do you ever flirt with straights? [Archive]

james q

08-03-2005, 02:48 PM

what with all these straight boys round the place having cock measuring competitions and probing us on the more delicate points of anal sex my poor little head's been literally spinning. i do so love fraternising with the 'enemy' esp when they're like the happy campers round here. so who would blame me? i'm just an inveterate slut. dunno bout u, but i get real joy out of straight chasing particularly when he turns, and u'd be surprised how often an unexpected turn occurs. even if the guy's not 4 turning it's still a rush flirting.

ps love 2 make them blush and feel a teensy objectified: now they know how straight women must feel ;)

SageDreamer

08-03-2005, 03:35 PM

I've been known to flirt with a metrosexual shop assistant now and then, but nothing truly serious. As often as not, it's flirting back with someone who started it first.

apollo

08-03-2005, 05:40 PM

how you love it, james q!

bugger*b

08-03-2005, 05:46 PM

james q

08-03-2005, 06:20 PM

I wouldn't mind you flirting with me not knowing that I was straight, but if you continued doing it knowing that I am straight...

that'd be sexual harrassment now, wouldn't it?

...I would beat your ass in the alley.

i do this strictly 4 pleasure and not to get my head bashed in. anyway, don't flatter urself, bugger boy, i have my standards

bugger*b

08-03-2005, 11:12 PM

Standards of a feral tom cat, I'm sure.

james q

08-03-2005, 11:41 PM

a she-cat bitch

james q

08-03-2005, 11:44 PM

how you love it, james q!

then tell duck i was flirting with him not playing mind games. sorry if it seemed that way.

soccergirl

08-04-2005, 01:05 AM

Yes I will flirt with straights who I know and won't be bohered by it.

Green

08-04-2005, 02:14 AM

Wait a sec, why'd I vote yes?

mushie18

08-04-2005, 06:33 AM

yes, all the time.

psyche

08-05-2005, 01:36 AM

i do it all the time, whether i realize i'm doing it or not. most straight women don't mind though, i'm not all that threatenning and i think it makes em feel kinda special because they know how picky girls can be.

Defence_mechanism

08-06-2005, 12:09 PM

sure why not. but usually my taste extends to just dykes. but every now and then you get a really hot straight girl that you can't help flirting with. only do it if she flirts back tho. no fun flirting with someone who ignores your efforts!
dykes are so so fun to flirt with, so im happy there.

Taylor

08-06-2005, 12:58 PM

baby, I'm bi, the terminal slut. I flirt with EVERYONE! :P

james q

08-07-2005, 01:26 AM

I am straight as an arrow but I used to flirt with one of my gay friends. Pissed him off because he new I wasn't serious in any way shape or form.

Slutter McGee

slutter? fancy meeting u here, u old prick tease u :cool:

ps in fact the straight forum should post a poll: do u ever flirt with gays?

kif

08-07-2005, 01:34 AM

I dont know if I flirt with breeders. I try to be cool to everyone, so maybe I do without even realizing it. Dont know. But why would a staright man be bothered if I hit on him? If a girl hits on me I take it as a compliment.:p

danielle_niki

08-07-2005, 03:31 AM

True, all should be flattering. I flirt with straight girls all the time, never know when they might be curious, always leave the bait for them to catch, those sweet mamas, lol.

Defence_mechanism

08-13-2005, 06:30 AM

eeeww!! a mother and a daughter? only in america.

lol
JERRY JERRY JERRY

mushie18

08-13-2005, 07:51 PM

I love flirting with straight guys, a lot of the time they feel kinda awkward, its really cute.:)

james q

08-14-2005, 12:30 AM

I love flirting with straight guys, a lot of the time they feel kinda awkward, its really cute.:)

that's half the fun i reckon, watching them squirm :D

kif

08-14-2005, 06:33 AM

Anybody ever bend a straight?

DreamerSpirit

08-14-2005, 09:24 AM

I give people compliments all the time (ex. I love your hair! Your outfit is so cute! etc.) and a lot of people take it as flirting, even though it's very rare that I'm actually trying to flirt. But sometimes I do purposely flirt with homophobic straight girls, just to see them squirm!

melyn

01-23-2006, 06:10 PM

I do it all the time, sometimes I don't realise i'm doing it, and other times I just can't help myself, it never hurts to test the waters.

SelfControl

01-23-2006, 11:52 PM

I do it, but not seriously expecting a response. If I think I'm over-doing it I make sure to apologise. But hey, fairly recently it sort of paid off. :D

KewlDewd66

04-05-2006, 11:25 AM

Yup. In Love and War, all is fair.

KD

okay

04-06-2006, 05:48 AM

Closet Kid

04-08-2006, 06:50 AM

I love flirting with straight guys they have no fuckin' clue its so much fun

BuffFilmBuff

04-08-2006, 04:30 PM

Maybe this doesn't count, but sometimes I flirt with guys to figure out if they're gay or not. Like sometimes I'll yawn and stretch and make a muscle or two.

Stillravenmad

04-09-2006, 07:18 AM

I flirt with everyone. It's kind of my thing.

Closet Kid

04-11-2006, 12:13 AM

Oh straights are just so afraid of being gay they think its contagus by being around us

okay

05-29-2006, 07:02 AM

I'm always attracted to guys who think they are straight. Every relationship i've been in (except one) was with a guy who considered himself straight or at least tried to pass himself off as straight. Everyone I know knows that I'm gay--I don't hide it. But I don't live a "gay lifestyle" in the sense that I don't cruise or look for one-nighters. I meet the people I meet in life and if I'm attracted to them i go for it without regard for their stated sexuality. Sometimes it doesn't work out and sometimes it does. I would prolly be happier if I could shop in my own department but it just doesn't work that way for me. Cuz that's the thing--I don't really shop--I just act on my feelings when I meet someone i like. Maybe f**ked up but, whatever, that's me.

jtrudel3

06-27-2006, 03:54 AM

Hell yeah I flirt with staights! I'm in the tail end of a relationship right now with a guy who thinks he's straight. I know better. He'll prolly wind up getting married and being happy for a year or two and then being unhappy for the rest of his life.

Most men lead lives of quiet desperation.

Yeah.

I hate to say it, but that idea kind of scares me sometimes. I'm not really too sure about my sexuality, I'm kind of "confused". But regardless of how I feel, I do like hanging out at a particular gay-lesbian-bisexual nightclub. The only thing that really scares me sometimes, is when a guy flirts with me a bit and tell me that I'm not completely straight. Come to think of it, hanging out there, I guess I kind of deserve a comment like that. I just get scared sometimes because I feel like some guys are trying to convince me that I'm actually gay. But all I know for sure is that I do like girls, and I'm not entirely sure if I like guys; hehe, I'm almost worried that their going to convince me that I don't like girls and that I love guys. The reason I started hanging out there, was because I was looking for nice little place that I could feel at home when wearing girls clothes.

jtrudel3

06-27-2006, 03:59 AM

Maybe this doesn't count, but sometimes I flirt with guys to figure out if they're gay or not. Like sometimes I'll yawn and stretch and make a muscle or two.

Just out of curiosity, BuffFilmBuff, what exactly do you look for in their reaction to determine if their homosexual/bisexual or not??? I'm just wondering, because some girls think I'm "gay" and it seems hard to convince them that I'm "straight".

Maybe I should be trying to convince them that I'm bisexual instead, lol...

jtrudel3

06-27-2006, 04:10 AM

Everyone I know knows that I'm gay--I don't hide it. I meet the people I meet in life and if I'm attracted to them i go for it without regard for their stated sexuality. Sometimes it doesn't work out and sometimes it does.

I admire that. I had a friend who was gay, but he was so uptight about it. He tried so hard to give everyone the impression that he was "straight". He told me that with his previous boyfriend, they lived together, they worked together, etc. But at work they would always pretend to be roommates and nothing more, leave the house at different times, bla bla bla, and then at home they'd be themselves. I just didn't really understand it, he was always so stressed out, and so scared that someone would discover that he was gay. Even when we went to a homosexual/bisexual nightclub he couldn't seem to enjoy himself too much, he seemed to be too wrapped up in fear from every other moment of his life.

So I'm really glad to hear that you're open and confident in your sexuality, and that you do ask guys out. I'm glad, because my friend seemed so unhappy, and so scared to ask another guy out, for fear that they might not be "gay".

We aren't friends anymore, but that's irrelevant to this post. We both worked at the same place, but he stopped talking to me after I quit.

CrazybutLazy

06-27-2006, 04:38 AM

I have no idea how to flirt. It is likely that I don't catch it when people do flirt with me.

whereami

06-27-2006, 07:30 PM

If a gay guy flirted with me I would damn sure flirt back. It'd be just as much fun for me as it would be for him to be flirting with a straight guy. I think the thing that would throw them off & make it fun for me would be that they probably wouldn't expect me to flirt back.

Patrick

07-03-2006, 11:12 AM

I wouldn't mind you flirting with me not knowing that I was straight, but if you continued doing it knowing that I am straight, I would beat your ass in the alley.That's exactly why I don't flirt with straights or because I am afraid of getting beat up.

Patrick

07-03-2006, 11:19 AM

The reason I started hanging out there, was because I was looking for nice little place that I could feel at home when wearing girls clothes.If you like wearing girls clothes than I am pretty sure you are definitely bi at the least.

satirul

07-04-2006, 04:40 PM

you guys are a bunch of sadists.i'm straight and a gay guy hitting on me gives me the creeps more than a serial killer would.i'm not homophobic,i'm ok with you people,as long as you understand i'm straight and don't try anything.

i was coming back from this concert,walking alone to the bus station at about 4 am.i hear some guy from behind going "psst!hei,brother,why are you walking so fast?".he didn't seem to mean any harm,so i thought he's walking to the bus as well.so i waited till he got next to me.when i started walking again he took my hand and went "brother,can i please suck your cock?".that almost made me shit my pants.then i recovered and told him i like girls,but he just wouldn't understand and kept asking me to let him suck my cock.he even offered to pay me and boasted on his skills.i managed to get away when the bus came.
now when i think about it,my reaction seems hilarious and unexplainable.but the ideea just grossed my mind out.

i don't get you people.i find men to be damn ugly.big bones,big hands,hairy bodies,smelly armpits,how can you take such a body in your arms?no matter how efeminate,a guy is still an ugly neanderthalian.
but hey,it's your pleasures and since that means more free girls,it's just fine by me.lesbos are the true enemy!:p

Katelyn

07-09-2006, 07:06 AM

ugh

Snowdancer

07-21-2006, 11:58 AM

I only intentionally do if they start it. For the last few months that is happening more than it used to. I have dyed my hair very blond & it has mad a difference. It may not be true that blondes have more fun but I can attest that they have more opportunity. Well at least it's more likely if your a blond that the see as female. I am farther along im my transition now & I do feel the objectification that James Q is talking about. I'm still flattered by it & mostly find it kind of amusing.

If one of these guys get past staring at my legs, ass, or breasts enough to talk with me & if they are comming on to me I figure that at least they have shown interest. I have been a little cautious if there is a situation where they could attempt to get farther. Last week I was camping at Proud Lake (love that name) near Detroit. Not far from our campsite was a fairly cute guy who always wore a cowboy hat & never a shirt. He had a bit of a beer belly but it was a cute one. He was really good at fliritng & ;aying it on so much even my daughter noticed it. Well, what's a girl to do? I started subtlly. Purposly doing things that would cause me to bend over so he could se my assets at their best. :) Tossing my hair. When I put lotion on my legs & "had" to raise the hem of my skort to get it on my upper hips his cute blue eyes nearly poppoed out of their sockets. It wasn't long afer that that he decided it was time to walk his dog & for some reason he just "had" to go by our campsite. :) Well that went on for the rest of the time we were there but it wasn't until we were packing up that I really let him in so to speak. It was great fun. I do think that towards the end he started to figure out that he was dealing with a T-girl but he was a gentleman until the time that we were packed up & he tipped that cowboy hat as we parted our ways.

ps love 2 make them blush and feel a teensy objectified: now they know how straight women must feel ;)

Snowdancer

07-21-2006, 12:06 PM

It's just that attitude that makes our world a sick place. There is no reason for violence in this, you creep. Get some help! You can't go around thinking that it's OK to beat people up because you aren't comfortable with their sexuality. I guarentee that every female that flirts with you isn't planning on taking you to bed. Flirting isn't always to get laid. Besides it is a two way street. If you are flirting back it's all part of the game. Go find a therapist & grow up.
I wouldn't mind you flirting with me not knowing that I was straight, but if you continued doing it knowing that I am straight, I would beat your ass in the alley.

Snowdancer

07-21-2006, 12:11 PM

The one about the cowboy. :)

Anybody ever bend a straight?

Snowdancer

07-21-2006, 12:19 PM

I didn't realize I was bi until I was in my mid 20's. It's a seperate thing but you mentioned cross dressing so... I'll add that I didn't figure out that I was transgendered until I much later,

I hate to say it, but that idea kind of scares me sometimes. I'm not really too sure about my sexuality, I'm kind of "confused". But regardless of how I feel, I do like hanging out at a particular gay-lesbian-bisexual nightclub. The only thing that really scares me sometimes, is when a guy flirts with me a bit and tell me that I'm not completely straight. Come to think of it, hanging out there, I guess I kind of deserve a comment like that. I just get scared sometimes because I feel like some guys are trying to convince me that I'm actually gay. But all I know for sure is that I do like girls, and I'm not entirely sure if I like guys; hehe, I'm almost worried that their going to convince me that I don't like girls and that I love guys. The reason I started hanging out there, was because I was looking for nice little place that I could feel at home when wearing girls clothes.

Snowdancer

07-21-2006, 12:21 PM

In fact most transvestites are completely heterosexual. Sexual preference & gender identity are very seperate things as is sexual preference & cross dressing.
If you like wearing girls clothes than I am pretty sure you are definitely bi at the least.

Snowdancer

07-21-2006, 12:24 PM

If you weren't homophobic it wouldn't creep you out.
you guys are a bunch of sadists.i'm straight and a gay guy hitting on me gives me the creeps more than a serial killer would.i'm not homophobic,i'm ok with you people,as long as you understand i'm straight and don't try anything.

i was coming back from this concert,walking alone to the bus station at about 4 am.i hear some guy from behind going "psst!hei,brother,why are you walking so fast?".he didn't seem to mean any harm,so i thought he's walking to the bus as well.so i waited till he got next to me.when i started walking again he took my hand and went "brother,can i please suck your cock?".that almost made me shit my pants.then i recovered and told him i like girls,but he just wouldn't understand and kept asking me to let him suck my cock.he even offered to pay me and boasted on his skills.i managed to get away when the bus came.
now when i think about it,my reaction seems hilarious and unexplainable.but the ideea just grossed my mind out.

i don't get you people.i find men to be damn ugly.big bones,big hands,hairy bodies,smelly armpits,how can you take such a body in your arms?no matter how efeminate,a guy is still an ugly neanderthalian.
but hey,it's your pleasures and since that means more free girls,it's just fine by me.lesbos are the true enemy!:p

luxhombre

07-21-2006, 09:42 PM

yes, I do sometimes, depending on the guy, is he wouldnt be bothered, and he is opened, then why not?!

Lanze

07-23-2006, 03:35 AM

I try not to, if i do it is unintentional. I respect everyone's sexuality and at my age I understand that not everyone is secure in theirs, hence all the hatred of gay people. I flirt with some of my friends for laughs though because i know it makes them uncomfortable, but they arnt going to hate on me for it.

KewlDewd66

07-23-2006, 04:35 AM

i was coming back from this concert,walking alone to the bus station at about 4 am.i hear some guy from behind going "psst!hei,brother,why are you walking so fast?".he didn't seem to mean any harm,so i thought he's walking to the bus as well.so i waited till he got next to me.when i started walking again he took my hand and went "brother,can i please suck your cock?".that almost made me shit my pants.then i recovered and told him i like girls,but he just wouldn't understand and kept asking me to let him suck my cock.he even offered to pay me and boasted on his skills.i managed to get away when the bus came.
now when i think about it,my reaction seems hilarious and unexplainable.but the ideea just grossed my mind out.

i don't get you people.i find men to be damn ugly.big bones,big hands,hairy bodies,smelly armpits,how can you take such a body in your arms?no matter how efeminate,a guy is still an ugly neanderthalian.
but hey,it's your pleasures and since that means more free girls,it's just fine by me.lesbos are the true enemy!:pYou sure, are easily scared. If a BJ offer scares the shit out of you, what would you do, if you saw a big dude with a big tool, telling you to go down on it...

Look, I am not advocating violence or anything. But you ought to learn the fact that we live in a free world and that people will come up with all kinds of proposals and ideas. That's why, there is a word: NO. Nope, thank you, but NO, thank you.

Just like all the str8 dudes are not necessarily rapists, all the gay dudes are not running around offering to blow your dick. One reportedly did. Cool, write it off as one of those funny things in your life and a rare compliment, you got.

KD

i am confused

07-23-2006, 02:38 PM

call it strange but i dont know because i never consider myself to flirt with other boys but one of my m8's told me ive got a playful attitude and i can act a bit gay sometimes 0.0 he dosnt even know and i didnt sound like a joke

erzebet1961

10-16-2006, 09:42 PM

I flirt with straight chicks all the time...and they laugh because they know its just flirting...and some of them flirt back !!

kissya

10-17-2006, 01:16 AM

I love flirting with straight girls....

MatthewShane

06-05-2007, 04:10 AM

no. I generally respect that they are straight and this will not waver unless they give me reason to think otherwise.

Panzer

06-12-2007, 02:46 AM

Only by mistake.

SelfControl

06-12-2007, 03:07 AM

Meh, I do it quite often, usually the guys who'll get all pissy about it tend to be the ugly fuckers who think you're hitting on them because you're in the same room as them. Pretty much anyone else can handle it, and dudes like to be reminded that they're gorgeous; it's not like the ladies ever tell them.

It seems kinda lame for someone to get offended by it. I mean, even in the "if you didn't know, that's cool, but if you do know, IT MUST STOP IMMEDIATELY OR I WILL BE VERY ANGRY" way, it's totally uncool. If someone feels uncomfortable with being flirted with socially (obviously I draw the line at shit like rubbing your erect hard-on against someone's thigh, etc., just like you would between gays and gays) then that's kinda lame on their part, n'est pas?

Sherlock Holmes

07-15-2007, 08:46 AM

I hardly ever flirt with anyone. And in this conservative area, flirting with a straight guy would be a big mistake. So I prefer to not flirt at all.

joystick2

01-11-2008, 08:02 PM

No, i feel it's a waste of time.

Vanilla Gorilla

01-27-2008, 02:15 PM

IT MUST STOP IMMEDIATELY OR I WILL BE VERY ANGRY" way, it's totally uncool.

You only get it from straight guys that have never had to handle that situation with a woman, let alone a guy

lostandsafe

01-28-2008, 02:00 AM

I flirt with everyone in a really innocent kind of way, I think. Whenever I meet a guy, the first thought that goes through my mind is "so, which side is HE on?" I try to read the situation, find out where he stands and go from there. Because I generally have zero gay friends, I tend to be more affectionate and flirty with the straight ones that aren't really put off by it. This could mean anything from lots of compliments to hugging to cheek kisses to sharing a bed. The second he's uncomfortable, it stops. Usually there isn't a problem.

Wow, my friends let me get away with a lot.

Aesthete

01-29-2008, 02:48 AM

I don't.

ibe a-ta

02-05-2008, 06:01 AM

bout a year or so back if a gay flirted with me he would be in the hospital

but know being on the other side of it now

I don't know whether I would or not I would have to give it a few thoughts , but I definitely like the idea

course I don't think my boyfriend would like me flirting to much

MollyBoston

02-09-2008, 09:11 PM

I always flirt with gays...seriously, I realize this is totally not what this thread is about but flirting with gay guys is the best. They're always really good at it and it's a blast, and you can feel totally safe doing it.

Pussy Boi

02-10-2008, 10:32 PM

i love flirting with straight boys and do it all the time. i am openly gay so i feel very comfortable and confident as far as my sexuality goes. boys are just so cute and i love trying to confuse and play with straight boys heads. i do try to convert some but it never seems to work that easily.
i am currently in school away from home. i be trying to talk to the boys but they all want to act all straight and shit. i hate that !!!! i be feeling so bad and depressed because i be trying to make the first move only to get turn down once again. straight boys are a trip and think that straight is something to be proud of being. they are so close minded and i am starting to hate them for that. plus they put on too many fronts for me. there are some "straight" boy that are curious but you'll never know because there so secretive about shit.