First Encounter

[LogsOnSticks]

Let us hear your first time with a partner...How it happened, how it went, etc etc...

I've got none, since I haven't yet, but I'd love to hear some of yours...Stories are always great to listen to...

[The Sandreckoner]

My first boyfriend is just a little taller than I, with beautiful, mussable brown hair, cut like a marble statue, sticks up for those he loves and is the perfect picture of tenderness when you're alone with him. We were best friends in High School where he was a star athlete and I was the carpetbagger (military brat) closet case trying to pass as a jock. We went ot a Catholic school in the reddest of the red states, and he unfortunately bought into that culture.

That was six years ago. Now we live 1100 miles apart but still talk from time to time. I go back to that town every memorial day. Two yearas ago I came out to him. He hugged me and told me we were best friends and he never wanted that to change. How I didn't cry my ass off hearing that I don't know.

I sometimes hold out hope that someday we will be together and he will move to MD to be with me, and together we'll conquer the world.

[LogsOnSticks]

So, you guys aren't really together as of now because of the distance? Why so far apart?

[cerridwen]

Sandreckoner, that's a beautiful story :)

[Sunburst]

I was 14. I went over to my friend Danny's house to meet pretty much the only lesbian he knew. We had talked on the phone and stuff, and I wanted to actually meet her in person. So Danny had his boyfriend, Chris, and Tamara (the girl) over when I got there, but Tamara was hiding in the bathroom. She was all self-consious and stuff, and after 10 minutes we convinced her to come out. She was a lot taller than me (I was probably 5'1, she was at least 5'7):PAnywho, we all went to the kitchen to talk for a while, and I was sitting on her lap at the table. Then Danny (being the well-meaning friend he was) took off with Chris to his bedroom, and lead me and Tamara to his mom's room. Then left us with some strawberry edible body paint.

Well, after 5 very painfully awkward minutes with us just complaining about him and his "silly" intentions, she asked if she could kiss me. This led other places very fast. My bra came off, and after a while she asked me if she could "go further". I was somewhat uncomfortable with this idea, but being so caught up in the moment, whispered yes, and soon the pants were undone and a certain hand was...I'm going to stop there:P
We did use the body paint before the pantlessness, on my tummy;)lol It was cute. Then I realized, about ten minutes into the last part, that I had half an hour to walk down town and get to my tae kwon do class! We all walked there, and the rest of the night was dull and full of crappy martial arts:P


Thanks for making me remember that, although I'm kind of pissed off at myself for going that far that fast with someone I just met, I don't regret a thing. I learned a lot from that "relationship" that pursued afterwards. I also learned that if she doesn't respect if I don't want to go further (this example is 2 months into the relationship I believe), then I should dump her ass!

That was more of my first experience that my first lover, but hey! She was okay, but our relationship was based on making out and fooling around. She promised me she would stop doing drugs for me (morally against chemical drugs), then on Valentine's Day she left 5 minutes before the movie started with a "I'll be right back". Over half an hour later, she found me in the theater and after a few minutes I realized something; She had gotten high! After she promised me she'de stop! On our date! On Valentine's Day! Yeah, I really shouldn't have stayed with her as long as I did...

[Mui]

my first homosexual experience was in the back of a car with a guy and a girl, the girl was teaching the guy to give head. yeah.

[Sunburst]

Lordy I made a way longer post than I meant to..

[The Sandreckoner]

So, you guys aren't really together as of now because of the distance? Why so far apart?Uhhh, life kinda got in the way: he's still going to school in the South and I'm working in the DC area.

[jooka]

I was wondering how did your guys/girls "first sexual encounter" with the a person of the same sex come to be? How old were you? Who was this person? How did you find out eachother were gay/lesbian? Details!

[Ocean Byrd]

Well, I was 13 when I had my first encounter with a boy, and 14 when I had my first encounter with a girl... My friend was merely curious and experimented with oral sex; I was far to shy to do anything in return. However, I did initiate the first encounter with my first girlfriend; mutual masturbation. My friend is pretty much strictly heterosexual and doesn't have that great of an interest in me, but, my first girlfriend is rather queer when it comes to sexual orientation... As am I.

[txbarefooter]

I was 14 (nearly 15) and he was 18, we both were on the chess team. He invited me to his home to practice after school, yanno a freshman hanging out with a senior - WOW what a treat and the envy of my friends. One thing lead to another and we had sex. I have no idea how he figured out I would do it with him, ie: how he knew I was gay, but he did and got me in bed. we did have sex several times until he graduated and went to college. Never saw him after.

[mushie18]

n/a..:(

[Bassist]

sadly, n/a as well. http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/embarassed.gif

[iamwhatiam]

my first real actual sexual experience with another guy:

i was 19 and in a foreign country.
at a happening outdoor gay bar/disco.
he was 18-20 and very cute.
i spoke little spanish.
he spoke very little english.
so we communicated through um.... "body language" that night, you could say.
had a few beers.
flirted with him, asked to go back to his place.
ended up spending the night.
did everything oral, anal on each other.
oh, he rammed me good alright.
made him cum 3 times by morning.
it was a blast!!! :)

[TheMistress]

my first sexual encounter with a women happened when I was 13. I was at my friends house watching movies, when the movies finished she turned off the VCR and the TV happened to be on a soft-core porn chanel. I was feeling pretty uncomfortable, but she left it on, as we watched she began to rub me through my underware and I did the same to her. It didnt last long and we both stopped before either of us got off, and afterwards we never talked about it, nor did we ever do anything ever again. I think we both wanted to and there was a few time where it almost happened, but it didn't. I haven't talked to her in years.

[toolmaggot]

Me and my friend were drinking. I don't know why we did, but we did. We were making out, fondling each other, etc.

Scared her, a bit. She's straight. And for a long time she had gone farther with me than with any guy.

We messed around again another time (drunk again), except with another girl. We went farther, actually eating each other. Once again, she had a boyfriend. I don't think it freaked her out as much this time around. She talked to me about questioning her own sexuality... but I think she's still straight.

[mushie18]

my first real actual sexual experience with another guy:

i was 19 and in a foreign country.
at a happening outdoor gay bar/disco.
he was 18-20 and very cute.
i spoke little spanish.
he spoke very little english.
so we communicated through um.... "body language" that night, you could say.
had a few beers.
flirted with him, asked to go back to his place.
ended up spending the night.
did everything oral, anal on each other.
oh, he rammed me good alright.
made him cum 3 times by morning.
it was a blast!!! :)
sounds awesome:)

[Jorma's Branches]

Mine was when I was 16. i met this guy who lived near me online, and we got together to see some movie that was out at the time. After making out for like ten minutes in the back of the theater, we left, went to his place, got stoned, had sex. End of story.

[trekker]

I have yet to experience my first encounter, but I came close a couple of times. One time I drove a guy home from a bar, and I wanted to hit on him but I didn't know how he would react. We climbed in through his window because he didn't have his key. We were both really drunk, and I wanted to kiss and touch him in the dark but nothing happened. Never saw him again.

[SageDreamer]

I was 12 and the other guy was 14. He dared me to go down on him. I was curious--and highly attracted to him. I did.

[RxHEAD]

My first Homo/Oral experience was age 14 or 15yrs old w/friend in Boy Scouts. He played the lame game of Truth, Dare, Double Dare, or Dirty Dare. We were the only two playing so him and me same age ended up having weekend sleep-overs till age 17-yrs age strictly oral.--Then I told him I thought I was gay the morning after at age 17 and he was like "you need to stay away from me, I never know you were gay, I always just thought you were horny!" Please, like almost three years and poof one word 'GAY' scared him away and our friendship lost. lol...I read in the city paper his wife had another baby.

First hetero was age 18 and I was drunk, she had 2 kids already....Same age 18 yo with first 'all the way with a guy'.

now, no libido, no desire, self loathing self. Only the memories. Oh, and the flashbacks, its been a trip and not in a good way.

[Rakuen]

I'm turning 21 in July and I've never even kissed a guy.

[amp7325]

When I was younger, like 12 or something, a friend from my chorus and I watched porn together and stuff... but I don't really consider that my first encounter... Plus that kid turned out straight (or at least I think he did). But my first real encounter was with my friend who considers himself "pansexual." One day this summer we just decided to fool around.

[bwankima]

My first time was with a woman... I was very focused on not having sex with someone (for the first time) that I was going to regret. My dated for awhile and things were getting intense fast. it was both our first time and was very safe, intimate and a great memory.

My first time with a guy was a bit different... "You know what would be hot?! if you two kissed." That's was a friend said during a drunken night to me and one of my residents (I was his RA the year before...not at the time). It just so happened that I had recently come home after more than a year in Africa and was going through some serious culture shock and had questioned my sexuality quite a bit during the spiritual awakening that an African Night Sky can bring. Needless to say, I woke up the morning after and kinda had to admit that I was at least bisexual.

[happyonehit420]

My first time was when I was 16 with a guy of the same name. We had been friends for a little while, but then we decided to play around one night, and since my parents were out of the house for the night and next day, we ended up sleeping together the whole night, then did even more stuff when we woke up before we got dressed again. We're still pretty much best friends to this day.

[coco]

All queers need to take a reality check. YOU WILL NEVER BE ALLOWED TO ADOPT KIDS IN THE UK! Capiche??
It is sick that you think it is ok to stick your di*k up another man's ass. Homophobia is a term invented by queers for right minded, clean living people, when they refuse to accept that homosexuality has a place in society. It is wrong, dysfunctional, and sick. I believe that all queers, and that is what you are, need to have treatment for their condition. You are not born gay - it is a sickness you develop in your teens when the brain gets confused and issues the wrong signals, during the transformation from childhood to adulthood.

Homosexuality needs to be stamped out. It does does not have any place in a christian society. If you feel your rights are oppressed because of this, then you need to leave the UK and go live in San Francisco, where you can get stoned and fudgepack all you want. Remember - IT IS NOT OK TO STICK YOUR DIC* UP A MANS ASS! PERIOD!

[mrpwonder]

When I was 12 a male cousin who was 16 at the time. He started by touching me and then sucking me. I was very much into it and suck my first cock that day. A few months of that lead to him asking me to fuck him. I did and we played on and off for several years.

[dances in pajamas]

Girl, I was 13. My best friend - who I was basically in love with and afraid to say anything to - and I were laying on my bed. I told her I loved her and she said it back. When she was about to leave, I kissed her. Two days later, we were at her house going crazy in a big leather chair. Two years later, we she left me for a guy.

Guy, it was like, a few weeks after my 16th birthday. I told my best friend at the time (who's bi and we had screwed around a bit) that I would like to fuck a guy some time. She found a guy for me. Had sex with him in the back of an RV in a friend's driveway. My friend jumped in and I lost my virginity in a threesome.

[Loveminx]

I think I was 12 during my first kiss with a chick...behind the curtains during play practice...we did it because it was wild and made some ppl uneasy yet curious...

Then 13 I was dared to kiss my best friend at a party and I knew we both really wanted it and it sprouted a relationship that lasted a few months until her mom found out and banned me from seeing her for a year...but now all is good :)

[davidb191]

my 1st time was 2 weeks ago with a friend on the rugby team who is 16

[pennylanejess]

hmm i was pretty young, i was in grade 3 or 4, my best friend megan and i were playing together in the woods, i have no clue how we came about this but the both pulled eachother's pants down and licked eachother, i remember smiling and telling her her tounge was really cold haha, that's the only encounter i've ever had, im bi-sexual and am lookin forward to the next encounter haha, but it's going to be with the right girl

[LJDV]

My first time was when I was fourteen. It was just known that this guy was gay at school in general. I was a freshman and he was a senior in high school. He was eighteen years old. The first time we had sex was in his car, haha. He has the biggest penis I've seen to date, which was not the best thing for a first timer. I enjoyed in nonetheless though.

[dodion]

Today ! ... I'm 27 so it was about time, too :-) ... I met him on the internet ... he was nice and down to earth ... and hung :-) ... it didn't hurt at all ... a good experience.

[xDeceitfullyYoursx]

Hm... with a boy, my first time was actually recently. Last... no, two months ago at an Anime Convention. It was pretty much wild and crazy the whole time; just a bunch of horny, costumed anime freaks in one room haha! Well I met this guy who was totally awesome, and bi-sexual, so he was totally cool with me and that was great. We went back to my hotel room, and started- but as my luck would have it my roommate/best friend knocked on the door XD!! But the next day me and him went at it, all the way. It hurt, yeah, but I don't regret a thing. He went back to Guam and I haven't heard from him since.

With a girl ... hm. I was 15 and she was 29. She was the student teacher in French class and I was top student.... and yeah. It was nice; an actual relationship as underwraps and such. She was really gentle and totally gorgeous. She went back to college the next year and I haven't talked to her since.

[averyman]

first time i had a dick in my mouth was 9 with a 8 year old friend the att 11 i thoought to have sex again but he moved then i tried sucking mine but it was hard now i join gay things and stuff to get gay friends

[averyman]

ok we never did blow jobs we joust had them in each others mouths

[Wim]

Wow hell of a thread here but here goes

My first time i think i was 13 , i cant really remember how it happend but god he was cute still is too ive never seen such a beautifull smile in my life we grew up together and became so close it just felt natural but god it hurt ,both of us to be honest he was 14 after that we stayed together untill recently we were together for 9 years 7 months and 23 days he left me yesterday for reasons unknown any way last bits a little much so there it is

[Canucker]

N/a

[BattleMoose]

Hmmm,

Well, only a few months ago, and 24, just moved cities, jobs, so, alot easier to just find myself and figure shit out. Went to a gay club, found a boy and made out abit, exchanged numbers but never saw him again, he wanted to but yeah. :/

Oh, and going to have to break up with my bf, only 2 months now but still. Hes madly in love with me and , its not mutual, hes really great but yeah. This is really going to suck. :-(

[jamesjamesjames]

hmm iv never been that intimate with a guy.
only started acting upon my sexuality when i moved to spain.
was walking back from a club one night really drunk and met this 24 year old guy (im 21) who was sleeping in his car that night cus he wasnt from the city- so i walked back with him, and we got in his car and he asked if he could kiss me-so i did- and he was the worst kisser ever- so sad- my first gay kiss and it was crap! he then wanted to go down on me, but i really didnt want to be labeled as 'one of those' who just meets a guy and...

i stayed the night in the car, then left in the morning- nothing happened, just really bad kissing.
the next day-met another guy just walking back form a club, and he called me over- and for some stupid reason i did, was talking to him- 33 years old, very spanish, and damn hot! he kissed me- literally the best kiss iv ever had in my life. he then asked me to go back to his- obviously i declined (thinking about it now, i have no idea why...) but we planned to meet the next night. we did, and we kissed alot, and i was very happy. next week we met again- more kissing, but i still wasnt ready to take it further. i spoke to him last week on AIM where he informed me hes moving away to get married. what a kick in the head..!! poor girl, thats all i can say! i think about him ALL THE TIME. but i deleted his number- so dont have any contact with him what so ever anymore.

[LorettaYoungSilks]

When I was younger I let a guy basically fondle me, wasn't too comfortable about it actually. I came out of that encounter sure that I was in fact I wasn't gay. It was in my later teens.

I went back in the closet for about 10 days, then had a second encounter which solidified the deal. That one was much better. Kissed for a pretty long time at the back of a crap night spot, and fondled a little while at a party afterwards.

In fact, my life has been a string of one nighters. I am not a commitment-phobe, or unlucky with men, just unlucky in love I suppose.

[coolboy]

my first experience was at a friends party.I was 12 and didnt know i was gay i went to the bathroom and when i opened the door i saw my friends brother and he tld me to comein so i did then he kissed me and whe went in his room he was16.
2days later he called me and i had sex with him and one of his friend

[Daviddd615]

Well when I was real young i had girlfriends and boyfriends, we played house, doctor, and naked hide and go seek. I lost my virginity to a female when I was 15, she was 17 my girlfriend at the time later to become fiance, we had been dating for a few months kissing, and playing around. One day she came over with a few friends. We where all watching a movie and she was sitting in my lap, we where under the covers and she started giving me a hand job in front of everyone. I being the shows man that I am got even more turned on. So we moved it to my bedroom.... After fooling around for an hour or so she pulled me on top and asked me if i was ready... I was! Need I say more..

My technical first male was when I was 17 I had a friend he was rather gay, one night he stayed the night asked me for a blowjob, I did hesitantly. I couldn't finish I was so disgusted with myself. But later fantasied about it...

I came out recently DEC. 08'. It kinda happened in front of a whole room fun of people.. I threw a party drinks where flowing, hookahs going. There where about 12 or so of my closest friends there. And my roommate she is very much into watching guy on guy decides that me and her best friend who is bi (at the time i didn't know) need to make out. I had never kissed a guy and was very much in the closet but after some convincing I leaned expecting a peck, but no he went for it. Biting my lip, pulling my hair, throwing my down on the couch. I loved it!! There it was everyone knew. We made out a good 10 times that night. Well as it would turns out we become bestfriends.. (Still are) We have continued to play around since the. Last month he was down from college, not accompanied by his girlfriend. I came home and there is a note saying he was in town. So I called him up and he came over. We where in the living room smoking hookah watching comedy central. He pulled the cover over us, (i figured he wanted to cuddle sex was the last thing on my mind) and cuddled up close. Then started kiss me to my surprise and enjoyment. Then he put his hand down my pants, it had happened before. Well my being the Dominate that I am decided I wanted to take control threw him down and began to undress him with my teeth. Got to his belt threw it across the room and hit my roommates door. (oh shit, luckily noone came out). So we echanged blowjobs and made out for about two hours, sill nothing abnormal. Well I am blowing him and he pulls me up for a kiss and after he looks me in the eye and says FUCK ME. (i thought he was just getting into the moment) He pulls me on top then says again "fuck me". And me being a sucker for whatever he asks.. well I think you get the idea.
My girlfriend loves this story tells me I should have waited till she was there..

but those were my first encounters
..... :hat: i can write allot lol

[jammyjam]

I was straight (i didnt just think I was, I genuinely was) until I was about 18, when really out of the blue I began feeling attraction to men. About a year and a half later, I had my first sexual experience with a guy. I didn't really know much about what I wanted, except that I knew I wanted to feel what it was like to submit, to be dominated, to basically play the role of a typical girl in a typical heterosexual situation.

So i met this guy at a party, and we both just had this inkling when we made eye contact that the other was gay/bi, and we talked and drank for a while. near the end of the night, he offered to give me a ride back to my apartment. I said sure.

once we were on the road, he casually asked if I would like to see his place, and I had secretly been praying for him to ask :) so once again I said sure. we got to his place, and within about 10 minutes we were making out, slow kissing, hugging foreplay etc.

then he unzipped his pants and pulled his dick out. it was 9 INCHES long and about 2 inches wide. it was fucking huge! i was intimidated but at the same time I couldn't deny how much the sight of it turned me on.

I did my best to suck him off, needless to say it was difficult having no prior experience and the fact that his dick was so big...after about 10 minutes of that, he asked if i wanted to take it. "Take it? what do you mean?" I said. "Do you want me to fuck you!" he replied very enthusiastically. again, i said sure.

then he licked my asshole and fingered it for about 10 minutes and got it and his dick all lubed up...and he slowly slid that huge cock inside me. at first it was the most painful thing ever, i was practically seeing stars because of how much it hurt, but i told him not to stop, i could feel my "inner slut" as like to call it coming out, and the thought of him fucking me from behind while i was bent over with my ass high in the air still turns me on.

he went very slow at first, knowing that it hurt me, but gradually he went deeper and faster as I began to stretch out...after about 45 minutes he was pounding me as hard as he could, making cum drip out of my dick the whole time. As he started to climax, I started jerking off--now i was laying on my back with him on top of me--and after about 2 minutes of intense pounding and jerking off i had one of the most intense orgasms I've ever had, my body practically convulsing and me screaming my head off saying "fuck me!"

right after i came, he pulled out and blew a huge load all over my face.

the end!

[bicuriousmmf]

I was young about 15. We started by playing truth or dare. This proceeded to I dare you to show me yours, right through the first night to blow jobs. As we continued our play times during our sleep overs at each others houses we became more and more bold with our games, Hide and suck was my favorite. Hide in the dark the other guy has to find you and slowly pull down the underwear and suck you. We did this right up until grade twelve when I started having a girlfriend. I remember the last time we got together after soem teasing he leaned back and was so turned on his cock was peaking out of the top of his jeans and asked for one more blowjob. I said no and walked away. How I wish I could try that again........many years since then.....but I would drop to my knees again and try it anytime. My wife loves those stories I tell her about us sneaking away from our families for quick blow jobs.

[YoungMuscle85]

Had a few times in high school I was sort of a bully b/c I didn't know how to treat people. I'm much better now though! So there were a few guys and they were at that stage where like they weren't ready to hate you if you were gay, they just gave you room to do whatever and left you alone. I was really close with some guys but never did anything, I was afraid I'd just get jumped and beat up or something. Also my high school gym teacher told me being gay "was a sin" and "God was always watching." I took that sort of like a threat and never did anything in high school. Kind of glad I didn't actually, parent's probably would have beaten me and kept me luck in the closet.

[ishgabibbles2.0]

well i have kind of surpressed the memorie cause it was when i was in the first grade. does that count>? any way it was the first guy on guy kiss i had ever had. i dunno its liek how it is now u can spot the gay guys a mile away no matter how butch, we were instant friends but neither knew why. one day he came into the bathroom stall with me and we played show me urs. after that we continued to play throught the school year and every now and again we would sneek away to the coat closet and kiss, we would like grope eachother too in the closet. lol we would call it having sex we were six we didnt know any better. we would be sitting in class and he would say hey u wanna go have sex and i would be liek um ok and we would go fool around. i find it funny how things are the same way im like always the girl