My wife and I have been trying to have a baby since we're married. She has some hormonal issues and these are causing difficulties because she struggles to ovulate. Anyway, probably for all this stress, it seems she is less and less interested in sex. Sex is a very important part of the relationship for me; in the last months I can remember only one time we had great sex, she was very involved. I don't think she is undersexed, but sometimes it is even impossible to approach her with a caress. If I try, she pushes me away. When she is supposed to be fertile, we have sex every other day. I think it kills the libido... But this is the best way to hope in a pregnancy. I don't demand every time to be fantastic (sometimes I don't want to fuck, to be honest, and in that case I just penetrate without foreplay), but I'd like just a little more passion.
sounds like its becoming a chore. try to spice it up. try something new. mayb take the girl out n make her feel special treat her like a goddess
Penetrate without foreplay? Perhaps you are a selfish lover and your wife finds it to be a turn off? Or her desire to have a baby is turning your sex into a dutiful routine, as opposed to a passionate playtime between two lovers. Have you tried talking to your wife about how you are feeling?
Totally agree. It all sounds very prescriptive rather than being spontaneous and fun. You need to treat her like a princess and she'll be more receptive to you.
Probably the fact is that everything became a routine and she is getting tired to try (it's been two years since we got married). She sees other girls getting pregnant (even her brother's girlfriend got pregnant even though the baby wasn't planned) and sometimes she feels very sad. A couple of months ago we almost did it, but the ovum didn't stick. She had so much hope when the gynecologist said the fertilization had gone well. Anyway, yesterday we finally had a good sex. I think that a little abstinence helped.
it really sounds like there's no "fire" between you 2. it is the fact that everything's a routine and routine kills relationship. you've got to try changing this. how is up to you, but make something new. something she doesn't expect. pretty sure would work
Penetration without foreplay?No wonder she's not showing much interest! If it were me,I'd "forget"about baby making.Be more spontaneous and make love because you really want to,not because you're trying to conceive.I think if it becomes routine,it becomes more stressful,and it becomes harder to conceive.
