is everyone of the younger generation slutty?

[johnschlong]

Or is it just me? Maybe I'm from an older generation, but when I see how easy it is to go to bed with 18-25 y.o. girls today, I tend to think that women are becoming total whores.
Over here, girls were necklaces, earrings and armbands showing "sex codes", so that you can approach them and start your conversation with "hi, so you like anal sex while sucking a cock at the same time. How nice. Can I buy you a drink?" And after about five minutes they're out of stuff to talk about ("yes Brad Pitt is ok") and then you get a free blowjob because they're bored.
Common, what's up with these girls of today? Not that I don't like it, it's just that I (we?) want some romance too. A slut a day is fun, but where are all the mysterious girls? The ones you have to do your best for?

On another note, I just read that of all children that are born in the U.K. each year, 20% are actually illegitimate kids. That is: mother slept with a stranger but told hubby the kid's his. In the age group of 18-25 year olds, this ratio goes up to 35%!! Can you imagine? What a total whore situation.

Okay, let's poll it. Are all 18 to 25 year old girls and boys in America and Europe total whores?

PS: OK I admit, I should have added that the same applies for young men. My apologies to all women who read this and rightly indicated that a sexual act often takes two! So everything that's written above applies to men too!

[dmgreen]

I am not a whore!!!!!!!

I just like to play! hehehehehehee

[johnschlong]

Sure, nothing wrong with a bit of playing. But in my time playing meant: making moves and trying to make eye contact, maybe even getting a date out of it. Now "playing" means being taken to the men's room and getting your cock sucked by a girl you've never met before. It's a difference.

So for instance, dmgreen, after you've designed some nice stuff and you're out of ideas, do you go to a bar and eat out the first girl you meat? If so, you might call it playing, I'd call you a whoreslut!!


Another example, I never talk about my dong. However, schlongs have always been a topic of conversation at social gatherings. Now the difference is that in my days, we just talked and giggled about it, whereas today, they want to feel and touch it. All whores!!! All of them! STOP PLAYING WITH MY PENIS!! ALL OF YOU.

[greengoddess]

wow you have some serious issues... not ALL women are whores buddy...

[icedteapriestess]

a guy with the user name of "johnschlong" is complaining that girls are sluts. hahaha.. talk about being hypocritical?!

[Rigamarole]

Over here, girls were necklaces, earrings and armbands showing "sex codes", so that you can approach them and start your conversation with "hi, so you like anal sex while sucking a cock at the same time. How nice. Can I buy you a drink?"
LOL Where the hell do you live buddy?

[LoriBaby]

i dunno about anyone else but coming from a female this thread imo should be closed


no reason to poll on such an ignorant topic

[ZePpeLinA]

It's true that younger generations of women are more open about sex but that does not mean that we're all whores. Though i've had a couple of one night stands, which many will think of something "slutty" i dont think i qualify as a whore. Mainly because I didnt get paid for it, but did it for my own entertainment/satisfaction, what's wrong with that? so it's only guys that can be sexually open?
As long as a girl knows she's doing it for her own reasons and not because she feels pressured in any way, i think it's cool.

No one has the right to judge others.

[Number6]

Just because a woman is sexually agressive does not make her a whore, I would also point out it is none of your business. If you don't like straight forward women, I suggest you find a different place to meet women then the one you currently go to.

[LoriBaby]

agreed .....seriously this topic should be closed.....


how is it whenever a man gets laid he gets congratulated where as a female can have one sexual encounter and be labled a slut for the rest of her life........its rediculous and seriously ignorant to say its okay cause im a a man(because unless your gay its a woman your having sex with in the first place)

[Anaconda man]

a guy with the user name of "johnschlong" is complaining that girls are sluts. hahaha.. talk about being hypocritical?! Haha, very true. Johnschlong you come out with some crap sometimes mate. You contradict yourself more times then George Bush. Women should be respected not called whores. Let me let you in on a little secret, ALL WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME! If you don't like the ones you're mentioning go to a different club or something and find different women.

[ponydozer]

[QUOTE=johnschlong]Or is it just me? Maybe I'm from an older generation, but when I see how easy it is to go to bed with 18-25 y.o. girls today, I tend to think that women are becoming total whores.
[QUOTE]

Do you have a girlfriend? No? What a surprise.....

[ihmurria]

Just because a woman is sexually agressive does not make her a whore, I would also point out it is none of your business. If you don't like straight forward women, I suggest you find a different place to meet women then the one you currently go to.
thank you for saying so eloquently what I was thinking

[YellowBellyHippy]

Just because a woman is sexually agressive does not make her a whore, I would also point out it is none of your business. If you don't like straight forward women, I suggest you find a different place to meet women then the one you currently go to.
Amen to that!

[johnschlong]

PS: OK I admit, I should have added that the same applies to young men. My apologies to all women who read this and rightly indicated that a sexual act often takes two! For each "slut", there's a "male slut" that goes along with it. So everything that's written above applies to men too!

[YellowBellyHippy]

I also wnt to add that Im an agressive sexual partner and I am not inhibited by how many people I sleep with. If I want to have sex with someone I go for it.... If that makes me a whore in your standards, Im ok with that :) I really hate lables anyway.... I just try and do what feels right.

[FunkyPhreshMama]

forgive me if i'm wrong but I thought to be a whore meant charging dirty weird guys $10 for a blowjob or something..................... I mean damn, If a girl wants to bang someone for fun, why the hell can't she.....

Guys seem to do it all the time and do you think it makes them whores???????

[sugarmaggie]

This is the exact reason there are so many sexually oppressed women out there now...men who make us feel ashamed of our sexuality. If all women were whores then we would probably take over the world. It would be then that we would have all of YOUR money. I've worked in strip clubs the past year..bartending, NOT stripping..so don't go pointing your crooked finger just yet..and I could turn the tables here on ya pretty quickly. Men will just about do anything for sex. Who would be the smart one in that scenario?? The one taking, or giving the money?? I'm not saying ALL men..I wouldn't GENERALIZE like that. :rolleyes:
So I'm sure you think it's ok for a man to have sex with anything that walks, but God forbid a woman have a fling just for fun. :confused:

[johnschlong]

This is the exact reason there are so many sexually oppressed women out there now...men who make us feel ashamed of our sexuality. If all women were whores then we would probably take over the world. It would be then that we would have all of YOUR money. I've worked in strip clubs the past year..bartending, NOT stipping..so don't go pointing your crooked finger just yet..and I could turn the tables here on ya pretty quickly. Men will just about do anything for sex. Who would be the smart one in that scenario?? The one taking, or giving the money?? I'm not saying ALL men..I wouldn't GENERALIZE like that. :rolleyes:
So I'm sure you think it's ok for a man to have sex with anything that walks, but God forbid a woman have a fling just for fun. :confused:
But that is because I respect women! For my part, a man can be as big a whore as he likes, he only debases himself. But women are sacred, their wombs must be defended against foreign intruders, even if they like the feeling of it so much.
Women should not debase themselves. About men: I strictly don't care.

[Alternative_Thinker]

Am I the only one that sees a bit of a contradiction there?

Women are sacred, right? Alright, that's fine... But can't they enjoy having sex with many partners and be responsible about it at the same time? There ARE some truly "slutty" girls out there, yes. But certainly NOT ALL of them.

And how about men?? Why do you not care about men when you are one yourself? If "male-sluts" debases them, then that must also affect the views women have of ALL men at least to a certain degree too, right? AND, as it is, look how many women think men are pigs.

Being sexually liberated doesn't automatically equal to being a "slut". It doesn't matter which sex you are.

[sugarmaggie]

But that is because I respect women! For my part, a man can be as big a whore as he likes, he only debases himself. But women are sacred, their wombs must be defended against foreign intruders, even if they like the feeling of it so much.
Women should not debase themselves. About men: I strictly don't care.

That is nothing more that double standard bullshit, my friend. You obviously don't respect women in the least. "Are all women whores".. proves that.

[andcrs2]

forgive me if i'm wrong but I thought to be a whore meant charging dirty weird guys $10 for a blowjob or something..................... I mean damn, If a girl wants to bang someone for fun, why the hell can't she.....I agree.



Possibly what's missing in the Thread is the fact normally the guy is the out the $$$ for drinks/dinner/drugs/clothes/jewelry (esp diamonds).
One definition of whore/prostitute involves the exchange of payment (tangible property - $$$/goods) in exchange for sex.

Let's all be Honest - who hasn't been on the giving/receiving end?

[AcousticPeace]

watta dumbass.

[happy_kel]

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES

fucking men are making them into whores
I see how much guys fuck with girls now days its like nothings real to a guy everything is sex sex sex and some girls mistake sex for like/ love

guys know this,thats why they 'play the game the way they do'
in my opinion i put the blame on men for this problem

[andcrs2]

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE WHORES

fucking men are making them into whores
I see how much guys fuck with girls now days its like nothings real to a guy everything is sex sex sex and some girls mistake sex for like/ love

guys know this,thats why they 'play the game the way they do'
in my opinion i put the blame on men for this problemCuz arms are being twisted/knee caps being broken? *c*

[ZePpeLinA]

But that is because I respect women! For my part, a man can be as big a whore as he likes, he only debases himself. But women are sacred, their wombs must be defended against foreign intruders, even if they like the feeling of it so much.
Women should not debase themselves. About men: I strictly don't care.
oh man, that's bollocks.

[dmgreen]

So for instance, dmgreen, after you've designed some nice stuff and you're out of ideas, do you go to a bar and eat out the first girl you meat? If so, you might call it playing, I'd call you a whoreslut!!
Hell no I don't do that!!! :mad: And if you want to get rude about it - I have a man and 5 year old at home that I love - does that make me a slut? I think not!!!

You have some MAJOR issues if you think all girls are like that! Maybe you should just go fuck guys, at least then you wouldn't be such an ass! :rolleyes:

[ihmurria]

...their wombs must be defended against foreign intruders, even if they like the feeling of it so much.
...

AHAHAHAAAA!! oh man, no... helll no. Wombs are designed to be defended, they're designed to carry children. Orgasms are there for us to enjoy sex. We are designed to be sexual creatures, and fuck you for being so damn judggemental about what other people do. If you don't want to have anything to do with women who are too sexual for you, just avoid them, don't judge half the worlds population based on the acts of a few

[Anaconda man]

Johnschlong you certainly have a way with women don't you. Let me guess, you're single right?

[BigKing]

Wish i was a whore http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/icons/icon10.gif

[happy_kel]

Wish i was a whore http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/icons/icon10.gifyeah, and thats exactly how most guys think

[ZePpeLinA]

see this is how it works

for women it's a lot easier to get fucked than it is for guys. so if she fucks around a lot she just becomes a nasty whore.

for a guy it's harder and tricker to get laid. so a guy who "plays the game" with skill and fucks a lot of women earns a lot of respectability. and women don't like this because they want to repress men's sexuality. it pisses women off when a man is sexually successful because it intimidates her and she loses a lot of control over the situation (ie can't contorl a man with sexuality).all this supposed reasoning on gender playing does my head in. Don't you think it's time we got rid of such bull? let's face it, not all women are the same, not all men are the same.

[parnell]

see this is how it works

for women it's a lot easier to get fucked than it is for guys. so if she fucks around a lot she just becomes a nasty whore.

for a guy it's harder and tricker to get laid. so a guy who "plays the game" with skill and fucks a lot of women earns a lot of respectability. and women don't like this because they want to repress men's sexuality. it pisses women off when a man is sexually successful because it intimidates her and she loses a lot of control over the situation (ie can't contorl a man with sexuality).
good post - it's all about control and possession - no.1 complainers about women being whores are other women.

I don't fuck around (too much) either... and there is SOMETHING to what the original poster said - course I dont agree with a lot of it but chics who participate in cocksucking parties - nah never never never wanna be wit sumwan like that.

(And for the women I care about , I wouldnt want em to be with any man whores either - we are all a product of our past).

[YellowBellyHippy]

see this is how it works

for women it's a lot easier to get fucked than it is for guys. so if she fucks around a lot she just becomes a nasty whore.

for a guy it's harder and tricker to get laid. so a guy who "plays the game" with skill and fucks a lot of women earns a lot of respectability. and women don't like this because they want to repress men's sexuality. it pisses women off when a man is sexually successful because it intimidates her and she loses a lot of control over the situation (ie can't contorl a man with sexuality).
I think this killed some of my brain cells this post was so stupid.

[ponydozer]

I think this killed some of my brain cells this post was so stupid.
And offensive. Where are the moderators? Aren't they supposed to look over stuff like this?

[YellowBellyHippy]

And offensive. Where are the moderators? Aren't they supposed to look over stuff like this?
THANKYOU THANKYOU THANKYOU! Finally someone with a brain has posted something worthwhile.

[andcrs2]

And offensive. Where are the moderators? Aren't they supposed to look over stuff like this?Don't like it?
Don't read it.

There aren't censors here......yet.
That's the Theory anyway.

[andcrs2]

THANKYOU THANKYOU THANKYOU! Finally someone with a brain has posted something worthwhile.And here's one utilizing a WMO. Weapon of Mass Offense


Reminds me of a Floyd tune...*c*

[ihmurria]

And offensive. Where are the moderators? Aren't they supposed to look over stuff like this?
1) dangermoose isn't on at the moment, probably since he's moving very soon
2) it's called the report bad post button. If you're genuinely offended by something and feel that it has broken any of the rules on the forums, click it, don't just bitch and moan

[YellowBellyHippy]

that sucks, you really didn't have many to spare.
Thankyou :)

[johnschlong]

dude you seem to have a very jaded outlook on women and I tend to think it may come from a bad relationship.
See but that's the problem! We used to say "I'm disappointed in women because I've had some bad experiences". Nowadays we say: "I'm disappointed in women because I've had too many good experiences"!
Common, ten years ago, women were not so sexually aggressive or I would even say addicted to raunchy sex.
Maybe I must face the truth and say that I'm not potent enough to satisfy their lust, which they so ferociously display.

[johnschlong]

You have some MAJOR issues if you think all girls are like that! Maybe I just visit the wrong bars and clubs. But I can assure you, honestly, that 80% of the girls in the bars I visit, give you a blowjob for fun after 5 minutes and half a drink. The other 20% need 10 minutes and two drinks. It's not normal.

I have been looking for bars with romantic girls and women, but they're hard to find nowadays.


Maybe you should just go fuck guys, at least then you wouldn't be such an ass! :rolleyes: Which is exactly what I am considering to do, to get some romance out of sex. Women are too volcanic. Once they erupt, you can't stop them. And nowadays, they're all erupting at the same time. Help!

[Alternative_Thinker]

Maybe I just visit the wrong bars and clubs. But I can assure you, honestly, that 80% of the girls in the bars I visit, give you a blowjob for fun after 5 minutes and half a drink. The other 20% need 10 minutes and two drinks. It's not normal.

I have been looking for bars with romantic girls and women, but they're hard to find nowadays.

Two words, my friend: Go. Figure.

My advice to you? Try meeting women elsewhere.

[Chodpa]

Or is it just me? Maybe I'm from an older generation, but when I see how easy it is to go to bed with 18-25 y.o. girls today, I tend to think that women are becoming total whores.
Over here, girls were necklaces, earrings and armbands showing "sex codes", so that you can approach them and start your conversation with "hi, so you like anal sex while sucking a cock at the same time. How nice. Can I buy you a drink?" And after about five minutes they're out of stuff to talk about ("yes Brad Pitt is ok") and then you get a free blowjob because they're bored.
Common, what's up with these girls of today? Not that I don't like it, it's just that I (we?) want some romance too. A slut a day is fun, but where are all the mysterious girls? The ones you have to do your best for?

On another note, I just read that of all children that are born in the U.K. each year, 20% are actually illegitimate kids. That is: mother slept with a stranger but told hubby the kid's his. In the age group of 18-25 year olds, this ratio goes up to 35%!! Can you imagine? What a total whore situation.

Okay, let's poll it. Are all 18 to 25 year old girls and boys in America and Europe total whores?

PS: OK I admit, I should have added that the same applies for young men. My apologies to all women who read this and rightly indicated that a sexual act often takes two! So everything that's written above applies to men too!


I think that the idea of a whore limits the true experience of woman as giving to the utmost. One should praise an easy woman as the most kind of people.

[LoriBaby]

Maybe I just visit the wrong bars and clubs. But I can assure you, honestly, that 80% of the girls in the bars I visit, give you a blowjob for fun after 5 minutes and half a drink. The other 20% need 10 minutes and two drinks. It's not normal.

I have been looking for bars with romantic girls and women, but they're hard to find nowadays.

Which is exactly what I am considering to do, to get some romance out of sex. Women are too volcanic. Once they erupt, you can't stop them. And nowadays, they're all erupting at the same time. Help!


your pathetic man

[~AmyLeeLoo~]

i am not a whore!!!!!!!

[Ganja_Goo_Ninja]

LoL, I think this thread is pretty hilarious.

In all honesty though.. come on, dude. I mean, if the only place you meet ladies is in a bar or a club -- well what the fuck do you expect? Lots of people that go to bars and clubs a lot also participate in casual sex.. hell, you yourself seem to even. Who cares?

That's like asking if all men are sexually inept.

Some women are skanky sluts.. so are some guys. World keeps spinning. You want classy ladies? Go to classier joints.

[dangermoose]

though i wholeheartedly disagree with what johnschlong is saying im going to let this stay open; though with a word of caution

saying you think its slutty for women to have sex after only a small caht in a bar does not break the rules, calling all women whores does. disagreeing with the actions of todays societty, whether its disagreeing with the more liberal segments or more conservatvie segments does not break the rules, though it will certainly irk some especially the type that frequent this board, so be mindful.
since the title was posed as a question, the thead starter isnt fanning the flames by harassing users and is trying to justify his thoughts, i don't think this thread warrants being closed

my own thoughts on the thread:
you're a sad man with a distorted view on the interactions between human beings, peoples right to do as they please, and what goes on beyond your line of sight. you see what you want to see, and if you're tryign to justify why your single, you shoudl take a look into the mirror before casting your eyes down on everyone else. i would also suggest you go about others means of trying to find a date than by visiting a bar, bars don't generally attract the kind of women you describe yourself as looking for, and if there was a woman who fits your requirments, wouldnt you think she would be leery of being picked up in a bar? find a hobby or something you enjoy and look for love there

[Number6]

I have been looking for bars with romantic girls and women, but they're hard to find nowadays.......
No they are not hard to find, you are just looking in the wrong places. If you don't like sexually agressive women, then bars and clubs are not where you should be looking. I suggest attending outings sponsored by your church. If you don't belong to a church, get involved with a book reading club, take a night class in a subject that interests you, join a club for a hobby you enjoy, take a dance class or join a health club. There are tons of ways to meet women.

[Rigamarole]

Maybe I just visit the wrong bars and clubs. But I can assure you, honestly, that 80% of the girls in the bars I visit, give you a blowjob for fun after 5 minutes and half a drink. The other 20% need 10 minutes and two drinks. It's not normal.
Again johnschlong, can you please tell us where you live?

Because I feel like I should go there. And devote myself to straightening these girls out. You've completely inspired me.

[YellowBellyHippy]

Again johnschlong, can you please tell us where you live?

Because I feel like I should go there. And devote myself to straightening these girls out. You've completely inspired me.

*giggle*

[ponydozer]

1) dangermoose isn't on at the moment, probably since he's moving very soon
2) it's called the report bad post button. If you're genuinely offended by something and feel that it has broken any of the rules on the forums, click it, don't just bitch and moan
Why didn't I think of that? Thankyou, I will.

[dangermoose]

im making a new thread for this that acurately reflects the original posters decision to change the tone to reflect that sex is consentual between both parties (sexes) not just one

[Bloody_Kisses]

uh yeah, i think so. everyone in my generation is pretty slutty.

[JerryGarciasGuitar]

Sure, nothing wrong with a bit of playing. But in my time playing meant: making moves and trying to make eye contact, maybe even getting a date out of it. Now "playing" means being taken to the men's room and getting your cock sucked by a girl you've never met before. It's a difference.

So for instance, dmgreen, after you've designed some nice stuff and you're out of ideas, do you go to a bar and eat out the first girl you meat? If so, you might call it playing, I'd call you a whoreslut!!


Another example, I never talk about my dong. However, schlongs have always been a topic of conversation at social gatherings. Now the difference is that in my days, we just talked and giggled about it, whereas today, they want to feel and touch it. All whores!!! All of them! STOP PLAYING WITH MY PENIS!! ALL OF YOU.
How can anyone read this and not realise this is a joke thread? :confused:

Come on people, don't feed the trolls!

[sugarmaggie]

How can anyone read this and not realise this is a joke thread? :confused:

Come on people, don't feed the trolls!

No, I think he's pretty serious...sadly enough.

[andcrs2]

How can anyone read this and not realise this is a joke thread? :confused:

Come on people, don't feed the trolls!Who's joking?

[tuatara]

i can't for the life of me see why a woman would be called a whore or a slut unless it's something that she personally wants to be called ....a guy makes out with as many women as he can and he gets called a he-man but a woman is different???? man ,i thought that people were way more advanced than that .i guess not .....mr.darwin ...back to the drawing board for you

[Green]

see this is how it works

for women it's a lot easier to get fucked than it is for guys. so if she fucks around a lot she just becomes a nasty whore.

for a guy it's harder and tricker to get laid. so a guy who "plays the game" with skill and fucks a lot of women earns a lot of respectability. and women don't like this because they want to repress men's sexuality. it pisses women off when a man is sexually successful because it intimidates her and she loses a lot of control over the situation (ie can't contorl a man with sexuality).
No, hes not respectable. He is just as bad as the female whores. Not all women want to control men with sex, just the manipulative ones in relationships (I can't give you un-biased statistics). I don't see women trying to supress mens sexuality, which makes me think you have no idea what your talking about.

I don't think its actually easier for women to get fucked than men. Women make up 54% of the population, and they are still rising. That means there are more women around than men. Also, if its easier for women to get fucked than men, who are they having sex with? I assume we're not talking about homosexuals here.

[Green]

i can't for the life of me see why a woman would be called a whore or a slut unless it's something that she personally wants to be called ....a guy makes out with as many women as he can and he gets called a he-man but a woman is different???? man ,i thought that people were way more advanced than that .i guess not .....mr.darwin ...back to the drawing board for you
We're the lowest animals. Go read "The Lowest Animal" by Mark Twain.

[lakshen]

Weird thing is I do not agree with that really, maybe that's cause I'm from denmark... And I'm sorry to say this, but "getting some" in denmark is a lot harder than in the us :p

This big "player" from the us came to Denmark once and he got frustrated by how hard it was :D:D

Go us!! :D haha

[johnschlong]

How can anyone read this and not realise this is a joke thread? :confused: Thx for spotting it out, Jerry. You're the first one.
You just won a blowjob by a hipforums girl of your choice! Congrats!

[johnschlong]

Sugarmaggie, I'm sorry you have to hear this (from me too), but you're one of the sexiest women I've ever seen on the internet. Please don't be slutty. Just try.

[sugarmaggie]

Sugarmaggie, I'm sorry you have to hear this (from me too), but you're one of the sexiest women I've ever seen on the internet. Please don't be slutty. Just try.

hmm..was I just called a slut? I've been known to misunderstand..so please explain yourself. I'm FAR from slutty. I'm actually a pretty classy lady. I don't have to explain myself, nor do I have to TRY anything. I am what I am, and I don't believe in labels. Have I ever acted slutty in my life?? Yeah, I'm sure of it. Do I give two shits what anyone thinks about that? No, I sure don't.

[Ganja_Goo_Ninja]

hmm..was I just called a slut? I've been known to misunderstand..so please explain yourself. I'm FAR from slutty. I'm actually a pretty classy lady. I don't have to explain myself, nor do I have to TRY anything. I am what I am, and I don't believe in labels. Have I ever acted slutty in my life?? Yeah, I'm sure of it. Do I give two shits what anyone thinks about that? No, I sure don't.

Amen.

Fuckin-A-right :)

[johnschlong]

hmm..was I just called a slut? I've been known to misunderstand..so please explain yourself. I'm FAR from slutty. I'm actually a pretty classy lady. I don't have to explain myself, nor do I have to TRY anything. I am what I am, and I don't believe in labels. Have I ever acted slutty in my life?? Yeah, I'm sure of it. Do I give two shits what anyone thinks about that? No, I sure don't.
I was just overwhelmed by emotions when I saw your picture. That's all.

[Alternative_Thinker]

Sugarmaggie, I'm sorry you have to hear this (from me too), but you're one of the sexiest women I've ever seen on the internet. Please don't be slutty. Just try.
WTF?? :eek: I'm speechless... I mean, I think the wise thing to do here is just to take that as a joke since there's NO F-in' way SM can ever be a slut. I've become friends with her on here in the past little while, and I can say she has NEVER ONCE come across as a slutty type.

I mean, c'mon... You're not serious, right? RIGHT?? Please say you're just kidding... *hyper-hopes like hell*

[YellowBellyHippy]

I think maybe your just getting old and uncool. :H

From,
Proudwhoreslut~ (Who loves to play with the cock)




Sure, nothing wrong with a bit of playing. But in my time playing meant: making moves and trying to make eye contact, maybe even getting a date out of it. Now "playing" means being taken to the men's room and getting your cock sucked by a girl you've never met before. It's a difference.

So for instance, dmgreen, after you've designed some nice stuff and you're out of ideas, do you go to a bar and eat out the first girl you meat? If so, you might call it playing, I'd call you a whoreslut!!


Another example, I never talk about my dong. However, schlongs have always been a topic of conversation at social gatherings. Now the difference is that in my days, we just talked and giggled about it, whereas today, they want to feel and touch it. All whores!!! All of them! STOP PLAYING WITH MY PENIS!! ALL OF YOU.

[~Bug_Man]

I don't know why God makes things so easy for me! I mean money comes my way easily, women and now this. I am not worthy but my Lord tells me otherwise.

Anyway, I tend to agree with Johnshlong. I hate to label ALL as slutty but the social norm for teens these days is to lean toward the whore lifestyle. I've met good girls to though.

[2cesarewild]

What is slutty anyways? Could never understand, really where the line is drawn. I was under the impression that sex was a lot more free in the 60s and 70s though, so this question is kind of stupid in that sense also. I'm a slut I guess, I like to have sex, with anybody who attracts me.. don't really see anything wrong with it if a girl does the same as long as everyone is practicing safely.


sugarmaggie: if your nick has to do with GD, you should listen to the version of sugar mag on ladies and gentlemen.. the grateful dead, this 4 cd chronicle of the last fillmore east shows in 71. Jerry uses a wah on it, so it's got tons of energy, and the song is done beautifully.

[Hippievixen]

Women are more sexually liberated now than ever. 50 years ago, we had to wear stockings and girdles and powder our noses in hopes of 'catching a man.' Jesus, I'm glad those days are over.

[johnschlong]

Women are more sexually liberated now than ever. 50 years ago, we had to wear stockings and girdles and powder our noses in hopes of 'catching a man.' Jesus, I'm glad those days are over.
And the funny thing is that today you have to do exactly the same again: wear stockings and girdles, powder your nose and be elegant. Else, men consider you to be an ordinary slut, and they will just use you for the regular blowjob.

The 50s were too petty on the decency side, the 2000s are too petty on the slutty side, which is why the best strategy to catch a man nowadays might be to revert back to the 50s.

Anyways, I have noticed many times that the more decent girls are beginning to be more successful than the slutty ones nowadays. Maybe that's a new trend too.

[sugarmaggie]

What is slutty anyways? Could never understand, really where the line is drawn.
sugarmaggie: if your nick has to do with GD, you should listen to the version of sugar mag on ladies and gentlemen.. the grateful dead, this 4 cd chronicle of the last fillmore east shows in 71. Jerry uses a wah on it, so it's got tons of energy, and the song is done beautifully.That's what I want to know as well. We all do slutty things, but I don't think you could just down-the-line call anyone a slut. Slutty can sometimes be a good thing..do you want your girfriend to be a "decent girl" in bed, or do you want her to be your little slut. If it was possible to even define slut, then I can assure you that I would not fall into that category. I like the way Hippievixen put it...sexual liberation. It's called evolving, I suggest you roll with the changes. Women have come a long way in the world since the women's liberal rights movement. I'm no feminist, by any means. I do, however believe in equality. We should be able to get away with the same things as guys...your double standards are just not logical. I can't believe you would suggest that a woman who doesn't wear stockings/girdles and powder their noses are seen as sluts. I don't even own a pair of stockings or a girdle, so hell I guess I am a slut. I do powder my nose though..does that count for anything??
Thanks AT..I appreciate your kinds words...:) *hugs*
Oh and yes, 2cesarewild..Sugarmaggie is in reference to the Grateful Dead song. It's always been one of my favorites. I'll check out that version that you suggested..thanks!!

[Imagine17]

Slutty I suppose is a woman that fucks and sucks anyone possible. But men on the other hand that do the same are praised..go figure. :rolleyes:

[Zoomie]

Yeah they are kinda slutty. Isn't it great?

[Alternative_Thinker]

How can anyone read this and not realise this is a joke thread? :confused:

Come on people, don't feed the trolls!
To this, schlong replies with the following.....

Thx for spotting it out, Jerry. You're the first one.
You just won a blowjob by a hipforums girl of your choice! Congrats!

Does this mean we can now all feel relieved? *hyper-hopin' again*

Oh, and anytime, SM. ;)

[2cesarewild]

lol, decent girls? Fuck "decent girls" who are restrained by conformity. If you want a bitch sure it's fine, but if you want a woman then it ain't going to work.

[heron]

Damn, i havent ever had that happen to me, i cant even get the girl at the gas station to have a milkshake with me.

As to sluts, one is only a slut when they do what they do without self-respect. Liking, enjoying, and seeking sex, is the way everyone one should be, it is the sacred gift, but it is respect for self and others (or lack of) that
makes an act positive or negative.

[sugarmaggie]

lol, decent girls? Fuck "decent girls" who are restrained by conformity. If you want a bitch sure it's fine, but if you want a woman then it ain't going to work.

It's the decent girls that get cheated on..MOST of the time. I won't make a general statement like that completely, but I'd say alot of the time that's true. You're never satisfied with the decent girls in bed, so you go to the more uninhibited ones to satisfy you. Then you go back home to
Ms. Decent who has your dinner waiting on the table when you get home. She may be very happy with those Monday night boring sex encounters, at which she must masturbate just to get off once you're asleep. Why not get a chick who does all that THEN some??? I don't sleep with every guy I'd like to, no..but if I'm WITH someone then the freak is unleashed. I enjoy sex alot, and I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. If that makes me a slut, then I'm one proud little slut.

[Alternative_Thinker]

You know... Heron is right on the money on this, I think. Perceiving sex as an important aspect in life is, and SHOULD BE, an ideal way of thinking in my opinion.

Having said that, I'm really inclined to think schlong was just joking when he made this thread. Otherwise, we'd just get too worked up over the sillyness of it and waste our time and energy arguing about it. We KNOW(I hope...lol) sex is beautiful. That's what matters.

[PatchWorkKid]

I think this thread is garbage, and think your messed up in head. Also u are hypocrate. Your also generalizing. Must men, and women are not sluts. By stating this u are makeing us women feel very insecure, and sef-concouse about our boddies; me included. think twice for you speak, because it may hurt someone; like me who have been raped.:(

[sugarmaggie]

You know... Heron is right on the money on this, I think. Perceiving sex as an important aspect in life is, and SHOULD BE, an ideal way of thinking in my opinion.

Having said that, I'm really inclined to think schlong was just joking when he made this thread. Otherwise, we'd just get too worked up over the sillyness of it and waste our time and energy arguing about it. We KNOW(I hope...lol) sex is beautiful. That's what matters.

Well if indeed it is a joke, I'm still not laughing..so maybe he should find other shit to joke about.

[Alternative_Thinker]

I understand, SM, and I agree with you. I even took it personally when he started mentioning about some of the really cool people here, including you, of course. Trust me, it's been a challenge to keep my words constructive and mature. I mean, I don't like it when people say bad stuff about my friends, ya know...

Anyway, don't worry about it. You, YOURSELF, know fully well you're NOT what he claims you are. That's what matters. In the meantime, would a hug from me make you feel a bit better? :)

[2cesarewild]

It's the decent girls that get cheated on..MOST of the time. I won't make a general statement like that completely, but I'd say alot of the time that's true. You're never satisfied with the decent girls in bed, so you go to the more uninhibited ones to satisfy you. Then you go back home to
Ms. Decent who has your dinner waiting on the table when you get home. She may be very happy with those Monday night boring sex encounters, at which she must masturbate just to get off once you're asleep. Why not get a chick who does all that THEN some??? I don't sleep with every guy I'd like to, no..but if I'm WITH someone then the freak is unleashed. I enjoy sex alot, and I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. If that makes me a slut, then I'm one proud little slut.
Right on.

[sugarmaggie]

I understand, SM, and I agree with you. I even took it personally when he started mentioning about some of the really cool people here, including you, of course. Trust me, it's been a challenge to keep my words constructive and mature. I mean, I don't like it when people say bad stuff about my friends, ya know...

Anyway, don't worry about it. You, YOURSELF, know fully well you're NOT what he claims you are. That's what matters. In the meantime, would a hug from me make you feel a bit better? :)

I'm not worried about it...I'm cool. I just don't like me or my sisters being called whores. Women have a hard enough time in the world as it is. Not saying men don't, but in this particular subject, we really catch hell. It's like damned if you do and damned if you don't. I do get a little angry over this kind of stuff.
Yeah..Sugarmaggs needs a good hug today. ;)

[andcrs2]

nvm - invisible ink in this Thread.

[Alternative_Thinker]

I'm not worried about it...I'm cool. I just don't like me or my sisters being called whores. Women have a hard enough time in the world as it is. Not saying men don't, but in this particular subject, we really catch hell. It's like damned if you do and damned if you don't. I do get a little angry over this kind of stuff.
Yeah..Sugarmaggs needs a good hug today. ;)
I hear ya. Come here, my sweet friend... *big hug*

[sugarmaggie]

mm mmm mmmmmmmm...thank you very much.. ;)

[sugarmaggie]

nvm - invisible ink in this Thread.



What do you mean?

[Alternative_Thinker]

mm mmm mmmmmmmm...thank you very much.. ;)
Anytime, mademoiselle. ;)

[itsme6526]

go sugar...go sugar...go sugar.... ;P



It's the decent girls that get cheated on..MOST of the time. I won't make a general statement like that completely, but I'd say alot of the time that's true. You're never satisfied with the decent girls in bed, so you go to the more uninhibited ones to satisfy you. Then you go back home to
Ms. Decent who has your dinner waiting on the table when you get home. She may be very happy with those Monday night boring sex encounters, at which she must masturbate just to get off once you're asleep. Why not get a chick who does all that THEN some??? I don't sleep with every guy I'd like to, no..but if I'm WITH someone then the freak is unleashed. I enjoy sex alot, and I see absolutely nothing wrong with that. If that makes me a slut, then I'm one proud little slut.

[SquishedLizard]

I fall into this demographic. I do *not* sleep around. I haven't ever had a one night stand. I don't go into the bathroom to suck some guy's cock. It's not that I'm hardcore christian or anything, but that it's not my perogative.


I am sexually agressive, sure, but I don't go around and do that to anybody less than a boyfriend/girlfriend that I deeply care about. Does the fact that I'm sexually agressive and my ex and I slept together 500+ times over the 2.5 years we were together make me a whore, or just a good girlfriend?

Where I live, people at parties talk about sex and sex organs, but nobody wants to touch it, or feel it as you stated. Everybody I hang out with and party with even, falls between the ages of 17 and 25. And none of them are whores, yet you seem to act as though everybody in this age group is.

The whole issue is just a matter of perspective. That's all anything in this world is. It's all about your perspective, and changing your perspective on something can change a lot. (I'm not saying you need to change your perspective; please don't take it that way)

You may think that girls who go around having sex whenever they like are whores, but the next guy may not. For all you know these girls might very well be fed up with being treated like shit by assholes they've fallen for. They might just be tired of having their heartbroken, and decide that it's easier to just screw around with no emotions attached.

I wouldn't so much say that people in my generation are whores, but as far as I can see, all the women I know in my generation have been treated very badly by their significant others.

Maybe it's not that everybody is slutty and just looking for a piece of ass, but rather that our parents (that would be YOUR generation) didn't do a good job giving us proper moral guidence. Or maybe they just did a particularly good of a job when they taught us to think for ourselves as opposed to play into a mundane stereotype.

[PatchWorkKid]

I'm not worried about it...I'm cool. I just don't like me or my sisters being called whores. Women have a hard enough time in the world as it is. Not saying men don't, but in this particular subject, we really catch hell. It's like damned if you do and damned if you don't. I do get a little angry over this kind of stuff.
Yeah..Sugarmaggs needs a good hug today. ;)Thanks for stick'n up for all of us! hugs!;)

[sugarmaggie]

Thanks for stick'n up for all of us! hugs!;)


No problem sweetheart..just speaking my mind. ;)

[PatchWorkKid]

No problem sweetheart..just speaking my mind. ;)I did little stand'n up myself. a few replies back.

[curious25]

I think sex is just freer today than in years past. People don't realize the lovemaking in marriage is the best sex...

[Alternative_Thinker]

Marriage doesn't necessarily make lovemaking better, or there wouldn't be all those married people complaining about their sex life.

[wolfie65]

Wow what a lot of crap in some of those posts.

Ok for what its worth (not a lot) I'll add my views.

I don't view all women (18-25 or older) as whores or slutty.
However, as someone who regularly travels on a bus to work
that's filled with kids going to school (11-16yo) I have to admit
that from a local point of view the girls in the 14-16yo age group
around these parts are getting a bit on the slutty side. It doesn't
surprise me that there's a lot of teenage (underage) mothers in
the UK these days. I'm not just talking about short skirts and
cropped tops etc. thats a personal choice what anyone wants to
wear. What I mean is girls attempting to come on to guys old enough
to be their father (and yes I mean ME too) - thats just NOT on and
as someone who has been flashed on more than one occasion on
public transport by underage girls wearing thongs I think I'm in a
position to say "THAT IS SLUTTY" - not all are like that I know but
it does give a bad opinion (or good if you're that way inclined) to a
guy who is only trying to go to work!!

Ok - for the record I don't agree with guys getting in to bed with as
many girls as they can either. I'm old fashioned in that respect and I
know that I led a sheltered childhood and that has had an affect on
me and the way I live my life.

[morningstarshine]

hmm
i'm 14...i don't flash 41 year olds, and neither do my friends.
and every generation has it's sluts, but in highschool NOW, i think it's different.when you have a boyfriend and you don't do anything besides kissing, you're considered a prude, and in two seconds youre dumped and being talked about.

or on the other hand, if you do enjoy kissing, and you do it a lot with different guys, you're a slut.

it's really just two extremes, there's no safe zone.And it does put more pressure on us then we should have to deal with. But if you don't deal with it, you get sucked into it....i mean, I remember being in 6th grade and hearing about another girl in my grade blowing her boyfriend on the bus because thye wanted to get on oprah...in 6th grade I was into motorcycles and surfing. The last thing I needed was being told I was ugly and prude because I didn't have a boyfriend.

it just REALLY fucks with a girls head.and on top of that (not when you're 14, but 18 and up, i guess) girls are considered sluts and guys are considered pimps or something. it's sort of unfair to women.

What scares me the most is how some of the middle-schoolers aren't virgins. I think that's very wrong; we're all too young, and these things start too early. I don't see how anyone can believe that a 12 year old blowing their boyfriend (for reasons that were somewhat superficial..oprah? come on..) is right. Morality is at stake. Or maybe it's just my morals and how they're different to society's...

I do believe that girls like to indulge low-cut shirts and short skirts a little too much, but that doesn't really make them slutty. i think it's more pride in their bodies. Attention seeking, if you will.

However, you can't generalize that the whole, entire younger generation is slutty. That's a little prejudice.

[morningstarshine]

yeh, but I think it has A LOT to do with what's important to everyone.
and parents.
I put a lot of the blame on parents, even though i know it's us who decides to do what we want.

hm. back to uhhh, 6th grade again. first time I watched porn....I was at a boys house. His dad left playboy, condoms, and pornos out, so naturally we just watched. Then his dad comes home, I say I have to leave, and he tells me to not forget my pants, and laughs.

that's not funny. I was what,...11, 12? I KNOW dad's who are just like " AHAHAHA YOU NAILED 'ER DIDN'T YAH?!". pffft. parents fuck kids up.Parents may influence our actions, but in the end, we're the ones that make them.


I agree with you, though. That's NOT funny when you're so young. People need to start harnessing children's innocence, or pureness, much rather. We only have it for so long.
"It would be nice if sledding were always enough, but it isn't."

Teachers should stop telling us how having one cigarrette is going to make us drop dead and be a bad person, and start teaching us right from wrong again, because as simple as it seems, it really isn't. We're so lost in the media. It's sort of brainwashing us, but we're the ones that are choosing to obey it. It's upsetting, and i wonder what will happen in the future and how young kids will be when they're having sex and blowing for quarters.

[morningstarshine]

hahaahahahaha blowing for quarters:& shit man, how old was I when I started that? 8th grade? that was a messssss.

I agree with the teacher thing though. We learn how sex is bad and you'll burn in hell if you do it. personally, hearing that just makes me wana do it more. Atleast give us info, so we could make SMART decisions.

But with the parent thing....teach your kids to love their body. It's one thing to be in love and have sex, and another to be 12 and do it because everyone said so. I think kissing and touching is not bad at our age...I'm not a slut, and I enjoy it. Granted, I shouldn't have been doing those things with guys while I had a boyfriend, but i've made peace with my moral failings...and that's in the past.haha, yeah. joe was trying to get you to blow him all the fucking time.

Yeah, they should give us REASONS not to have sex, not just "don't do it!!" because that's half the appeal of illegal drugs (although it goes along with feeling so good..). Everyone wants to be a badass.

We should learn to love ourselves, though. There's way too many problems with self esteem these days.

We learn from each mistake we make.

At our age, it seems more like a lust for relationships. It's natural.:sunglasse

[PatchWorkKid]

I think sex is just freer today than in years past. People don't realize the lovemaking in marriage is the best sex...Marriage can do the opposit. It can ruin sex.

[PatchWorkKid]

Yeah this tread is gett'n a little redicules!:rolleyes:

[dannyandkodiak]

they do this because they feel they need acceptance from men... alot of girls think that all men care about is sex and they want to put the good name in. like you said, you probably like it when a girl wants to fuck you, and they think because of that, you like her more and then you will tell all your friends and then your friends will like her to and probably fuck her as well. and then she will feel really good about herself. i'm sure there are still plenty of girls out there who aren't like that, usually the really shy ones like myself....:p

[evil lesbian]

i dunno about anyone else but coming from a female this thread imo should be closed


no reason to poll on such an ignorant topic

i agree this guy has got some issues if he thinks that every girl is on her back waiting the second he wals in the room

[dietcoketree]

Over here, girls were necklaces, earrings and armbands showing "sex codes", so that you can approach them and start your conversation with "hi, so you like anal sex while sucking a cock at the same time.
maybe you wouldnt think all the girls were whores if you didnt live in whoreville...

[johnschlong]

maybe you wouldnt think all the girls were whores if you didnt live in whoreville...
Well, the problem is that Purityville turned into Whoreville in a matter of years. Not my responsability. I'm not going to move simply because the girls here have become sex addicts.

[dietcoketree]

wow that was a cool thing to say, i guess if you cant beat em then join em. become a slut!

[ChinaCatSunflower02]

Well, the problem is that Purityville turned into Whoreville in a matter of years. Not my responsability. I'm not going to move simply because the girls here have become sex addicts.
you're moving just because of that?

[johnschlong]

you're moving just because of that? No, I'm staying just because of that. I like to criticize the sluttification of the nation, but at the same time I enjoy it of course. I'm a bit of a hypocrit, you see? http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/tongue.gif

[Alternative_Thinker]

I tend to blame the whole thing on society's sending young people wrong messages. Media's ignoring accurate information regarding sex and continuously feeding the young people garbage certainly don't help at all, either. And then there's the term "slut". What is a "slut", anyway? If that simply means a sexually open-minded young girl then I would certainly NOT call her a "slut". EVER.

Who said it.... Somebody said something that was right on the money on this. He said that a "slut" is someone who sleeps around without feeling any self-respect, while a sexually liberated woman is totally happy with herself, is quite aware of both pros and cons to sex, takes necessary precautions, and is someone who emphasize of being one with sexuality itself...., or something like that.

[De Sade]

I like girls who give an outward appearance of "nice good girl"...but are totally in touch with their inner SLUT. ;)

[Capn_Danger]

all this supposed reasoning on gender playing does my head in. Don't you think it's time we got rid of such bull? let's face it, not all women are the same, not all men are the same.Yeah, I agree with that. Though it is easier for women to get laid, I'd wager, just because men tend to be more casual about sex (in general).

Personally, I like girls with a very casual attitude towards sex, 'cuz thats the attitude I have. As long as a girl has self-respect and honestly likes herself, I say that doesn't make them a slut or whore. Those terms have very negative connotations, and I don't think being promiscuous or very casual about sex is neccesarily a negative thing. But if it does make you a "slut", then being a slut must be a good thing. Hell, that would make me a slut, too, lol...

One caveat- being casual about sex doesnt mean being casual about commitments or faithfulness in a relationship. Those are two very separate things. As long as a person is upfront and honest about their intentions, there's really nothing to place judgement upon.

[vivid]

Woah. WHat a topic I've stumbled upon!
Okay. My opinion. If a girl's having sex because she likes sex and isn't feeling like she's trying to gain something out of it, whether it be inward or outward, and she has her head on straight, is safe, and is happy with who she is, no that's not a slut or a whore. And, going back a bit, woah, girls wearing armbands with sex codes on their bodies?! Holy cow.

[Mr X]

Well, I don't like to judge people too much so I won't vote in this poll however one of the things that has not been mentioned in this thread (far as I know) is the safety factor. I am concerned that the safe sex message is not getting through to the younger people. Obviously when you are a teenager nothing can hurt you and using condoms is just a hassle but if what johnschlong is saying is true we should be seeing a rise in the number of STD case and abortions. I have not researched this but it would be interesting to look at the figures.
Anyway I am not far off having to teach my oldest child all about sex, this is part of the reason I am hanging around sex forums and in order to teach you have to know all about the subject matter. Most people are not willing to be honest about sex towards their children and hence a child tends to get a skewed view of human sexuality.
Then there are role models such as Brittany Spears, Paris Hilton and a lot of other famous females who dress and act in a provocative manner, are they the cause of all this supposed promiscuity?
No, they may be a small part but it goes a lot deeper than that. It is generally accepted that in times of crisis (such as wartime) people are more promiscuis and that too is part of the "new sexual revolution". Youngsters grow up knowing the world is in bad shape and human physche is to reproduce more, thie is not a concious action but just a trait of nature.
Then there is competition, girls compete amongst themselves to get the best partner they can and there is fear that if a girl does not do everything then she will be left on the shelf or end up with a loser.
Pornography, another reason mostly due to the easy availability. When I was 15 or therabouts I had to go into a shop to buy Playboy (which did not have an age restriction then), nowadays all you have to is have access to the internet. Also the type of porn is harder, it's all arse fucking and then sticking it down the actress's throat. Lot different to playboy. If that is how young men learn about sex who can blame them for getting the idea that is how sex is because there is no decent sex ed in school and parents would rather not talk about the little details. It is a concern that youngsters are not learning the subtle art of seduction and not learning about romance (which they will need later to keep their long term relationship working).
Young ladies are not learning that once you give a bloke what he wants he won't bother talking to you anymore (so girls make sure you get that drink before you blow, otherwise he might cheat you out of free booze). Yes back in the good old days young woman had sexual urges too but they knew that if you give it away for free then men won't respect you. It's like giving a young bloke a car for free, he will more than likely thrash it but if he has to work hard to earn that car he will cherish it and look after it.
Sure it is easy to say if a woman wants a fuck she should be able to scratch her itch just like a bloke and I don't have a problem with that as long as it is safe and fun for all involved. However don't expect to get respect because the kidddie touchers in the pulpit have created a man's world for men.
Alright enough dribble for now, I would just like to finish by saying if we all do a bit of growing up then we could get over stereotyping and name calling and just enjoy life a bit more.
A more mature attitude to sex = a more mature attitude to life

[koopa]

Or is it just me? Maybe I'm from an older generation, but when I see how easy it is to go to bed with 18-25 y.o. girls today, I tend to think that women are becoming total whores.
Over here, girls were necklaces, earrings and armbands showing "sex codes", so that you can approach them and start your conversation with "hi, so you like anal sex while sucking a cock at the same time. How nice. Can I buy you a drink?" And after about five minutes they're out of stuff to talk about ("yes Brad Pitt is ok") and then you get a free blowjob because they're bored.
Common, what's up with these girls of today? Not that I don't like it, it's just that I (we?) want some romance too. A slut a day is fun, but where are all the mysterious girls? The ones you have to do your best for?

On another note, I just read that of all children that are born in the U.K. each year, 20% are actually illegitimate kids. That is: mother slept with a stranger but told hubby the kid's his. In the age group of 18-25 year olds, this ratio goes up to 35%!! Can you imagine? What a total whore situation.

Okay, let's poll it. Are all 18 to 25 year old girls and boys in America and Europe total whores?

PS: OK I admit, I should have added that the same applies for young men. My apologies to all women who read this and rightly indicated that a sexual act often takes two! So everything that's written above applies to men too!


If your fucking them what makes you any less of a slut?

[johnschlong]

If your fucking them what makes you any less of a slut?
True, I'm fucking them out of compassion. I'm a Christian, you see?

[koopa]

True, I'm fucking them out of compassion. I'm a Christian, you see?
untrue, but funny as hell :)

[sugarmaggie]

True, I'm fucking them out of compassion. I'm a Christian, you see?

:D

[SkeeterVT]

Or is it just me? Maybe I'm from an older generation, but when I see how easy it is to go to bed with 18-25 y.o. girls today, I tend to think that women are becoming total whores.
Over here, girls were necklaces, earrings and armbands showing "sex codes", so that you can approach them and start your conversation with "hi, so you like anal sex while sucking a cock at the same time. How nice. Can I buy you a drink?" And after about five minutes they're out of stuff to talk about ("yes Brad Pitt is ok") and then you get a free blowjob because they're bored.
Common, what's up with these girls of today? Not that I don't like it, it's just that I (we?) want some romance too. A slut a day is fun, but where are all the mysterious girls? The ones you have to do your best for?

On another note, I just read that of all children that are born in the U.K. each year, 20% are actually illegitimate kids. That is: mother slept with a stranger but told hubby the kid's his. In the age group of 18-25 year olds, this ratio goes up to 35%!! Can you imagine? What a total whore situation.

Okay, let's poll it. Are all 18 to 25 year old girls and boys in America and Europe total whores?

PS: OK I admit, I should have added that the same applies for young men. My apologies to all women who read this and rightly indicated that a sexual act often takes two! So everything that's written above applies to men too!
Nope. Your generation is following in the path of the Baby Boomers who launched the sexual revolution in the late '60s and early '70s. To call women who are more sexually liberated than their mothers' generation "whores" is a blatantly sexist insult -- to say nothing of hypocritical, since men are far, far more "slutty" than women, hands down.

-- Skeeter

[onelovemission]

Indeed girls and guys should be able to do whatever they want with whoever they want. The problem is, many times nowadays, they are not doing this.

I am not saying all, but certainly a large number of people of both sexes displaying this type of behaviour doing so from a place of low self esteem and self worth issues.

I find they do not know who they really are yet so how could they possible know what they really want? Maybe this is a way for them to find out who they are and what they want. I have worked with many people in similar situations and have found that nearly always are underlying issues to do with self worth / or esteem. Other reasons also stem from childhood issues, the way they have been brought up and also possible sexual abuse in their pasts.

When these issues have been dealt with, people can grow and change and look at things from a different perspective, one where they have love and respect for themselves as much as anyone else.

Blessings

[332209]

i think that polling is good. no need to close

[sexy_muse]

You may think that girls who go around having sex whenever they like are whores, but the next guy may not. For all you know these girls might very well be fed up with being treated like shit by assholes they've fallen for. They might just be tired of having their heartbroken, and decide that it's easier to just screw around with no emotions attached.

I totally agree.
A lot of men out there only want sex, they don't give a rat's arse about romance, and when women realise this it pisses them off. When they see that romance is out of reach they adapt themselves to how men are and make the most of it.

[Style]

we're more liberal, but that doesn't really mean slutty. Maybe it's also because more people like to talk about it openly now than they did before.

[Duck]

I'm 16 (17 real soon) and I'm not slutty, I actually find it quite repulsive

I think women are actually taking over the role of the men, men are becoming more reserved and women are getting sluttier
of course the women are getting sluttier faster than the men are getting reserved

[Soberbeah]

we are all sluts

[PhantomLord]

maybe they're just more open minded and not shy about expressing they're sexual feelings, like we guys aren't? why should it be different for them? maybe the "older generation" is too closed minded and traditionally orientated?

[Bumble]

I just think that nowadays people are more open with their sex lives than they ever were.

[332209]

yes too slutty

[KissThis]

Just because someone loves sex why are they labeled as whores, or sluts? Weather they are male or female, young or old. Enjoying sexual freedome is not a bad thing as long as its not hurting anyone. I look at sexual freedome, as a lifestyle, not a wrong doing.

[wiggy]

I dont think we are - i think we are alot more open about sex and more willing to 'play'

FFS we havent been able to shag who we want for years because it was wrong - now we can and people complain.

Sex is sex - once I saw my older cat shag my younger cat - that screwed with my mind for a while

[rmorgan]

yes

[TheMechanic]

yeah, and thats exactly how most guys think
Dont stoop to his level and generalize all men in one category... ok?

[fexurbis]

I just think that nowadays people are more open with their sex lives than they ever were.That's funny. I think the diametrical opposite. What I see before me is a country with a huge conservative movement in action.

People are having less sex than they were in the 1980s, according to a research from Chicago Univ. I read in the New York Times Almanac of 2000 (I believe), and that is ignoring the 1960s and 70s. It is probably the first time we see people in their 20s and 30s having less sex than older, married couples.

What accounts for the perception of a sexually loose society? The mass media, IMO. Maybe folks are losing the distinction between their vicarious experiences on the screen, and reality.

[fexurbis]

forgive me if i'm wrong but I thought to be a whore meant charging dirty weird guys $10 for a blowjob or something..................... I mean damn, If a girl wants to bang someone for fun, why the hell can't she.....


Guys seem to do it all the time and do you think it makes them whores???????


Well said. However, whores give head not only to dirty-weird-guys. ;)

[DroopySnoopy]

I am not a slut, and I DO believe that we all - men and women - should be free to go out and persue our pleasures as we please. I do not think that is wrong, and I would not respect a person less for living this way.

Let me just say that if I meet a woman strictly for sexual purposes, I will still treat her as a beautiful, sweet, respectable human being. Even if we never meet again, is no reason to consider her as a cheap sex toy, or a piece of meat.

[plume7reaction]

thanks for the p.s.-but still, i'm getting sick of people calling women "whores" and "sluts" when men do the same and get no criticism at all. it can be annoying when people are like that-but i wouldn't pin it on an entire generation

[plume7reaction]

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[2cesarewild]

ssslllllut. isn't the word so cool-sounding? I am a ssssllut and I always love to find sssllluts to ssslut it up with. sssssllllllluts rule. I voted on th is a long time ago "No, you can't get sssssslllutty enough, slut"

[Court_lew_0216]

It's true that younger generations of women are more open about sex but that does not mean that we're all whores. Though i've had a couple of one night stands, which many will think of something "slutty" i dont think i qualify as a whore. Mainly because I didnt get paid for it, but did it for my own entertainment/satisfaction, what's wrong with that? so it's only guys that can be sexually open?
As long as a girl knows she's doing it for her own reasons and not because she feels pressured in any way, i think it's cool.

No one has the right to judge others.EXACTLY!

[cyberman05]

I fall into this demographic. I do *not* sleep around. I haven't ever had a one night stand. I don't go into the bathroom to suck some guy's cock. It's not that I'm hardcore christian or anything, but that it's not my perogative.


I am sexually agressive, sure, but I don't go around and do that to anybody less than a boyfriend/girlfriend that I deeply care about. Does the fact that I'm sexually agressive and my ex and I slept together 500+ times over the 2.5 years we were together make me a whore, or just a good girlfriend?

Where I live, people at parties talk about sex and sex organs, but nobody wants to touch it, or feel it as you stated. Everybody I hang out with and party with even, falls between the ages of 17 and 25. And none of them are whores, yet you seem to act as though everybody in this age group is.

The whole issue is just a matter of perspective. That's all anything in this world is. It's all about your perspective, and changing your perspective on something can change a lot. (I'm not saying you need to change your perspective; please don't take it that way)

You may think that girls who go around having sex whenever they like are whores, but the next guy may not. For all you know these girls might very well be fed up with being treated like shit by assholes they've fallen for. They might just be tired of having their heartbroken, and decide that it's easier to just screw around with no emotions attached.

I wouldn't so much say that people in my generation are whores, but as far as I can see, all the women I know in my generation have been treated very badly by their significant others.

Maybe it's not that everybody is slutty and just looking for a piece of ass, but rather that our parents (that would be YOUR generation) didn't do a good job giving us proper moral guidence. Or maybe they just did a particularly good of a job when they taught us to think for ourselves as opposed to play into a mundane stereotype.
EXCELLENT!!! FINALLY SOMEONE WITH BRAINS.

[cyberman05]

I tend to blame the whole thing on society's sending young people wrong messages. Media's ignoring accurate information regarding sex and continuously feeding the young people garbage certainly don't help at all, either. Also true

[cyberman05]

Indeed girls and guys should be able to do whatever they want with whoever they want. The problem is, many times nowadays, they are not doing this.

I am not saying all, but certainly a large number of people of both sexes displaying this type of behaviour doing so from a place of low self esteem and self worth issues.

I find they do not know who they really are yet so how could they possible know what they really want? Maybe this is a way for them to find out who they are and what they want. I have worked with many people in similar situations and have found that nearly always are underlying issues to do with self worth / or esteem. Other reasons also stem from childhood issues, the way they have been brought up and also possible sexual abuse in their pasts.

When these issues have been dealt with, people can grow and change and look at things from a different perspective, one where they have love and respect for themselves as much as anyone else.

BlessingsAnother smart girl.

[bird_migration]

Or is it just me? Maybe I'm from an older generation, but when I see how easy it is to go to bed with 18-25 y.o. girls today, I tend to think that women are becoming total whores.
Over here, girls were necklaces, earrings and armbands showing "sex codes", so that you can approach them and start your conversation with "hi, so you like anal sex while sucking a cock at the same time. How nice. Can I buy you a drink?" And after about five minutes they're out of stuff to talk about ("yes Brad Pitt is ok") and then you get a free blowjob because they're bored.
Common, what's up with these girls of today? Not that I don't like it, it's just that I (we?) want some romance too. A slut a day is fun, but where are all the mysterious girls? The ones you have to do your best for?

On another note, I just read that of all children that are born in the U.K. each year, 20% are actually illegitimate kids. That is: mother slept with a stranger but told hubby the kid's his. In the age group of 18-25 year olds, this ratio goes up to 35%!! Can you imagine? What a total whore situation.

Okay, let's poll it. Are all 18 to 25 year old girls and boys in America and Europe total whores?

PS: OK I admit, I should have added that the same applies for young men. My apologies to all women who read this and rightly indicated that a sexual act often takes two! So everything that's written above applies to men too!
Yes, I do think all kids of the younger generation are pathetic sluts.
And it is not just the age group of 18-25, it is the age group of 12-29.

[bkcmar]

http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/mad.gif I find it appalling that a person who subscribes to a hip forum could pose such a question. Young people have the opportunity to be freer and open about their sexuality. Young women have the opportunity to express their sexaulity. Men have always been able to express their sexual behavior in an open manner. However, if a woman engages in the same behavior she is a whore. That is a fucking crock of shit. Young people aren't whores. They are not concerned with the conservative, christian, repressive, sexist, ideas which exist in contemporary society

[CrucifiedDreams]

http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/mad.gif I find it appalling that a person who subscribes to a hip forum could pose such a question. Young people have the opportunity to be freer and open about their sexuality. Young women have the opportunity to express their sexaulity. Men have always been able to express their sexual behavior in an open manner. However, if a woman engages in the same behavior she is a whore. That is a fucking crock of shit. Young people aren't whores. They are not concerned with the conservative, christian, repressive, sexist, ideas which exist in contemporary society

Yeah! What he said.
I'm of the younger generation and I'm not whore. So I guess not. :rolleyes:

[okeefe]

IMHO, there are two words which sums this up for me:

CONSENTING ADULTS

Stop judging others. It's none of your business how two, or three, or however many, people want to get together and do whatever they agree upon, as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.

:rolleyes:

[heron]

So...highschoolers shouldnt have sex?

[kain7th]

No actually a lot of them shouldn't, as high schoolers tend not to use condoms as much as 18 and above.

[Alternative_Thinker]

And one of the main reasons for that is because condoms aren't as readily available to teens than they are to "adults". By that, I mean the shame and guilt planted into the heads of teens due to the social conditioning make it rather difficult for them to have access to condoms and other methods of contraception/protection.

In other words, they essentially SHOULD be able to enjoy sex, just as much as "adults" should, by being given the right information about sex and sexuality instead of being prohibited from engaging in sexual activities.

[Cryptoman]

Slutty, or Liberated? I say, more power to the women who are starting to do what guys have done all along. If an 18 y/o guy goes out and gets laid, it's all good. Slap on the back...you the man...what a stud, but if an 18 y/o chick goes out and gets laid, she's a whore or a slut. The times they are a changin' though. Women don't care as much what narrow minded fools call them. They see the inequality and are saying "Fuck that". Personally, I have a lot of respect for a woman who can really be free of the opression placed on them by such a hypocritical and narrow minded society. Keep doing what feels right ladieshttp://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/wink.gif

[Lilly]

I'm not slutty. I just flirt alot.

[bird_migration]

I'm not slutty. I just flirt alot.Hi baby, how are you? http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/wink.gif

[AriLew]

Personally, I have a lot of respect for a woman who can really be free of the opression placed on them by such a hypocritical and narrow minded society. Keep doing what feels right ladies

Just to be a bit overly academic about it: it's called postmodern feminism!

Why should the tables not turn and allow us to be just as sexually liberated as men? Having (and especially not having) sex with whomever we like!

[XXXbanjo-is-sexyXXX]

Does education/bad television mean anything to you? I think those two items would be the biggest reasons for the upsurge of young sexual awareness. I don't believe that the youth of today are any more horny than they used to be...I just think that it's easier now to carry through with sexual activity...partly because now they know how. And I don't mean they didn't know how to copulate in the olden days...but the understanding that sex can be extremely pleasureful...how to make it that way...and raging hormones that have always been present make young sex more likely to be a recurring event. Hit me up if you think I'm totally off base. I'd like to see others opinions on this, perhaps discuss directly. This topic should have been presented in a different manner too, by the way. There's is a lot of good discussion possible here, but you managed to extrapolate most of it with a totally negative title and poll.

[Malapascua]

Some 18 - 20 year old boy and girls are easier than 20 years ago, and some aren't.
I think it is just more openly discussed.
But what do I know.

[YEM36313]

i dont think things have changed as much as you guys think they have. I am about to turn 21, and i am not at all a slut. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, and including him, i have only had 6 sexdual partners in my life. I think that is almost nothing by some standards. (especially when he and i compare notes!)

I am all for free love. I had a lot of sex in highschool, and i got tested for std s regularly when i changed partners. Even now i sometimes get randomly tested when ob/gyn asks me if i would like to...you know, just in case.

i think the issue here is responsibility, not promiscuity. People just need to be educated and practice safe sex-- above all, birth control. Because having a baby should be wonderful, not upsetting.

If you are so upset that girls are slutty, then stop sleeping with them and find yourself a crazy hippie chick who will give you those crazy moves!

Dont get me wrong, i am a crazy lady in the sack...and probably given the opportunity, i could be crazier... who cares...
IF IT FEELS GOOD....DO IT!!!

[Vana]

This is really very funny.

Boys from all ages wanna do it... as soon as they've hit puberty, they wanna fuck... why the hell can't girls?

[sugarmaggie]

I can't believe this thread is still going... :D I still stand firm beside my opinion on the matter. A boring night is much worse than an awkward morning. :)

[Raving Sultan]

I can't believe this thread is still going... :D I still stand firm beside my opinion on the matter. A boring night is much worse than an awkward morning. :)Agreed!!!!

[MaximusXXX]

Yes, and stupid. I know 12 & 13 year olds having sex every week, I'm like, dude, your dick is fucking puny, what's it? 4 inches maybe? Dude, gain some size and learn how to use it, then fuck...and the women.....holy fuck! When I was growing up I thought the girls were a bit too skanky, but man, they're nothing compared to the younger kids now ( 12-15 ). I know the poll is about 18-25, and the answer is yes also, but my point is that it's getting worse.

[dances in pajamas]

Around me, there are some eigth graders who are pregnant, not to mention high schoolers. Younger kids are getting more promiscuous, yes. Not everyone, but many. Hell, I was.

[fexurbis]

I can't believe this thread is still going... :D I still stand firm beside my opinion on the matter. A boring night is much worse than an awkward morning. :)I think I've found a someone who thinks like me on the issue...

P.S. All the people who say the younger generation is sluttier are simply a-historical. Read the 60s and 70s and read the sex research by the University of Chicago that's in the 2000 New York Times Almanac. The numbers point to people in general having much less sex than before (pre-AIDS) AND to the fact that married people are having more sex than single youngsters today.

[clementinexo]

you're sick and terribly closed minded.
you know, the city i live in, all men want to do is sleep around but i don't walk around throwing out unintelligent accusations like "all men are whores"
really. i'm 20 turning 21 and i had originally planned on saving my virginity until marriage but fell in love at 18.
now i only sleep with someone i love and care about.
open up your mind and look around you. if all you see are whores then you must live in a bad area of new york city.

[Cliched]

K, voted "Yes" on the following premises:

Definition of "Slutty" (Slut): "Slut is a slang term used to indicate a person who has frequent sexual relationships with different people, especially short-term affairs."

"For both sexes, multiple sexual partners were most common among those aged below 25.

Over a third of men aged under 25, a fifth of women aged 16 to 19 and a quarter of women aged 20 to 24 reported having more than one sexual partner in the previous year."

National Statistics Health: Sexual Partners

33% of men and 25% for women under 25 have had had multiple sexual partners, and 20% for women under 19 have had multiple sexual partners. It is about even for both genders however other statistics are indicating that girls begin having sex at a younger age in general more than men (SADD Statistics). Statistics also show that people who start having sex at a younger age are much more likely to have more sex partners in the future (American Sex Statistics).

In my opinion if about 1/3 of the population having multiple sexual partners does not reflect a slutty society then it is at least pushing it. If about 20% of women below age 19 are having multiple sexual partners this is disturbing considering "63% of all sexually transmitted disease (STD) cases occur among people less than 25 years of age" (Sex in America Statistics).

I'm not going to read the whole 18 pages and get into a debate about it, since opinion seems to be overwhelmingly unfavorable in my direction. However I'd just like to say the fact this thread generated 18 pages of responses says something about how we perceive ourselves. When something hits a nerve, it usually means there is some truth behind it we are trying to hide about ourselves. I think society in general is in a disgusting state, it's not just what sex has turned into (from something sacred into something we do as a 'hobby') but everything else that is going on in this crazy world.

[Cerebus]

Sex never was sacred, you're just adapting history to conveniently fit your "theory".

[fexurbis]

you're sick and terribly closed minded.
you know, the city i live in, all men want to do is sleep around but i don't walk around throwing out unintelligent accusations like "all men are whores"
really. i'm 20 turning 21 and i had originally planned on saving my virginity until marriage but fell in love at 18.
now i only sleep with someone i love and care about.
open up your mind and look around you. if all you see are whores then you must live in a bad area of new york city.I hope you're not responding to my post, clementinexo... If you are you may have suffered from a sudden case of galloping dyslexia.

I said absolutely nothing about "all women are whores". I have no problem with whores in the first place, and most women around me look much closer to nuns, if you ask me.

[Cliched]

Sex never was sacred, you're just adapting history to conveniently fit your "theory".
I humbly disagree, but it's about perceptions. I think anyone who cannot see how sacred sex can be has truly lost all passion for life, since sex is the root of all passions (and history from multiple sources agrees with me here).

[Cerebus]

Fair enough. My opinion is that anyone who holds sex as sacred has never truly had any passion for life, since life is the root of all passions, and life comes from experience (and history from multiple sources agrees with me here ;) ). But each to their own.

[tonynaturalist]

all here using term "slut" and worrying about the actions are MENTALLY IN THE VICTORIAN AGE ... so come on!!! - girls and boys have sex ..if they want to have a lot of sex ..then its OK too.
People should enjoy what is natural to do!!! so doit when you are naturally ready ...once you past puberty ..then you are to do it every time you have the opportunity. I love girls that "enjoy sex" or "have experience" ..they dont waste any time!!!
The one that learn young they become the best

[clementinexo]

I hope you're not responding to my post, clementinexo... If you are you may have suffered from a sudden case of galloping dyslexia.

I said absolutely nothing about "all women are whores". I have no problem with whores in the first place, and most women around me look much closer to nuns, if you ask me.
no i was not responding to your post.

[Alana]

I'm 21, and the first to admit that I love a good orgasm! I don't dress like a slut, but a few of my friends do. So what?

I guess my point is, if you like it and it isn't hurting anyone, what do you care? I mean, if a guys wants to fuck a hole in the fence, and the person on the other side doesn't mind, is there something wrong with fucking the hole, or looking for holes to fuck?

[Foxes_Den]

Okay, when talking about women who like sex, I dislike the word "whore". The only time it should be used is if the gal enjoys hearing herself called that in private. "Whore" is a specific profession and I have nothing against that profession, but still dislike the term as demeaning to a gal that has to work doing an (I imagine) often unpleasant job for a living.

Now, if you're saying that any woman who likes sex is a "slut", I disagree again. I think that you're portraying women who are as being as indiscriminate about sex as most men are. Can you say "double standard"? There are women who are into frequent anonymous sex. Are there more of them today than before? I doubt it. You can simply find them easier because of dedicated clubs and the Internet.

As Billy Crystal said: "Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place."

[Biggie Mac]

the word is you used is shocking and disgusting i think the term are the younger generation having free love a lot more would be a better term to use and i shall not be taking part in the poll !

[fexurbis]

There are women who are into frequent anonymous sex. Are there more of them today than before? I doubt it. You can simply find them easier because of dedicated clubs and the Internet.There are less women into anonymous sex today than in the 80s and certainly the 70s. That is statistical (see Chicago University study from 1998(?); among others). People who claim otherwise are ahistorical, and overly influenced by the entertainment and clothing industries that make toys out of both men's and women's sexuality.

[Cerebus]

Either that or they are just slightly less credulous when it comes to people being honest about their sex lives when asked in a questionnaire.

Or to put it another way, don't believe all that you read. ;)

[Alana]

Again, I beg the question 'who cares'? Here are the parts of the replies I agree with:

There is a double standard

Its no one's business what a woman does with her body

Men do have to work a bit harder at getting laid, mostly because women, by the age of 20, have heard all the bullshit before

You have a right to your opinion of promiscuous women. You DO NOT have the right to have that opiniono respected, or agreed to by others.

[erzebet1961]

I dont think that they are more slutty...I just think they are more open about it. We older crowd did basically the same thing...but we kept it more underwraps so people didnt know.....so we appeared to be less wild than this generation coming up. I should know raising 4 kids that are now grown..2 boys and 2 girls....Ive seen it all !!

[Alana]

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[THE MIGHTY TOENAIL]

YES WE ARE ALL SLUTS AND WHORES!!!
AND PROUD OF IT!!!!

:D har har mwahahaha. sex is funfunfun.

[MaximusXXX]

Again, I beg the question 'who cares'? Here are the parts of the replies I agree with:

There is a double standard

Its no one's business what a woman does with her body

Men do have to work a bit harder at getting laid, mostly because women, by the age of 20, have heard all the bullshit before

You have a right to your opinion of promiscuous women. You DO NOT have the right to have that opiniono respected, or agreed to by others.
Well, I'm sure few would care if AIDS was not around.....or STDs in general, those kind of things are the big reasons why people are so much into the personal life now. I myself don't really care unless it's with someone I'm sleeping with, and no I don't outright ask how many partners she's slept with, but I kinda plan ahead and know what I'm getting myself into, with some girls you know if they're whores or not, so you can make the decision, but really I think it's up to the woman. What really pisses me off is how manwhores who have slept with 10+ girls can come to call girls that have slept with maybe 4 or 5 guys whores. I think juding others is the main issue, we shouldn't judge unless we know and then of course we should look at ourselves and where we are.

[BelladonnaBlue]

Sorry, I didn't read through every post to this thread, so I apologize if I'm repeating another's sentiment, but I must say to the originator of this thread...
It occurs to me, being 37 years old soon, right between the old and new hippies, that the 60's hippy generation got all of us younsters started in the Free Love phenomenon...where do you think the young men and women of today learned this behavior? When first coming up, we all tend to emulate those we love. The love-ins of the 60s have evolved to the promiscuity of today. So, come on everyone, let's don't criticize each other. One of the best memes of the 60s applies so well here...Make Love, Not War.

[Zanarkand]

Sex is only slutty if you have regrets about it later.
And even then, big deal. Live and learn right? You put too much thought into it. And lets not have a double standard about it. Guys are the same way. So putting it all on women is just rude.

[Mary Poppins]

johnschlong you've got some serious issues man!! To call women who enjoy sex sluts is not on - china..... not to mention fucken hypocritical when you're doing the banging!!

Jeez!!!

[Vegan Girl]

Who cares what other people do? If it's two consenting adults and they're having sex because they want to, why is this a problem?

Granted I don't think people should get into "free love" if they have hangups about themselves...or significant others who don't know about it and aren't involved....

I guess if you're calling people sluts because they practice this, then by all means, call me a slut, because I do what I want.

[CckBlocking]

Remind me of my brother, who would completely agree that all girls are whores. But those are the type of girls that he hangs out with...

I beleive that in a lot of situations girls and guys are either complete prudes or total sluts. Less people are in the middle group today than there were in the past.

I know its cliche but I do put some blame on the media, which emphasises physical relationship, "hitting it" and dressing in clothes that dont cover too much of the body. Family values and religion are taking a back seat to the laguna beach and pimpin it lifestyles.

I just thought of a funny story while typing this... A few years ago in college we were at a friends house party. It was me, my roommate, the host of the party and a few girls we were friends with sitting around the table. one girl brougth up the size of the hosts penis and we all laughed and giggled. But this one slut who we knew but not too well desided to find out how big it was and she went over sat in his lap and started grouping his crotch, in front of all of us. I was just shocked, who does that? Especially knowing that the one girl at our table had a relationship with the host and was very sensitive and jealous about it.

[RawAndNatural]

I think that sexually adventurous women should not be looked upon negatively. Lying about having multiple sex partners is one thing, but openly and honestly enjoying sex is another.

Women deserve sexual freedom!

[subgoin]

Or is it just me?

I agree with you buddy, but a slut or bitch is more upto it, anyhow i'm not comlaining, it is an easier hunt than ever before. :)

Somehow think, this is the real woman without masks, not the one which those writers and films used to brain wash people with. It is the reality being exposed, look at animals or insects world, every thing is clear.

Still not complaining here, actually like it. sorry - i'm just human. :)

What they call free love now is free sex, i like sex. specially when not paying much for it. lol

[High Priest]

I think too much emphasis on sex takes away from the focus on finding a serious relationship. I know a lot of feminists don't like the idea of a family unit, but I really think the father figure and mother figure are important. Granted, I think falling into some strict notion of family is silly, but the family in itself is important.

I think Dave Chapelle said it well that we've if pussy was stock it'd be plummetting because we've "flooded the market".

Also, I want to say this right now. I hate the idea of "I should do what I want that makes me happy!". If you are serious, then why not do crack? heroin? Why not do it all? Happiness in my opinion does not precede logic and responsible actions (mostly because they can and should co-exist). Also, thinking that what you do does not affect others makes no sense... Especially when discussing having sex with other people.

[Edit:] I just realized I posted this in the "Free Love" forum where it obviously won't be well-received. I'm going to append to this by saying I additionally respect ones choice to engage in alternate lifestyles, despite my disagreement with them. My opinions were mostly directed towards the topic of whether or not our generation is too slutty, a topic outside of Free Love. I feel my opinion is mutually exclusive from the topic of free love simply because I think that is a choice adults make while I think much of our younger generation are losing their virginity BEFORE adulthood, and experimenting with dangerous drugs also BEFORE adulthood.

[Imagine11]

Sure, nothing wrong with a bit of playing. But in my time playing meant: making moves and trying to make eye contact, maybe even getting a date out of it. Now "playing" means being taken to the men's room and getting your cock sucked by a girl you've never met before. It's a difference.

So for instance, dmgreen, after you've designed some nice stuff and you're out of ideas, do you go to a bar and eat out the first girl you meat? If so, you might call it playing, I'd call you a whoreslut!!
.

Sorry to disillusion you further but if I meet a girl, I am attracted to her and think she is interesting and sweet, I would gladly go down on her for free. I wish we had more expressions for that. Like, we should just say, suck you off... even though it's not about sucking. Because women get to say things like "I want to suck you", and it's really powerful! They are lucky. I don't really like the expression "eat", for oral sex. I don't really think of it as eating. And when I was a kid, that really gave me the wrong impression! It didn't help with my total ignorance about where/what the clitoris was.

I had read an erotic story about a woman who arranged a banana split in her cooze and then the narrator ate it out... and even though I knew that wasn't what went on it didn't help. They should tell boys: women have this sensitive little thing up above there, and if you lick it for them they get real hot. Just like you do.

Yeah, so, to answer your question... I want to give out free blowjobs just like women do. Only the male to female version. We need a word to describe this other than blowjob. Any ideas anyone? Should I start a thread about this? I feel strongly about this! [/img] :) I want to take a girl into a dark room and suck her off just like they do to us. She can even call me slut and pull my hair if that gets her hot.




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[Imagine11]

I think too much emphasis on sex takes away from the focus on finding a serious relationship. I know a lot of feminists don't like the idea of a family unit, but I really think the father figure and mother figure are important.


Yeah, but noted feminists like Tera Patrick have families! Also I heard Luci Thai was going to get married. There's another feminist! Getting married. Whoo hoo!!!

Beat self,

Imagine11


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[.Hannah.]

Or is it just me? Maybe I'm from an older generation, but when I see how easy it is to go to bed with 18-25 y.o. girls today, I tend to think that women are becoming total whores.
Over here, girls were necklaces, earrings and armbands showing "sex codes", so that you can approach them and start your conversation with "hi, so you like anal sex while sucking a cock at the same time. How nice. Can I buy you a drink?" And after about five minutes they're out of stuff to talk about ("yes Brad Pitt is ok") and then you get a free blowjob because they're bored.
Common, what's up with these girls of today? Not that I don't like it, it's just that I (we?) want some romance too. A slut a day is fun, but where are all the mysterious girls? The ones you have to do your best for?

On another note, I just read that of all children that are born in the U.K. each year, 20% are actually illegitimate kids. That is: mother slept with a stranger but told hubby the kid's his. In the age group of 18-25 year olds, this ratio goes up to 35%!! Can you imagine? What a total whore situation.

Okay, let's poll it. Are all 18 to 25 year old girls and boys in America and Europe total whores?

PS: OK I admit, I should have added that the same applies for young men. My apologies to all women who read this and rightly indicated that a sexual act often takes two! So everything that's written above applies to men too!
In your description, I would call her a slut. I agree with you.

And sluts? Why are you so afraid of owning up to the promiscuity? So what? You're a slut!

Frankly, it is like seeing an obese relative whom you know loves burgers, pretend she is happy with just a tuna sandwich in public. Yes, I understand there are all kinds of tensions and hurtful things, but this is also hypocritical and cowardly. You are what you are.

However, Schlong, you sound very disheartened with young women these days. I think you should check your company and the types of women you subconsciously seek.

If you want women who'll tickle more than just your balls, then look harder.

Just as women are often thought to "give off the wrong signals", so do men give off lousy signals without knowing it, and consequently attract those they do not want!

[Imagine11]

Just as women are often thought to "give off the wrong signals", so do men give off lousy signals without knowing it, and consequently attract those they do not want!

So true, .Hannah.

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[.Hannah.]

Cute bunny.

[Imagine11]

Cute bunny.

I know she's such a cutie, and I love her expression: like she's getting caught!

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[cn283]

Wow dude, you have some real issues with women...Either your talking about objectifying them in one post, or calling them whores in another...Do you just post to get attention or are you that twisted of an individual?

[Autentique]

I dont think slutty is the word, everyone is more free. People have less prejudges today than they had before, also people are more open to experiment their sexuality and accept it, instead of seeing it as tabboo. Being sexual nowdays is something that is allowed and that you can talk about, people are more educated about it and the less ignorant you are about something the more willing you are to do it.
That's my point of view, Promiscous maybe... slutty no.

[fexurbis]

I dont think slutty is the word, everyone is more free. People have less prejudges today than they had before, also people are more open to experiment their sexuality and accept it, instead of seeing it as tabboo. Being sexual nowdays is something that is allowed and that you can talk about, people are more educated about it and the less ignorant you are about something the more willing you are to do it.
That's my point of view, Promiscous maybe... slutty no.It's funny when I hear 20 year-olds say things like "everyone is more free." Oh, really? How do you figure? Were you around in the 60s and 70s to really know?

[fexurbis]

I dont think slutty is the word, everyone is more free. People have less prejudges today than they had before, also people are more open to experiment their sexuality and accept it, instead of seeing it as tabboo. Being sexual nowdays is something that is allowed and that you can talk about, people are more educated about it and the less ignorant you are about something the more willing you are to do it.
That's my point of view, Promiscous maybe... slutty no.It's funny when I hear 20 year-olds say things like "everyone is more free." Oh, really? How do you figure? Were you around in the 60s and 70s to really know? Have you at least done some historical research or talked to a significant sample of Baby Boomers who were involved in the Sexual Revolution?

[Autentique]

I'm talking from the interaction I've had with my family. I dont think is not uncommon to find older people saying "in my time things used to be" or the face of schock when you mention the word sex. I base my opinion (because that's what it is) on that, is not a fact is a perception.
You dont need to be in a certain time to know things about it, information has a way of traveling through time.
I wasn't there in WWII but I know what happened, yeah I know the difference between an historical event and a sociological one.. with the last one the information tends to be more subjective.
Also there's a lot you can learn from reading things written in a certain time, movies made in a certain time, tv shows, news, etc those things usually reflect aspects of a society.

It's funny when I see a 29 yr old thinking that the only way to know things is by being there.

[fexurbis]

Also there's a lot you can learn from reading things written in a certain time, movies made in a certain time, tv shows, news, etc those things usually reflect aspects of a society.That's what gets people. I think our generation lives their sex lives to such a vicarious extent that they've lost the capacity to differentiate between media portrayals and reality.
It's funny when I see a 29 yr old thinking that the only way to know things is by being there.I do not think that. That is why I suggested research. Check out the 1998 Univ. of Chicago study in the 2000 NYT Almanac and read about the lifestyle of those involved in the Sexual Revolution of the 60s and 70s.

[WanderingSoul]

And who was the recipient of all these blow jobs, sir? I think a lot of girls do stuff they don't want to because guys pressure them.


And if a girl wants to for her own reasons like another poster said, then that is her business. It doesn't mean she isn't worth dating.

I for one, won't have sex with a guy unless I like him a lot, have had good conversations with him, and maybe not even until I have real feelings for him. It's just uncomfortable for me to do it with a strange guy, but I don't judge girls who do! To each her own!

[lionman80]

I think that I loved that about girls when I was single. I dont go around saying all girls are whores, because men have always done it. The women are just catching up, and being aggressive nowadays. Most of the women I know have been with several guys. I just think that most girls today are short term girlfriend material, and that is great when you are single. When you get married though you want a nice girl who you know is not all (walleyed) out. This way of thinking is much better dont you think. The sad thing is that some girls who have been with like 50 guys will be someone's wife one day. Some poor schmuck who has no idea. I am a man so I admit I am biased in my entry.

[makno]

all this negativity .....if there realy were all theese 'sluts' out there , id like to give them all medals of valor .....hip hip houray for sluts .....!!! we need more of em ...

[Mohave_Jim]

Hell no I don't do that!!! :mad: And if you want to get rude about it - I have a man and 5 year old at home that I love - does that make me a slut? I think not!!!

You have some MAJOR issues if you think all girls are like that! Maybe you should just go fuck guys, at least then you wouldn't be such an ass! :rolleyes:That's brilliant. Woman's like sex man like sex. If she/he know what to do to make sex safe, why tehy shouldn't sleep with each other? Love is a pleasure, maybe some girls are really slutty, but who ares about them? All people has own life way and gave them a free choice. U should respet womans needs, and never, NEVER call them sluts. For me it's nothing wrong when somebody make love after 5 min ( for sex we need man as well) beause it's just for fun. All unanticipated effect would be smoebody problem not Yours.

[WanderingSoul]

I think that I loved that about girls when I was single. I dont go around saying all girls are whores, because men have always done it. The women are just catching up, and being aggressive nowadays. Most of the women I know have been with several guys. I just think that most girls today are short term girlfriend material, and that is great when you are single. When you get married though you want a nice girl who you know is not all (walleyed) out. This way of thinking is much better dont you think. The sad thing is that some girls who have been with like 50 guys will be someone's wife one day. Some poor schmuck who has no idea. I am a man so I admit I am biased in my entry.
any respectful person would admit to their partner how many sexual partners they've had, and any respectful and reasonable person would accept that as the past. casual sex and meaningful sex are two different things, and there should be room for both.

[MistysFrosted]

Yes. I think the new generation, MY generation, is taking sexual liberation to a whole new level. And I think I do, too. I won't say that I'm a whore or a slut, because I don't think that I am . However, I do think that the girls around me in my age group have women's sexual liberation confused with the porn you see on www.wetchicks.net (http://www.wetchicks.net) or whatever. I don't even know if that's a web site, but I'm making a point. I think young girls who haven't learned an adequate amount about women's lib and the 60's movements aimed at freeing our actions are confused about sex and how meaningful it should be. Women were protesting the stigma they felt about having sex they wanted, not just about having sex. I think girls don't understand that nowadays and think that they will get lots of male attention if they get drunk and flash their breasts and kiss their girlfriends- and they do! It's not like they're doing that in closed doors with hushed voices. They're having it videotaped and sold for a 1-month $1.99 subscription.

I think the whole "If you want it, be safe, and be happy" thing is alright and okay and a great message for other people, and is the way that you should engage in all of your sex acts. But even reflecting on ones that I've had, sometimes my "Ahh, just had to get laid" moments were not my finest ones. Sometimes I have [and other girls] have taken our "right to have sex" and blurred it with "to have sex" and have not really recognized that there are hookups we really didn't want but justified nonetheless with the whole "sexual freedom" thing. I don't think that's right. I think you shouldn't feel bad about having sex with someone you love, sex that you both want, safe and good sex, sex with someone you have affection for. But even then, I don't think you should feel good about having unnecessary questionable sex, and I personally don't feel good about those encounters, even in myself.

So yes, I do think the younger generation has sex issues, and could rightly be called "slutty", but I think it stems from confusion, not some willy-nilly mass-mayhem guilt-free orgy.


[b]And P.S. That thing about wearing wristbands to designate your favorite sexual encounters, etc... honestly, we are slutty a lot of the time but even nowadays that's pushing it. Even with the friends that I have and the people I know and my more experience in this issue, that's still pushing it. Where I live [and in most relatively normal cultures] that is still too slutty.

And P.S.S.... You've gotten called some bad names here for making this point and others say "Don't judge" but they're looking down on you for just a regular questionable observation like any other. Is that the smell of hypocrisy?

[PennylanesMaryjane]

we're not any sluttier, we are just experimental.

[WanderingSoul]

well, MistysFrosted, he was calling females whores, and a lot of us didn't particularly appreciate that. i agree with most of what you said... ppl nowadays have sex issues because of confusion over what sex should and could be. i think your post has been the most FACTUAL in this thread. (almost) you may have answered his questions, anyway. many girls feel guilty about unnecessary, non-meaningful experiences, i have, and i've resolved not to have them anymore, but that's my own personal choice because i simply don't enjoy casual sex. (not that i've had all that much to begin with)

that doesn't mean other people can't and that casual sex is wrong. it's up to the individual. but they might enjoy themselves more if they had it with someone they cared about who cared for them back.

please don't call all of us hypocrites. the guy specifically insulted women. (btw, i know lots about the 60s and the feminist movements [which started way before the 60s, ya know]. and i'm not a feminist, i'm an equalist)

P.S: i clicked on your link out of curiosity, and it is, indeed, a website, but i don't think it's a porn site. :tongue: Peace.

[Hippy_steven_G]

well in my opinion the younger generation have more experience having sex then most adults. which is pretty crazy in my opinion. personally im not into sex yet and im 16 and im not ready for it so im a good one of the generation :) and my GirlFriend isnt either so not all wemon and men are whores and players in this generation. but i do agree about 90% of this new youth generation are sluts and whores, players and cheaters. not to mention all those guys who have those rageing horomoans are all anxtious to have sex like its a NOW NOW NOW thing with them. mostly in the so called "Gangsta" clique.... also u cant blame just the guys for this.... if the girls dressed more appropriatly then maybe we wouldnt have so many whores and players.
and yes zeppelina ur right no one has the right to judge the other UNLESS they can judge themselves just as i have :) well thanx for the 10 mins of thinking guys :D

[Number6]

It is interesting that each generation thinks they invented recreational sex and drugs. I have as to meet a single 20 year old who has done anything I didn't do before they were born. I am fairly certain there are a great many 65 year olds would say the same about me. I also find it interesting that each generation, when it gets into it late 30's and later, seems to think what they did was okay, but what the younger generation is currently do, is somehow wrong.

[WanderingSoul]

well in my opinion the younger generation have more experience having sex then most adults. which is pretty crazy in my opinion. personally im not into sex yet and im 16 and im not ready for it so im a good one of the generation :) and my GirlFriend isnt either so not all wemon and men are whores and players in this generation. but i do agree about 90% of this new youth generation are sluts and whores, players and cheaters. not to mention all those guys who have those rageing horomoans are all anxtious to have sex like its a NOW NOW NOW thing with them. mostly in the so called "Gangsta" clique.... also u cant blame just the guys for this.... if the girls dressed more appropriatly then maybe we wouldnt have so many whores and players.
and yes zeppelina ur right no one has the right to judge the other UNLESS they can judge themselves just as i have :) well thanx for the 10 mins of thinking guys :D
grow up! "also u cant blame just the guys for this.... if the girls dressed more appropriatly then maybe we wouldnt have so many whores and players" this is bullshit. so blame the chicks cause the guys can't control themselves.

[legend 1967]

It's Ok to set limits,to say no to recreational sex.
Reprogram yourself. Do not worship other people's opinions.
Allow others to learn to love and accept you. Don't be used - Be yourself - Be happy.

[Autentique]

its ok to say no to recreational sex but is also ok to say yes.
its ok to do what you feel like doing
sex is fun, sometimes there can be love involve and other times is just lust and the sharing of an experience more than a feeling.
neither are wrong or right as long as you feel good about doing what your doing then everything is great. just you know wear a condom.

[MorningDew]

alot of girls need the attention because of lack of love from their fathers, parents, etc. They look for it in a quick screw with a guy, and obviously dont find it long term. Its sad, but its life.

[Autentique]

that might be true.

[Aeshura]

Better question...
Does it matter?
Following that I would like to direct those who vote yea to the following
Freedom of choice

[Autentique]

well said aeshura.

[WanderingSoul]

i agree aeshura!!!

[HHhusa]

mabee where you live

media influence ?
myth ?
lie ?
whishfullthinking ?
freer desiers ?
environmental hormon mess ?



who is right the person who is right or the person with a gun

[Aeshura]

I just read this post, and thus I rant...angrily

well in my opinion the younger generation have more experience having sex then most adults. which is pretty crazy in my opinion. personally im not into sex yet and im 16 and im not ready for it so im a good one of the generation :) and my GirlFriend isnt either so not all wemon and men are whores and players in this generation. but i do agree about 90% of this new youth generation are sluts and whores, players and cheaters. not to mention all those guys who have those rageing horomoans are all anxtious to have sex like its a NOW NOW NOW thing with them. mostly in the so called "Gangsta" clique.... also u cant blame just the guys for this.... if the girls dressed more appropriatly then maybe we wouldnt have so many whores and players.
and yes zeppelina ur right no one has the right to judge the other UNLESS they can judge themselves just as i have :) well thanx for the 10 mins of thinking guys :D Gansta clique?
I'd ask you what that is, but you may make a fool of yourself
Drop the "holier than thou bullshit
"but I do agree 90%..." What the fuck, are you like the government or something with your statistics, catagorizing other people based on the decisions they make?
"If the girls dressed more appropriately..." You a fucking fascist or something, want females to wear certain attire?
"Sex is like now now now" So you telling me that when you sit next to your good little girlfriend, and your enjoying a nice conversation, maybe her hands on your thigh, you don't get a fucking boner?
"so I'm the good one in this generation" You'll find no asses to kiss around here bro-ham, so no one gives a fuck about your fuck-problem.
"unless they can judge themselves just as I have" You want a fuckin prize? honestly where do you people come from?
You know way back in our history. they had sex, marriage didn't exist, and there was no such thing as adultry. and sometimes, just for the fuck of it, They'd take off what little clothes they wore, and fucked right where they were.


Lucky yo chick aint wit me cuz,
I have her ass on da block in a hot minute
Slangin ma shit, be all up on ma peice, ya feel me
runnin a train on that piece,
give her a piece of this piece, and make peace
And thats some gangsta shit.
Take yo smiley ass back to myspace or sumthing
You better think about what you say before you say it, People aren't as forgiving in real life.

And then, I'd rather apologize now, cause you don't know any better.

[Aeshura]

It's funny when I hear 20 year-olds say things like "everyone is more free." Oh, really? How do you figure? Were you around in the 60s and 70s to really know? Have you at least done some historical research or talked to a significant sample of Baby Boomers who were involved in the Sexual Revolution?Don't you have anything better to do than piss and moan about the lives of OTHER people. you don't like it, don't do it. simple as that. the only reason people like you come here isn't to SHARE ideas, it's to push your own on to everyone else.

[Aeshura]

Hell no I don't do that!!! :mad: And if you want to get rude about it - I have a man and 5 year old at home that I love - does that make me a slut? I think not!!!

You have some MAJOR issues if you think all girls are like that! Maybe you should just go fuck guys, at least then you wouldn't be such an ass! :rolleyes:OOOOHHH!!!!! BURNNN

[Aeshura]

Yes. I think the new generation, MY generation, is taking sexual liberation to a whole new level. And I think I do, too. I won't say that I'm a whore or a slut, because I don't think that I am . However, I do think that the girls around me in my age group have women's sexual liberation confused with the porn you see on www.wetchicks.net (http://www.wetchicks.net) or whatever. I don't even know if that's a web site, but I'm making a point. I think young girls who haven't learned an adequate amount about women's lib and the 60's movements aimed at freeing our actions are confused about sex and how meaningful it should be. Women were protesting the stigma they felt about having sex they wanted, not just about having sex. I think girls don't understand that nowadays and think that they will get lots of male attention if they get drunk and flash their breasts and kiss their girlfriends- and they do! It's not like they're doing that in closed doors with hushed voices. They're having it videotaped and sold for a 1-month $1.99 subscription.

I think the whole "If you want it, be safe, and be happy" thing is alright and okay and a great message for other people, and is the way that you should engage in all of your sex acts. But even reflecting on ones that I've had, sometimes my "Ahh, just had to get laid" moments were not my finest ones. Sometimes I have [and other girls] have taken our "right to have sex" and blurred it with "to have sex" and have not really recognized that there are hookups we really didn't want but justified nonetheless with the whole "sexual freedom" thing. I don't think that's right. I think you shouldn't feel bad about having sex with someone you love, sex that you both want, safe and good sex, sex with someone you have affection for. But even then, I don't think you should feel good about having unnecessary questionable sex, and I personally don't feel good about those encounters, even in myself.

So yes, I do think the younger generation has sex issues, and could rightly be called "slutty", but I think it stems from confusion, not some willy-nilly mass-mayhem guilt-free orgy.


[b]And P.S. That thing about wearing wristbands to designate your favorite sexual encounters, etc... honestly, we are slutty a lot of the time but even nowadays that's pushing it. Even with the friends that I have and the people I know and my more experience in this issue, that's still pushing it. Where I live [and in most relatively normal cultures] that is still too slutty.

And P.S.S.... You've gotten called some bad names here for making this point and others say "Don't judge" but they're looking down on you for just a regular questionable observation like any other. Is that the smell of hypocrisy?Thanx for the link!
even worse than this dude calling everyone and their moms sluts,
sounds like you have a problem with your own sex life if you regret wanting to get laid.
confusion? HA! HA! again! you think this world teaches us straight to begin with! behold, at this moment, at my computer, multiple people laugh at your misconceptions. And we'd like to know where we can find one of these willy-nilly-mass-mayhem-guilt-free-orgies. (great word btw)
that'd be awsome. like NIN playing "I wanna fuck you like an animal" people on the floor just fucking like animals..." hm. Thanx for the fuel.

[WanderingSoul]

ur just horny. ;)

it's like you said in your first post here: freedom of choice. :D
whatever that choice happens to be is the choosers prerogative, and it's not for anybody to judge.

my only point on this thread was not that people are sluts but that people seem to have forgotten what meaningful sex is. that is all.

*gone* :leaving:

[Aeshura]

ur just horny. ;)

it's like you said in your first post here: freedom of choice. :D
whatever that choice happens to be is the choosers prerogative, and it's not for anybody to judge.

my only point on this thread was not that people are sluts but that people seem to have forgotten what meaningful sex is. that is all.

*gone* :leaving:True true

[Fu Manchu]

I wish they were more slutty :)

Besides, there's nothing wrong with loving sex. Does that make somebody a slut? Not in my opinion.

[Formertechno34]

Ya our generation has changed

[Realtruth]

Nothing wrong with women enjoying sex and they shouldn't be label as anything for it. Unfortunately I think the Labels women get from men and religious groups is a control thing that has endured time.

As long as women do it of free will, Why not!

My wife is many years younger than me we have been married for 5 years and have a wonderful relationship.

There is sex and then there is making love, both are enjoyable and both are different.

RT


forgive me if i'm wrong but I thought to be a whore meant charging dirty weird guys $10 for a blowjob or something..................... I mean damn, If a girl wants to bang someone for fun, why the hell can't she.....

Guys seem to do it all the time and do you think it makes them whores???????

[lunarflowermaiden]

There is no single classification for everyone. Are there young women out there who act slutty? Of course. Are all young women of this generation slutty? No. My advice to the OP, if this isn't a joke, is to look elsewhere when trying to find a woman. You can't go to a bar and expect to pick up the finest out there. I am not at all insulting people who go to bars, but I am simply saying that it is not the best area to look for romantic, stable relationships. If these are the only women that you are finding, it could be partly your fault, as well. You can certainly find women with self respect out there if you try. If you set your eyes to only the ones throwing themselves at you, then yes, that is all that you will find.

[bitefight]

http://s6.bitefight.ru/c.php?uid=15684

[Loveminx]

slut is a dumb word...who cares who fucks who?

sex is fun.
Let people enjoy and live with their consequences.

[katyismename]

they aren't that slutty..
but yeah, some 12/13 year old girl from my school is pregnant. :|

[run2fly]

The younger generation is only more open about sex. And certain terminology has changed.

[Loveminx]

they aren't that slutty..
but yeah, some 12/13 year old girl from my school is pregnant. :|

in 8th grade, the girl with her locker next to mine was prego... >_<

kids having kids >_<

[KL71]

I met an adorable 11-year-old blonde girl at my old job back in the summer of 1998. About two years later, she ended up getting raped by somebody in her own family and became pregnant. As far as I know, she did have her baby. Since that time, I wouldn't know. I haven't seen her in about 5 years. :(

[OneLoveHerbsman]

I dont really think the girls of today are much diffrent there they where in the days of old... but then again this is comming from kid born in 1987 ( im 19 ).
But from what i can assume girls are just as whore like as they where, but in a diffrent fashion. Cloths , Tv, music everything is diffrent now .

[OneLoveHerbsman]

I dont really think the girls of today are much diffrent there they where in the days of old... but then again this is comming from kid born in 1987 ( im 19 ).
But from what i can assume girls are just as whore like as they where, but in a diffrent fashion. Cloths , Tv, music everything is diffrent now .

[feralfey]

I can't judge the population as a whole, but I am married and have not had sex with anyone other than my husband in five years.

[kx250]

im an 18 year old male....... ill agree with the thread starter. theres a problem somewhere. its either parenting or the media.

[kx250]

I believe the lack of parental supervision these days has turned girls into whores these days. They call it "liberation". I call it "lack of Daddy".what it is parents either being to liberal and allowing their kids to do whatever they want OR, more often than the other, parents being to strict making sex sound like a crime and that just makes kids want to do it more. parents need to instill a sense of responsibility and importance in the act of love making, while not shunning it or condoning doing it to liberaly.

also whats happening is young girls today are using the equal rights line to say they can bang whatever moves since guys can do it and its more socialy acceptable.

[maskan]

Jesus F. Christ, people!

How is it even remotely possible that ye fucking bother about this shit?
What the hell people do concerning sex, is noone's, I repeat, NOONE'S, but their own goddammed business! As long as it doesn't hurt anyone, they should be allowed to do whatever they damn please.

I've been hearing about this on the telly, in the radio, in the newspapers, and in every single fucking magazine i've read the last 5 years!
When are people gonna TRULY learn to live and let live?
I'm honestly disappointed in how many of ye have gotten all hot and bothered about this.
Isn't this supposed to be a place where people of all different kinds of outlooks on life can exchange ideas and philosophies without facing nothing but harassment?

Seriously, folks, it truly fucking hurts me too see how easily ye turned on each other, and over this, as fucking irrelevant as it is.

[xLaura_OneLovex]

*sigh*

[beautifulhippie2]

im an 18 year old male....... ill agree with the thread starter. theres a problem somewhere. its either parenting or the media.



I totally agree, but I'm not 18. I'm 21! It's so controversal!

[Gryphon]

It's true that younger generations of women are more open about sex but that does not mean that we're all whores. Though i've had a couple of one night stands, which many will think of something "slutty" i dont think i qualify as a whore. Mainly because I didnt get paid for it, but did it for my own entertainment/satisfaction, what's wrong with that? so it's only guys that can be sexually open?
As long as a girl knows she's doing it for her own reasons and not because she feels pressured in any way, i think it's cool.

No one has the right to judge others.
As long as you have a conscience you can judge others, the human conscience is the greatest judge in its purest form. And there is a very thin line between sluts and whores. Elucidating more..All whores are sluts but all sluts are not whores however both r dishonourable!
And about guys being sexually open is a trivial statement cos sexually open means talkin openly not sleepin around

[Gryphon]

what it is parents either being to liberal and allowing their kids to do whatever they want OR, more often than the other, parents being to strict making sex sound like a crime and that just makes kids want to do it more. parents need to instill a sense of responsibility and importance in the act of love making, while not shunning it or condoning doing it to liberaly.

also whats happening is young girls today are using the equal rights line to say they can bang whatever moves since guys can do it and its more socialy acceptable.I agree with you 100% man, especially the last part. Right on target I should say,unfortunate enough for the so called Western society. Reverse Evolution I percieve..Animals to humans and back to animals!

[Cryptoman]

Just a thought...If women of the younger generation are more slutty, who are they being slutty with, MEN of the younger generation maybe?
Maybe it's not a question of being slutty, or being whores. Maybe it's a question of expectation. Any healthy (straight) young man is all about exploring a woman, that's what they do, but to judge the women for their part, or for wanting to explore a man is stupid. It's nature. I agree that there should be some education and responsibility when it comes to sex, but the answer isn't name calling.

[Gryphon]

Hey names are called only to deserving candidates. Yes they are being slutty with men so? Men have always been promiscous cos aggression is a masculine feature by nature due to testosterone. Its upto women to keep the abstinence where required.

[Cryptoman]

Testosterone? So the guy that raped your mom isn't responsible because he has increased levels of testosterone? There's such a thing as responsibility, and as much as you'd like to deny it...BOTH parties are responsible for their actions. If a study came out tomorrow that claimed increased levels of estrogen were responsible for the increased sex drives of young women across the world, would that make it OK in your world?
I think we're influenced by our urges, social conditioning and a slew of other factors, but it comes down to self control. Women are expected to have it, and men are excused from it. It seems to me that they're getting tired of the double standard.

Back to the guy that raped your mother. Are you going to expect him to have had the self control to keep from it? Yes! We as a society expect self control from everyone, but HOW MUCH self control depends on socially acceptable patterns or norms. The socially acceptable pattern for sexuality among women is changing, it's becoming more balanced with the expectations of men.

The example isn't meant to offend you or your mother, but only to make a point.

[Gryphon]

Testosterone? So the guy that raped your mom isn't responsible because he has increased levels of testosterone? There's such a thing as responsibility, and as much as you'd like to deny it...BOTH parties are responsible for their actions. If a study came out tomorrow that claimed increased levels of estrogen were responsible for the increased sex drives of young women across the world, would that make it OK in your world?
I think we're influenced by our urges, social conditioning and a slew of other factors, but it comes down to self control. Women are expected to have it, and men are excused from it. It seems to me that they're getting tired of the double standard.

Back to the guy that raped your mother. Are you going to expect him to have had the self control to keep from it? Yes! We as a society expect self control from everyone, but HOW MUCH self control depends on socially acceptable patterns or norms. The socially acceptable pattern for sexuality among women is changing, it's becoming more balanced with the expectations of men.

The example isn't meant to offend you or your mother, but only to make a point.
Man you seem obsessed with the raping mum thing but you would agree that agression is a testosterone thing. and I agree its social conditioning thats most responsible. Dont you think that this so called socially acceptable pattern for female sexuality has made western society more animalistic? Kind of like a reverse evolution. animals to humans and back to animals..I mean yr mum goes out in the morning with somebody and in the evening comes back with somebody else..taking a page out of your book.
Is that acceptable for you? and rape was not included in my argument. besides protecting the women of the household is a male's responsibility. I daresay that nobody would try to rape even my distant relative.
Besides it is,has been and will always be a man's world. This is just a fad that will disappear in the annals of time.