First Encounter

[LogsOnSticks]

Let us hear your first time with a partner...How it happened, how it went, etc etc...

I've got none, since I haven't yet, but I'd love to hear some of yours...Stories are always great to listen to...

[The Sandreckoner]

My first boyfriend is just a little taller than I, with beautiful, mussable brown hair, cut like a marble statue, sticks up for those he loves and is the perfect picture of tenderness when you're alone with him. We were best friends in High School where he was a star athlete and I was the carpetbagger (military brat) closet case trying to pass as a jock. We went ot a Catholic school in the reddest of the red states, and he unfortunately bought into that culture.

That was six years ago. Now we live 1100 miles apart but still talk from time to time. I go back to that town every memorial day. Two yearas ago I came out to him. He hugged me and told me we were best friends and he never wanted that to change. How I didn't cry my ass off hearing that I don't know.

I sometimes hold out hope that someday we will be together and he will move to MD to be with me, and together we'll conquer the world.

[LogsOnSticks]

So, you guys aren't really together as of now because of the distance? Why so far apart?

[cerridwen]

Sandreckoner, that's a beautiful story :)

[Sunburst]

I was 14. I went over to my friend Danny's house to meet pretty much the only lesbian he knew. We had talked on the phone and stuff, and I wanted to actually meet her in person. So Danny had his boyfriend, Chris, and Tamara (the girl) over when I got there, but Tamara was hiding in the bathroom. She was all self-consious and stuff, and after 10 minutes we convinced her to come out. She was a lot taller than me (I was probably 5'1, she was at least 5'7):PAnywho, we all went to the kitchen to talk for a while, and I was sitting on her lap at the table. Then Danny (being the well-meaning friend he was) took off with Chris to his bedroom, and lead me and Tamara to his mom's room. Then left us with some strawberry edible body paint.

Well, after 5 very painfully awkward minutes with us just complaining about him and his "silly" intentions, she asked if she could kiss me. This led other places very fast. My bra came off, and after a while she asked me if she could "go further". I was somewhat uncomfortable with this idea, but being so caught up in the moment, whispered yes, and soon the pants were undone and a certain hand was...I'm going to stop there:P
We did use the body paint before the pantlessness, on my tummy;)lol It was cute. Then I realized, about ten minutes into the last part, that I had half an hour to walk down town and get to my tae kwon do class! We all walked there, and the rest of the night was dull and full of crappy martial arts:P


Thanks for making me remember that, although I'm kind of pissed off at myself for going that far that fast with someone I just met, I don't regret a thing. I learned a lot from that "relationship" that pursued afterwards. I also learned that if she doesn't respect if I don't want to go further (this example is 2 months into the relationship I believe), then I should dump her ass!

That was more of my first experience that my first lover, but hey! She was okay, but our relationship was based on making out and fooling around. She promised me she would stop doing drugs for me (morally against chemical drugs), then on Valentine's Day she left 5 minutes before the movie started with a "I'll be right back". Over half an hour later, she found me in the theater and after a few minutes I realized something; She had gotten high! After she promised me she'de stop! On our date! On Valentine's Day! Yeah, I really shouldn't have stayed with her as long as I did...

[Mui]

my first homosexual experience was in the back of a car with a guy and a girl, the girl was teaching the guy to give head. yeah.

[Sunburst]

Lordy I made a way longer post than I meant to..

[The Sandreckoner]

So, you guys aren't really together as of now because of the distance? Why so far apart?Uhhh, life kinda got in the way: he's still going to school in the South and I'm working in the DC area.

[jooka]

I was wondering how did your guys/girls "first sexual encounter" with the a person of the same sex come to be? How old were you? Who was this person? How did you find out eachother were gay/lesbian? Details!

[Ocean Byrd]

Well, I was 13 when I had my first encounter with a boy, and 14 when I had my first encounter with a girl... My friend was merely curious and experimented with oral sex; I was far to shy to do anything in return. However, I did initiate the first encounter with my first girlfriend; mutual masturbation. My friend is pretty much strictly heterosexual and doesn't have that great of an interest in me, but, my first girlfriend is rather queer when it comes to sexual orientation... As am I.

[txbarefooter]

I was 14 (nearly 15) and he was 18, we both were on the chess team. He invited me to his home to practice after school, yanno a freshman hanging out with a senior - WOW what a treat and the envy of my friends. One thing lead to another and we had sex. I have no idea how he figured out I would do it with him, ie: how he knew I was gay, but he did and got me in bed. we did have sex several times until he graduated and went to college. Never saw him after.

[mushie18]

n/a..:(

[Bassist]

sadly, n/a as well. http://www.hipforums.com/forums/images/smilies/embarassed.gif

[iamwhatiam]

my first real actual sexual experience with another guy:

i was 19 and in a foreign country.
at a happening outdoor gay bar/disco.
he was 18-20 and very cute.
i spoke little spanish.
he spoke very little english.
so we communicated through um.... "body language" that night, you could say.
had a few beers.
flirted with him, asked to go back to his place.
ended up spending the night.
did everything oral, anal on each other.
oh, he rammed me good alright.
made him cum 3 times by morning.
it was a blast!!! :)

[TheMistress]

my first sexual encounter with a women happened when I was 13. I was at my friends house watching movies, when the movies finished she turned off the VCR and the TV happened to be on a soft-core porn chanel. I was feeling pretty uncomfortable, but she left it on, as we watched she began to rub me through my underware and I did the same to her. It didnt last long and we both stopped before either of us got off, and afterwards we never talked about it, nor did we ever do anything ever again. I think we both wanted to and there was a few time where it almost happened, but it didn't. I haven't talked to her in years.

[toolmaggot]

Me and my friend were drinking. I don't know why we did, but we did. We were making out, fondling each other, etc.

Scared her, a bit. She's straight. And for a long time she had gone farther with me than with any guy.

We messed around again another time (drunk again), except with another girl. We went farther, actually eating each other. Once again, she had a boyfriend. I don't think it freaked her out as much this time around. She talked to me about questioning her own sexuality... but I think she's still straight.

[mushie18]

my first real actual sexual experience with another guy:

i was 19 and in a foreign country.
at a happening outdoor gay bar/disco.
he was 18-20 and very cute.
i spoke little spanish.
he spoke very little english.
so we communicated through um.... "body language" that night, you could say.
had a few beers.
flirted with him, asked to go back to his place.
ended up spending the night.
did everything oral, anal on each other.
oh, he rammed me good alright.
made him cum 3 times by morning.
it was a blast!!! :)
sounds awesome:)

[Jorma's Branches]

Mine was when I was 16. i met this guy who lived near me online, and we got together to see some movie that was out at the time. After making out for like ten minutes in the back of the theater, we left, went to his place, got stoned, had sex. End of story.

[trekker]

I have yet to experience my first encounter, but I came close a couple of times. One time I drove a guy home from a bar, and I wanted to hit on him but I didn't know how he would react. We climbed in through his window because he didn't have his key. We were both really drunk, and I wanted to kiss and touch him in the dark but nothing happened. Never saw him again.

[SageDreamer]

I was 12 and the other guy was 14. He dared me to go down on him. I was curious--and highly attracted to him. I did.

[RxHEAD]

My first Homo/Oral experience was age 14 or 15yrs old w/friend in Boy Scouts. He played the lame game of Truth, Dare, Double Dare, or Dirty Dare. We were the only two playing so him and me same age ended up having weekend sleep-overs till age 17-yrs age strictly oral.--Then I told him I thought I was gay the morning after at age 17 and he was like "you need to stay away from me, I never know you were gay, I always just thought you were horny!" Please, like almost three years and poof one word 'GAY' scared him away and our friendship lost. lol...I read in the city paper his wife had another baby.

First hetero was age 18 and I was drunk, she had 2 kids already....Same age 18 yo with first 'all the way with a guy'.

now, no libido, no desire, self loathing self. Only the memories. Oh, and the flashbacks, its been a trip and not in a good way.

[Rakuen]

I'm turning 21 in July and I've never even kissed a guy.

[amp7325]

When I was younger, like 12 or something, a friend from my chorus and I watched porn together and stuff... but I don't really consider that my first encounter... Plus that kid turned out straight (or at least I think he did). But my first real encounter was with my friend who considers himself "pansexual." One day this summer we just decided to fool around.

[bwankima]

My first time was with a woman... I was very focused on not having sex with someone (for the first time) that I was going to regret. My dated for awhile and things were getting intense fast. it was both our first time and was very safe, intimate and a great memory.

My first time with a guy was a bit different... "You know what would be hot?! if you two kissed." That's was a friend said during a drunken night to me and one of my residents (I was his RA the year before...not at the time). It just so happened that I had recently come home after more than a year in Africa and was going through some serious culture shock and had questioned my sexuality quite a bit during the spiritual awakening that an African Night Sky can bring. Needless to say, I woke up the morning after and kinda had to admit that I was at least bisexual.

[happyonehit420]

My first time was when I was 16 with a guy of the same name. We had been friends for a little while, but then we decided to play around one night, and since my parents were out of the house for the night and next day, we ended up sleeping together the whole night, then did even more stuff when we woke up before we got dressed again. We're still pretty much best friends to this day.

[coco]

All queers need to take a reality check. YOU WILL NEVER BE ALLOWED TO ADOPT KIDS IN THE UK! Capiche??
It is sick that you think it is ok to stick your di*k up another man's ass. Homophobia is a term invented by queers for right minded, clean living people, when they refuse to accept that homosexuality has a place in society. It is wrong, dysfunctional, and sick. I believe that all queers, and that is what you are, need to have treatment for their condition. You are not born gay - it is a sickness you develop in your teens when the brain gets confused and issues the wrong signals, during the transformation from childhood to adulthood.

Homosexuality needs to be stamped out. It does does not have any place in a christian society. If you feel your rights are oppressed because of this, then you need to leave the UK and go live in San Francisco, where you can get stoned and fudgepack all you want. Remember - IT IS NOT OK TO STICK YOUR DIC* UP A MANS ASS! PERIOD!

[mrpwonder]

When I was 12 a male cousin who was 16 at the time. He started by touching me and then sucking me. I was very much into it and suck my first cock that day. A few months of that lead to him asking me to fuck him. I did and we played on and off for several years.

[dances in pajamas]

Girl, I was 13. My best friend - who I was basically in love with and afraid to say anything to - and I were laying on my bed. I told her I loved her and she said it back. When she was about to leave, I kissed her. Two days later, we were at her house going crazy in a big leather chair. Two years later, we she left me for a guy.

Guy, it was like, a few weeks after my 16th birthday. I told my best friend at the time (who's bi and we had screwed around a bit) that I would like to fuck a guy some time. She found a guy for me. Had sex with him in the back of an RV in a friend's driveway. My friend jumped in and I lost my virginity in a threesome.

[Loveminx]

I think I was 12 during my first kiss with a chick...behind the curtains during play practice...we did it because it was wild and made some ppl uneasy yet curious...

Then 13 I was dared to kiss my best friend at a party and I knew we both really wanted it and it sprouted a relationship that lasted a few months until her mom found out and banned me from seeing her for a year...but now all is good :)

[davidb191]

my 1st time was 2 weeks ago with a friend on the rugby team who is 16

[pennylanejess]

hmm i was pretty young, i was in grade 3 or 4, my best friend megan and i were playing together in the woods, i have no clue how we came about this but the both pulled eachother's pants down and licked eachother, i remember smiling and telling her her tounge was really cold haha, that's the only encounter i've ever had, im bi-sexual and am lookin forward to the next encounter haha, but it's going to be with the right girl

[LJDV]

My first time was when I was fourteen. It was just known that this guy was gay at school in general. I was a freshman and he was a senior in high school. He was eighteen years old. The first time we had sex was in his car, haha. He has the biggest penis I've seen to date, which was not the best thing for a first timer. I enjoyed in nonetheless though.

[dodion]

Today ! ... I'm 27 so it was about time, too :-) ... I met him on the internet ... he was nice and down to earth ... and hung :-) ... it didn't hurt at all ... a good experience.

[xDeceitfullyYoursx]

Hm... with a boy, my first time was actually recently. Last... no, two months ago at an Anime Convention. It was pretty much wild and crazy the whole time; just a bunch of horny, costumed anime freaks in one room haha! Well I met this guy who was totally awesome, and bi-sexual, so he was totally cool with me and that was great. We went back to my hotel room, and started- but as my luck would have it my roommate/best friend knocked on the door XD!! But the next day me and him went at it, all the way. It hurt, yeah, but I don't regret a thing. He went back to Guam and I haven't heard from him since.

With a girl ... hm. I was 15 and she was 29. She was the student teacher in French class and I was top student.... and yeah. It was nice; an actual relationship as underwraps and such. She was really gentle and totally gorgeous. She went back to college the next year and I haven't talked to her since.

[averyman]

first time i had a dick in my mouth was 9 with a 8 year old friend the att 11 i thoought to have sex again but he moved then i tried sucking mine but it was hard now i join gay things and stuff to get gay friends

[averyman]

ok we never did blow jobs we joust had them in each others mouths

[Wim]

Wow hell of a thread here but here goes

My first time i think i was 13 , i cant really remember how it happend but god he was cute still is too ive never seen such a beautifull smile in my life we grew up together and became so close it just felt natural but god it hurt ,both of us to be honest he was 14 after that we stayed together untill recently we were together for 9 years 7 months and 23 days he left me yesterday for reasons unknown any way last bits a little much so there it is

[Canucker]

N/a

[BattleMoose]

Hmmm,

Well, only a few months ago, and 24, just moved cities, jobs, so, alot easier to just find myself and figure shit out. Went to a gay club, found a boy and made out abit, exchanged numbers but never saw him again, he wanted to but yeah. :/

Oh, and going to have to break up with my bf, only 2 months now but still. Hes madly in love with me and , its not mutual, hes really great but yeah. This is really going to suck. :-(