Lesbian Sex Ed

[DreamerSpirit]

I posted a thread similar to this in the Love&Sex forum and didn't really get anywahere with it...

But, anyways, as a bi/les borderline chick I'm at a bit of a loss in terms of lesbian sex ed. I've googled it, yet with little avail. I'm not really looking into how to screw around with a chick, I know how to do that, but I'm looking into info on how to stay STD-free.

I'm looking for books and websites or any other info on the matter. I'm hoping to get to the bookstore sometime this week so book titles would be muchly apperciated.

[Ocean Byrd]

Dental dams or seram (sp?) wrap work well for oral protection...

[tigerlily]

yeah really that's all i can think of too... ^

[Green]

Maybe you should just read some general info. on contraceptives. I really think you should ask some people in health care though, like a doctor, or email somebody online.

[hipunk]

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Hello DreamerSpirit,

Finding anything on Google can be a challenge. What are the right terms needed to find links you can use? Well, if you knew that, half the time you wouldn't need the links.

Here's the search I used for google: 'women std prevention health (http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=women+std+prevention+health&btnG=Google+Search)' (with out the quotes.)

I was able to find the LGBT Health Channel (http://www.gayhealthchannel.com/stdwsw/) and an article on Safer Sex for Women who Have Sex with Women . I didn't read all the information and I can not attest to it, but it looks like what you are asking to find out about.

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[toolmaggot]

Don't lick a sick beaver.

Simple enough.

[DreamerSpirit]

Thanks for the website and other tips! I really appreciate it! ^^

I actually brought the issue of getting a book on the topic up with my mom last week, and she said that I was 'too young to need a book like that'... I havn't brought it up again since, but I'm planning to argue her down on the subject next time we go to the bookstore. Not that I've lost my lesbian virginity yet, but I'm a teenage girl with raging hormones so I'm worried about what *could* happen... I mean, my first (and only) relationship started when my mom went out shopping, leaving me and a friend alone... I ended up chaining her to a bed, then making out topless with her for three hours, and we woul've kept going if it wern't for the fact that my mom came home and nearly caught us. The girl I'm going after now dosn't seem as much of a horny little freak as my ex, but still...

Also, where can I find a dental dam other than a sex shop? I kind of have to sneak these things under my parents noses, and I can't really drive myself out to buy one...

Thanks again! ^^

[hipunk]

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I've never bought them, or shopped for them. I looked it up on line. Dental Jams run about $1 to $1.50 a piece and come in 3 packs and 12 packs, sometimes sold singly. They come in different flavors, which is neat. You should be able to find them near the condoms in any drug store. You may have to ask for them, the drug stores around me keep that stuff behind the counter.

See: Undercovercondoms.com (http://www.undercovercondoms.com/Condoms/Line-One-Labs/158/12/Flavored-Dental-Dams-12-Pack.html)

I would be leary of on-line sites that offer "free" condoms, they may just want your address to send you junk mail, and I'm talking snail mail. Many colleges and universities have clinics where they distribute free condoms and dental jams, you may want to check in your area. Look for free clinics around a college campus, or call the student union or student services at the U and just ask. You might also contact any glbt groups in your area about std clinics and testing where you might be able to buy or recieve dental jams.

good luck, you wild thing!

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[DreamerSpirit]

Oki. I just came across a pretty good site and I figured that I should post it in case anyone else needed such information.

http://www.gayhealth.com/templates/1133744600773231706115/sex/index.html?trycookie=1

It's got loads of info, and seems pretty reputable.

[LaLa]

Hey girl I can totally appreciate your wanting to learn more about bi/lesbian relationships, and i also have interest in learning all i can about my fellow sisters.
you know I got kicked out of hip chat the other day, for coming on to a girl in the room! That was a real shocker for me, shows theres a big difference in the old school hippies, and the new age!! So nice to know I have common interest with someone.
Much love always 2 my sister's. LaLa,,,aka....IslandAngel707@aol

[tigerlily]

it's called Girl-Fuck. i saw it on another board and thought i'd share.... here's the link: http://www.projectkooky.com/erika/comics/girlfuck/01.htm

http://www.projectkooky.com/erika/comics/girlfuck/02.htm

[tigerlily]

i just want to say it's not just about lesbian safe sex, it also talks about gender identity and toys and other stuff.. it's really cute and funny and educational.

[ihmurria]

Verrrry cute!

[tigerlily]

i know! i'm glad you like it! hehe i wanted somebody else to love it too because i think it's great

[BeyondHeroism]

I agree, that was a very cute comic! :)

[trixie27]

i liked that

[l-foote]

I liked it too, very... educational? I guess, it was cute none the less though

[BodyElectric]

That toon was great! Thanks for sharing

[Bocks]

Have any of you ever read anything by Alison Bechdel? Lesbian comic-writer/genius. LOVE IT.

[Bocks]

And this comic is really cute.

[tigerlily]

i haven't. i'll have to look her up :)

[Bocks]

http://www.dykestowatchoutfor.com/

[lutsko67]

Loved that toon, it was funny yet serious. It's my 40 th Bday 2 day and that toon just made me smile alot. peace n kisses,kat

[MeowMix]

Awesome comic

[sun_heart_girl]

That's so cute :D So much better than those crappy PSE contraception lessons we used to have...

[IlUvMuSIc]

i guess im the only one but i didn't like it so much :-(
It was a bit too... yea, tho thats probably jus me - shame it'll show up on my history! how i'll explain that one i don't know :-)

We jus had a pshe lesson today! lol there were dildos an all - nurse came in and a guy was showing everyone how to correctly put on a condom (on the dildo of course) it was boring but thats only cos i don't get on with my group

[ILoveForums]

I love masturbating with other girls it's so yummy watching each other cum, I love to watch my girlfriend julie's pussy just drip wet with her cream i like it every time she cums but i always love to watch first

[ILoveForums]

i love to cum on her face it feels so good when her tongue just licks all around my hole

[lilsexydread]

:hurray: :applause: :applause: :rainbow: INTERESTING

[h0neyfugle]

loved it - i love all her comics though.

[thewayiam983]

awesome cartoon
didnt kno someone actually took the time out to make that kinda thing online
definitely cool

peace <3

[didimj]

yeah it's funny and cute

[jia]

I like this one also: I Was Kidnapped By Lesbian Pirates From Outer Space
http://www.drunkduck.com/I_Was_Kidnapped_By_Lesbian_Pirates_From_Outer_Spac e/index.php?p=186423

Granted it has no safe sex theme but it is cute.

[shvdhottie]

you could go to clitoris.com they have quite alot of information

[tigerlily]

i posted this a while back... it's a cute comic on the subject. http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?threadid=203684

[spinningtop]

Tigerlily that is such a cute comic!

In some countries female condoms are really hard to find. You can make your own by cutting a regular condom in half. Requires a bit of preperation but it's better than nothing!

[Branwen]

I liked it and it was well written. Thanks for sharing.

[hippy*shake]

There's also a book I accidentally came across and as a bi/les girl who hasn't had that much experience, I found it really funny and actually quite useful (quite hot reading as well!)

http://www.amazon.com/Straight-Girls-Guide-Sleeping-Chicks/dp/0743258533

The straight girl's guide to sleeping with Chicks by Jen Sincero.

Have fun
xxx

[RawAndNatural]

hippy*shake, I've been planning on buying that book. I have to live vicariously through other people for obvious reasons.