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#61 Cerode

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Posted November 26 2016 - 09:48 AM

May you expound a bit please? What which parts make it most depressing for you?

It's not any "parts". It's everything. I'm already dealing with insane depression and some insanity. The fact that I'm not good looking and have been rejected by every single crush I've ever had doesn't help me. What also doesn't help is that I'm an atheist so I think suicide is a free sleep without any afterlife penalty.



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Posted November 26 2016 - 10:03 AM

 

 

And VG would lose it if we pretended to know gays and were very judgemental towards them, like he does and is with women.

 

 

...... not sure how 2 gay guys work out the financials

 

 

 

Piaf, Its just the context of this thread, talking to him

 

I just got back from Thailand a couple weeks ago, I go there for pretty much the opposite reason guys like OldDude do. I dont go for a sex holiday, for me, if i wanted that, the best place for me is to stay in Sydney. I dont like anything to do with alcohol, so I dont go near the tourist areas and thus dont go anywhere near straight guys that go over there for that or the girls they are with, not that we would have anything in common anyway

 

To me anyway, Thailand probably the most matriarchal culture on earth, for whatever reason the average thai womans gaydar works a whole lot better than in the west. If they pick up on that instantly, well......neither you or OldDude would want to see what really happens, it would get you both angry

 

You going to try tell me I hate woman, LOL ;)

 

I spent my teens and twenties as the gay BFF, getting dumped without hesitation and almost always seemingly without any consideration, every time whichever girl saw some guy she had a thing for. Left stranded in the night club, I dont know how many times ;)

 

But that kind of thing works both ways, you dont even get invited into certain situations unless they are convinced from that very first instance, well I am what I am

 

I know you dont really know what I am talking about, But sufficed to say, I hate woman apparently, and yet have a far easier time getting on with them than you do. I know its annoying


Edited by Vanilla Gorilla, November 26 2016 - 10:06 AM.


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Posted November 26 2016 - 10:18 AM

 

I spent my teens and twenties as the gay BFF, getting dumped without hesitation and almost always seemingly without any consideration, every time whichever girl saw some guy she had a thing for. Left stranded in the night club, I dont know how many times ;)

 

 

Yeah, that kind of sucks.



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Posted November 26 2016 - 10:21 AM

You mean the only way for a guy over 50 who is as ugly on the inside as you.
 

 

 

And this kind of thing comes off sounding just as nasty or moreso than anything OldDude may have to say about women, supported with a "like" from two of you girls


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#65 Piaf

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Posted November 26 2016 - 10:21 AM

 But sufficed to say, I hate woman apparently, and yet have a far easier time getting on with them than you do. I know its annoying

 

First of all, it's not just in this thread.

I mean, you and women. 

 

I get on with plenty of them. Just not your typical girls.

It's kind of hard to explain. 



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Posted November 26 2016 - 10:22 AM

Yeah, that kind of sucks.

 

They are kind of the same as guys in that way



#67 Piaf

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Posted November 26 2016 - 10:27 AM

They are kind of the same as guys in that way

 

The question is

Why are we here

This is a thread for ugly people



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Posted November 26 2016 - 10:35 AM

LOLz

 

 

 

 

Anyway, these straight guys that go over there, it looks one way from the outside

 

Looks a little different when you are there. What are these girls supposed to do, go with guys in their 20s that are more likely to be drunk, agro, controlling, jealouds, picking fights all the time


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Posted November 26 2016 - 10:44 AM


You going to try tell me I hate woman, LOL ;)

 

To be fair, you do present yourself and your commentary like someone who dislikes women.  I used to think of you like that, although I don't anymore.



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Posted November 26 2016 - 10:53 AM

 

 

It's not any "parts". It's everything. I'm already dealing with insane depression and some insanity. The fact that I'm not good looking and have been rejected by every single crush I've ever had doesn't help me. What also doesn't help is that I'm an atheist so I think suicide is a free sleep without any afterlife penalty.

 

It sounds to me like you need to take some pride in yourself.  Having someone to love isn't the be-all end-all of existence.  You aren't worthless just because the world is a cold, cruel place.  

You never know, true love might come around for you.  The future is unpredictable.  But between now and then, don't spend the time worrying and beating yourself up.     


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Posted November 26 2016 - 11:29 AM

It sounds to me like you need to take some pride in yourself.  Having someone to love isn't the be-all end-all of existence.  You aren't worthless just because the world is a cold, cruel place.  

You never know, true love might come around for you.  The future is unpredictable.  But between now and then, don't spend the time worrying and beating yourself up.     

I'm smart enough to know that someone should get themselves together before having a mate, and not the other way around. But there's no sense in trying to live a life I can't win. Hell, a girl once flat out told me "Haha you like these girls that never like you back. You liked this girl who never liked you. You liked me and I never liked you. It's an endless cycle." I argued that but holy shit did hearing that sting me. That was one of the most painful truths I've ever heard.

 

I hate good-looking people. They never understand what it's like to not look so good, and will never need to. I don't think any of that matters anyway, I don't even have the proper mental setup to sustain a relationship. I'm an inferior good; why would a girl go for a D+ product when she can get an A+ one for the same price?



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Posted November 26 2016 - 11:38 AM


I hate good-looking people. They never understand what it's like to not look so good, and will never need to. I don't think any of that matters anyway, I don't even have the proper mental setup to sustain a relationship. I'm an inferior good; why would a girl go for a D+ product when she can get an A+ one for the same price?

 

Maybe the girl will be a D+ product, too.  I've met some pretty ugly men and women who managed to find a mate.  All hope is not lost for you. 

 

Edit:  I did want to add:  there is more (much more) to life than being with someone.  It's a small part of everything else, try not to base too much of your self worth on this.  Although that is easier said than done.


Edited by youfreeme, November 26 2016 - 11:50 AM.


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Posted November 26 2016 - 11:42 AM

@Cerode

You can start by stop using female validation as confirmation for your human worth. People are simple and shallow. There isn't much to most of them. Simply look around. Look at how most relationships today fail. Look at how short most of them last. How people trip and tumble over the most trivial relationship hurdles. It's important to understand we live in a degenerative culture. Why obsess about being with a total bitch? lol. This is something I will never understand. Your issue is that you've been brainwashed, as most western males, to see values and attain self worth from the warped minds of modern women. This is the equivalent of asking a child to evaluate and rate your existential value.

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#74 Thefutureawaits

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Posted November 26 2016 - 05:48 PM

The most annoying thing is presenting this shit like they are universal truths, and not ramblings of bitter men.


And VG would lose it if we pretended to know gays and were very judgemental towards them, like he does and is with women.


Glory holes.lol

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Posted November 26 2016 - 05:55 PM

VG chimes in a lot of gay and bisexual topics. He must get around lol. On the subject, being less than awesome looking has many advantages. lots of girls never saw me coming half the time.

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Posted November 26 2016 - 08:37 PM

@Cerode

You can start by stop using female validation as confirmation for your human worth. People are simple and shallow. There isn't much to most of them. Simply look around. Look at how most relationships today fail. Look at how short most of them last. How people trip and tumble over the most trivial relationship hurdles

Well it's not solely women that get me down. I entered life being 'different'. I was never the popular kid, or the naturally cool kid nor (once again) very good-looking. People knew how to treat each other with respect and then switch "Shitty Personality Mode" to "on". I was always the nerd. The gamer kid who actually programmed for fun. Yeah, that's totally a girl-crotch magnet right there. I'm deathly antisocial yet my goofy ass parents are expecting grandkids. Haha yeah no. I'm pretty good at being the lone ranger.



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Posted November 26 2016 - 09:53 PM

I think you owe us a picture at this point.



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Posted November 27 2016 - 02:22 PM

Well it's not solely women that get me down. I entered life being 'different'. I was never the popular kid, or the naturally cool kid nor (once again) very good-looking. People knew how to treat each other with respect and then switch "Shitty Personality Mode" to "on". I was always the nerd. The gamer kid who actually programmed for fun. Yeah, that's totally a girl-crotch magnet right there. I'm deathly antisocial yet my goofy ass parents are expecting grandkids. Haha yeah no. I'm pretty good at being the lone ranger.


You know what they say, one good set of mastered skills is worth more than 5 failed relationships.

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Posted November 27 2016 - 02:31 PM

I grew up similarly some what socially awkward. My friends would use me for things. Even relationships was a user dependant waste of time most times. Once you know what you want you just go get it. Some people wait so long for the perfect thing to just happen. I couldn't let time beat me so i pounded the internet looking for a chance at love and met my wife...,,
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Posted November 27 2016 - 03:53 PM

Lucky you, doesn't work for most if you don't know how to play your cards.

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Posted November 27 2016 - 04:10 PM

For gods sake, just go out and pay for sex, it's just as good and loads of ugly guys do it.
Why does everyone have to make sex so difficult?

 Remember that a lone amateur built the Ark. A large group of professionals built the Titanic.


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Posted November 27 2016 - 05:49 PM

For gods sake, just go out and pay for sex, it's just as good and loads of ugly guys do it.
Why does everyone have to make sex so difficult?

Lots of guys won't even do casual hookups, it doesn't make them happy. Not everyone feels the same way about these things.



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Posted November 27 2016 - 06:40 PM

Life is too short to let it pass you by. Find what people like about you, know what you truly want and go for it.

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Posted November 27 2016 - 06:43 PM

For gods sake, just go out and pay for sex, it's just as good and loads of ugly guys do it.
Why does everyone have to make sex so difficult?

Yeeeeaah uh.. This topic is not solely about sex. Thanks for the strange advice though, I'll be sure to give it some thought but never act on it.

 

I don't want to enter some random woman who potentially has something I can catch. I'm good thanks.


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Posted November 27 2016 - 08:12 PM

I don't want to enter some random woman who potentially has something I can catch. I'm good thanks.


You are just as likely to catch something from a girl 'you love' as from a girl 'you pay'.
Unless you only want virgins.

The imaginary STD problem appears to be government and female propaganda to push up the value of relationships.
Here's a guide to the reality of the situation .....

https://markmanson.net/std-guide

"For instance, about 1 in 1800 people is diagnosed with syphilis in the United States each year, By contrast, you have a 1 in 84 chance of dying in a car accident in your lifetime."

Edited by OldDude2, November 27 2016 - 08:18 PM.

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Posted November 27 2016 - 09:09 PM

You are just as likely to catch something from a girl 'you love' as from a girl 'you pay'.
Unless you only want virgins.

I don't want to ram it in some random woman I don't know.


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Posted November 27 2016 - 09:18 PM

:D

 

atta boy.


Edited by Yggdrazil, November 27 2016 - 09:20 PM.


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Posted November 27 2016 - 09:22 PM

For gods sake, just go out and pay for sex, it's just as good and loads of ugly guys do it.

 

that's a little easier than doing it the old fashioned way, but still not as easy as "just go out and do it."  due to the legality issues, you need to know where to find paid sex, which is usually pretty well hidden if you're not already in the right circles for it.

 

it's like saying "just go out and buy some heroin."  yeah, it's there, but the average person wouldn't know where to start looking for it.


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Posted November 27 2016 - 09:54 PM

it's like saying "just go out and buy some heroin."  yeah, it's there, but the average person wouldn't know where to start looking for it.


Depends where you live.
If you're in the USA and living in the projects, there will be guys in the road outside your house selling both.

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Posted November 27 2016 - 11:17 PM

Back to OP,
Ugly, cant get girl, thinking of suicide.
Won't pay, concerned about non fatal STD.

OK Dude, you are beyond all help here, try 'True Forced Loneliness' .............

Edited by OldDude2, November 27 2016 - 11:18 PM.

 Remember that a lone amateur built the Ark. A large group of professionals built the Titanic.





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