadian]

*Captian Cunnilingus knows when he's not wanted... so he makes his way back to the C***Cave...*
Oh don't try to be charming!

[Samhain]

I have done a slight edit on this thread due to langauge i find offensive.

Jess I had no idea that you had court again so soon, I hope it works itself out better and that charges are dropped- do let me know
hugs
S

[warmhandedcanadian]

hmmm
well if i'd of known the word '**' had some magical powers that make it so evil... i would have used 'cootercave'...
or is that offencive also?...
I find your spelling offensive.

[Samhain]

I find your spelling offensive.
to be fair thats not just him though is it, mines terrible- smack botty for me
S

[warmhandedcanadian]

sssh I know.... but we're teasing the young'un



tease
verb teased, teasing

1. To annoy or irritate someone deliberately or unkindly.

Thesaurus: goad, provoke, irritate, annoy, vex, plague, torment.
2. To laugh at or make fun of someone playfully or annoyingly.

Thesaurus: taunt, mock, ridicule, rib (slang).
3. To persuade them to agree to it, especially by continual coaxing.

Form: tease someone into something (usually)
4. To arouse someone sexually without satisfying that desire.

Thesaurus: tantalize, excite, arouse, provoke.
5. To comb (wool, flax or hair, etc) to remove tangles and open out the fibres.
6. To raise a nap on (cloth) by scratching or brushing, especially with teasels.
7. To backcomb (hair).


In case you don't know what teasing is Insane Jestor:

[Raving Sultan]

I want her warm hand on my pole!!!!!

[warmhandedcanadian]

Well at least my warts arent on my dick InsaneJestor.

[Samhain]

and we where doing so well at being pleasent in here as well.....
S

[warmhandedcanadian]

It's ok Sam... first of all he doesnt know my situation, second of all he's just a child ....it really doesnt bother me.

I can take a joke.

[warmhandedcanadian]

and you find my spelling offensive? ;)
and yes... I suppose you have that going for you atleast... but then again more women might be able to feel something if you actually did...
So you're saying its so tiny that warts would be an improvement on your performance?

[warmhandedcanadian]

oh the good old days.

[mynameiskc]

are you the thread necromancer?

[warmhandedcanadian]

yes I am going out with a bang.


a necrobang.