How Did You Start Exploring Bisexuality?

The first time was in high school. Stayed over night with a friend and we started talking about girls and sex. We both ended up really horny and decided to compare the size of our cocks. It wasn't long before we were stroking each other off.

 

My first exposure was with a barber when I was in my early 30's. It was Saturday and I had been drinking beer when I decided to get a haircut. I went to the local shop I had been using for a while and turned out to be the only customer at the time. I noticed when he was on either side and my hand was on the chair arm he would lean over me and rub his crotch against my hand. He did this quite a few times and then he would take the apron off to shake it out and brush against my crotch with his hand. I normally go commando and I think he was trying to see what effect all the contact was having. Well it was! I was a little surprised at first and just decided to see where this would go. So next time he leaned over the chair arm I moved my finger up and down and sure enough I touched his cock head. He moved to the other side and leaned in and I did the same thing. This time when he took the apron off to shake it out he lingered longer at my crotch got a feel of my hardening cock. He became a lot bolder with his touching as did I. Unfortunately a customer walked in and we had to stop the games. He finished with me and told me if I didn't like anything about the cut I could come back anytime as he lived behind the shop and would be happy to correct anything I was not happy with. I went home not really paying much attention to the hair cut as my mind was in overdrive thinking about what had happened. Early evening and a few more beers and I notice in the bathroom mirror while taking a piss that my hair is sticking up on the side. Emboldened by his invitation and the beer I went back to his shop, walked to the rear and found him staying in a motor home. He was not completely dressed at the time but did not hesitate to take me in the shop and fix the hair cut quickly but also pick up where we left off with the touching. This time there was no mistaking what was happening and he just starting rubbing on my cock through my jeans. He then asked me if I would like him to suck this as he rubbed it. Couldn't say no to that. He took me to the back room and sat me on a couch after taking my jeans down to my knees and went to work on my steel hard cock. I don't really know haw long it took before I shot my load in his mouth which he greedily swallowed. He then proceeded to kiss me with my cum on his lips which took me totally by surprise. I freaked and said I had to go he did not try to stop me but ask me to at least touch is cock. I looked at it and gave it a stroke and then left like a frightened deer.

Never went back there again. Scared of the feelings I was having so I tried to get the thoughts out of my head by bedding every woman I could at the expense of a marriage.

I remained "straight" for the next 20 years before I gave in to the desire to touch another man. It's been a while now, but I am having strong urges to do it again.

 

My first time with a man was last year. We met on Grindr and my god what a find. He's old enough to be my dad and he treats me like his son too. It was hot for a while, sending nudes and phone sexing each other, but then we got serious. His cock is like 9" and thick like a fucking salami. His head was cut and really flared like a stallion. He was the perfect daddy for me, balanced with muscle but a little bit of chub too. His balls hung low and were really big too!

I finally gave in to him in October, and it felt so great. He knew exactly where to kiss me and touch me. He was patient, kind, and super kinky. He sent me over the edge and. I came harder than I ever had before. His cock felt so great in my mouth and I loved smelling his crotch musk. It was a great one time deal, but I can't see him again. He doesn't understand me and he belittled my issues. Even if meeting him is just for sex I can see a lot of problems growing if I continue to hook up with him. I still haven't taken him up the ass, and even though I think it would feel amazing im so nervous hand what that would do to my sobriety. I suffer from porn addiction and I've been clean 15 days...they say that healthy consensual sex is allowed and encouraged in sobriety, but I still have not been with a girl yet and I don't want sex with this man to be so easy and amazing that I never have the desire to be with women ever in my life...

Thoughts?

 

LOLz, you will do the same when you are his age

I'm sure its super important stuff you complain to him about - you cant find every pokemon, your mom wants you to start paying board, no one will ever kill another puppy if we all eat tofu

 

Um actually no. I suffer from addiction and he blows me off when I try to talk about it. I don't live with mom either, I have a fucking job and pay for a one bedroom in NYC. Don't assume that because of my age I'm not cultured, educated, or successful.

 

Sorry, should have put a little wink smiley at the end of that

But you know what I mean, meh so he doesn't fake empathize, so what. Find another friend that will listen to that stuff. The hot older guy for sex , some chic somewhere that love to talk just for the sake of talking to bind and while about stuff.

 

me and a friend were playing a racing game and who ever lost had to suck the others cock fir a minute. I lost and kinda went all the way first time deepthroating him and swallowing. got up off knees from under blanket licking my lips looking at him he was smiling happy. did it one more time later at night under blanket and moaned a bit holding his body clenching it. fell asleep a wile after happy.

 

In puberty I had cock play with another boy at school but it never went further than watching each other masturbate. But I was curious and after losing my virginity with a girl I answered an ad in one of the underground newspapers (no internet at that time, and homosexuality had only been legalised a few years in the UK) and went to spend the weekend with a west african guy in London. He was a big guy with a cut cock to match. Initially we had some fumbles and then when he came from the bathroom naked and erect I immediately started sucking him; I probably wasn't very good at it, and his cock was seriously big, so after a little while he laid me on my side and with lube (no aids/condoms in those days) slowly penetrated me. It was painful and my first cock with no preparation but I remembereven now that I liked it and by the time he came close to orgasm I was pushing back onto him.
The next 20 years I mostly went with women and when with guys was a top... though I did get raped by a guy in Indonesian one time. Now I describe myself as 'more bottom' as I love the feeling of a hard cock inside me rubbing on my prostate; I still will fuck guys but prefer slim yunga ones with cute bums rather than olda hairy guys my own age. As I get older my only regret is not having had more sex in my life and as I have been with maybe 70 women and about 100 guys I cannot say my sex life has been minimal. My advice to younger people is play safe and get as much loving and sex as you can.
Simon

 

Yeah no problem. Maybe I will take your advice with a different older guy lol. This one is not for me, but I'm sure I'm gonna need a cock up there one day soon

 

For me it was by accident. I used to chat with women on a now defunct web site. One woman I really liked was a Filipina who was very attractive. After several months of chatting, she saw me one day and she was upset. When I asked her why, she told me that she had been lying to me. She said that she wasn’t a real girl.

By now my head was spinning. Real girl? Of course she was a real girl - what did she mean by that? When I asked her she said that she had been born with a cock - that she was what they called in the Philippines a ladyboy.

I didn’t believe her so then she told me that she could prove it. So she did. OMG when I saw her cock, I was dumbfounded but I was also hornier than I had ever been in my life. I wanted her. I wanted it.

She thought that I was going to be mad at her and she was surprised when I told her that I desired her. After that we jerked off together and I knew that I was a bottom.

This led to a whole journey of self doubt and fear that finally culminated in surrendering to my true self. Being fucked by a real cock on a beautiful woman was the pinnacle of my sexual experience. It still is and there is no going back.

 

While growing up I did some feeling of both female and male friends. It was all about it feeling good in general and learning sexua. Never labeled it as anything. After marriage I was content with the great sex my wife and I had together. Never experienced any urge for same sex until a couple years ago with a friend whom I've known my entire married life. Both of us now have nearly sexless marriages and things somehow developed with us. Beginning with being nude with each other then getting off with each other and progressing to now oral with talks of progressing further.

 

In high school with my then girlfriends older brother (I was 16 he was 21).He used to take me out surfing with him couple times while changing he cuaght me checking him out .I was definitely attracted to him .He was very fit,lean and practically hairless.One day after surfing he offered to use his shower after we smoked a joint together a couple minutes in he ventured into the shower both of us naked not a word was said it just came naturally.Within a minute my cock was throbbing I went down on him and he fucked me in the ass.It hurt like hell the first time but the next day I was back at his house and this time with proper lube (plenty of it ) and him not being as eager upon penetrating initially it was an amazing experience and I was hooked

 

I had been extremely curious for over 20 years but never had the nerve or the opportunity until about a year and a half ago. I was alone in a hotel and really horny. Usually about the time I get serious about meeting a guy I cum and that’s it but for whatever reason I just wouldn’t masturbate. I tried to hook up with a guy that just wanted to mutually j/o from doublelist but he kinda flaked so I tried Grindr and chatted with a few guys and then there was one that seemed real cool and down to earth. I finally invited him over to my room and even though I told him I wasn’t sure how far I was willing to go he was cool with that and come over. My heart was RACING when he come in my room. We chatted for a bit and sat on the couch naked. We played with our own cocks for a little while and I ask him if I could touch his. At this point I wasn’t sure if I would suck him or not but I wanted to feel the setting of being next to a naked guy and holding his cock in my hand.
I stroked him for a few moments and I decided it was now or never and I got in front of him on my knees and put my tongue out and touched the head. I licked it a little and then went for it. It was nice but wasn’t really the mind blowing experience I had heard about. I tried my best to remember the technique I had tried to learn but I honestly have no idea if I was good at it or horrible. I did deep theoat him which was kinda exciting.
It was a fun/exciting experience but if there’s a next time I want it to be with someone I know a little better and actually let him cum in my mouth.

 

I think it started after I got divorced, being single starting playing with my ass & found new sensations, then I was curious about how my cum tasted, I started by putting my legs over my head and would jo into my mouth and realized my cum tasted good especially when I had a dildo in my ass. got me thinking what does another man's cum taste like, so I started to explore my options to find a man & find out. after sucking my first cock I was hooked, loved it. Every man after that was good, their cum was so delicious I will keep sucking & swallowing

 

Good for you!

 

Watching my wife with another guy having sex some how I join them!

 

For a while my wife watched as me and her lover sucked each other to completion..........my first time swallowing cum and I loved it.................

 

sex with a guy never entered my mind, until my wife made the suggestion, after she was no longer able to have sex herself, not even oral. We had a gay friend who always wanted to suck my cock. My wife knew it and told me I should let him do it, but only if she could watch. After laughing off the invitation for years, I decided to take them both up on the offer. My wife even allowed me to go on my own, the first time, as long as I told her all of the details.I did and she was surprised when I told her that I didn't return the favor. The second time was at our house and my wife intently watched as he gave me a really good bj. It wasn't until she belittled me, telling me it was only polite to return the favor and help him out too. I remember looking at my wife as I took his cock into my mouth and started sucking it. She was thrilled about it, which only fueled my desire to do my best. He was quite pleased at my amateur attempt. I deep throated him and let him cum in my mouth..Didn't see a downside to it, so we kept doing it when we had the opportunity. It was no strings, no guilt, so why not?

 

Hey if it's alright with the wife why not.....................ENJOY........

 

My wife watches me sometimes she gets hot over it and at times she joins in also................