Is EVERYONE a little bit gay?

[liz]

I've heard it said that everyone....EVERYONE has at least a little gay in them. Thoughts?

[mushie18]

no, I think people can be completly straight.

[hipunk]

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I think that we have a tendency to project our own sexual orientation onto other people. If you are straight, you might not understand how people can "do it" with the same sex. If you are gay, you may think that straight people are desperate and just have sex with each other because it's easy. And if you are bi, you might ask the question in this poll, assuming perhaps everybody is a little this and a little that.

I agree that sexuality can be seen as a continuum like the Kinsey Scale (http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/ak-hhscale.html), but it's possible for someone to be totally straight or totally gay. How many fit that depends on how you want to define gay. Is it who you love or who you screw?

Also, someone who's profoundly homophobic (and totally straight :rolleyes: ), may be hiding a latent bisexuality or homosexuality.

[Dariah]

I've heard it said that everyone....EVERYONE has at least a little gay in them. Thoughts?
I heard that on South Park... Trey Parker and Matt Stone are geniuses.

[synaptic aether]

YES!

i totally think so.

sex is sex. rub the right part the right way and it doesn't matter who it is. ...to a degree. i think it's just mental blocking that makes people decide that they'll never even consider having anything sexual to do with the same - or opposite - sex.

[Borgy]

We are all Bi-sexuals!! Didn't you know that?

[Beyond-the-Clouds]

I'm not gay at all. I don't have anything against gays, but I can't go for that, no can do, no I can't go for that.

[rain_in_summer]

At least most people who come to this forum will be at least a little bit gay, knowing it or not. :p

[ashers]

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I think that we have a tendency to project our own sexual orientation onto other people. If you are straight, you might not understand how people can "do it" with the same sex. If you are gay, you may think that straight people are desperate and just have sex with each other because it's easy. And if you are bi, you might ask the question in this poll, assuming perhaps everybody is a little this and a little that.

I agree that sexuality can be seen as a continuum like the Kinsey Scale (http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/ak-hhscale.html), but it's possible for someone to be totally straight or totally gay. How many fit that depends on how you want to define gay. Is it who you love or who you screw?

Also, someone who's profoundly homophobic (and totally straight :rolleyes: ), may be hiding a latent bisexuality or homosexuality.

Very well said. I dont think its good to assume what people are, I would think it would be stupid, probably insulting if I went saying to lesbians that they must like blokes somehow and to gay men they must like women. Theres nothing wrong with being gay, straight or bi, people are different.

Why not ask the question if everyones a little straight.

[Piney]

Everyone has some "flexibility"

Younger people are more flexible. Preferencs harden with age.

[mushie18]

Why not ask the question if everyones a little straight.
exactly.

[whynot]

asking if everones a little gay or a little straight is not going to get the answer your looking for being gay straight or bi is about how ppl identify themselves not about if theyve ever felt attracted to the same or opposite sex. it is entirely possible for a gay man who exclusive fucks other men to have sex with a woman and enjoy it this does not mean that he is bisexual and it works just the same on all ends of the sextrum.
i believe everyone has at least one homo/heterosexual thought or fantasy in there life this doesnt mean u r gay or straight it means u had the thought in ur head and u found it pleasing now some ppl may suppress these feelings for fear of being a social reject sex is sex all animals have all forms of sex that humans do aside from the real kinky shit

[KewlDewd66]

Yup, everyone is theoretically gay, bi, and str8, too. In terms of an underlying potential. Some people act on some of those 'gay' impulses and the others do not. A significant number of people would try once or twice and leave at that. Most develop their own sexual preferences and stay with them for a very long time. All that is fine.

Concluding that since everyone is somewhat 'gay', you may land them in your bedroom (or somewhere else for that matter) would be simply stretching the truth a bit too far.

The coolest thing about this whole sex chase is that we all learn that no one, absolutely no one has any monopoly here and that everyone, no matter how hot he or she may be, gets rejected ever so often. Equally so, sex knows of almost no impossibilities. You may end up discovering that your super str8 stud friend likes to get down on his knees before other dude(s) ever so often, if the circumstances are right.

So, the only rule is that there are really no rules...
KD

[syd]

THere's a scene in trainspotting where the main character goes on a rant about this, that you're attracted to whoever you're attracted to and that "in a thousand years there will be no men and women just wankers, which is fine by me". Thats my favourite view on the matter.

[SelfControl]

I'd say maybe. I think there is a spectrum, but that purely biological imperatives have meant that people tend to fall at or near the ends of it rather than in the middle.

I think a lot of the time the issue gets confused by people's own perspectives. If you wanted to push it, you could argue that anyone who can appreciate good looks within their own gender is "at least a bit gay". In my opinion, you'd be wrong to do so, as the way one appreciates beauty doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sex - a) you can appreciate beauty in things which you don't want to have sex with, and b) there's plenty of people who'll fuck things/people they don't find attractive.

If you regard sexuality as fluid, the question of orientation becomes totally meaningless. Even if you do entertain the possibility, what are you asking someone who claims a sexual orientation? For all I know I really haven't met the right girl yet. But an orientation is a tendency, not an absolute.

So basically I personally believe that you can fuck someone of the same sex without being bisexual, just as you can fuck someone of a different sex and still deem yourself homosexual (something I suspect a few of you can relate to).

[SelfControl]

I'm amazed no-one has yet exploited the comic potential of "a little gay".

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[SoulReflections]

So basically I personally believe that you can fuck someone of the same sex without being bisexual, just as you can fuck someone of a different sex and still deem yourself homosexual (something I suspect a few of you can relate to).Yep, yep! Been there, done that, still call myself a dyke. http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/sunglasses.gif

[maryjaneguitargurl]

I think its called everyone is human. We all have thought about it and have a tendency to act upon it.

peace
chickens

[toolstheshit44]

no everyone is not gay. in order to reproduce you must mate with a vagina wich are most commonly found on females

[synaptic aether]

no everyone is not gay. in order to reproduce you must mate with a vagina wich are most commonly found on femalesyou would be entirely right ... if humans only mated to reproduce.

besides, it's "is everyone a LITTLE bit gay" wich is like... is everyone really bi.

would anyone, in the right conditions, get off on/with a person from their own sex? i say yes, provided the right circumstances. so everyone has it within themselves to be turned on by the opposite sex - wich is "a little gay" or bi.

[toolstheshit44]

but to reproduce is the only real thing sex accomplishes.

[SelfControl]

but to reproduce is the only real thing sex accomplishes.
If that's the case you ain't doing it right.

[amp7325]

but to reproduce is the only real thing sex accomplishes.
Yes, but sexual orientation has more to do with attraction, not reproduction. A person at a bar who wants to do a really hot chick he sees dancing isn't thinking, "I want to reproduce with this fine specimen of woman and raise fine children." He's thinking, "Dayum, that ass is so hot it will probably burn me."

[Green]

I've never found myself attracted to another guy sexually. I've never had any fantasys about having sex or doing anything the least bit erotic with another guy. I've never enjoyed any male on male porn and I have looked and watched some. So I don't know if I am a little gay or not. In terms of attraction I'd say not. I wonder if I'd enjoy making out with another guy. I wouldn't pass up the opprotunity. I guess theres a little curiosity.

[toolstheshit44]

Yes, but sexual orientation has more to do with attraction, not reproduction. A person at a bar who wants to do a really hot chick he sees dancing isn't thinking, "I want to reproduce with this fine specimen of woman and raise fine children." He's thinking, "Dayum, that ass is so hot it will probably burn me."
actually if you get into the real causes of it all its the drive for sex (sigmund freud) that you really want. yea there is pleasure but in truth is not ment for pleasure. it is abused this way. sex is a way for reproduction to take place. society and culture has shaped it to be a social experience.

[toolstheshit44]

If that's the case you ain't doing it right.
i am doing it right i enjoy sex just as much as everyone else. but i do know the real reason behind it.

[Kempo]

Well if by a little bit gay you mean...thinking guys are attractive sometimes, yes. But I don't find them attractive in a way that I would act on, as I would a girl. But I can just tell if a guy is good looking or not, just like whether a fruit is bad or not...I don't like rotten apples. Yuck. Well I just ate a rotten apple, so that really has nothing to do with this. Anyhow my brother is gay, and I'm not, but ...umm..I lost my train of thought.

[Greengirl]

maybe...cuz once i was something like in love with a girl from my school ( it think she liked me 2 hehe;)),now i`m not he;)

[grimjivey]

If that's the case you ain't doing it right.
WORD!!! hahahaha

Personally, I NEVER even glanced at a guy till I was 30 years old. For me it was a matter of getting rid of some walls that I constructed.
I was in the prosess of throughing out some old rules that had been handed down to me from previous gererations, and from society. Suddenly, and shockingly I found myself fantisizing about Dudes :&

Still never acted on it (I'm not single) but the possibility is there.

So I say yes, I think many of us are a bit bi, if we let ourselves.

[free_byrd]

eh, who cares
just love, be loved and have sex.
even if it is not in the name of procreation.

[Andie Nicole]

No, but there are about as many purely straight people as there are purely gay people... It's just that if you have a slight attraction to the same sex, but a major one to the opposite sex, it's easier to ignore than if it were the other way around, or with no attraction to the opposite sex.

[Last Stand]

I Was Until The Gasoline Prices Went Up! Now Im More Like A Big Black Mean Lesbian Detenction Guard At A Federal Prison.

[sunshine and pearls]

I'm not really sure about the answer to this I mean it is possible, but i doubt you would get certain people to admit to it any way so we will never know. On instinct I would say yes from a personal perspective. I am straight and married, but would rather watch/fantasize/read about lesbians than heteros to get in the mood etc So of course I personally would say many straight people are attracted to same sex they just don't voice it. and many gay people may be attracted to the opposite sex, but don't want to voice it.
love.

[evil lesbian]

i completly agree! well said




YES!

i totally think so.

sex is sex. rub the right part the right way and it doesn't matter who it is. ...to a degree. i think it's just mental blocking that makes people decide that they'll never even consider having anything sexual to do with the same - or opposite - sex.

[chaos]

straight people are gay!

[Otterface]

Yeah, younger people tend to experiment more often that adults, usually more often in college than not. But people tend to lean one direction more than others as they get older.

[RingoDeStarr]

I don't think my Dad is a little bit gay , and if he is, I wonder if Mom knows.

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[virgo_boy]

If you ask me every orientation is based on presentages. I mean I'm 90% or more for guys and just wee bit for girls. I notice girls and like ya know boobs haha but if I was ever going to do something with one it would never be serious.

[indian~summer]

it is my belief that i am a gay man in a womans body :)

[i am confused]

apparentlly even a straight man fantisies about a man at least once ;)

(came from a unreliable friend so im not sure if its true)

[Tasare_Kemi-Mellon]

1 in 10 people are fully straight

[Lanze]

I'm like 95% gay...I dont mind looking at a woman naked but it doesnt turn me on and i have not once fantasized about a women in my entire life, and its not like im trying NOT to, I would of course love to because it is more accepted in society to be straight of course.

[mushie18]

1 in 10 people are fully straight

can you cite that?

[mr.morrison]

i dont think everyone is bi. i mean, i can tell when a guy is attractive, but i dont consider myself bi. there is a difference between noticing someone/something is good looking and actaully getting turned on by them. you can look at the sun rise and be thinking that its beutiful, but you arent gonna go fuck the sun. ive never been aroused by any guy and ive never had any thoughts of hvaing any type of sexual stuff with any guy. ive thought about this topic before and tried to imagine myself kising a guy or fucking a guy, but i just cant.

and hell, right now it would be easier for me to get sex if i was bi or gay.:p

[mr.morrison]

maybe if one day i have some fantasy about a man, then ill rethink my opinion

[erzebet1961]

Like a willow I can bend, but Iv'e never put a label on myself.

[lisalotte]

Like a willow I can bend, but Iv'e never put a label on myself.maybe you should have. That way you would have denied other people the privelage to do that themselves...

[paperdoll075]

in terms of sexuality, i don't put restrictions on myself. i'm convinced that sexual attraction could happen with anyone, regarless of gender.
perhaps it won't...but i'm open to the opportunity.
i think girls are beautiful, i'm fascinated by their feminity and i don't condem the possibility that i might have sexual chemistry with one. because really, i don't think that's all about gender.

[KParker730]

I dont think anyone is straight or gay... everyone is just horny! ;)

[i am confused]

eh, who cares
just love, be loved and have sex.
even if it is not in the name of procreation.
dam right ;)

[erzebet1961]

It's cool if people want to throw some label on me... as long as I know who I really am.

[gesone]

Absolutely not. Either you are or aren't.

[Flight From Ashiya]

I'm not gay but I'll give them a hand if they are short staffed!.:D

[kismet]

(I was googling "everyone is bi" and came up with this site and had some to contribute to this discussion.)

I used to subscribe to the idea that sexuality is black and white. I experimented very young and defined myself at a very early age, with plenty of self-imposed guilt for it. Even though I had girlfriends throughout grade school, junior high, and high school, I was always very honest with myself and knew I also had feelings for guys. That mixed with masturbation during puberty to thoughts of guys, well... sex and guys became very strongly associated. Mix that with my "helpful" friends who were trying to convince me of "who I was," things got all very set in stone, until...

I moved away from my family to go work in Los Angeles for a while and reached a breaking point where I wanted to just know what I was, not what I had really worked to convince myself out of or secretly thought I was. Was I torn over the sexuality issue due to my religious upbringing or was I repressing more heterosexuality than I'd allowed myself to consider that I had?

One day I just really focused on removing all the walls and both the hopeful and fearful expectations. I stopped worrying about what things would mean, hoping for straightness which would mean a normal life with kids and acceptance. I was ready to finally accept whatever I found out. If I'm really gay, I should just stop the casual, meaningless sex with guys and get in a long-term relationship and get my parents to just accept it. (Since I wasn't sure I could commit to the sexuality long-term, I couldn't commit to an LTR).

I had some female friends who knew of me as gay and I didn't have to worry about my experimentation leading them on or anything. I just relaxed and enjoyed it. I found myself incredibly turned on by one of the girls, the one who didn't want a relationship -- the one who did have an attraction worried me that I would hurt her (which had always been a huge blockage to really trying it out, I felt I'd be lying to them and end up hurting them). I couldn't keep my hands off of her, she could get me turned on in public with just a light touch of my leg.

One night both were lying in bed with me (non-sexually) and I was on such a high from the natural rush of seratonin that I had the thought "I can't understand why anyone would ever be with a guy!" A thought that just came and completely surprised me and I laughed out loud at the irony and that I'd never had a thought like that before.

I'd always assumed that I would be able to be turned on by a girl enough (at least 80%) to have sex and children should I try to get married and just try to ignore guys. But, even without having any sex with her, I found myself 4 or 5 times more turned on by her (without sex) than any guy (including sex). I found this very interesting! I laughed about it a lot, it felt very liberating! It was probably a lot like what some guys experience when they finally break down and try sex with a guy when they've been denying that part of themselves for so long... but mine was the unusual opposite direction. I want to make a T-Shirt that says "closet hetero" just for the fun reactions I would get and also as a good conversation starter.

But, now that I'm not around her anymore, I've slipped back into old thought patterns and focus more on guys again (99% of my life thinking one way is difficult to undo, the whole thing feels somewhat like a fluke now). My favorite porn site is where they pay straight guys to experiment... that line, the idea that straight guys can enjoy sex with another guy is something I guess I really relate to, but still enjoy it for pretty gay reasons.

All of my friends are straight and all (that I've talked to about it) admit to various levels of curiosity but none have ever felt strongly enough to act on it (at least not while an adult). I'd talked to one about kissing him and even though he could kiss a guy on New Years (as a joke) when it came time to kiss me he told me that he worried that it would mean too much -- to both of us. At first I thought he was just trying to find a way to back out, but I later realized he was serious. He told me I'd made him question a part of himself he never really examined before, but he still considers himself mostly straight.

Another had fooled around as a kid but had never "gone all the way" so that was his one remaining fantasy, we'd even talked about me finding him a gay guy to try it out with (he felt it would mess up our friendship to have me do it), but he never went through with it. He was a kicker on the college football team and is now married with kids. (As a strange side note: one of his teammates would play with a butt plug in during the games and apparently had a personality where he could pull it off and people found it funny -- he swears it to be true, it still seems hard to believe for me though).

One of my friends in LA was not gay or straight, just sexual. He had 7 steps to get straight guys to bend, and he has had sex with more straight guys than most women. Guys where he was their one and only time for crossing over to that realm. I never liked the idea of having an agenda with a straight guy and he'd offered to fly out the kicker but when he later added the condition that I had to try to break him, I called my friend and cancelled his trip -- which ended up really hurting the friendship. My LA friend went to college at 14 (prodigy) and was on the dorm floor with the USC baseball team, which he (being a happy-go-lucky little guy) ended up massaging (and jerking off) all of the good-looking players on the team -- who would come back for more. (I have objections to them allowing that situation with a 14 year old!).

Conclusion:
So, I don't think it's black and white and our culture plays a huge part into the walls we place on ourselves for what we even allow ourselves to think about seriously (without family, culturually, or self-imposed "wrong" labels mucking things up). I believe the black and white categorization is what causes so much confusion and the repression fuels some of the hate crimes. A while back I saw on a news show an interview with a religious guy who admitted that he'd had homosexual thoughts. I thought "how great! Even someone on the religious right can admit that everyone can have thoughts without it defining who they are!" He was grilled intensely over that for 30 seconds, they cut to commercial and he was gone when they came back. Oh well, nice attempt. I feel that statements such as "either you are or you aren't" are very restrictive. It makes gay thoughts dangerous and something to fear since just the act of having the thought is something we have to define ourselves by or we are someway denying who we are. It ignores the wide range of the human experience and creates limits on our imaginations.

Sexuality is a very interesting topic for me and I've been very interested to see how different people have reacted to this question.

Sorry this is so long! I thought I could keep it short. I've edited several times and it more than tripled in length from my original post... Thanks for reading!
Paul

[bkcmar]

I am gay and all of my sexual experiences have been with men. I believe sexuality is fluid. We fall within a range on the sexual scale. There are probably a small percentage of people who are exclusively hetrosexual or homosexual.

Younger people have much less societal pressure to conform to a particular manner of behavior. Thus, they can explore the various aspects of sexuality.;)

[erzebet1961]

But why do I have to call myself either one , I know what I am , and it took me half my life to get comfortable with who i am, and not what someone wanted me to be.

I honestly dont have a preference..I can go either way..

[erzebet1961]

But why do I have to call myself either one , I know what I am , and it took me half my life to get comfortable with who i am, and not what someone wanted me to be.

I honestly dont have a preference..I can go either way..

[Boogabaah]

i took some online test once that told me i was like 3% gay. i don't think i could kiss another woman or have sex with one. BUT i have snuggled with a few while sleeping. and seen a few naked, they've seen me naked. no big deal really.

[fuzz_acid_flowers]

i don't think so but i do feel a little gay sometimes :D

[britishman2525]

Bi-sexuality is very common in the animal world. Scientist say that due to the cultural isolation, it makes people be one or the other. If it werent for this more gay people would have sex with the opposite sex, and straight people haveing sex with the same sex.

[VirgilDemon]

Judging from the ancient greeks I think most of us (dont wont to be absolute so I wont say all) may be a bit gay.

If society was like back then , I think many of us straights that claim will never go with the same gender would have tried it atleast out of curiosity.

[BuffFilmBuff]

EVERYONE? I'm a little reluctant to go along with any statement about everyone. As far as I can tell, I'm 100% gayboy.

[Boogabaah]

EVERYONE? I'm a little reluctant to go along with any statement about everyone. As far as I can tell, I'm 100% gayboy.
not even 1% heterosexual?

[mushie18]

As far as I can tell, I'm 100% gayboy.

for sure!

[dances in pajamas]

I believe so...

I don't think anyone is either straight or gay...
but more on a slider bar with straight and gay on apposing ends... I think we're all somewhere in between... with at least a bit of both in us...I like the sliding bar kind of thing... I always thought of it that way. There's no black and white in sexuality.

[btbam2]

like someone said before, sex is sex and if you rub it the right way, it just works for you.

[BlackGuardXIII]

it is my belief that i am a gay man in a womans body :)I feel like I'm a lesbian in a man's body. I even had a gf leave me for a woman. I think that everyone is a little gay, and that guys especially find that scary. The more a guy protests that he is totally, 100% straight, and there is no bloody way he is even the teeniest bit gay... the more I doubt it. I am attracted to women, everything about them, and don't find the male body very appealing at all. The only problem with someone being totally one way or the other is that you instantly cut your chances of connecting with someone in half. Bisexuals are lucky in that they have twice as many potential partners as anyone else. In 1982, for whatever reason, I had one experimental experience, and though it was not disagreeable, it was okay, it was not as enjoyable for me as being with a woman. Since then, my preference has hardened with age, as someone already mentioned is often the case. I find women far more enticing and attractive than men. I think I am a little gay though. And I see being gay as totally normal for that person. I find nothing wrong with them, accept them as they are, and support gay rights strongly. I see no reason at all that there should be any discrimination or different treatment towards someone because they happen to be gay. To me, calling gay people abnormal, deviant, or anything like that is no more than bigotry.

[USA in decline]

I've never found myself attracted to another guy sexually. I've never had any fantasys about having sex or doing anything the least bit erotic with another guy. I've never enjoyed any male on male porn and I have looked and watched some. So I don't know if I am a little gay or not. In terms of attraction I'd say not. I wonder if I'd enjoy making out with another guy. I wouldn't pass up the opprotunity. I guess theres a little curiosity.http://www.teens-boys-world.com/menu.html

[steelegiraffe]

I consider myself to be completly straight, and I believe that most people are.
I'll even go so far as to saying that I believe that most "gays" are not truly homosexual.

peace,
steele

[erzebet1961]

No...Im pretty sure that all Gays are true gays....Im not sure where you come up with your theory !!

[BlackGuardXIII]

I consider myself to be completly straight, and I believe that most people are.
I'll even go so far as to saying that I believe that most "gays" are not truly homosexual.

peace,
steele


No...Im pretty sure that all Gays are true gays....Im not sure where you come up with your theory !!I'm with you erzebet, though there is always an exception to every rule, but the gay men I know are gay, truly. Where indeed. It is an odd theory that Steele proposes, considering the fact that steele is self-admitted to be straight. I didn't choose to be straight. My gay friends say they didn't choose to be gay. What does steele know that I don't that suggests my gay friends are wrong? I feel they are no different than me, and I wonder is steele had a hard time deciding whether to be gay or straight? I'll bet not. And its no different, steele, for gays. In fact, many gays fight their sexuality for obvious reasons. It is not for others to say what they are or aren't, that is their business.

[erzebet1961]

Yes....and I honestly believe that being Gay isnt a choice....no one chooses to live such a life..it would be so much easier to be " NORMAL " and fit into everyones neat little package. Guys like Steele make it sound as if some people woke up one day and said...gee..I think I'll be gay !!!

[kissya]

Being gay is not a choice.

[steelegiraffe]

Yes....and I honestly believe that being Gay isnt a choice....no one chooses to live such a life..it would be so much easier to be " NORMAL " and fit into everyones neat little package. Guys like Steele make it sound as if some people woke up one day and said...gee..I think I'll be gay !!!it's exactly what i'm saying, tho i believe a little more social conditioning takes place..

i believe some people are truly homosexual, most are not, and the ones that are have some mental condition that they are born with.

peace and respect,
steele

[bkcmar]

you are born gay, there is no choice in the matter. i believe sexuality is gray and fluid. i believe there are very few people that are 100% straight or 100% gay. i think most of us fall somewhere along the spectrum. the majority of us are probably close to one side or the other.

[melodiuScorpittarius]

i think bisexuality is human nature. it is society, man, who has religiously justifed our current notions of sexuality. and because we live in a world that stresses duality and separation instead of union and wholeness it forces people to lean to one extreme or the other. things that can influence this are childhood and parental influences, the ratio of feminine to masculine energies in a person, among MANY other things.
kinsey = the movie, is a good simplified example of what i am trying to convey.

Yes there are people who could never see themselves with people of the same sex, or people of the opposite sex, but i believe this can be explained. "sexuality is fluid."

"follow the heart not the anatomy"

[bkcmar]

excellent post melodiuscorpittarius, and of course it is by a fellow Louisianan, lol.

[melodiuScorpittarius]

thanks bkcmar
nice to meet a fellow Louisianian :)
hell, NewOrleans eh?
how goes things down in nola?
i have not been in quite some time.

quite fond of your dog! lol. love animals

[³ÂCHAN]

Everyone has some "flexibility"

Younger people are more flexible. Preferencs harden with age.
i agree

[AncientHippie]

Everyone has some "flexibility"

Younger people are more flexible. Preferencs harden with age.
No pun intended I bet.

[josh55116]

i don't think so

[andrew_1991]

I believe no one is completely gay, and no one is completely straight.

[The_Walrus]

I don't really think of everyone as merely "a little bit gay."
I think every person out there has the potential to be straight, bisexual, or gay, yes, but I wouldn't say that everyone's "a little bit gay." I just don't really like that phrase. I prefer to think of every person being not 100% straight or 100% gay.

[*~nathan~*]

A little bit, I'm like the definition of gay. lol

[lakeoffire]

you ever hear Ron White's skit:


Ron White - "Everyone is gay, it's just to what extent are you gay."
RW's Brother - "Nu-uh, I'm not gay! (etc.)"
RW - "Oh yeah, you like porn?"
Brother - "You know I like porn."
RW - "Do you only like to see two women together?"
B - "Naw, I'll watch a man and a woman makin' love."
RW - "Do you like the man to have a small, half-flacid penis?"
B - "No I like big, hard, throbbing cock...."

[Distant Lover]

I read in "The New York Times" awhile ago that most women can feel a sexual attraction for another woman, but that most men cannot feel a sexual attraction for another man. Speaking only for myself I began to feel romantic and sexual feelings for females when I was five or six. (When I entered the first grade I went crazy over the girls!) I have never felt anything sexual or romantic for a male, although I have developed very stong friendships with males, even homosexuals.

[trekker]

Like boy dogs, hunans can and do want to copulate with thier own sex. I see gayness as a scale say from 1-10. The higher the number the more gay you are. I got that from reading the Kinsey book that came out recently which they made a movie about.

[Loveminx]

Like boy dogs, hunans can and do want to copulate with thier own sex. I see gayness as a scale say from 1-10. The higher the number the more gay you are. I got that from reading the Kinsey book that came out recently which they made a movie about.I agree with the Kinsey Scale.
I read that in a Freud book a few years ago.
( I think it was- Interpretation of Dreams)

[britishman2525]

AH-hem...."Everyone is Gay."

Don't you guys lisiten to Nirvana?

[Whiskers123]

No... I am not gay at all.

I think all girls might be bisexual... I dont know for sure but from personal experience and a couple a study I have seen done by the show "Sex Files" it looks like it could be true. Again I dont know for sure, its just a possibility. The study was quiet small with only 300 girls and 300 guys.

What they did is they had 100 girls and 100 guys who considered themselves bisexual, 100 girls and 100 guys who said they were lesbians, and 100 girls and 100 guys who said they were straight and got them to watch three styles of pornography. They then measured blood flow to the genitals, and also got them to push a lever either forward or back depending how turned on or off they were. They found that with girls it didnt matter what form they were watching the blood flow was the same. However what they did with the lever would tell a different story (what they considered themselves).

With guys... they found that this was quiet the opposite. Even the bisexual guys only got hard watching either gay porn or lesbian porn not both. I dont think there was a single guy who got hard from both. Did anybody else ever watch that show? I believe the episode was called something like Bi-way Tri-way.

Again this study does not prove that all girls are bisexual and all guys are gay or straight. However it does suggest it. Anybody else know of any studies done on this subject?

[whotookpixie]

Everyone has some "flexibility"

Younger people are more flexible. Preferencs harden with age.
Quite true...but my gym instructor was with her husband for 20 years, had a few kids...then met this chick and fell hopelessly in love.

It was oh so adorable. But I think women are more flexible in the bisexual department...think about it...what do women like to look at? Magazines filled with...WOMEN...makeup, bodytypes, fashion etc. When walking on the streets who are we (women) judging? Women. What are self proclaimed straight males looking at?...Women. HAH

I don't know what arguement I'm trying to make but I find it interesting.

[faraway4]

Some guys may be completely straight......

[mexi0803]

I honestly think so. I really think that we all are a little gay or bi. How can anyone say that there is NO WAY someone of their sex cannot possibly attract them. There are billions of people in the world! Surely there is someone of the same sex that they would be at least a little interested in right??


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[Buttsecksman]

^^

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[Rigby]

If not everyone... than damn close. IMO very few people are truly, honest to fuck, completely absolutely 100% gay or straight

[deniska-alare]

Please, if you got some piece of humanism, do not laugh, help to this poor child as you can.
http://deniska-alare.narod.ru/index_eng.html

[whatshappenin23]

who gives a fuck