Virgo married to Libra..Be honest!!!!!

[dharmaseeker77]

I am a Virgo married to a Libra and I am noticing he is really pissing me off and we are just so different. So, honestly. How does this match up astrologicaly?

[ornery hipster]

www.astrology.yahoo.com/ (http://www.astrology.yahoo.com/) says this below. They never say anything negative so take what you can from it. I find that Virgo people are really hard to get along with though. I'm a Cancer and I'm supposed to be compitable with them but it just doesn't happen. They're very stubborn people...so if you're stubborn and bumping heads because of that, try not to be! It might help a LOT. I don't know anything about Libras though so I can't tell you about them, it just seems I've been bombarded with Virgos in my life so that's why I spilled that tid-bit.





When Virgo and Libra join together in a love match, it can be like puting two puzzle pieces together. Each locks into the other and sits comfortably in place. Both Signs seek security in partnership, and they share a love of beauty and culture. They can work together efficiently and smoothly because they desire similar rewards. The Virgo-Libra relationship may trickle along in the beginning, but it will rev up once both partners grow to respect one another.



Virgo and Libra both appreciate superficial pleasures, and they often enjoy collecting bone china, art or photographs. They also enjoy the theater and all forms of art. Practicality and pleasure are important to both Signs, and they compliment one another in many ways. Virgo appreciates Libra's charm and diplomacy, and Libra can even things out when Virgo doesn't get their way. Libra appreciates the Virgo love of order and the tangible rewards that come with it. Additionally, Libra and Virgo are willing and able to see the different sides of an argument, and together they make decisions only after examining the facts.



The Planet Mercury rules Virgo and Libra is ruled by the Planet Venus. Virgo is an excellent communicator, analyst and thinker. These partners share a love of good, honest conversation and exquisite taste. Libra, especially, is about balance, and both partners share pleasing personalities and a strong desire for balance. Together, they bring culture and beauty to the world around them. Also due to Venus's influence, Libra can be lazy, and both partners may be seen as snobs: Virgo with their high expectations and Libra guilty of an intellectual superiority complex.



Virgo is an Earth Sign and Libra is an Air Sign. Libra goes about theorizing on many different subjects, while Virgo is more pragmatic. Virgo asks, ""how will this help me achieve my goals in life?"" while Libra simply focuses on whatever occurs to them, regardless of how useful it is. Sometimes each partner may find it difficult to understand where the other is coming from. Conflicts can arise in this relationship if Virgo seems too particular or Libra seems manipulative. Both partners need to realize that they view the world through different filters.



Virgo is a Mutable Sign and Libra is a Cardinal Sign. In this relationship, Libra will steer their direction. Virgo is complacent and easy-going, and Libra can be a gentle, guiding force without crossing the line into domination. Libra's indecision may irritate Virgo, but Libra is skilled at seeing all sides of a problem, and is often able to sympathize with Virgo's decisions. If Libra can be the initiator in the relationship, Virgo is adaptable enough to keep their projects going.



What's the best aspect of the Virgo-Libra relationship? It's their shared love of structure and art. Aesthetics are important to both partners, and they share a love of the finer things in life. Their similar tastes and loves make theirs a relationship of great balance.

[Spelunker]

I never really connected with my long-term libra gf... & I'm a virgo

[Orsino2]

I've never connected with libras a whole lot.... I'm a capricorn...

[mimosa]

I am a Virgo and the 2 Libras I have known best were my dad and a close coworker. Both of them have had a tendency to piss me off too. They say Virgos are picky/finicky/whatever, but those 2 Libras made me crazy with their finicky tendencies. Don't know if that's the kind of friction you're experiencing, but also "my" 2 Libras thought they were always right about everything and if you disagreed you were wrong. Just my .02.

[Hari]

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There are six signs that are immediate to you and it's either the six negative and the six positive. If You are in the negative six, by anture you will have differences with the six postive.

Libra is positive Virgo is negative.

Positive signs are more controling, and negative signs are more agreeing.They dont really get along unless the rising or moon is of the right polarity

This is the simplest formula and the easiest to remember, and experience can only corroborate that> It can help you keep from making a mistake.

The signs coresponding to the elements are:
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6 Yan- POSITIVE

Libra, Gemini and Aquarious
(Wind)

Leo,Aries and Sagitarious
(Fire)

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6Yin NEGATIVE

Scorpio, Cancer, Pisces
(Water)

Capricorn,Taurus and Virgo
(Earth)

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The rest is very easy, the symbol(Bull, for instance) and the element
(earth, for instance) gives the image of one with four feet on the ground, well planted. A good description of what Taurus is.
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Who you relate better with, look who is standing next to you in the element chart. Fire can get along with water and with air, and also with other fires.
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Consider also what element is your ascendant moon and planets.
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Yin may not understand well Yan and viceversa,
but could probably learn more by that struggle.
.What you need to transcend.

But if you want a realtionship
without any struggle, stay within your own polarity
Positive or negative.

[MirakulouslyDead]

Libras and Virgos usually are usually pretty much of a show from what I've seen. The first thing that strikes me is your Sun signs lie next to each other, although I don't know which houses they accompany. This is usually the first sign of discontent between the two. You say he's pissing you off. This, to me, is only expected. And I would very much think you are pissing him off as well.

It depends on much more than Sun signs. Astrology requires much study.

[MirakulouslyDead]

www.astrology.yahoo.com/ (http://www.astrology.yahoo.com/) says this below. They never say anything negative so take what you can from it. I find that Virgo people are really hard to get along with though. I'm a Cancer and I'm supposed to be compitable with them but it just doesn't happen. They're very stubborn people...so if you're stubborn and bumping heads because of that, try not to be! It might help a LOT. I don't know anything about Libras though so I can't tell you about them, it just seems I've been bombarded with Virgos in my life so that's why I spilled that tid-bit.
no offense intended. but you just cheat yourself and the forces when you use yahoo astrology. the internet does have some of the top astrologers nowdays but most are just bullshit. there are some good books you can get for astrology. learn to be able to read the cosmos yourself.

[Hari]

If you can memorise that, it'll do you better than reading one hundred books about compatabilty.
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Libra,
Gemini
Aquarious
(Wind)
Leo,
Aries
Sagitarious
(Fire)

+^-v

Scorpio,
Cancer,
Pisces
(Water)
Capricorn,
Taurus
Virgo
(Earth)

Six on top =positive
Six at bottom=negative

All negatives understand each other and viceversa. All you need to remember is the other 5 of your polarity.

Just like there's only two sexes, there are only two groups. Those groups divide into four elements, and four elements into 12 signs.

[MirakulouslyDead]

If you can memorise that, it'll do you better than reading one hundred books about compatabilty.
-----------------------------------------
Libra,
Gemini
Aquarious
(Wind)
Leo,
Aries
Sagitarious
(Fire)

+^-v

Scorpio,
Cancer,
Pisces
(Water)
Capricorn,
Taurus
Virgo
(Earth)

Six on top =positive
Six at bottom=negative

All negatives understand each other and viceversa. All you need to remember is the other 5 of your polarity.

Just like there's only two sexes, there are only two groups. Those groups divide into four elements, and four elements into 12 signs.



that may provide a good place to start but unfortuneatly only touches on the surface of the study and placement of the cosmos. looking for simple, try the one Hari just mentioned along with remembering to check the Sun sign and Rising Signs.

If lover A's Sun is in lover B's Rising and vice versa it is a sign of happiness and content.

If lover A's Sun is in conjunction with lover B's Rising and vice versa it is a pleasant sign.

plenty more to look at, but these are a few simple steps of understanding the charts

:p

[Hari]

Problem with most people including me, is that
ocupied with our art and life in general, there is no time left to delve deeply into the complex and more detailed aspects of astrology, and most books are written by somewhat experts, and forget that the average person doesnt' know the ABCs, so I find myself doing that for myself (bringing it downto the basics that can be memorized) and saving the more details for when there's more time.

If you are to start somewhere, let it be the Plus and Minus, Negative and Positive. Six ands Six;
and group them as I did to have visual of what goes on Top and what is on the Bottom.

Earth is the Lowest element, and Air the Highest.
Those two elements are as far apart as the sky is from the earth (pun intended)

On top of Earth, Water, and below Air is Fire.
Each element has three signs. If you yourself draw a chart and even put colors, you will remember them where they all are, in your mind's eye, and later you can do the chart by memory.

Think of this as a foundation, not the wholle building. Whatever you learn after in deph of detail can be remebered and understood better if you place it on the chart.( or see where it goes)

Let's say you are Earth but have rising and moon in Air, then that is your link to the air signs.(Top)

If your partner or friend is another element but has your element as moon or rising, then you are not so far apart.

Main point is that this may explain(basically) why you may be having friction with the people in your life, or how to avoid (if you can choose) that in the future without being an expert in astrology.

I hope that clarifies even more.

Peace.

[MirakulouslyDead]

Problem with most people including me, is that
ocupied with our art and life in general, there is no time left to delve deeply into the complex and more detailed aspects of astrology, and most books are written by somewhat experts, and forget that the average person doesnt' know the ABCs, so I find myself doing that for myself (bringing it downto the basics that can be memorized) and saving the more details for when there's more time.

If you are to start somewhere, let it be the Plus and Minus, Negative and Positive. Six ands Six;
and group them as I did to have visual of what goes on Top and what is on the Bottom.

Earth is the Lowest element, and Air the Highest.
Those two elements are as far apart as the sky is from the earth (pun intended)

On top of Earth, Water, and below Air is Fire.
Each element has three signs. If you yourself draw a chart and even put colors, you will remember them where they all are, in your mind's eye, and later you can do the chart by memory.

Think of this as a foundation, not the wholle building. Whatever you learn after in deph of detail can be remebered and understood better if you place it on the chart.( or see where it goes)

Let's say you are Earth but have rising and moon in Air, then that is your link to the air signs.(Top)

If your partner or friend is another element but has your element as moon or rising, then you are not so far apart.

Main point is that this may explain(basically) why you may be having friction with the people in your life, or how to avoid (if you can choose) that in the future without being an expert in astrology.

I hope that clarifies even more.

Peace.
some good advice from mista Hari
:p