Scared To Do A Threesome

I had a few opprotunities to have a threesome but it never worked out. I don't think i would be good at it anyway. Too much going on. Anyone else have cokd feet?

 

Why is this in "Sex Polls"? Shouldn't it be in "Free Love" or "Real Kinky"?

 

I'd jump at the chance for a 3some.

 

I've only had one threesone and I was really really nervous before hand. There were a few times that I was an inch from backing out, right up until it got started

 

It's a good thing not to jump into a threesome too quickly and without giving the notion some sincere and serious thought. Especially regarding the long-term repercussions.

That is, if one of the other --or both!--members is somebody you care about. Like a s/o.

I can tell you that more times than not, those "after-effects" are often so unpleasant and problematic as to outweigh the original enjoyment of the act itself.

Cheers.

 

I'd only do a threesome if there was another girl, but never with two guys. That would make me nervous. One horny guy pounding away at me is enough, but two would be out of control. Besides, having a girl in there would be nice for variety.

 

Hi, I have just joined these Hip forums, so seeing this for the first time, just wondering what your one and only threesome was like and was it a MFM or a FMF, my hubby and I have had a few of both, also swapped with others for the night,

 

Welcome!

It was an MFM and was a really pleasurable experience

 

you need to find someone assertive enough to lead and give you confidence.

 

So was it a vaginal/anal double-penetration threesome? Or a spit roasting threesome (you on all fours with one guy doing you from behind while you sucked off the other one)? What made it so pleasurable for you?

 

No DP of any kind, though I'd be open to vaginal. Anal, for me, is too personal for a threesome. Most of the time I was lying on my back

Why was it pleasurable - it felt really nice ;-). It was fun being the center of attention like that and it was sexy to be able to get two guys off. It was a fantasy for my husband so it was also sexy to fulfill that for him.

 

thank you for a quick reply, happy you liked it, have you thought of doing another, and asking the same as mr man made, why was it so pleasurable. I may like this site

 

I don't have a special desire to do it again and it certainly wouldn't be a disappointment if it was just the one time. Maybe in the right circumstance I'd consider it

I think I covered the why it was pleasurable in my previous response ;-)

 

Not my thing

 

I'd be afraid that someone would catch feelings for someone else ...I've heard that it happens. It's all fun and games until someone catches feelings.

 

I have had an encounter with 2 girls and myself on one occasion. They were people I didn't know, we were drunk, and we didn't end up having sex. It was really fun!
These two girls were strolling around outside my parents house. Looking back, I must have been the only one home because I was able to invite them in. We didn't really get all that naked but we were all snogging and probably kissing as well. Anyway, those were the days! I can't believe how naive I was, or how frequently I was drunk. It was an all the time thing and I finally had to stop. Fun times though.

 

thank you, can I ask if it lived up to your husbands expectations or do you know how he felt,

 

Of course you can ask ;-)

This is something we talked about a lot before hand. It started out as pillow talk and eventually became a little more serious. It was never a *need* or obsession but it did move from pillow talk to something we both agreed to wanting to try. Of course we. Talked about specifics of who and how. The point being we were both as prepared as possible.

He did enjoy it. It was very sensual and respectful in the moment. It wasn't the aggressive stuff you see in porn. I felt safe and that allowed me to relax, mostly, which I think helped my husband also relax and enjoy the moment. We've talked about it a bunch after and it's a sexy memory that gets us both going still.

 

I'm so happy for you, with James and myself it started on a cruise, we met another couple, we had no idea that things would progress like they did, we just got on well with them and emailed and phoned each other,
we went on another holiday with them, more private, their suggestion, she hit on James and he hit on me, both of us didn't exactly decline but didn't say no, that was early morning and late afternoon James and I mentioned it to each other, a long pause between us, then a lot of talk, the main thing was neither of us told each other for so long, both of us said something must have kept us quiet,
the next couple of days the same, both being hit on, just before the end of the holiday we took the plunge I sent the night in our chalet with him and James with her,
next morning cool as you like I was making coffee and she said "I know his snorting" from then on we opened up to fun, don't know why, James is red hot in bed always has been, and I think I have been more than exciting there as well, just something different, hope I haven't bore you, Susan xx
PS keep the memories going thats a lot more than some people have anyway

 

Not at all! It's fun to hear other peoples experiences. I can totally see how a cruise/vaca could be a charged kind of environment that could be a catalyst for experimentation