View Full Version : The era of skinny girls is over. Phat asses rule.
johnschlong
05-06-2006, 04:24 PM
There's a bit of a change in trends over here in Europe. I wonder if that's the case in the U.S. too.
Whenever a girl here asks (as they used to ask all the time) "does my ass look fat in these pants/skirt/dress?", all of us now go "no, it doesn't look fat enough - work on it". Lol.
I have the impression that the era of skinny girls who refuse to show any sign of voluptuousness is definitely over. Anorectic supermodels are no longer setting the norm. No, instead the girls with phat booties are taking over; the era of fat asses is here, and its here to stay, I feel. Some cellullitis is very welcome, as long there are bubbles.
Maybe this is because big asses are a hot category on the internet and we see them all the time in hot (black) music videos, while skinny traditional chicks don't make us horny any longer. I don't know.
But I definitely have the impression that fat asses and onion booties have now become the mainstream hip, the new ideal.
What do you think of this trend? What do you think of it as a girl?
kissya
05-06-2006, 04:50 PM
I think if you have it, you should flaunt it.
lankymidget
05-06-2006, 04:56 PM
I like alotta bounce..
It's a pity it took the American Hip Hop culture to start it off, but I think you're perfectly right.
And sure, we men should be encouraging our women to fill out some!
DQ Veg
05-06-2006, 04:57 PM
I like alotta bounce..
And sure, we men should be encouraging our women to fill out some!Twist it, baby!
YellowBellyHippy
05-06-2006, 05:53 PM
Well this poor skinny chic is off to cry in the corner *sniff sniff*
andcrs2
05-06-2006, 05:58 PM
/me is off to buy more junk food/ booze stock.
Bumble
05-06-2006, 06:47 PM
i suffer from small-white-girl-ass-syndrome.
fritz
05-06-2006, 06:56 PM
The era of skinny girls is over.Wow, sucks to be me. ;)
I wish people could learn to dig both.
Skinny girls get cellulite too.
wiggy
05-06-2006, 08:05 PM
YAY finally girls can be seen eating and not puking after
I think its odd that people consider what the latest trends are in 'asses'. To each their own I say and my preference has always been for a tight ass with not a lot of bounce to it. I don't like the whole junk in the trunk look
ihmurria
05-06-2006, 08:36 PM
http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/rolleyes.gif people like who they like, be they tall, short, skinny, wide, blonde, redheaded or ravenhaired, blue eyes or brown, dark skinned, tanned or pale beyond measure. There's always someone out there who will find you attractive, and a lot more goes into it than your physical body.
lankymidget
05-06-2006, 08:37 PM
Indeed to the last to posts here...
I'm getting a bigger choice now is what it means!!!!!
seamonster66
05-06-2006, 08:39 PM
how about just liking what you like for yourself, and not following some body weight trend?
There is no need to berate people for being too skinny if that suddently goes out of style, which seems ridiculous to me
johnschlong
05-06-2006, 10:35 PM
To all, don't get me wrong, when I said that it appears that fat asses are allowed (again), this doesn't mean that normal or skinny girls aren't sexy any longer. I was just suggesting that big booty is now entirely okay, whereas I remember the days when girls with fat asses really didn't feel good about it.
Overdoing the fat ass thing and turning it into a new must is stupid, I agree.
Zoomie
05-07-2006, 01:33 AM
Ba-donkadonk...
Aw yeah.
SithInHeels
05-07-2006, 05:47 AM
Skinny will never be out of fashion.
johnschlong
05-07-2006, 12:36 PM
Ba-donkadonk...
Aw yeah. You even have ba-donkadonkadonkdonkadonkadonk!!
I've seen it with my own eyes: a walking booty that takes 3 upward and 3 downward movements by one bootycheek and 3 upward and 3 downward movements by the other, just to get one step further. Incredible! http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/tongue.gif
DQ Veg
05-07-2006, 12:50 PM
You even have ba-donkadonkadonkdonkadonkadonk!!
I've seen it with my own eyes: a walking booty that takes 3 upward and 3 downward movements by one bootycheek and 3 upward and 3 downward movements by the other, just to get one step further. Incredible! http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/tongue.gifAbsolutamente! Hispanic girls in particular are experts at it. It's a real sight to watch. Ijole!
grimjivey
05-07-2006, 01:25 PM
By constantly refering to large backsides as "fat asses" I don't think your doing much to help women feel confident or empowered.
lankymidget
05-07-2006, 01:41 PM
By constantly refering to large backsides as "fat asses" I don't think your doing much to help women feel confident or empowered.
Think that why the word "phat" was coined, but even that isn't so hot..
Let women choose the word, as I enjoy playing with the descriptions I have for how they make me feel :D
Suncatch22
05-07-2006, 10:06 PM
I used to weigh one hundred ten pounds ... I looked amazing, but it could be physically painful to even exist! Sometimes even wearing clothing hurt ...
Now I weigh 120-125 ... have a wee bit of extra baggage, but am comfortable and not at all overweight! Sure, I wish I was a bit more "firmed up" or what have you, but y'know ... it is pretty nice to live "fat and happy" (so to speak).
It is all in self-confidence ... a girl can be beautiful or ugly at any weight, it all depends on the way she carries herself.
Gentlemen -- THANK YOU for finally acknowledging that fact!
So Ladies -- "Fat" or "thin" or anywhere in between -- Hold your heads up high!
Love, - K
tculi
05-07-2006, 10:12 PM
thats only for black people in america
they like fat cheeky women
johnschlong
05-07-2006, 11:04 PM
thats only for black people in america
they like fat cheeky women Nah, I can tell you that the vast majority of white people loves the big booty too.
I think only white protestant victorians and their American offspring are not in touch with normality. It's their victorian, puritan heritage which created the skinny, lifeless, a-sexual, disciplined woman as the ideal.
All other whites (the big majority), like big round butts. White Catholics like big round butts. They haven't had this puritan victorian history. The Catholic Church even promotes eroticism and sensuality.
So it's normal for a man to like fat asses. After all, throughout mankind's entire history the big round butt has been the ultimate sign of fertility and sexyness.
The prehistoric Venus of Willendorf. Just look at that booty! http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/tongue.gif This chick is 24,000 years old and still has a fantastic derrière!!
http://www.modelspecimens.com/HomePage_files/willendorf%202.jpg
The victorian, puritan protestant era was that of a very tiny minority and it was a temporary exception in man's history. Nothing big really.
DQ Veg
05-07-2006, 11:55 PM
All other whites (the big majority), like big round butts. White Catholics like big round butts. They haven't had this puritan victorian history. The Catholic Church even promotes eroticism and sensuality.Exactly. You hit the nail right on the head.
andcrs2
05-08-2006, 12:19 AM
Yall are being silly...
Zoomie
05-08-2006, 12:44 AM
The Catholic Church even promotes eroticism and sensuality.
Yes but they tell poor people in third world countries who can't afford to feed themselves that birth control is a sin.
So one kinda cancels the other.
YellowBellyHippy
05-08-2006, 05:13 AM
Yes but they tell poor people in third world countries who can't afford to feed themselves that birth control is a sin.
So one kinda cancels the other.LOL thats so true !!! Gotta love the catholic church eh?? ;-)
kriminal99
05-08-2006, 07:23 AM
Haha... speaking of over there as in Britain... I gotta tune into BBC Tv shows to see non 50 lb hot girls on tv shows... Billie piper is fine as hell...
johnschlong
05-08-2006, 04:27 PM
Perfect bubbles:
http://assparade.bangbros1.com/161/pics/01.jpg
tculi
05-08-2006, 04:54 PM
fuck that... don't be such a racist... i love a nice shapely ass..
lemmy show ya what a nice ass looks like...
those are nice asses
but theyre on skinny women
i thought we were talking about like completely fat women?
and i didnt mean to sound racist i was just speaking the truth
tculi
05-08-2006, 04:55 PM
fuck that... don't be such a racist... i love a nice shapely ass..
lemmy show ya what a nice ass looks like...
This ass whilte shapely is Too small
This ass... is TOO big...
This ass is about the right size... yet doesn't have that... nice crease any good ass needs
This... is the perfect ass... could use just a bit more crease... but you get the idea...
yea woops i meant to quote insane jester on my last post
tculi
05-08-2006, 04:57 PM
just remember, there's still a difference between phat ass's and FATass's...
haha whats the difference?
andcrs2
05-08-2006, 05:02 PM
One's pc the other's not.
pc = politically correct or some other horseship
liguana
05-08-2006, 09:39 PM
I've always liked a nice ass, but we all have our own opinions on what makes a nice ass.
My description of a nice ass is one that is not too wide but wide enough for a good hip:waist ratio and protrudes on the side profile. Not square or flat or box-shaped but round with the right height to width ratio in the cheeks:p.
A nice ass does not correspond with weight IMO, lots of square asses by ppl of all weight categories. I’ve seen flat asses on fat ppl and nice protruding asses on slender folks and I’ve seen proportionately beautiful asses on heavier folks and slender folks with asses too flat and wide for their proportions.
I’m slender but my most voluptuous parts are my booty, which protrudes more than average and my upper thighs has the right amount of fullness IMO, gawd I’m so full of myself. I’m definitely feeling the trend tho, my own personal weight preference is a few lbs higher than it once was and since I’m active I have to eat more for those goals :).
I just told some1 here that the wisp look is not gonna catch on outside of cali. Also did J. Simpson wear padding for the dukes of hazard movie? I’m seeing a lot more protruding booties these days I’m beginning to wonder how many are padded ;).
johnschlong
05-09-2006, 01:49 AM
OH MEIN GOTT!!
http://assparade.bangbros1.com/246/pics/05.jpg
Jennasia
05-09-2006, 06:42 AM
just remember, there's still a difference between phat ass's and FATass's...
tis very true, this is what my male friends have been telling me these days.
I think it all depends, girls of many sizes can be beautiful, face and personality are more important than body anyways
still as far as body goes I do have my limits:
I should not be able to see your ribs you anorexic whore
I should be able to get my arms around you you fat slob
andcrs2
05-09-2006, 06:48 AM
Pics back there remind me of SciFi flicks...
Soberbeah
05-09-2006, 07:12 AM
Skinny chicks are my fix
analist
05-09-2006, 07:13 AM
I want to agree, I like a woman built for comfort, not speed.
sexy_muse
05-10-2006, 12:06 AM
I don't think body shapes should ever be a trend, there should just be an assorted variety of people for every taste. People are brainwashed by what is 'in' but that is wrong because sometimes they're restricting themselves from finding out what they really like and enjoying it.
But if I have to choose between fat or skinny being fashionable I'd go for fat anyday, it lets me eat whatever I want and not feel bad about it; it's so much easier to be fat!
And besides, fat people are soft to touch, *very nice*, problem is that before you touch them you have to look at them and usually they're rejected in the initial visual phase.
I have a nice round ass and I'm cool with it, I just hate having celulite, it looks awful and ruins that shiny smooth look...
okay I just realized somehting
this thread is titled "The era of skinny girls is over. Phat asses rule."
the era of 'Phat' is over and has been for a long time
Lord_Bunny
05-12-2006, 12:59 AM
not nearly as attractive though... you've gotta understand people have tastes... that are linking instinctually to our subconscious... and more fat than is healthy will never be seen as sexy...
Somoans and Hawaiians see it as sexy!
Lord_Bunny
05-12-2006, 01:24 AM
I think that we don't see that skinny girls weren't as popular until the 60's with the arrival of models like twiggy. Consider for instance a sexual icon like Marilyn Monroe who was far more voluptuous than the walking sticks that the media try to convince us are more attractive. If you study art, you will see that most nudes done of women before the 20th century are not of thin or even in shape women.
I think it's a disturbing devolopment when we find the body of a little girl more attractive than the body of a woman.
Lord_Bunny
05-12-2006, 02:45 AM
started with marilyn monroe?... what about the whole victorian era with their corsetts?
and i'm sure it goes back further than that... nothing seems to come to mind though...
I think you have your sexes mixed up with the corset.... Traditionally corsets were worn by men to make them look slimmer. On the other hand, corsets were worn by woman to accentuate their figure and make there hips and breasts appear more rotund.
I think a small oversight you might be having is the availability of food between the present and the past. In the past heavier people (I'm not talking about exaggerated girth and I'm not making this up) were associated with good health and wealth. A poor person couldn't afford to just go to the market and buy excess food. So if you saw a curvy figure on a woman, you knew that she was well taken care of.
lindseybug
05-12-2006, 08:21 PM
what happens if you cant help but be twiggy skinny!
she was never known for being anorexic was she?
she had a figure that was never considered feminine to the public.
i mean. i think whatever size you are. as long as you're healthy...you ah beautyful. :D
hummblebee
05-12-2006, 09:10 PM
not nearly as attractive though... you've gotta understand people have tastes... that are linking instinctually to our subconscious... and more fat than is healthy will never be seen as sexy...By you maybe. Everyone has their own personal preferences - some people like that little bit of extra meat everywhere!
This whole thread is just making me laugh... Although, I have to say, I'm not seeing ay real trend in the US from my own standpoint. And one thing we all have to remember, is that ASSES don't get "fat" or "phat" or whatever you want to call them, on their own.
One perfect example, coming from American culture: That 70s' Show. Mila Kunis, who is skinny skinny skinny (to the point where you can usually see all the bones in her chest plate) gets shown off in skimpy clothing, bikinis, etc. whenever they get a chance - whereas her costar Laura Prepon, a much more "womanly" figure, gets treated as if she's horribly frumpy, with sweaters and scarfs always tied around her waist.
I think everyone should just be as healthy as they can be! Everyone has differet tastes, and no matter what you look like someone will find you attractive - just so long as you are comfortable and confident with who you are and what you look like.
Personally, I think my own ass probably IS my best physical feature... and the rest of me is quite large as well. I'm still well proportioned - but who ever said a bit of a belly is horribly unattractive on all women?
http://www.carnaval.com/goddess/malta_3.jpg
-Sleeping Venus of Malta found at the entrance to the the Hypogeum.
humblebee, that was a terrible example, Laura Prepon is a giant
and why are you a guy in your pictures? http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/confused.gif
Alternative_Thinker
05-12-2006, 11:19 PM
I think it's a disturbing devolopment when we find the body of a little girl more attractive than the body of a woman.
And I think it's a disturbing development when there are people who think it's a disturbing development when we find the body of a young girl more attractive than the body of a woman. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to women who are petite, and there is nothing wrong with being attracted to women who are amply well-developed. Besides, we can be beautiful at any stage in our lives, young or old.
Lord_Bunny
05-13-2006, 12:50 AM
What makes you think I have my sexes mixed up?... I stated women wore corsets... and they did... whether it started with women or men is of little concequence...
Simple....
You stated that "women wore corsets to appear thinner"... and that wasn't the case. Men wore them to appear thinner. Do you see your mix up.
zoobulon
05-13-2006, 12:58 AM
O Lawd have mercy! Ah loves a white girl wit' a big back yard!
Lord_Bunny
05-13-2006, 01:04 AM
And I think it's a disturbing development when there are people who think it's a disturbing development when we find the body of a young girl more attractive than the body of a woman. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to women who are petite, and there is nothing wrong with being attracted to women who are amply well-developed. Besides, we can be beautiful at any stage in our lives, young or old.
I agree with you that 'women' of all sizes could be attractive. But the females that the media are portraying as women, aren't women. They're 14, 15, 16, and 17 year old girls dolled up to look like women.
And I'm sorry that pedophilia seems disturbing to me. I think there is a difference between appreciating someone beauty and being attracted to someones beauty. And I'm not talking about intellectual or any other form of nonphysical beauty. It's all semantics. With attraction, there's a sexual element.
I can go to the mall and pass a truck load of 15 year old girls with skirts cut right below the crotch and I could care less about them. Because they're children.
DQ Veg
05-13-2006, 01:04 AM
O Lawd have mercy! Ah loves a white girl wit' a big back yard!SHEEEEEEIITT!
DQ Veg
05-13-2006, 01:13 AM
I can go to the mall and pass a truck load of 15 year old girls with skirts cut right below the crotch and I could care less about them.Damn, you should join a monastery!
lindseybug
05-13-2006, 02:16 AM
So you're saying that because of my age, guys can't like my body?
And uh. I don't think you're in any position to tell someone if she is a woman or not. Especially when you know nothing about her but her age.
yeah dood. i'm nineteen. a lady i must say. but my body is more of a fifteen year olds than of a nineteen. whatever that would look like.
wait so are you saying guys my age can't be attracted to me because i look like i am. not legal
fritz
05-13-2006, 04:35 AM
Originally Posted by Lord_Bunny
And I'm sorry that pedophilia seems disturbing to me. I think there is a difference between appreciating someone beauty and being attracted to someones beauty. And I'm not talking about intellectual or any other form of nonphysical beauty. It's all semantics. With attraction, there's a sexual element.
I can go to the mall and pass a truck load of 15 year old girls with skirts cut right below the crotch and I could care less about them. Because they're children.I think I kinda get where you're going with that...Here's how I see it...
It's America that's warped, not the teens. Advertising portrays teenage girls sexually..Society views these same girls generally as underage.
We make it taboo, but use it for advertising. The teens are fine, it's the adults that are fucked up, because our system is so ass backward.
Here, here's a nice big, juicy smelling bowl of shiny candy. Mmmm, doesn't it loook scrumptious?... Don't you dare have any.
Lord_Bunny
05-13-2006, 04:43 AM
What I'm saying is that there should be more to sexual attraction than your appearance. When I see a younger woman, I see a younger mind with the younger body. I find it difficult to have a conversation with younger women. I find the differences in cognitive developmental stages a huge stumbling block.
For instance, I'm into BSDM and a couple other fetishes. I find that all the younger people I've been with do it for the experience. An experience they can then brag about. I'm not trying to typecast, but after awhile when the same thing keeps on happening, you have wonder if it not true. On the other hand, I love being with older women. I find that they do whatever for the sheer pleasure of doing it. There is this sense of confidence and assertiveness, that younger women lack.
Lord_Bunny
05-13-2006, 04:46 AM
I think I kinda get where you're going with that...Here's how I see it...
It's America that's warped, not the teens. Advertising portrays teenage girls sexually..Society views these same girls generally as underage.
We make it taboo, but use it for advertising. The teens are fine, it's the adults that are fucked up, because our system is so ass backward.
Here, here's a nice big, juicy smelling bowl of shiny candy. Mmmm, doesn't it loook scrumptious?... Don't you dare have any.
I agree with that 100%
Alternative_Thinker
05-13-2006, 05:20 AM
I agree with you that 'women' of all sizes could be attractive. But the females that the media are portraying as women, aren't women. They're 14, 15, 16, and 17 year old girls dolled up to look like women.
And I'm sorry that pedophilia seems disturbing to me. I think there is a difference between appreciating someone beauty and being attracted to someones beauty. And I'm not talking about intellectual or any other form of nonphysical beauty. It's all semantics. With attraction, there's a sexual element.
I can go to the mall and pass a truck load of 15 year old girls with skirts cut right below the crotch and I could care less about them. Because they're children.
Haha, that is NOT pedophilia, mate. What's with this popular belief in America that finding teens attractive to also be a form of pedophilia, anyway?? I mean, COME ON!! 17?? 17 is indeed pretty much adult, it's society and its over-eager followers like yourself that constantly feed the young people bullshit, and plant in their heads that no one is able to....or ALLOWED to be intelligent, sexy, AND "underage" AT THE SAME TIME. You know what THAT does to their heads? It keeps them ignorant, keeps them from excelling further in life, makes them form totally incorrect views toward sex/sexuality, makes them feel incapable out in the world because they are constantly told they are "too young", and in turn fucks their mind up so they basically get sucked in and become the "society's loyal clones: the next generation".
For your information, pedophilia is NOT the attraction to teens. To be a pedophile, one must be primarily, and/or exclusively(I myself believe in the latter) attracted to PREPUBESCENT children, in more than just the physical way, I might add. Teens are NOT prepubescent children. They are YOUNG ADULTS. As I said before, I believe we can all be beautiful and sexy at any age, young or old. To say that a certain age group is not worthy of being considered as attractive, to me, seems discriminatory. So you don't find those teens to be attractive. Good for you. Wow. You must be real proud. http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/rolleyes.gif Or maybe you actually DO find them to be attractive, and just say you don't just so people won't think you're a "pedophile". Either way, I do not find your ageist comments to be agreeable. I'm sorry, mate.
I kind of got off-topic. I apologize, guys.
Charise
05-13-2006, 05:25 AM
To the above post by Alternative Thinker, I say-"I couldn't have said it better myself".^^^
Alternative_Thinker
05-13-2006, 05:35 AM
Thank you, Charise, for the compliment! :)
And BIB, baby, you rock! lol... Very good point you made, too. *cheers*
Charise
05-13-2006, 07:04 AM
In the part of the country that I live in, there are plenty of Hispanics. Hispanic girls, at around 13-14, begin to wear tight blue jeans on their shapely rears (the original subject of this post), develop that characteristic twist in their hips, and at 15 go through a ceremony called the Quinceanera (literally '15 years') where they celebrate their entrance into adulthood-that's right, adulthood. This custom is many centuries old, and the concepts are embedded in the culture (BTW, I am neither Hispanic nor do I have a shapely butt!). Pregnancy is also quite common at this age-I've met a number of grandmothers in their early 30's as a result. These people seem to be quite happy-who am I to say they're not? I am neither condoning nor condemning these customs-I'm just stating them as facts. In modern American society, a recent historical phenomenon is for us to establish arbitrary ages (and change them frequently) that decide when a person becomes an adult, when they can drink, etc., and proceed to make their lives miserable if they violate these statutes. Until very recent times, no one ever dreamed that there would be criminal laws that would tell people when they could and couldn't do things like have sex/babies, drink, etc. Probably the reason that Lord Bunny feels this way about teenage girls is because he believes that's the way the 'law' expects him to see them. The law in this country has very succesfully taken away any sense of freedom or humanity that we might have once had. What a great big helluva shame.
fritz
05-13-2006, 07:19 AM
What a great big helluva shame.So true.
Alternative_Thinker
05-13-2006, 07:27 AM
Well, it's also based on the modern psychologal studies that try to convince people "age matters, age matters, AGE MATTERS!!"... But really, such "scientific findings" have been researched and "proven" as a part of the societal propaganda to basically cover up their own stupidity. It's far easier for society to brainwash its people into thinking things should be one way, than have them have a million different opinions that may oppose to the societal counterpart. Totalitarianistic? Yep, pretty much.
So it's really no surprise that they also link that with physical appearence as well. Less developed seems to automatically mean "child-like". So what if that's "child-like"?? We all have personal preferences, and are fully entitled to. People should be free to be attracted to those whom they are, but bashing those whom they aren't is totally uncalled for. Some people just don't get that, though. Sad, isn't it?
Lord_Bunny
05-13-2006, 07:30 AM
We could argue about semantics forever, but it doesn't get us anywhere and it's childish. I never said that younger people were stupid, but I don't think they are as 'cognitively mature'. I also think that the largest threat to youths is trying to overshadow others opinions with derisive and dismissive comments. It's what the hard core republicans, right wing evangelists, and muslim extremists do when they don't agree with something like gay marriage or a women's right to choice.
The fact is that when I was 15, I used to think that I was more mature for my age. I thought I was an adult. I think of that now and laugh. I went to college took a crap load of psych. and soc. classes for my major and found out that all pre-adults think that they are more mature for their age. You'll find out one day. You'll look back and laugh. I'm sure I'm going to laugh at myself now in another 15 years.
This is something I think they should teach you in High School. It's called "Development throughout the lifespan" or something like that. When I was in highschool (things may have changed) they only focused on your physical developmental changes. They never focused on the cognitive. As you age, the way you think about things changes. I'm sure not to long ago that you were basically a robot heeding the instructions of your caregivers. Now, you're probably in a stage of life where you think for yourself and actually question things deeply. The older you get, the more complex it gets until you pretty much prepare yourself psychologically for death.
I think it's an interesting topic, and I think you should read up on it. You really find out a lot about yourself. I find it handy for dealing with my child, because it helps me understand how he is perceiving the world around him.
I don't want to sound preachy, but I think if you read up on it more than you could understand where I was coming from without getting insulted. Mainly because I'm not trying to insult anyone.
Lord_Bunny
05-13-2006, 07:32 AM
Well, it's also based on the modern psychologal studies that try to convince people "age matters, age matters, AGE MATTERS!!"... But really, such "scientific findings" have been researched and "proven" as a part of the societal propaganda to basically cover up their own stupidity. It's far easier for society to brainwash its people into thinking things should be one way, than have them have a million different opinions that may oppose to the societal counterpart. Totalitarianistic? Yep, pretty much.
So it's really no surprise that they also link that with physical appearence as well. Less developed seems to automatically mean "child-like". So what if that's "child-like"?? We all have personal preferences, and are fully entitled to. People should be free to be attracted to those whom they are, but bashing those whom they aren't is totally uncalled for. Some people just don't get that, though. Sad, isn't it? Developmental psychology.... age matters and you're making assumptions not stating facts.
Lady of the Freaks
05-13-2006, 07:33 AM
a thread with posts by people who appreciate maturity and a generous body. i'm likin this. ;)
Alternative_Thinker
05-13-2006, 08:01 AM
We could argue about semantics forever, but it doesn't get us anywhere and it's childish. I never said that younger people were stupid, but I don't think they are as 'cognitively mature'. I also think that the largest threat to youths is trying to overshadow others opinions with derisive and dismissive comments. It's what the hard core republicans, right wing evangelists, and muslim extremists do when they don't agree with something like gay marriage or a women's right to choice.
The fact is that when I was 15, I used to think that I was more mature for my age. I thought I was an adult. I think of that now and laugh. I went to college took a crap load of psych. and soc. classes for my major and found out that all pre-adults think that they are more mature for their age. You'll find out one day. You'll look back and laugh. I'm sure I'm going to laugh at myself now in another 15 years.
This is something I think they should teach you in High School. It's called "Development throughout the lifespan" or something like that. When I was in highschool (things may have changed) they only focused on your physical developmental changes. They never focused on the cognitive. As you age, the way you think about things changes. I'm sure not to long ago that you were basically a robot heeding the instructions of your caregivers. Now, you're probably in a stage of life where you think for yourself and actually question things deeply. The older you get, the more complex it gets until you pretty much prepare yourself psychologically for death.
I think it's an interesting topic, and I think you should read up on it. You really find out a lot about yourself. I find it handy for dealing with my child, because it helps me understand how he is perceiving the world around him.
I don't want to sound preachy, but I think if you read up on it more than you could understand where I was coming from without getting insulted. Mainly because I'm not trying to insult anyone.
Sounds like you simply assume ALL teens mature more or less at the same speed. Sure, we can ALL look back when we were were 15 and laugh at ourselves, but we can also look back and smile at our sensible stances. What's with your constantly mentioning the specific age 15 years old, anyway? Oh, and by the way, since you seem to so firmly believe in "developmental psychology", I'll tell you this... When I was your age, I was still struggling with the concept of anti-ageism. Two years later, I've become much more convinced that the whole age issue really isn't what it's all cracked out to be. It's been blown out of proportion to the point where the damage is caused by such ignorant ageism disguised in te form of "modern studies" rather than the opposing attitude. I guess you're still too young to see that. Maybe you never will though, who knows...
But see, in reality, I actually don't really think that about you because of your age, mate. I'm just not an ageist like that. I don't believe that all children are immature, and I don't believe that all adults are mature. We are all people, and we all develop at different speeds. One thing you have failed to see is that fact that young people like BIB are actually coming up with more sensible stances toward life than people like you are. These young people see the world through the eyes uncorrupted by society. I think they are VERY intelligent, and some of them are much more mature and to the point than some adults who try to convince them that "older always means wiser" while speaking some over-specialized gibberish nobody can quite decipher. We, as adults, do NOT always have to be correcting young people's opinions. I've been proven wrong by teens many times, and I find it to be a very refreshing experience. I think it's great that they can educate me that way. It goes both ways. It's not just us aduts who educate them, but sometimes them young ones become our instructors in life as well.
Lord_Bunny
05-13-2006, 08:30 AM
Again... I'll repeat myself... don't get caught up in semantics. I think it's about time you came up with something new instead of attacking single words in my argument. Your problem is that you're making too many assumptions and not reading. You need to understand that this is a simple blog and not college thesis paper. I not going to cover every aspect to appease you. When did I call anyone immature. When did I say that everyone developed at the same pace. When did I correct anyones opinion. I don't even know where you're coming up with this. If you can't add or actually counter something that was actually stated, than you're probably just talking out your ass. Maybe you and BIB are at the same mentality. I feel sorry for you if you are. I chose a specific age to illustrate my point, not as a concrete fact. I seriously doubt that BIB has a condition where she has hyper cognitive development.
I mentioned 'developmental psychology' so that you could see that I'm not making this up or making assumptions like you are. I could actually reference most of what I've said with peer reviewed journals. I doubt you could do that. Which is weird, because I haven't been correcting anyones opinions, I've been defending mine. Hmmm... now I see why lots of young people can correct you. Nothing you say has any substance.
Lord_Bunny
05-13-2006, 08:34 AM
Sorry I have to go to bed. This was actually kind of fun. Aside from your petty insults. I think that's called trolling. I'm new to this, but I think I know that one.
Lord_Bunny
05-13-2006, 08:36 AM
a thread with posts by people who appreciate maturity and a generous body. i'm likin this. ;)
Hell yeah momma!!!!
Alternative_Thinker
05-13-2006, 09:23 AM
Again... I'll repeat myself... don't get caught up in semantics. I think it's about time you came up with something new instead of attacking single words in my argument. Your problem is that you're making too many assumptions and not reading. You need to understand that this is a simple blog and not college thesis paper. I not going to cover every aspect to appease you. When did I call anyone immature. When did I say that everyone developed at the same pace. When did I correct anyones opinion. I don't even know where you're coming up with this. If you can't add or actually counter something that was actually stated, than you're probably just talking out your ass. Maybe you and BIB are at the same mentality. I feel sorry for you if you are. I chose a specific age to illustrate my point, not as a concrete fact. I seriously doubt that BIB has a condition where she has hyper cognitive development.
I mentioned 'developmental psychology' so that you could see that I'm not making this up or making assumptions like you are. I could actually reference most of what I've said with peer reviewed journals. I doubt you could do that. Which is weird, because I haven't been correcting anyones opinions, I've been defending mine. Hmmm... now I see why lots of young people can correct you. Nothing you say has any substance.Uhh.. Forgive me for not being able to reply using intelligent words... I'm just too shocked to be exposed to such high level of ignorance that I'm actually kind of at a loss of words right now. Alright, well, first things first. You spend WAY too much time reading your psychology books. They contain knowledge, yes... ONLY TO A POINT. You can't base everything in life on those books. You seem to have only read those books, and have based your life around trying to follow what's in those books. You haven't LIVED your life BY thinking FOR YOURSELF, using your brain to actually see things the way they really are. Instead, all you seem to be doing is repeat those books. Books don't apply to the individual cases. Why? Because we are all different. You have no right to assume somebody like BIB's maturity to be lower than...yours, perhaps? I'm sorry, but I can tell you right now she's much better in touch with her innerself than you are. You seem to be caught up in trying to look so perfect in society, for society, and by society. Ouch, man.
By the way, you're also not reading what we're trying to say. If you think I'm not reading your posts properly, then it goes both ways. You are SO NOT understanding what I've said on my previous posts. What I'm saying is that you should NOT judge people just because they are young or old, because such mentality has a way of affecting people in some bad ways. It affects young people because it may make them feel so incapable. It affects them because they get the message that, to be mature, they have to physically be well-developed. It affects people, young or old. And this "it" is the mentality directly coming from your trusty textbooks.
Oh, and when did you NOT give others the impression that you were hardcore preaching and trying to "guide" others into the ever-so-great path of "developmental psychology" that you constantly speak of? When did I ever say I was stating YOUR idea of "facts"? I am just speaking as a person, as someone who LIVES his life in accordance to his beliefs rather than some books full of generalized information. I get to know people and reach a conclusion, rather than pre-judge them. Don't tell me you haven't pre-judged anyone here. You have, and it's all typed up and posted on this thread. BIB has seen it, DQ Veg has seen it, Charise has seen it, and I have seen it. You have been totally speaking on behave of your lovely psychology books, while insulting first the petite physique, then kids, categorizing all teens into one, "developmental stage" suggesting and/or seeming like you actually knew the answers to all their problems because you were once that age. Can you honestly say you can generalize like that??
And, uhh.... Did you call me a troll? For all I know, you have shown us more reasons for US to call YOU a troll, though, I'm not going to. I'm certainly not a troll around here. I was only challenging your stance regarding the petite physique that may resemble that of a child. You then went on to suggest teens were not as desirable, perhaps because of your own preference toward older women. You could've simply left out those ageist remarks, and none of this would've been taking place. ESPECIALLY on a thread concerning physical shapes.
How about YOU read MORE CAREFULLY before you attack others? And please apologize to BIB. You're comments about her was rather disturbing. I ask you nicely to give her your humble apology.
isaac
05-14-2006, 08:28 PM
i like a nice rounded ass!
ayahuasca
05-14-2006, 10:02 PM
i personally LOVE curves, and i hate how 'skinny is in'. but hopefully that is changing. i've been trying to manifest curves, maybe it's finally working...
PhantomLord
05-15-2006, 09:15 AM
eh...i like my girls thin...not annorxic, just healthy looking.
Raving Sultan
05-15-2006, 06:44 PM
I like girls with big breasts. Imagine that shit. If she is smart, she will know how to cook. As far as college. I went too. Bullshit posturing and molding for corporate slaves. I wont get too deep because I dont like getting into pissing matches online with guys. I dont get hard that way. Yes, I'm grumpy, I'm horny and hungry. Boobs, food. Making any sense yet?
kissya
05-15-2006, 07:57 PM
You make perfect sense to me......:sunglasse
Lord_Bunny
05-16-2006, 02:02 AM
Sorry, I had a very sick infant to tend to this weekend. It was nothing that a couple hundred dollars in doctor bills and late night car rides couldn't fix up.
Alternative_Thinker.... Look, you're obviously repeating yourself into the ground. Grow up a little bit and actually try to have a mature conversation. This is how I talk to my infant. It's sad that I have to explain this to you too. How about quoting what I said that was so offensive. How about build an intelligent argument that I can read, counter, or agree with. You may not understand this, but course language tends to put people on guard. This is where I'm confused. You said that you're older than I was, but I'm really doubting it right now. It's time to grow up.
You're going to like this. I have a new word for you! "Abstract thinking." I say something to make a point. You then try to understand my meaning. Not everything I say is concrete. I can't help it if you get insulted by something I was trying to share with you. These are my ideas. I tried to explain that to you earlier and you couldn't understand it then either.
Instead of trying to share some ideas with me, you get borderline belligerent. My experience with dealing with people like you tells me that you're probably someone with little or no self confidence. You get on these posts and you let loose, because you and I know that in the real world you're a loser. Don't worry; I won't hold it against you. You're rough tone is why I'm calling you a troll. You need to understand that there is a respectful way to challenge and/or build upon someone’s ideas. Your insults lead me to believe that you're just trying to egg me on. I'm sorry if you're insulted by being called a troll, but I'm calling it like I see it.
So do me a favor, instead of making a general accusation like saying "you're an ageist" or "you called BIB immature". Show me where I've made these horrible claims. When you do, try to be mature about it for once. I would really like to see you as not a troll for once.
P.S. If you want an example of a mature argument. Look at the exchange of words between "Insanejester" and me. We obviously don't agree with one another on something petty, but we're not being childish. I guess in your case, it would be trollish.
Alternative_Thinker
05-16-2006, 06:06 PM
First of all, I sincerely hope your baby will get better soon. Second, I think we should continue our debate via PM's. Let's not clutter up this thread any more. I will be PM'ing you with the reply to your last post.
Thanks.
gurlgimmedat
05-26-2006, 10:58 AM
i like skinny, better posistions, and usually better sex
giota_jak
07-01-2008, 03:39 PM
curvy girls are back! we are about to rule the planet!
eli_white_dragon
07-05-2008, 10:38 AM
You're sweet.
Chriss
07-05-2008, 10:50 PM
This sucks.
Skinny girls rule.
shellebelle
07-05-2008, 11:54 PM
It's too hard to be skinny. When I was in high school, I didn't eat for DAYS and the smallest I could get to was a size 7 to 9 or so. I mean literally, I wouldn't eat anything but diet pop for like 4-5 days in a row. All the time. And I'd make myself puke. It was fucking impossible. I looked like a skeleton, felt like shit, and still couldn't wear the tiny clothes my friends could.
I gave up in my 20's. I haven't been under a size 16 since I got married. In my 20's, I seriously thought about becoming a crack head to lose weight.
Maybe now I will finally be hot. lol. Doubtful.
Hacker
07-06-2008, 04:41 PM
I like curvy and healthy. Not skinny, not fat. I like real women. Ones who take care of themselves but don't freak out if they are a little overweight.
nicknack
07-07-2008, 05:18 PM
I'm not sure how the female form can be a fasion to people's desires. If you're hot you're hot.
Granted it changes in some media, but guys know a good looking girl when they see one, and for me it is someone who is healthy and fit/ toned whatever their shape... so not rolls of fat in my bed please.
jahmerimaka
07-07-2008, 06:07 PM
i say big firm ass.
end.
toocuriousforowngood
07-10-2008, 04:52 AM
I prefer that the girl looks healthy more than looking fat or skinny... actually I prefer a girl with some body fat
prissbaby
07-14-2008, 05:13 PM
skinny/thick, who cares as long as you take care of yourself and look good :confused:
sophieclair
07-14-2008, 05:37 PM
YAY finally girls can be seen eating and not puking after
High five!! I love this statement.
guiltyconscience
07-19-2008, 03:39 AM
I hope that the trends in the media change. Girls have so much to live up to, and they strive for some standard of perfection that doesn't even exist. It breaks my heart hearing my students talk about how they "need to lose 10 pounds" when they look perfectly normal and beautiful.
And then on the other extreme, you have young people who are extremely unhealthy and very over weight.
Padme
07-19-2008, 04:40 AM
I am naturally skinny, but because of the media and its influence, and I sometimes still think I am not thin enough. I try not to weigh myself because your weight still doesn't take into account your health issues. My mom was very skinny also when she was my age, but that was because she grew up poor. I envy curvy girls who don't stumble to the pressure of wanting to be thinner. I try not to obsess about my weight too much, I don't even go to the gym because that's society's way of encouraging eating disorders. One time I went off my medication for my High-Functioning Autism and had an Obessive-Compulsive relapse which resulted in me going went down to about 108 pounds while I was 5'8 or 5'9 and I didn't feel very good about myself.
Sorry for going on a rant...
Big girls you are beautiful!
Born25YearsTooLate
07-19-2008, 05:05 AM
you know...people say that guys don't make passes at girls that wear glasses.
Huh. I make passes at girls with glasses, but I rarely make passes at girls without asses. I love the solid, curvy, sturdy woman that can stand up to the rigors of being involved with a man of my size, that I don't have to treat like a little china doll. I'm 6'4 and 275 pounds, and by gods, I like to break furniture. Washing the tiny pixie girls out of my shirt....that takes way more detergent than it should....:rolleyes:
jamaican_youth
07-20-2008, 07:18 PM
Man I hope so, I love fat asses, I seriously don't mind chubby chicks at all, they really turn me on. Not into skinny chicks.
eli_white_dragon
09-01-2008, 03:09 PM
I suffer from Bulimia, hurt me.
lildreadymama
09-01-2008, 04:52 PM
ive always been the girl to stand up to bullies for the hurtful things theyve said to me or other people for being overweight. For so long there has been a battle between skinny and phat, and it looks like it may be coming to an end.lets just agree to disagree.everyones preferences are different, so find someone who loves your body just the way it is.bcuz if they dont someone else will :D
ok for all u guys talkin about big rumps, HELL YEA! i used to feel so shitty about my body cuz i was chubby as a kid and ppl would make fun of me. now, im the hottest shit to hit my town cuz im curvy and voluptuous and confident and guys seem to just love it! my boyfriend loves my body and now so do i! i have great tits and a nice big ass! love it!
as for all of u talking about pedophilia, i thought I was ready to be sexually active when i was young. like 14. yea. NOT SO MUCH. if ur that young and you think YOUR ready for that shit your FUCKING NAIVE. im gonna be honest, that shit really fucked me over. i ended up in abusive relationships with older guys and it really fucked me up. its very difficult for me to trust men now, and i went thru a whole lot of bullshit with my self esteem. so no, i dont think ANYONE is really ready to start being sexually active until they're AT LEAST 17. i wish i had waited.
eli_white_dragon
09-01-2008, 06:05 PM
How do you put the personal image???
Fastswitch
09-04-2008, 08:51 PM
Why can't peeps be who and what they are. Some of us are J. Sprat, some are his wife....There is enough room on the globe fo every suze and shape. For xampl: I love gals with super small breasts, just the nipple surrounded by a li'l flesh, small tight ass, and looks don't enter into my thoughts. As Europeans are fattening the wimmen up, I'll stay here. Fat is the story of Europe sine the Romans left. The English wimmen are more to my liking. Gimme a Japanese gal any day. See? Variety rules!
Enraged Angel
09-04-2008, 09:07 PM
Yea, it's like that in American, I mean seriously, if it wasn't there's be a lot of single chicks. America is fat... I think curvey is so much sexier.... Beyonce Knowles-Carter, Tyra Banks are very sexy. I personally think Tyra looks SO much better then what she did when she for started her modeling career.
LastC5
10-13-2008, 03:49 PM
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MaryJane69
10-16-2008, 12:12 AM
everyones beautiful in their own way, i dont think its fair to say "skinny is in" or "fat is in"
everyone is built their own special way and thats hot.
TurdFergie
10-16-2008, 01:27 AM
I think that most men will still do anything with a pulse, be it fat or skinny.
Changes
10-16-2008, 01:31 AM
http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/rolleyes.gif people like who they like, be they tall, short, skinny, wide, blonde, redheaded or ravenhaired, blue eyes or brown, dark skinned, tanned or pale beyond measure. There's always someone out there who will find you attractive, and a lot more goes into it than your physical body.
I like purple hair. You forgot that one :)
Ammatai
10-27-2008, 07:43 AM
I think the trend is in part people pandering to political correctness. Obesity isn't attractive. Neither however is anorexia or bony noncurveyness. Curves win the day. Fat rolls however do not unless we enter an ice age or famine where they will be valuable.
Too much or too little fat causes health problems for the woman and if relevant, chances for a healthy birth. Sexy is largely defined by what works in nature for reproduction.
The whole anorexic model thing I think came from the more twisted sect of humanity that was trying to downplay the significance of fertility in women. Don't fight Nature. Embrace Her.
Ammatai
10-27-2008, 08:08 AM
That about sums it up, yea.
Historically girls/women entered into marital/sexual relationships earlier than they do now. We live longer so the urgency isn't there and it also requires more (and less) to be "considered" a fully functional adult now societally.
Societal definitions are really annoying hindrances sometimes though overall they originally probably started from a good intentions.
I can see why under 18 or whatever age is taboo now. People maybe should have a chance to figure things out better before entering into an "adult relationship." However theory and practice may not be the same thing. Teen pregnancies, sex parties, STDs, sex not being bonded to love.. These aren't good things and they intermingle with teen life. Societal shaping often fails.
What's good for the individuals involved should matter most. Society should be able to get out of the way if the individuals are happy.
I think I kinda get where you're going with that...Here's how I see it...
It's America that's warped, not the teens. Advertising portrays teenage girls sexually..Society views these same girls generally as underage.
We make it taboo, but use it for advertising. The teens are fine, it's the adults that are fucked up, because our system is so ass backward.
Here, here's a nice big, juicy smelling bowl of shiny candy. Mmmm, doesn't it loook scrumptious?... Don't you dare have any.
Ammatai
10-27-2008, 08:14 AM
http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/rolleyes.gif people like who they like, be they tall, short, skinny, wide, blonde, redheaded or ravenhaired, blue eyes or brown, dark skinned, tanned or pale beyond measure. There's always someone out there who will find you attractive, and a lot more goes into it than your physical body.
Right. I see people going to tanning booths to get a "healthy bronze" and they are look less appealing to me than when they went in. Never mind the tanning will make their skin look leathery, dry, old and cancerous if they keep up the heavy tanning.
I'm pretty tanned complected but I don't do anything for it and some say they are jealous of this. However I find cream colored skin the most enticing by my own preference.
I think we need more natural variance in eye and haircolor. Variance is cool.
ZeroxBleach
10-27-2008, 09:41 AM
I think in America, or at the least Louisville,KY area, it's the opposite.
wrathofjade
10-27-2008, 02:25 PM
I think in America, or at the least Louisville,KY area, it's the opposite.
I'm in the Louisville, Ky area and I can't agree.
ZeroxBleach
10-28-2008, 12:36 AM
I'm in the Louisville, Ky area and I can't agree.
I don't know, it was merely my observation.
Atomic Spook
10-31-2008, 01:28 AM
Honestly I can't stand anything that looks too polished, I don't care for plastic lol. But even if you have a type there's always the exception - I prefer curvier chicks like myself but I'm dating a very lanky beauty... but that belongs in another thread oops..
I am glad though that the US is waking up to alternative looks - I think women should live out loud regardless of looks!!
ZeroxBleach
10-31-2008, 06:09 AM
I refuse to date anything that has tons of hairspray, inches of makeup, and perfume... I feel like all of those things take a lot away from the natural beauty of a woman.
A little makeup I can tolerate, and sometimes I admit it does look good, but when it's just caked on their face it almost borderlines disgusted.
ChrisGriffin
10-31-2008, 06:24 AM
I completely understand you. A woman doesn't have to look like a circus clown to look or feel beautiful. A little lipstick and eyeliner is okay, but all of that other crap is just too much.
In regards to the actual title, I don't think too many people ever liked really skinny, ethiopan looking girls. Personally, I've always loved my girls to be in the middle, not too big, not too skinny.
acornman
11-10-2008, 04:12 AM
big asses are the only way for me....i just dont get turned on by skinny girls...but when i see a women packing a huge ass i get tingles in my groin!!!
OldTroll
11-10-2008, 05:15 AM
Michelle Obama primes my pump!
Have fun, play safely, and eat your honey!
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marcopolousa
11-10-2008, 11:40 AM
I'm not sure fat asses took the power.
And there are plenty of very nice Asian and Indians girls, very fit, beautiful, and with very nice (and not overwheighted) asses... That's the next challenge for fat ass girls!! Another globalisation issue I guess....
ChrisGriffin
11-10-2008, 11:52 AM
Michelle Obama primes my pump!
Have fun, play safely, and eat your honey!
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Sheryl
Soft and tender, tough and hard ....
Never touched a razor ....
I shall love her always!
I have never noticed if she had a big one...some pics being posted are in order for sure. :toetap05:
masterintx99
11-10-2008, 05:26 PM
Send the skinny ones my way!
I dont like much meat on my girls. Some muscle, yeah, but not fat.
verseau_miracle
11-10-2008, 05:36 PM
Why dont we all just be attracted to what were attracted to, be the weight and size we naturally are and shut the hell up about it?
I dont get all this "trend" bullshit. If youre healthy thats what matters
OldTroll
11-10-2008, 05:38 PM
If youre healthy thats what mattersIf you're happy that's what matters!
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XBlackxMythX
11-10-2008, 10:05 PM
Um. I'm skinny but I have curves. So I win right? :D
KatelynPaige
11-11-2008, 01:45 PM
My butt isn't very big. Lol.
ChrisGriffin
11-12-2008, 11:46 PM
http://images.google.com/url?q=http://i95.photobucket.com/albums/l149/sexdoctor205/big_fat_booty.jpg&usg=AFQjCNFJDbXvmHaGtBzYz9FRvfa65gVU9w
http://www.proof7.com/p7nyc/images/ass_like_that-thumb.jpg
Canna Rev
11-13-2008, 12:17 AM
it is sad to see what the media has created.
just be what you be and be happy
I personally like women of all shapes and sizes for in each and every one there is a unique experience.
OldTroll
11-13-2008, 12:33 AM
http://images.google.com/url?q=http://i95.photobucket.com/albums/l149/sexdoctor205/big_fat_booty.jpg&usg=AFQjCNFJDbXvmHaGtBzYz9FRvfa65gVU9w
http://www.proof7.com/p7nyc/images/ass_like_that-thumb.jpg . . . Which one of these pics is you ChrisGriffin?
Have fun, play safely, and don’t play with fire!
acornman
11-13-2008, 03:31 AM
http://images.google.com/url?q=http://i95.photobucket.com/albums/l149/sexdoctor205/big_fat_booty.jpg&usg=AFQjCNFJDbXvmHaGtBzYz9FRvfa65gVU9w
http://www.proof7.com/p7nyc/images/ass_like_that-thumb.jpg
Looks like Alecia Keyes!!!
ChrisGriffin
11-13-2008, 06:35 AM
I know..speaking of...
http://thesuperficial.com/2007/01/22/jessica-biel-bikini-butt-01-thumb.jpg
http://www.sideboob.org/pictures/jessica_biel_06.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v515/bloodylamer/bastardly-photos/0505/album66/jessica-biel-03100701.jpg
Atomic Spook
11-13-2008, 09:41 AM
Why dont we all just be attracted to what were attracted to, be the weight and size we naturally are and shut the hell up about it?
I dont get all this "trend" bullshit. If youre healthy thats what matters
Amen to that! You feel what you feel and you are what you eat! :piggy:
ChrisGriffin
11-13-2008, 09:44 AM
So, if I eat a chip, then I'm a chip? Of course! Now it all makes sense to me! :D
GloomyGus89
11-13-2008, 03:11 PM
Well this poor skinny chic is off to cry in the corner *sniff sniff*
Don't cry! I adore you :D
lildreadymama
11-13-2008, 11:12 PM
its about time the rest of the world has caught up with the growing epidemic of phat booties....finally guys are realizing that they can like bigger chicks without being criticized for it.plus they are maybe realizing that they cant break us as easy in the bedroom ;)
prycilla
11-14-2008, 10:10 AM
Trend doesn't matter if you feel good in your body.
You can be skinny and look stunning, and you can be overwheight and look stunning. The confidence makes the difference.
OldTroll
11-14-2008, 03:13 PM
its about time the rest of the world has caught up with the growing epidemic of phat booties....finally guys are realizing that they can like bigger chicks without being criticized for it.plus they are maybe realizing that they cant break us as easy in the bedroom ;)If you're dating guys that give a shit about what others think about his taste in companions, then I suggest that you widen the field a little. Not all of us are jerks!
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zombie.
11-14-2008, 09:11 PM
yea, Ive started getting a small attraction to my friends pyshical therapist. something about a big ass is starting to give me an erection. *whisper* glad I'm not the only one lmao.
ChrisGriffin
11-15-2008, 05:09 AM
http://img152.imageshack.us/img152/1210/0216niecybooty28bc808c2xg3.jpg
http://www.yorapper.com/Photos/big-ass2.jpg
http://www.latinaassreview.com/images/assreview2.jpg
medicalbud
11-16-2008, 02:12 AM
Dont worry yellowbellyhippy hot is hot.
There's a bit of a change in trends over here in Europe.
The mind turns me on too.
well thats Europe :)
GloomyGus89
11-16-2008, 02:32 AM
Dont worry yellowbellyhippy hot is hot.
There's a bit of a change in trends over here in Europe.
The mind turns me on too.
well thats Europe :)
Yes, I herebye crown yellowbellyhippie the hottest girl on these forums. She's a little lady and I freaking love it.
And for my two cents, some chunk is definitely okay but weather thick is better than thin depends on the particular girl, though I never get into fat girls.
skinny_lynn
11-17-2008, 03:16 AM
I think that it doesn't matter if your skinny or fat as long as you are confident about what you have why not share it. But I think you have a point there johnschlong hip hop videos have always girls with fat asses and i find it hot.lol
ChrisGriffin
11-17-2008, 07:15 AM
I agree, just be happy with you, you're born the way you are for a reason.
windcriesmary
11-17-2008, 07:18 AM
now all the naturally skinny girls are going to be looked at as lanky and unattractive? beauty doesnt have a shape, and its no better that the social preference is changing. it still has rules that people will feel the need to fit.
ChrisGriffin
11-17-2008, 07:26 AM
I'd never look at skinny girls as unattractive..unless they're the kind that starves themself to be that weight and aren't naturally that weight.
Btw, you're beautiful.
acornman
11-19-2008, 02:08 PM
http://img152.imageshack.us/img152/1210/0216niecybooty28bc808c2xg3.jpg
http://www.yorapper.com/Photos/big-ass2.jpg
http://www.latinaassreview.com/images/assreview2.jpg
oh yeah!!!!
the second girl is HOTTTTT!!
ChrisGriffin
11-19-2008, 05:35 PM
Indeed she is.
OldTroll
11-22-2008, 08:47 PM
In my many years on the net I've never used the Ignore feature before, but I'm liking it now! This is what I get:
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GloomyGus89
11-22-2008, 11:48 PM
There's a bit of a change in trends over here in Europe. I wonder if that's the case in the U.S. too.
Whenever a girl here asks (as they used to ask all the time) "does my ass look fat in these pants/skirt/dress?", all of us now go "no, it doesn't look fat enough - work on it". Lol.
I have the impression that the era of skinny girls who refuse to show any sign of voluptuousness is definitely over. Anorectic supermodels are no longer setting the norm. No, instead the girls with phat booties are taking over; the era of fat asses is here, and its here to stay, I feel. Some cellullitis is very welcome, as long there are bubbles.
Maybe this is because big asses are a hot category on the internet and we see them all the time in hot (black) music videos, while skinny traditional chicks don't make us horny any longer. I don't know.
But I definitely have the impression that fat asses and onion booties have now become the mainstream hip, the new ideal.
What do you think of this trend? What do you think of it as a girl?
Is it a little too late to be pointing out that this is an annoying thread?
I mean, for one thing, I would never tell a girl she had a fat ass. And if I did, in the inevitable bitching that would occur, could I defend myself by saying I meant to spell it with a P H ?
Also, I'm totally sick of hearing the phrase "onion booty". I've heard it maybe three times, and that was four times too many IMO.
"Skinny girls that refuse to show any sign of voluptuousness"? I would be scared of an anorexic girl who could show signs of voluptuousness because it would mean she had the ability to transform and by that logic was likely a man.
And about the reason why bigger girls are "in", according to a very insightful article in playboy magazine, bigger models were popular in years with a shittier economy. To make a long story short, economies all over are falling apart to some degree and something subconscious is clicking in people's heads that a well fed and thoroughly nourished mate is an asset. I love all kinds of builds north of anorexic and south of chubby, and I do anticipate biggER girls getting popular but I hope it doesn't get too out of hand or totally replace the mainstream.
wrathofjade
11-23-2008, 12:25 AM
south of chubby? Damn...
Funkateer
11-23-2008, 12:27 AM
gotta have the curves and look like a woman to fucks wit me
not be a twig
Sibbs
11-23-2008, 12:34 AM
Awwee I'm skinnyy D: But I guess I'm told I kind of have Curves?
http://a892.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/57/l_cc07317ad55514763f55a8cdf87feabb.jpg
OldTroll
11-23-2008, 12:53 AM
nice skinny .... nice curves!
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Sibbs
11-23-2008, 12:57 AM
Lol thanks.. but yeah I think it's great that guys and girls are becoming more accepting about all body types.
I see this thread was started 2 years ago, haha but I still think the media industry puts pressure on girls, and even some men.
OldTroll
11-23-2008, 01:03 AM
We all need to learn to accept ourselves for what we are.
For a lot of years I felt badly because I never had a sign of a muscle …. and guys are supposed to have muscles. I finally learned that what I am supposed to be is me.
Sibbs
11-23-2008, 01:26 AM
Yeah thats one of the reasons I think it puts pressure on guys... but I'm glad your happy with your body :D
Musceles are whatever haha
Yeah honestly people can be mean and kids used to make fun of me cause I had a big ass when I was younger.. NOW those same guys "like" my ass. Hmm..
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