tell me this is going to come true

[warmhandedcanadian]

I had a dream that D and I were looking a new homes (this is what we planned for this fall) and we actually well ... you know .... I'll say cuddled.

Is this going to come true? It was a good dream.

[Samhain]

at the risk of being really annoying Jess, would you like it to come true, would you like to get back with him and put it all behind you?
after this week have a think of what you need and whats good for you.
To answer your question, it bodes well for you both moving forward and putting the past behind you, doesn't it?
S

[Hacker]

I had a dream that D and I were looking a new homes (this is what we planned for this fall) and we actually well ... you know .... I'll say cuddled.

Is this going to come true? It was a good dream.
I am also "D" but I don't think you wanna be cuddling with me and looking at new homes.

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[warmhandedcanadian]

If you dump Mrs. H I may take you up on it if its offered.

I dont know what I want anymore Sam .... you notice at first I missed him so much but now I'm mostley pissed off? I am going through stages of grief
denial anger bargaining ? depression (hell yeah) acceptance.

[Samhain]

If you dump Mrs. H I may take you up on it if its offered.

I dont know what I want anymore Sam .... you notice at first I missed him so much but now I'm mostley pissed off? I am going through stages of grief
denial anger bargaining ? depression (hell yeah) acceptance.
at the risk of sounding like a stuck record, I don't think its that unusual to feel confused at the moment, when is your court case? get this out of the way and you should start to feel more clear about what you want to do
S

[warmhandedcanadian]

Yes, did I mention my dream did come true?

[Samhain]

Yes, did I mention my dream did come true?
Jess i'm really pleased i hope this and the finish of the court case marks the beginning of a whole new chapter for you
S

[warmhandedcanadian]

me too!


and more sex.

[Samhain]

me too!


and more sex.
well you did get that offer today :eek:
S

[seamonster66]

well, this seems to differ from our typing earlier....you said you were being cautious and you bitched him out etc.

now its all roses?

I wish the best to you, I just think your husband was being an unbelievable ass, and its hard for me to accept that its all perfect again

[warmhandedcanadian]

well, this seems to differ from our typing earlier....you said you were being cautious and you bitched him out etc.

now its all roses?

I wish the best to you, I just think your husband was being an unbelievable ass, and its hard for me to accept that its all perfect again
Yes I'm scared. You've really hit the nail on the head. I dont understand anything. But I do know he is going to speak to the Crown and it will reslut in me going home .

It aint roses. I'm just feeling afterglow.

You're very right.

[seamonster66]

I'm glad....you will be with your kids. I won't be sure about your husband for quite a while though. Congratulations on the first part...and make sure you tell him that a man doesn't go charging his wife with domestic violence for minor issues, and doesn't go around spreading lies about his wife.

[warmhandedcanadian]

I'm glad....you will be with your kids. I won't be sure about your husband for quite a while though. Congratulations on the first part...and make sure you tell him that a man doesn't go charging his wife with domestic violence for minor issues, and doesn't go around spreading lies about his wife.
You're so sweet.

You guys have been very good to me through all this. Such wonderful constant neverfailing support. Really.

Love you guys.

[warmhandedcanadian]

and yeah I told him all that lastnight ... he was all "yes yes I'm sorry" a complete turnaround ... thinks it went too far and he never meant for this bleh bleh ....
said he never knew he could help my case any , the cops pressed the charges ... he needs me bleh bleh.

I told him how underhanded it was and how confusing it is for me .... how I have documentation of how many times I walked away with him following me first.

He listened and apologized.

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I am stilll seeing all this councelling through though.

[seamonster66]

quote: the cops pressed the charges

I'm not that familiar with Canadian law, but that seems like a blatant lie. Here, at least, domestic violence is not a crime that they automatically charge one on, like murder

[Samhain]

Jess i'm not making light of anything, but with all this sex do you realise you did a typo and wrote
'reslut' :D
sorry just tickled me! what gary says makes sense, however i'm pleased you feel happy tonight, and should enjoy it cause you haven't had many nights like this at the moment
S

[warmhandedcanadian]

No I admitted it. It's zero tolerance here. They came and I told them right away .... then they arrested me "based on what I just told them".

http://www.scruplesgame.com/zts/

the cops said it was bogus, but that is what they have to do.

[warmhandedcanadian]

Jess i'm not making light of anything, but with all this sex do you realise you did a typo and wrote
'reslut' :D
sorry just tickled me! what gary says makes sense, however i'm pleased you feel happy tonight, and should enjoy it cause you haven't had many nights like this at the moment
She he yeah I saw that.... Have I made myself a re-slut???

[seamonster66]

did he know that before he called the copshttp://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/sad.gif

[warmhandedcanadian]

That's the thing Gary. He did.

[seamonster66]

proceed with caution is all, and I hope it does work out

kind of shocked that I prefer an American law over a Canadian one :D

[warmhandedcanadian]

Unless you are a cop who has to respond to countless domestic calls from idiots who continue to stay together and subject their kids to violence on a regular basis.

[warmhandedcanadian]

proceed with caution is all, and I hope it does work out

kind of shocked that I prefer an American law over a Canadian one :D
I will. I just want to go home.

And I love him.

He still rocks my world. WE have 3 kids. He is fuckin done school after 5 years.

I want to see if we can make it, the stress of being poor should be relieved right? I'm sure our marriage councellor will set him straight.

I think I may have an edge on him due to the career path he has chosen.

He seems sorry, now. He is an addict. He reacts then thinks later.... that will never change. Can he change? Does he want to? Did he do the unforgivable? Maybe. I have to see how I feel when I get home.

[daisymae]

quote: the cops pressed the charges

I'm not that familiar with Canadian law, but that seems like a blatant lie. Here, at least, domestic violence is not a crime that they automatically charge one on, like murderThe thing is, sometimes a battered wife (for example) is afraid to press charges...so here they do it for you.

Not good in every situation....because sometimes people lie. My friends' son has been arrested a couple of times because his idiot ex-girlfriend keeps lying. She is now pregnant with a married cop's kid....3 kids + one abortion times before the age of 20. She's really bright......

[Samhain]

The thing is, sometimes a battered wife (for example) is afraid to press charges...so here they do it for you.

Not good in every situation....because sometimes people lie. My friends' son has been arrested a couple of times because his idiot ex-girlfriend keeps lying. She is now pregnant with a married cop's kid....3 kids + one abortion times before the age of 20. She's really bright......I was thinking that laws like that probably work really well until they get abused, hopefully it will just turn out to be a hassle for Jess and nothing more.
still for every person its a hassle too, if it saves one person from being abused, its probably worth it, doesn't make it any easier for Jess though at the moment
S

[hippychickmommy]

I had a dream a couple nights ago that D (Hacker) held me and some other Random Thoughts junkies hostage at his house! :p

[Samhain]

I had a dream a couple nights ago that D held me and some other Random Thoughts junkies hostage at his house! :p
I hope i was in it casting spells!
S

[hippychickmommy]

Awww, no, you weren't. http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/sad.gif That would have made for a pretty cool dream!

[warmhandedcanadian]

Dont forget I still have the spell book.... muahahahaha!

[Lying in a field]

I had a dream that D and I were looking a new homes (this is what we planned for this fall) and we actually well ... you know .... I'll say cuddled.

Is this going to come true? It was a good dream.
*Offers warmhanded a hug and to make dinner*

[warmhandedcanadian]

*Offers warmhanded a hug and to make dinner*awwwwwwww ..... thanks!

Watch out though, I grab while I hug.

[Samhain]

awwwwwwww ..... thanks!

Watch out though, I grab while I hug.
and your not allowed to hug her without admiring her butt
S

[Lying in a field]

awwwwwwww ..... thanks!

Watch out though, I grab while I hug.
I grab back. I hear you're more than a handful http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/humm.gif

[warmhandedcanadian]

I grab back. I hear you're more than a handful http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/humm.gif
This really could mean anything.:p

[Samhain]

sounds like the most important part of this dream did indeed come true
S

[mynameiskc]

glad to hear it.

[warmhandedcanadian]

woah. Thanks to all you for being here for me this past year....