Oh, and don't call her a slut. Only the person themselves can decide wheather they're a slut, whore, etc. Not you, or anyone else. I'm pretty sure the guy I was talking about wouldn't have called me anything like that. Like 99% sure. Because he knows better, that I only call myself that, if I want to, of course.
Hit it right on the spot. You said it beautifully. I think I love you now. I don't think he was being judgmental though. Most of us judge, but there is a fine line between judging someone or something, and just being judgemental. She had quite a sexual past and that is what a slut would be. Anyone that has quite the sexual past would be by definition a slut. So, he was judging like many other people would. Being judgemental is something else, though. It's like lying. Most of us lie. But, we aren't all liars. Being something and doing it is different. To me, at least.
If this thread is fake, I'm beating the poo poo out of the OP. Because I got personal for nothing. DAMN YOU! Come here and run into my fist. Don't make me chase you.
It's in your best interest to assume all threads in the sex forums are indeed fake. I mean, I barely believe them unless they come from a frequent respected user and often at times, I won't even read a thread I'll just browse to see what said reputable users have to say. My honest opinion, especially on these men sucking dicks and wife sharing threads is a sad man who hasn't experienced the sexual desires that he really wanted to throughout his life and so they come and make up stories to masturbate to and then to masturbate to other replies from guys who are experiencing the same inexperience. Simple. And when you call them out *poof* they never return. Also like you said, all their threads are unconvincing and hypocritical, one thread they're a virgin, the next they're taking a load in the mouth and the next they're have a shared wife. Lol. Fucken losers.
One day I will have an orgy story to share with you all. You all better believe me. It's my goal in life to be engulfed by tits, asses, and penises. Little me with all those tits, asses, and penises. Yea, like that will happen. Well, maybe. I can sneak in an already performing orgy. I'm sure they won't notice me.
The trolls can inadvertently start some interesting conversations, though. I got mad once when I found out my girlfriend was in a threesome. I think it's natural to get angry. Surely its in many people's DNA to take sex very seriously, as for a long time there was no good protection and it was likely as not that if you were going to have sex there would be a pregnancy. Obviously it's immoral to treat children as though you have no responsibility towards them. For a long time children needed mothers and fathers who took care of each other and provided for one another. Nowadays you can run around doing pretty much whatever you want to with no repercussions, and it's kind of difficult to say whose side is more mature or more progressive. On the one hand you have the people who think sex is no big deal and will have it with just about anyone, and they're kind of right in that it isn't that big of a deal. Maybe we shouldn't take anything so seriously and just be kind of easy-going lovers and what not. On the opposite end of the spectrum are people who view sex as something sacrosanct. Yet it could be said that they take sex less seriously than promiscuous people, for the obvious reason that they don't make it a point to engage in so much of it. Who is really making sex into something it isn't? I got over my anger. If this were a real person and not a troll, I would say to focus on what you really love about this person and try not to take the other stuff so seriously.
are you angry with her for going around, or are you angry with yourself for not doing so when you had the chance? Maybe jealous at never having the chance?
Table_mesh, Nearly all women are sexually active. My girlfriend showed me a bikini photo of her taken when she was in college. It was taken at a resort. She was with her then boyfriend. She told me that all he wanted to do was fuck her. I told it that that was obvious because she had a perfect body with huge, natural tits, and she was exceptionally good looking (voted one of the best looking girls on her college campus). My girlfriend told me that she was exceptionally horny while she was in college. She wanted sex more than her boyfriends. She couldn't go more than a few days without it. I know that my girlfriend was sexually active all of her life. My guess is that she's had at least 25-to-30 sex partners. Reading between the lines of what she's told me, I'd guess that she has done two dues at once. But that's just a guess. I don't care what she has done. I care only what she does since she's been with me. Her sexual past is her business, not mine. I am fortunate to be beneficiary of her sexual abilities. She loves to give head. Here's a rule of thumb that I've learned in college: at least double any number of sex partners a woman says she's had. If she tells you that she's banged 15 dudes, add another 15 to it.
One more very crucial point: if a chick confides in you of her sexual past, never, ever use it against her, NEVER. I don't care if you're in a knock down, drag out fight, some things are always off limits. Her sexual past -even if she used to be an authentic porn star- is always off limits. I will tease my girlfriend about some of her sexual past. She has had a one night stand with a dude who had a very small dick. As soon as she felt it she knew that he'd never work. She mercy fucked him & never saw him again. So when the time is appropriate, I'll tease her about it if I know it'll make her laugh. But I don't care who's she fucked or if she's been in an orgy. All I care about is that she's with me. She does like to be watched. I know that while she was in college one of her boyfriends fucked her in front of a small audience. It really turned her on. The reason she told me was because she wanted us to fuck in front of an audience. We haven't yet made that happen.
Thank you. Sorry, but I stand by my use of judgmental (as in "having or displaying an excessively critical point of view"), as he was 'excessively critical' of his girlfriend's past sexual exploits. For someone who thinks his girlfriend is awesome, he is pretty quick to judge her for having a past. It says a lot more about him than it does her. (If the OP is a , he is a sad lonely one. Personally, I appreciate more creativity from . See what happens when Art is removed from schools! Even trolling online gets pathetic and boring.)
I think this is a pretty common feeling. It sounds like you want more experience yourself and so you are resentful. Otherwise it may be that you highly value sexual exclusivity..
The price of what you want is "Honesty" and that is what you Get - Seems to me you either Get over it or Get over it
Referring to her past as her being a slut is not cool. She is a woman and you should respect her. She told you about her past appreciate that. Not all women marry the guy who breaks their virginity. I personally have been around before marriage for various reasons but the fact that I have had sex with many men does not make me less of a woman. She never cheated on you or contracted any stds that shows responsibility. If it's bugging you then find a virgin. But don't make women like myself seem filthy.
I think this is a spoof in any event Arlene. See an earlier post I made. This is the link i was referring to:- http://www.hipforums.com/forum/topic/477246-gfwife-with-other-men/