How can you tell if you're bisexual?

[Penny]

I think I'm hetero all the way.. but sometimes, I wonder if maybe I am bisexual, because, for example, the thought of kissing or even French kissing another girl doesn't disgust me at all (I've done it drunk with some of my girlfriends), caressing seems alright... but I wouldn't do anything sexual aside from maybe caressing breasts. But, even though it doesn't disgust me, it doesn't turn me on either, so, I don't really know... like if I think of doing the same thing to a guy, it's gonna exite me, but it doesn't exite me with girls, it just doesn't disgust me, you know what I mean? So.. do you think I'm bisexual?

[Dark Bowser]

Possibly, but I define bisexuality as a sexual attraction to both genders. If you're not sexually attracted to girls then probably not.

But only you can really decide for yourself.

[SageDreamer]

Doesn't *sound* bisexual to me....but I'm not the one who makes that call. You are.

[white ginger]

Penny, I suspect you are totally bisexual. Fromlooking at your pictures and reading your posts. I'm bi; I can relate.
You can tell if you're bi by finding a girl that you think is cute or attractive in some way, who might be bi, and kissing or something. Maybe even just spend time with them and you'll know for sure.

[FallenDreamer]

Most likely it's just healthy experimentation, fooling around does not make you bi or gay or anything, it's just fun. I think.

But just like Dark Bowser said it's your life. Hoped that helped and blessed be!

[ZePpeLinA]

you're probably bi-curious or whatever they call it

nothing wrong with it!

[Penny]

bi-curious.. I see! I guess that's it :)

[makno]

your definatly gay and pat robertson wants god to kill you ....

[Penny]

lol

[crystalstarr]

bi curious thats pretty much how i am

[makno]

bi-pedal primate ...

[Penny]

So, "bi-curious" means you're hetero but wouldn't mind doing it with a girl, without being really bisexual or gay? Like maybe if you get really wasted or something, or if you're really close with a *special* girl? I think that's maybe how I feel..

[GanjaPrince]

The most accurate sounding sexuality scale I ever heard of, as far as attraction, came from watching this movie Kinsey, who was the first to do a real scientific good funded research into all of that.


He made this scale, 1 as exclusively hetro in attraction, and 6 as exclusively homo... and found that most people fell in the middle.

You might be a 2 or at least in between a one and a two... have you ever had any dreams that could have hinted at it?

And just because most people fell in the middle, doesn't mean most were acting on those impulses.

So I bet you a lot of the really anti-gay types, probably are in the middle or at least a 2, and they are really upset and in denial about it, but by becoming anti-gay activists, they get some psychological comfort. JUst a theory.

[Green]

your definatly gay and pat robertson wants god to kill you ....
lmao

[Penny]

The most accurate sounding sexuality scale I ever heard of, as far as attraction, came from watching this movie Kinsey, who was the first to do a real scientific good funded research into all of that.


He made this scale, 1 as exclusively hetro in attraction, and 6 as exclusively homo... and found that most people fell in the middle.

You might be a 2 or at least in between a one and a two... have you ever had any dreams that could have hinted at it?

And just because most people fell in the middle, doesn't mean most were acting on those impulses.

So I bet you a lot of the really anti-gay types, probably are in the middle or at least a 2, and they are really upset and in denial about it, but by becoming anti-gay activists, they get some psychological comfort. JUst a theory.

No I never dreamed I was having sex with a woman, or at least not that I can remember... it's always men, and my boyfriend most of the time. I'm not anti-gay at all though, not at all! If I was sure I was bisaexual I would have no problem with it or admiting it.. I'm just trying to understand if I am or not, cause I'm not sure..

[makno]

what if you dream your a penguine??

[Ocean Byrd]

This girl is all about omnisexuality...

[Little flower]

ive only dreamed of sex wth a man like once, and i dont even think i dreamed about the actual act, but i can think of at last 3 dreams ive had about sex with a woman. i consider myslf bisexual, i havent had any sexual encounter with a woman, but i would really like to. you like who you like and we are all bi but some are more then others.

[Little flower]

what does omnisexual mean again?

[ihmurria]

what does omnisexual mean again?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Omnisexual

[Samhain]

Thanks ihmurria, this hipforums thread deals with this topic also
http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=188809

[TsuzukiAsato13]

It's pretty hard to tell, isn't it? It took me three years to find out! So don't rush into saying your bi. Give it some time. 'Sides, it's not like you've got a deadline or anything.

[zilla939]

you know, it takes a long time to figure it out. i first thought i might be bi or lesbian in middle school when i began to think women attractive.... for a while, i was positive i wasn't bi because i couldn't imagine going down on another girl. but when i started to give my sexuality more thought, i realized that i thought that giving guys blowjobs was weird at first, too. and then i realized that boobs are AWESOME. so yeah, if you're questioning your sexuality, don't force anything, don't ignore anything, don't get worked up, and just be true to yourself. take your time.

[aprilrose]

OK I'm a newbie, and I don't know if I'm bisexual or not...
I don't actually fancy women, but I've just realised my sexuality is not 100% straight..... this is because I ALWAYS fancy bisexual men!!
I've only just realised that it can be no coincidence that the only men I really fancy (either for looks OR personality) are ALWAYS bi !!!
I guess I fancy a mix of Masculinity & Femininity but in a male body... does this make me Bi ???????
I'm not saying I could never fancy a girl, but girls don't seem to have the right mix of M & F that I go for! (But lesbians seem to really like me!!!)

[TheMistress]

are you sexually attracted to both men and women?
would you have a relationship with a man or a woman?

if you answered yes to both questions, i would say you are bisexual.

[DirtyVibe]

youd know. if you cant even tell yourself and have to go by a checklist someone makes like an article from Cosmo then its not worth persuing

[DirtyVibe]

and then i realized that boobs are AWESOME.what are you talking about? boobs suck

i used to like boobs until i started weight lifting and realized that bigger boobs are just a sign of higher bodyfat %.

actually i really like sort of smallish, firm and athetlic boobs. what kind of boobs do you like?

[pilgrimp]

I was never against it but I didn't know I was bi and would do things with other men until I was 50 years old. Maybe you change as you grow older. I do not have any access to other women but there are lots of men in the baths and xxx movies and I am over sexed so maybe that is why I am bi. I found out I was bi in a threesome with another guy and he did things to me and I liked them so I did them back.

[DirtyVibe]

meh

[Corius]

I have satisfied myself that I am bi having had three long term relationships with men and three with women. I have high praise for love on the gay and on the straight side of my sexuality. Eventually, however, I met my sixth partner, the lady who bet her life on me and I on her; we got married, had children. I do not cheat. But in my mind I am still very bisexual. When I see my former partners, who are still my friends, I still get that old feeling. Bisexuals do have to make choices and live with those choices; I have no regrets. The homosexual urges were and are real but so were and are the heterosexual urges.

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[aprilrose]

Some interesting points - I mean, I don't really look at women walking down the street and think "cor she's cute" but I very rarely do that with men anyway!!

I'm not a very sexual person in general, but my attraction & lust can go from Zero to 100 in 2 seconds flat if I see a really gorgeous guy (and they ALWAYS turn out to be bisexual.....) :leaving:

[mushie18]

i never had to question my sexuality.

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[Beatlesgirl123]

It is pretty weird because i started having thoughts about girls when i was about 14. I thought they would go away but they didnt. i was attracted to them sexually and...well...attracted to them any way as possible. I am also attracted to guys as well. Ive never been with a girl but i would love to...just to know what its like you know? maybe its just curiosity? (sorry bad at spelling lol)

[ItzJessI3itch]

I feel the same what about this topic and I'm sure a lot of people do... sometimes I feel a huge sexual attraction to other females... and other times i don't feel that way. I'm kinda confused about the subject.

At times I have wondered if it's just the fact that the subject is kinda taboo and that's what turns me on about it... or if I just like looking at other females, I do like going to the strip club... but I'm not so much into them touching me... I've wondered if that I'm just embarrased that people will judge me and I fell wrong about it and that's why I have never really went any futher then the thought or just looking. I'm really not sure myself... I guess it's just one of those things that you have to try it to know if you like it or not.

I've been confused about this subject since I was about 13 and almost 9 years later I still haven't figured it out. -Arg-

[Faye]

Sounds like ur bi but just haven't found someone who makes you exicted and a women u find attractive. Do you ever find yourself checkin out girls? How I first discovered and came to why my sexuality when I found myself checkin out other girls. Wondering about their sexuality. Not soon after I fell in love with a friend of mine.

[god.loves.ugly]

same story as everyone else...started looking at girls and wondering then fell in love with a girl. blah.

[ItzJessI3itch]

Yea... I've found myself checking out other girls since I was like 15... but maybe that is what it is... I just haven't found someone that I am sexualy atracted to. The way society is it's really made it hard for me to even find out if that IS someone I am into or not... I kinda feel ashambed to come out about my sexual curiosity, and even in the past 7 years I have only told a few people.

[real_bi]

Well, i knew because it was a gut feeling... sorry if it isnt enough to go by. I fantasized about men and women... just the way i am..

[moongazer]

i think you just KNOW if youre bisexual. i knew my entire life; its just a feeling you get. i cant explain it. i think youre bi-curious, which is fine<3