The first person you had sex with was...?

[james q]

i have a theory that many people (gay, straight or bi) are first introduced to sex by someone older, but i could be wrong.

Who was the first person u had sex with?

[kindwoman]

the first guy I had sex with was only a few years older than me...no biggie

[Sininabin]

i guess he was like half a year older, actully he the only one ever for me

[james q]

the guys i first had sex with were my stupid brother and his mate from next door. they were both three or four years older than me. i was about 8. i know that probably doesn't count. the nexttime i had sex was when i was 14 and this was with a group of boys my own age. we all got really pissed on port wine and had a grand old time in my garage. it's funny but i just realised now that both my first two initiations into sex were with a group of boys and both inside a garage.

[Crayola]

i have a theory that many people (gay, straight or bi) are first introduced to sex by someone older, but i could be wrong.
if many pple had their first experience with someone older, then logically the same amount of pple had their first experience with someone younger..:rolleyes:

[james q]

if many pple had their first experience with someone older, then logically the same amount of pple had their first experience with someone younger..:rolleyes:

maybe. but the older people who introduce the younger people to sex may have done that a squillion times already (it doesn't have to be their first time). like my stupid brother and his mate (read above posting). they had 'initiated' all the boys in the neighbourhood be4 they got around 2 me (sluts!)

[james q]

it's funny but i just realised now that both my first two initiations into sex were with a group of boys and both inside a garage.

any freudians in the group, would u please provide an interpretation...

[SageDreamer]

I'm no Freudian...sorry to disappoint you.

However, sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

Boys may be much more willing to do something daring in a group than alone or with only one other boy. Similarly, a garage is readily available and offers some privacy. I don't think this means you're into auto-eroticism.

[james q]

I don't think this means you're into auto-eroticism.

maybe i am :sunglasse

[SaintEd]

my first time was given to a taxi drive from a local chat room.
i dont really wanna think bout it again.
i was just too desperate to try sex back in tat time.
luckily,i didnt give my first anal sex to him.

[toolmaggot]

My first was a couple months ago. Mother's day. He's 18. I'm 15.

We don't talk anymore. What a surprise.

[james q]

My first was a couple months ago. Mother's day. He's 18. I'm 15.

We don't talk anymore. What a surprise.

how come?

[txbarefooter]

my first time, he was a senior in high school (18) and I was a freshman. (14)

[SageDreamer]

My first time, I was 12 and he was 14. It was all pretty one-sided, but it was a learning experience.

[SunshineLily]

My first time ever was when i'd just turned 15 and my girlfriend was 14 but knew much much more about these things than me then! Again, it was kind of one sided, but really lovely, i really liked her a lot.
Sunny xxx

[MSman]

Me, I was 13 he was 12, and we both have the same birthday. so he is exactly 1 year younger than me.

[toolmaggot]

my first time, he was a senior in high school (18) and I was a freshman. (14)Aye, the one I did was a senior and I was a freshie.

And as to the "how come" question, he fucked me and then quit talking to me. I knew that was what he wanted from the start. That's the only reason seniors ever talk to freshmen.

[james q]

Aye, the one I did was a senior and I was a freshie.

And as to the "how come" question, he fucked me and then quit talking to me. I knew that was what he wanted from the start. That's the only reason seniors ever talk to freshmen.

that's short sighted, isn't it? won't he want to fuck u again (not that u'd want to)?

[txbarefooter]

Aye, the one I did was a senior and I was a freshie.

And as to the "how come" question, he fucked me and then quit talking to me. I knew that was what he wanted from the start. That's the only reason seniors ever talk to freshmen.

we were both on the chess team, gawd I was such a geek, (was ?? LOL). He asked if I could come over to his place after school to play chess, and it being a Friday there wouldn't be a problem. by the time we got to his place I had already taken off my shoes (I hate wearing them). when we got to his room, he change stripped in front of me and put on a pair of shorts.

I wont' go into the details, but he took my virginity. we "saw" each other several more times until he graduated and went off to college.

[Becknudefck]

the first person i am going to have sex with is 18..............thatll probably be soon:)

[soccergirl]

I was 14 and he was 16.

[toolmaggot]

that's short sighted, isn't it? won't he want to fuck u again (not that u'd want to)?His girlfriend gets in the way of that. I guess he's decided to start having a conscience. That, and he got sick of me.

[MSman]

looks like im the only 1 who had sex with some1 who was younger.

[sweetval]

If we're talking about with the same sex, my gf is just 6 months older then me and the whole thing really started at my instigation, I invited her for a sleepover.

As far as with boys, my very first time was giving oral and he was about a year older then me. The first guy that fucked me was a couple of years older then me.

[Becknudefck]

the first guy for me is 18.....YEA

[culture_revolution]

i was 16 and so was he

[Patch]

everyone i have had sex with has been the same age as me...not a conscious decision...it just kind of happened that way.

[shevek]

if many pple had their first experience with someone older, then logically the same amount of pple had their first experience with someone younger..:rolleyes:Actually, not necessarily. Remember that it usually is the first time for the younger person, but not for the older one. Of course, people get started earlier nowadays, and it's usually with a peer. In earlier days such as when I came out, the first person available was usually a few years older, sometimes considerably (more than 10 years) older. It was common to get started later too, at least for gays.

[james q]

i think my theory is good: there are alot of us out there who first experimented with an older lover, and presumably there are a lot of older people out there screwing round with younger partners. sounds delightfully improper 2 me. of the 37 ppl who voted here, 18 first had sex with someone older, 15 with someone the same age age, and 4 with someone younger. i know 37 votes is hardly representative (it seems in these polls only about 10% of those who come and view the page actually bother 2 vote) but the age parity ppl seem to be in a minority.

[makno]

the sam age as me .....a 14 yr old girl

[girlguy]

This is a hard one to answer. First sex I had at all was with a boy my own age or maybe a year apart. First girl I had sex with was 5 years younger than me. The boy sex was oral, the girl sex was intercourse. Does it all count? I voted same age because that was the first sex, even though I didn't really want to do it, there were no girls available and he was.

[PhotoGra1]

I think the definitions on this poll are too vague. What is the difference between older, and a lot older.

I would suspect that most people had their first experience with someone close to their own age, say, within 20% of their age.

[soccergirl]

I have often wondered about something. A 17 year old is having a sexual relationship with a 14 year old and they truly love on another. A year passes and now they are 18 and 15 and they are still in this relationship. Because one of them is now 18 their relationship is illegal. One day it is legal and the next day it isn't which I think is stupid. Does anyone think that their relationship would also become immoral as soon as one of them turns 18?

[pride_girl]

I was 15, she was 29.. :S
It was definitely an experience..now if that's not illegal i dont know what is

[callinghome]

I was 14 and they (two of them, girlfriends together :P) were about a year and a half older.

[james q]

I have often wondered about something. A 17 year old is having a sexual relationship with a 14 year old and they truly love on another. A year passes and now they are 18 and 15 and they are still in this relationship. Because one of them is now 18 their relationship is illegal. One day it is legal and the next day it isn't which I think is stupid. Does anyone think that their relationship would also become immoral as soon as one of them turns 18?

no, of course not. it's crazy. but all 2 real i'm afraid: something on tv the other night about a young guy in exactly this predicament (in america) who went 2 jail 4 carnal knowledge 4 a couple of years and now has 2 register as a sex offender wherever he lives and go all around his neighbourhood, knock on the door and say 'hi, i'm ur new neighbour and i'm a pervert."

[lakshen]

His girlfriend gets in the way of that. I guess he's decided to start having a conscience. That, and he got sick of me.funny how most guys that takes a girls virginity turns out to be assholes...

And well my first time was with 3 girls a few years older than me that thought it was cute that I was a virgin... Nymphs the bunch of them, good times

[kif]

First time I had sex was when I was 9 with an older boy who was 13 I believe. We found my dads porn and popped the tape in the vcr. I was aroused and didnt know what was happening. Well, he taught me what to do and I liked it. Luckily it wasnt one sided, I enjoyed it. But to this day I prefer older men over guys my age. Especially the older beefy bears. WOOF!

[Defence_mechanism]

well i thought she was 18... turned out afterwards she was actually 16. but thats ok, coz i didn't tell her she was getting my virginity either. hehe... i haven't seen her much since, but it was fun while it lasted. she was 2 years younger than me.

it was at her house for a "movie night". we were having a pillow fight on her bed and then i just happened to land on her and pin her arms onto the bed... and the rest as they say is history!

but if we're talking not just first times then i've been with a 22yo, a 19yo and an 18yo. so all about my age.

[Sockboy]

My first experience was with a girl about 4 years older than me when I was 11, it lasted for a summer and when I turned 14 I hooked up with her again and used to go to her house on Friday or Saturday nights when her parents were out, that lasted a few years on and off. Eventually I was bringing my friends over there and we had some pretty interesting group meets. She also brought one of her friends in a few times. My first gay experience was about 14-15 with a kid my own age and that was on and off for about 5 years. We are still close friends to this day, although he is now married with kids we still meet for picnics and get togethers (no sex though, shucks!).
Jon

[Jorma's Branches]

First time I had sex was with this guy I met online named Ryan. One night stand actually. Then like two months later we started dating...well, at least fucking and smoking, no real dates involved.

Edit: We were both 16.

[biguyuk]

i have a theory that many people (gay, straight or bi) are first introduced to sex by someone older, but i could be wrong.

Who was the first person u had sex with?
Mine was with a guywhen I was, or thought I was striaght, we were both 16..neway that experience woke my bisexuality and I'm glad it did! :)

[soccergirl]

When I first posted this I forgot this was in the Gay forum and just posted my first time having sex which was with a guy. My first tme with a girl I was 15 and she was 19.

[Dariah]

first time i had sex with a girl... she's about a year older

[bedlam]

she was older than me, however it was her first time too..

[Snowdancer]

The first person I had sex with was a lady who was a few months younger than I was. We were classmates in our sophmore year of high school. I wasn't her first though. He was a few months older than me.

The first guy I was with was maybe a year or two older than I was. But I was in my 20's by then so does that still count?

[tigerlily]

first guy was 5 days older, first girl... well never happened yet

[bitter_pill]

I was 19, he was 29

[barefoot_boy]

I didn't even have sex for the first time til I was
about 23. I started late but I certainly made up for it.

[Arrow Earthling]

My first guy was a couple years younger than me.

[luxhombre]

i have never had sex.

[SelfControl]

Couple of years older than me, not majorly so. I think it's because you're more likely to approach someone as you get older.

[KewlDewd66]

Yup, I think, he was 14 and I was 12. Not that it mattered. He sucked me off and I thanked him by taking him doggie style:)
KD

[BuffFilmBuff]

It was a guy I met playing soccer. We also knew a few of the same people, so that helped.

[Amanda's Shadow]

no one

[zpiper]

She's 3 years older...

[Libertine]

no one, but I would Libertine

Wow, thanks. ;)

[twiztidrainbow]

a person my own age

[Sherlock Holmes]

The first person I had sex with was a cousin of mine who was almost 3 years older than me when I was 9. We had a two-year relationship that ended when I bought into the idea that what we were doing was a sin according to the Bible.

I've wised up since then and wish I hadn't been so gullible because I rather miss that relationship. My cousin is so handsome now. Oh well. Still, I guess I could always blackmail him since he claims that he is exclusively straight.:X

[danny01303]

he was only a bit younger

[LJDV]

The first time I had sex it was actually illegal. He was 18 and I was 14. Although laws never really stop me. Now that I think back on it, I would rather have done it with someone with whom I was in love, however crazily romantic and unrealistic that sounds.

[*Andy*]

How have so many of you already had sex? My goodness, its so hard to find someone else who's gay and who will actually approach you to do these things. Tell me - how did first time come by?

Anyway, I'm still a "virgin" or whatever...but today in maths my teacher kinda rubbed his nads against my arm (of course they were in his pants, and I dont know if it was deliberate or not)..that was cool :P

[LJDV]

Hm...Well the way that I encountered my first sexual partner was that he was an openly gay man in my school, and I expressed interest in him...and we took it from there.

[ItzJessI3itch]

The first guy I had sex with was about my age... I think he was only a year younger then me.

[*Andy*]

I know this is a completely fucked up thought, but when boys are born, are their penises not inside their mothers for a short period of time, meaning that they lost their virginity to their own mother? Maybe I should post this in Random Thoughts..

[bkcmar]

I was 9 or 10 and he was 2 years older than me.

[ShadowShifta]

I'll admit I still have my virginity D:<
I envy all of you who lost it at younger ages than me >.<

...and to this VVV

I know this is a completely fucked up thought, but when boys are born, are their penises not inside their mothers for a short period of time, meaning that they lost their virginity to their own mother? Maybe I should post this in Random Thoughts..Thinking about that makes me shake my head, and even considering that I lost my virginity to my mum sorta weirds me out. It's a good thing i can't recall back to that period of time. But i guess to clear my conscience, we develop inside our mothers and are attach to them in that time being, but then i guess you can say that when my mum was pregnant with me, she had a vagina and a penis at the same time... Thanks for putting weird thoughts in my head >.<

[Claudio63]

the guys i first had sex with were my stupid brother and his mate from next door. they were both three or four years older than me.
Same here! If you were from Venezuela I'd say we might have been neighbours.

anyway my brother and his friend were only about two years older than me. And the "sex" was not penetrative, just fooling around, humping and stuff.

But, oddly enough, my first real sex was with a school teacher (not mine - but that was his profession) about 20 years older than I.

For the record I haven't initiated any young guys in sex.

[Newdbare]

I was 13 and they were 21. A guy picked me up in a movie theater in Phoenix, Arizona after buying me pop corn and candy, then he took me to his place and introduced me to a 24 year old man who I also had sex with.

[openfield]

I was 12 and he was 50, introduced by a schoolfriend who said he knew of a man who liked to be tossed off.

[yarapario]

An older, more mature cousin took me out in the barn loft when I was maybe 9 or 10. Said he wanted to show me how to have some fun. This went on for 4 or 5 years til he realized he was straight....the dumbass.

[Drew_445]

Meh, after about the age of 8 i've never done anything with males(atleast not that far)

/sigh, im so hopeless(eheh...)

although, my best friend did show me part of his cock(he held the tip for some reason ????)

thats it. he never let it get further. :(

maybe it has something to do with living in Utah, in a mormon community? maybe people are more afraid because of it?

[faraway4]

I haven't had sex before, though I am 19 now.

[mexi0803]

The first person I had sex with was a girl my own age. I didn't even know what I was supposed to do, neither did she. It is funny now that I think about it. We were very young.

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[WanderingSoul]

I've only had sex with a boy. And that sucked most of the time.

[Rigby]

My first fuck was five years older... and a man

[Jerimiah]

He was older than me by about 5 years.

[Zachimus]

Yeah, he was two years younger than me. I was 18. He'd just come out in our rather conservative high school and I was still closeted, but we found each other. This was the relationship that you wish you hadn't had, the one you look back on and say "what the hell was I thinking." Ended rather messily... done rambling.

[calisouth]

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[Vanilla Gorilla]

First was when I was 15, he was same age

Second was at 16, he lived up the street and was late 20s

[calisouth]

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[Shale]

The first person ever to have sex with was a Mexican prostitute who was prolly my mothers age and I was 19. That was about 1964.


The first guy I had sex with (or attempted) was much older than me when I was about 22. He took me home drunk and tried to get me to fuck him in the ass but I was too drunk to keep it up. However, I was really sick the next day, mostly hangover but some guilt at doing this perv thing with a guy.

Since then all the guys I've been with have been younger, except for my partner Jim who was older.

Now, I'm a dirty old man into Twinks (but I won't take one home drunk)

[chubadonkadonk]

i was 12 and it was with the preacher that my parents made me spend sunday evnngs with thinking i would stop wanting to be a girl if i hung around him well he would take me swimming at the lake and while we wetre swimming pull me over towards him and pull my shorts off then start kissing me telling me that i should love god like the bride of christ. it made me mad first few times he did that to me but after awile i just accepted that i couldnt stop him he was such a respected man and i would have been two embarassed anyway he ended up marrying my sister btw.

[Electric boy]

I was 15ish when me and my m8 from school had sex - it was more of a dare first of all then we kinda liked it. - I don't know weather he is still gay bi but still i wouldn't go out with him now.