i made love with my brother

Just me but I would never have sex with my brother. It's cool that you showed him what to do but after that I would have stopped it. First off he has a girlfriend and I don't believe in cheeting. Sacond you don't want to end up pregnant on accident..you think you don't want peopple to find out now...wait till you have to explain to your baby his dad is his uncle. It's jsut too risky.Let him try some girls out before he concurs that you are the best.

 

Umkazar, shut the fuck up you ignorant bastard. and, no, i don't think it was wrong. in fact, your post actually kind of turned me on.

 

Three words: Condoms can fail!


Stop. That's my advice, if you know anything about genetics then you know that it is diversity of the pool of genetic material that provides us with a lot of our protection against disease and deformity.
Don't regret what you're done, you're normal, and it's fine - just not the most usual sibling relations, that's all.
However the risk of pregnancy is just too high to make this a regular, or even repeat event - even with safe sex.

 

I agree. It does sound kind of beautiful, the way you tell it.

Your post got me thinking about our culture's perception of incest. Incest is a man-made construct. Without thinking about the fact that two people had the same parents, it's just sexual intimacy between two people! From that perspective, it's no big deal. And yes, I guess I kind of do think that if two people want to have incestuous sex, it is presumptuous of society and the law to stick their noses into it and forbid it. What is the compelling justification for incest being forbidden and illegal? Because there is a chance of birth defects from recessive genes combining? If society had a compelling cause to step between sexual partners because of possible birth defects, it would forbid retarded people from procreating, or people who are both congenitally deaf or something! There are load of people who "should" be prohibited from having sex, if it's looked at that way.

So in the absence of it harming anyone, or any compelling societal safety issue, I think that it ought to be between the people doing it.

I can't say that it seems your relationship with your brother ought to continue on this way for long; I mean you're not going to turn it into a boyfriend-girlfriend thing with a spousal-love kind of connection, right? And you can't present it outward to the public without severe repercussions.

I think you two should have a talk about this (these?) experience and put it to rest as something that was nice when it happened, and should remain a pleasant memory.

By the way, I hate to have to mention this, but your story was really erotic, to me. And cripes if you have really had such crappy, insensitive lovers in the past, you should try to pick them better. (I'd offer myself, but I figure we're a bit far apart, most likely.)

Hope my views have helped.

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

 

Incest is unfortunately looked down upon by many; hell, enjoying and having sex often is looked down upon too. Sex isn't about pleasure, it's about intamint feelings for someone close and its just a very powerful way to express that. There is nothing wrong with incest until procreation takes place; that's when I say that boundaries were pushed. If you love a family member to a great extent and they feel the same way, there's nothing to be ashamed of if you happen to make love.

 

Take your moronic religious zealotry and judgmental piety and shove them so far up your ass that you can taste them, you wad of shit.

Blue skies (to everyone else)
-Jeffrey

Oh, and tell your "infinitely loving and forgiving god" that he can eat shit himself, too.

 

cough cough no offense but i couldnt have the stomach to do that.. but peace to ya and ur bro


peace
chickens

 

Dont fall in love with your bro. People will never understand.
It's a difficult situation; I'm still a bit in shock after reading your post, not because i find it offensive, but I'm amazed how we can do forbbiden things and get a kick out of it.
I'd advise you to stop. It's not right to bonk your own blood. I mean you will suffer a lot. I wouldnt know what to do really. but please use protection.

 

My advice would be to stop, asap. It's perfectly fine to love your brother, but when you blur the line between family love and sexual love, you end up with nothing but a mess.

Just out of curiosity, what exactly was this retreat your parents took you to when you were little? Since you mentioned it, it might have something to do with your 'unique' ramblings with your brother.

Please consider this: No form of birth control is 100% effective. And to the person who said incest doesn't cause deformities: You need to restudy genetics. It is a fact that creatures who reproduce asexually (they basically just make clones of themselves without having sex) are extremely susceptable (sp?) to disease and extinction because diversity in the gene pool is what builds immune systems. If you reproduce incestually, that is as close to asexual reproduction as humans are capable of. Plus, my mother was friends with a girl when she was growing up who's parents were first cousins. Thye had seven kids and they were all butt-ugly and deformed and their youngest was born deaf. And to the person who said that if we ban incest we'd have to ban retarded people from reproducing, that's rediculous: If two retarded people have a child they can be just has capable of having a normal child as a normal couple, depending on the type of retardation they have. It would be cruel of anyone to bring a child into this world (or risk bringing a child into this world) if they knew for a fact there would be a high chance they would be disabled.

Going back to the original poster: How would you feel if anyone found out? I mean, personally if I found out my kids were sleeping with each other, I'd totally flip out and put them both in therapy. If you don't feel comfortable telling your friends and family about a relationship, you should take that as a sign that that relationship is not a healthy one. If you do choose to continue the relationship the way it's going, you must be prepared to face hard redicule and harsh judgement from 99.9% of our society, whether you like it or not.

-Kate

 

I say if you love the brother then you should be making love to him more often and with more passion. It's better than hating and punching each other. Hope this helps.
Love, Rific

 

you'd better stop. considering he hasn't called. its gonna turn into a big train wreck. and what about his gf? don't u care that this is his first sexual relationship? talk to the boy if he asks for help don't show him.

 

I think it's great you are close to your brother and I guess we can't choose you we fancy/fall in love with/want to have sex with, however, I really would advise that you stop having sex with him because it can cause genetic problems if you were to become pregnant. Yes, the Royal families across Europe were interbred but they also had a lot of problems (e.g the Russian Prince Alexei was haemophiliac.) I'm not saying all haemophiliacs are the product of incest, or that all incest leads to haemophilia, but there is a chance it could. Also, yeah, as much as I think you shouldn't care what people think you are going to get a lot of abuse if people find out. Also, if you were to date and it went wrong it would be hard because as you're family, you can't just walk away from it all. Maybe just leave it now, but remember it as a special experience?

Hope you figure it all out,
Summer. xx.

 

I admire the relationship you and your brother have. And I honestly think you should stop. Like someone above stated, there are thin lines between family and love. Blood is thicker then water, but that doesn't mean do the things you do in water. Best of luck to you.

love.
chelsea

 

First of all, I think everyone needs to stop cursing that "all homos go to hell" guy (forget his username). I read these curse-filled hate posts, then look at the signatures saying things like "peace, love, we are all one". We shouldn't be bashing each other just because they're wrong. We should tell them in a civil way why you disagree.

As for your brotherm as long as you're having safe sex and you both are willing, keep it up!

 

Call me Mr Clinical but that story sounded like one of those erotic short stories people write for their own titilation. If it's true however I can't see anything wrong with it, hey, I once had a wank over my auntie.

Shit was that a thunder clap?

 

Let me get this straight, you only want people that think what you did was OK to post? thats what I got from your disclaimer on the original post.

 

Well... that nervous feeling you say you have is prolly because you know what you did is wrong no?
im a christian myself but my god says to hate the sin but love the sinner... not *damn them to hell.*

 

Her statement:

Plath45: so if there are going to me any cynical, insulting replies, I;d much prefer that you just didn't comment at all.

Plath, you can't have your cake and eat it too. If you're going to tell people something as shocking as that, then you can't expect people to cheer you on.

I think you don't want insulting responses so it gives you an excuse to further advance your sexual relationship with your brother, so you can say "The people I talked to didn't seem to mind".

Well, I mind, and I think it's sick, but like I said whatever floats your boat. If you and your brother like it then so be it, it's your own choice, but I'm not going to accept it.

I mean I love my sister, but I wouldn't have sex with her. I've never even had an erection thinking about her. It's true.

There's nothing you could have taught him that he couldn't have learned from a book or a porn movie.

 

I know my sister is hot, but I find it is different that I know I dont wanna introduce my Navy Buddies to her and that I wanna shag her. you got yer own set of morals, I am an outsider, but I dont like that you did yer brother.MY prerogative.
As it was yours to have sex with your kin.

 

It didnt say not to post if your against it but not to post if your just gonna be insulting. How is saying "You sick fucking bitch" helpful. Saying "What your doing is wrong and I think you should stop" is alright