Girls: How do u decide

[gurlgimmedat]

when do u decide wether or not u want to have sex with a guy? how should a guy come on too you if hes horny and wants sex, and there is chemisty between u and him and he can tell u want it too, but doesnt know howto go about getting it out ther?

[ihmurria]

If I feel a connection with him, if I trust him, if I care for him and feel he cares for me, if I feel safe with him

I'm one of those crazy girls who needs a relationship/trust/usually love too before I can have sex with someone.

[wiggy]

Generally I wont make the first move on a bloke - i wait for him


Maybe do bits like rub his leg or something like that - the usual smiling alot etc lol

But I think its sooo sweet if say you where with a girl and take it slow at first - you know lean in a kiss her and take it from there.

I can normally tell a bloke does because of where they put their hands lol

[kissya]

I kiss him....you can tell alot from a kiss.

[zpiper]

Ask her, talk to her, she'd like that you respected her enough to ask her opinion..and you'd probably have a better chance

[Otterface]

Yeah, I have to agree with zpiper. Make her feel that you genuinely care about her and want to make her happy. You'll make her feel much more comfortable about having sex with you.

[His Eden]

It's a chemistry thing with me. As for how to make the first move just pay attention, make eye contact, lean in closer, lower your voice.....a seduction of sorts ;)

[isaac]

run. grab. ask (optonal). sex

[RetroGroove_Grrl]

If I like him enought to want to sleep with him i will give it a try... and for the most part, that is out of his control if i like him or not

[ayahuasca]

if i'm into someone, and feeling the vibes (knowing it's mutual), i'll usually make hints, like seductive eye contact, or if we're close enough, subtle little strokes on his leg or arm or whatever's closest. soon enough, we won't be able to stand it...and will eventually get up and go somewhere. this is assuming there are other people in the room, but if we we're alone, i would probably just jump on him from the beginning.

[fexurbis]

Most decide to be undecided.