What is up with that?

[meangreen]

As a aquarius male,why is it I cannot find a sole mate.I have found myself in a many relationship that I always enjoy before the enevitable clock tells me its time to move on for no apparent reason.I know this has somewhat to do with my needing space/freedom ,but there has to be someone out there that the love for will last,or is impossible to think it will ever develop.Any other aquarius have this prob?

[ichigo_fizz]

I hear ya, 'cept I've never had a relationship to begin with. o.O Nobody's asked me or anything, so I sort've gave the idea of having one up and just say I don't need it, I'm better off alone. That's how I deal with it, may not be the most positive way but I'd rather be negative than desporate. ^_^;;

[Bassboy444]

I know what ya mean. A big problem I find is us aquarius people have such high expectations in people it's hard to find a good match. The freedom thing can be a problem for most people as we always need our alone time, but hey I'm still looking for my soul mate. I'm determined.

[ornery hipster]

Silvia Browne says that there are no soul mates until you die...right now it's "life partner" or something to that effect. Take from that what you will.

In my 17 years I've proven to be pretty bad with relationships so I won't give too much advice, I'll just say that be happy that you're not a virgo. Virgos tend to be the most complicated and hard headed people I've ever met...good luck to them with relationships :rolleyes:

...not saying that it's not do-able of course...just talking from MY own experiences.

[AreYouExperienced]

I hear ya man, I'm an aquarius male and I have had only 2 relationships, both of which were unsuccessful. Mostly it's because I'm shy and I do have what some people would call high expectations, but it's just my nature to be that way. Sometimes I get depressed about it but I just try to stay positive and hope that I will someday find someone..

[ichigo_fizz]

I hear ya man, I'm an aquarius male and I have had only 2 relationships, both of which were unsuccessful. Mostly it's because I'm shy and I do have what some people would call high expectations, but it's just my nature to be that way. Sometimes I get depressed about it but I just try to stay positive and hope that I will someday find someone..
Is shyness common in Aquarians? I always figured I was shy cause I have Pisces Rising and my sun, moon and mercury are all in the 12th house. ^_^; Or maybe it's just all of that. *heh*.

[meangreen]

I am in no way shy,I seem to shy away from commitment as is does the concensus of other aquarius.Maybe one day I will find my life partner as one person said! Who knows till I am blessed with the next prospect!

[scarikari]

The best romantic soulmate for an aquarius is their best friend of the opposite sex. This is one that they will feel the most connected to and longing for their whole life. Aquarius wants the untouchable and unique lover. The reason that many of you sound unsatisfied is becuase you need to find that best friend back and start arelationship. Chances are, you never really took the relationship far enough. You didn't want to damage the good friendship, so you remained friends with that person. I know this from personal experience and many astrology books!

[AreYouExperienced]

Is shyness common in Aquarians? I always figured I was shy cause I have Pisces Rising and my sun, moon and mercury are all in the 12th house. ^_^; Or maybe it's just all of that. *heh*.

I think you and I are just the oddballs. All of my friends who are aquarius are very outgoing and willing to meet/talk to people they don't know. My moon is in Aries, and rising is saggitarius (I think?)

[LilacChakra]

I consulted my ZOLAR book for your problem and found that LEO'S are a GREAT MATCH for you because they love surpriss which you are full of and certain LIBRA'S can also work well. I really think that if you want a relationship to work you have to try, despite oyur astrological sign, which may have a lo to do with you not trying as much as other people, I belive that setting up open communication, fun outings and a sense of giving in sometimes works well.

[saffronfrancisburnet]

[QUOTE=meangreen]As a aquarius male,why is it I cannot find a sole mate.I have found myself in a many relationship that I always enjoy before the enevitable clock tells me its time to move on for no apparent reason.I know this has somewhat to do with my needing space/freedom ,but there has to be someone out there that the love for will last,or is impossible to think it will ever develop.Any other aquarius have this prob?[/QUOTE

i feel this at times
female water carrier here
ive had a few failed love lives
found my distance maybe caused some arguements
im with a leo now {after 2 chidren a split relationship and now we have 3....
and we seem to balance each other maybe we just are alittle distant
for this world.....}
love n peace from saff
you will see your soul mate when you dont know its there
love is a feeling at first full on then gets washed aside
by life...
like i said im the distant one and ive been with my man
4 years ...wow.....

[BlackGuardXIII]

I thought I never would find my soul mate, and seriously doubted one existed for me. I have the sun, saturn, mars, and mercury in Aq., and it is my ascendent. At 39 it happened. You will know when it does, you can't miss it.

[Thethirdbenjamin]

Aquarians what a lover whose at the same time a freind, at least i think so???

[ryupower]

Is shyness common in Aquarians? I always figured I was shy cause I have Pisces Rising and my sun, moon and mercury are all in the 12th house. ^_^; Or maybe it's just all of that. *heh*.
Nope. Not really, there are two types of aquarius: Saturn and Uranus.
The uranus are the hyper, jumpy ones. The Saturn ones are the shy people.
I'm not sure, but I think I may be a Saturn.

[ryupower]

I consulted my ZOLAR book for your problem and found that LEO'S are a GREAT MATCH for you because they love surpriss which you are full of and certain LIBRA'S can also work well. I really think that if you want a relationship to work you have to try, despite oyur astrological sign, which may have a lo to do with you not trying as much as other people, I belive that setting up open communication, fun outings and a sense of giving in sometimes works well.
You forgot Gemini ,Segitarius, and other aquarians.Those match better then Leo from what I read. Leos can go either way, they can be your best friend, or worst enemy, for they are the Zodiac opposite.

[ryupower]

Aquarians what a lover whose at the same time a freind, at least i think so???yup, that's exactly right.