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rg paddler
04-25-2006, 06:42 AM
I really fancied this girl once - we'd dig into each other till we were almost crying with laughter.Ocasionally it would get nasty but as we took each other with a pinch of salt it was soon forgotten.

But - I ended up living with a different girl who was really too nice and she couldn't handle my sense of humour and took everything to heart.It didn't last.

Love - hate relationships - can they work?

Boogabaah
04-25-2006, 06:43 AM
sorry mate.. ya lost me there.. i'm totally confused myself.. it's a rollercoaster

alex714
04-25-2006, 06:44 AM
Im a sucker for passion, so I say yes


I love love/hate
as much as I hate it.

indescribability
04-25-2006, 06:44 AM
Love - hate relationships - can they work?

I'm kinda banking on it.

lynsey
04-25-2006, 07:29 AM
most of my relationships have been love/hate and no for sure they can't work unless you want to die of a heart atack at 40 and have low self-esteem all the time and feel horrible for saying things out of anger. The sadest thing is when you're in a loving relationship and it turns love/hate I was in the sweetest relationship for years and then I changed or he changed who knows. When things turn sour with everyone I have been with it's pretty painful. Sorry to be a downer d:

rg paddler
04-25-2006, 09:06 AM
I'm kinda banking on it.

wehey - born to lose,live to win

most of my relationships have been love/hate and no for sure they can't work unless you want to die of a heart atack at 40 and have low self-esteem all the time and feel horrible for saying things out of anger. The sadest thing is when you're in a loving relationship and it turns love/hate I was in the sweetest relationship for years and then I changed or he changed who knows. When things turn sour with everyone I have been with it's pretty painful. Sorry to be a downer d:

not at all - you speak with passion - its just I always admired my mom & dad - they've always argued to the point where they just end up laughing - I've never worked it out other than to conclude that they love each other alot.They've retired now - I don't think I'll find myself in a relationship that good - my dad had had two kids by the time he was my age.oh well - never too late

sorry mate.. ya lost me there.. i'm totally confused myself.. it's a rollercoaster

not at all - I frequently lose people in what I say - too much beer and abstract art - kinda fries your brain after a number of years.Every blue moon I meet someone who reads me like a book and vice versa.See you on space mountain

SapphireSerenity
04-25-2006, 09:22 AM
Oh yeah. Totally doable. =)

I think that's the best kind of relationships.

warmhandedcanadian
04-26-2006, 09:15 PM
I'd say not, cause the dysfunction only grows unless you change the initial bad behavior through shock treatments. I dont think councelling has any long term benefits.