Teenage ED

[M O S Definite]

I'm sorry if anyone has posted this before, but this is something that is pretty important to me and has been bothering me.

I am 16 years old and have a girlfriend whom I have been trying to have sex with, but every time I go for insertion I'm never hard enough. It's extremely embarassing considering I'm only 16 and I thought this only happened to older men. I'll get hard at first contact then it goes away and doesn't return. The only time I've found I've been able to stay hard is when I'm masterbating, but even then it's not constant :(.

I'm not looking for people to come down on me with abstinance chatter or that it can wait, this is something important to me for many different reasons. I was just wondering if anyone knew of a way I could get a sample pack of viagra without having to go to the doctor because my parents always come or make the appointment or what not and the doctor would tell them, and I don't want them to know I'm sexually active.

Thanks,

Mos fan

[Green]

Use protection.


You can't just look at her, you have to think about her. You need to think about something kinky, whatever turns you on, or even better get her to do whatever turns you on.

It could be that you cum and then try to stick it in, well that doesn't work at 16, it rarely works for older guys.

Once you cum you lose all interest, but you didn't say that, I am just guessing it might be the problem.

I don't know what to tell you. I imagine being with a girl would make a guy hard.

[dangermoose]

not neccesarily, i failed to maintian my erection most of the time the first numbe rof times i had sex, the more you do it the easier it is because the more you feel comfortable with it. you're problem is, that you WANT to stay hard so you start to worry about not staying hard, whcih is stressful and you lose it....a self fulfilling prophecy.
if im jerking it on cam and i wanna show my girl my cock, if i think about it too much i'll lose it because theres that pressure to preform, but if i don't think about it, i have no problem maintaining my erection.
i found i had to be in a certian position with constant stimulation to keep it hard the first couple of times, then after that it got easier and easier. find what gets you hard, and make your woman start off by doing the work, for me, she had to be on top...you eventually learn how to work with it and it wasnt required anymore. you prolyl don't need viagra, but, i know the easy way out is appealing ;)
don't let anyone bad talk you about this shit though, highschool rumours get started about this stuff, and yea, jsut make sure you're in love with your girl and she's understanding and isnt putting pressure on you to preform.

[ihmurria]

what dangermoose said. smart feller

make sure you use a condom, and you aren't drinking a lot before hand. Booze makes it a lot easier to lose an erection. If you're girl is worth keeping around, she isn't gonna freak out if you get soft the first few times you two attempt it

[RetroGroove_Grrl]

Maybe you should see a doctor about it. I say this because you said its hard to maintain even ewhen masturbating....

[diamondsontheinside]

my friends boyfriend had that problem for awhile. they way she helped him get over it was having sex with him in kinky places. i'm not so sure thats the best advice, but hey... it worked for them?

[toolmaggot]

Maybe you're gay.