Jay aka the one
01-11-2006, 05:06 PM
Okay I'm 20 years old, I was just a virgin until I had sex with this girl I'm currently talking to. I've had sex with her three times, and very very sadly I've lasted under 10, yes 10 SECONDS all those times. I really need help because ever since the 3rd time I sucked, she doesn't seem to want to have sex like she did the first time and things aren't looking too good.
The first time, I probably did about 4 thrusts then I came, she was definently feeling my size though. Then a few hours later we tried it again, then she was really feeling it more than before, I probably lasted around 7 thrusts then I came. And a few weeks later [seems like shes not really interested now] we had sex for the third time, then when I finally got it in her, because her vagina's tight. As SOON as I put it in, I wanted to come, then I waited a few seconds, then I tried a few thrusts them came again!
My scenerio:
I massage her for awhile, kiss all over her body, feel on her vagina and what not, you know trying to get her in the mood. It's usually around 10-15 minutes of that. I'm not sure if that's part of the problem, like since I'm hard the whole time I'm doing that, is that shortening my time for sex? One thing that I'm sure that's hurting me is getting it in her. I'm not sure if it's because I'm not using a condom and without it there's no lubercation. So it's kinda like I'm trying hard to get him in, trying to keep him up it's like I'm almost masterbating trying to get him in.
Also, I've heard and read that when using a condom, it will make you last longer because I'm guessing it doesn't feel AS good. All three times we've had sex we haven't used a condom.
I really need your help or else I feel I can lose this girl to another guy whose better in the bed than I am. Or at least no doubt have her going to other dudes for sex.
Options I've found to help:
PC Flexes: Not really sure how this can help me last longer, can anyone explain? It seems like I can just hold back my sperm by doing this.
Stop and Go routine: [Def - Either by yourself or with a partner, get yourself to the point where your about to orgasm, then stop, then rest, then go back to that point 3-5 times each session.] I'm not sure if this'll help, it would SEEM so, considering it's like working out lol. But since doing it I haven't been able to get as hard, my head size hasn't gotten as large. [I'm not using a partner because I don't want to show that I suck and we don't have that type of bond yet.]
So what can I do? Because I need a natural way without pills that will help me out because I don't want to have to keep pills on my hip. I'm only 20!!!
Help will be so greatly appreciated, thank youuuuu...
The first time, I probably did about 4 thrusts then I came, she was definently feeling my size though. Then a few hours later we tried it again, then she was really feeling it more than before, I probably lasted around 7 thrusts then I came. And a few weeks later [seems like shes not really interested now] we had sex for the third time, then when I finally got it in her, because her vagina's tight. As SOON as I put it in, I wanted to come, then I waited a few seconds, then I tried a few thrusts them came again!
My scenerio:
I massage her for awhile, kiss all over her body, feel on her vagina and what not, you know trying to get her in the mood. It's usually around 10-15 minutes of that. I'm not sure if that's part of the problem, like since I'm hard the whole time I'm doing that, is that shortening my time for sex? One thing that I'm sure that's hurting me is getting it in her. I'm not sure if it's because I'm not using a condom and without it there's no lubercation. So it's kinda like I'm trying hard to get him in, trying to keep him up it's like I'm almost masterbating trying to get him in.
Also, I've heard and read that when using a condom, it will make you last longer because I'm guessing it doesn't feel AS good. All three times we've had sex we haven't used a condom.
I really need your help or else I feel I can lose this girl to another guy whose better in the bed than I am. Or at least no doubt have her going to other dudes for sex.
Options I've found to help:
PC Flexes: Not really sure how this can help me last longer, can anyone explain? It seems like I can just hold back my sperm by doing this.
Stop and Go routine: [Def - Either by yourself or with a partner, get yourself to the point where your about to orgasm, then stop, then rest, then go back to that point 3-5 times each session.] I'm not sure if this'll help, it would SEEM so, considering it's like working out lol. But since doing it I haven't been able to get as hard, my head size hasn't gotten as large. [I'm not using a partner because I don't want to show that I suck and we don't have that type of bond yet.]
So what can I do? Because I need a natural way without pills that will help me out because I don't want to have to keep pills on my hip. I'm only 20!!!
Help will be so greatly appreciated, thank youuuuu...