Men And Larger Women

Men who are attracted to larger women interest me. Since it's mostly looked down upon in society to be overweight my interest is why do the men who like/love bigger women continue to use negative words to describe them?

 

I think you answered your own question!

 

what do you consider negative words? what positive words are there that they should be using instead? seems like most guys i know with large girlfriends refer to their women as "bigger" or something relatively neutral like that. i don't think i've ever heard someone say "i'm into lard asses."

 

ive heard more dudes speak poorly about their hot girlfriends than I have about the ''larger'' babes


on the other hand

fat is fat

 

How large are we talking here?

So I wonder, is it the same about girls that like large men?

Is it large, or is it fat?

 

I never talk down to any woman. I prefer to call them curvy or sometimes thick. But in my book I prefer a curvy woman there is more to love!

 

Nicely put you super splendid guy you!

Curvy and curvaceous are great words to use. I think to describe a woman as curvaceous is an incredible compliment and far better than words like 'sexy' or 'gorgeous' and the likes.

Let's hear it for the curvy and the curvaceous ladies out there; take a bow.

Well said TSSG!

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjC0vMIrOAk

C/S,
Rev J

 

Nothing wrong with curvy women. I think most all women are sexy in their own way. But some curvy women that society labels them as being "overweight" I think are very sexy! But this is only my opinion

 

i don't know guys like that. perhaps they don't respect women in general.

some heterosexual guys call women they like "bitches". it's their perception of women.

 

Sadly everywhere you look these days plus-size women are the norm. The Obesity rate is a national health crisis and nothing is being done about it.

Last year I moved back to Massachusetts from New Hampshire and while the rate of obesity is lower than the national average, everywhere you look it’s the great white whale.

It’s almost as if women have simply given up and have embraced their depravity



Hotwater

 

You sure are in hot water with that one! Lol..so when did someone tell you you were mr perfect?

Love it when someone chucks a giggle in the thread, livens it up a bit.

 

There are large people today like there were large people 100 years ago like there were large people 500 years ago like there were larger people 1000 years ago like there were larger people 2000 years ago like there were larger people that lived even earlier than that.

And they weren't all kings, queens or people of political figure, they could have been farmers, workers, soldiers and even whores.

I've read scripts from inside the walls of Troy that narrate large women whores working the men that anchored harbor.

I don't think being "large" has all to do with fat and an unhealthy eating diet. There do seem to be those folk that just can't shake it no matter what they try, I'd say at that point genes have a say in it. I know a girl who that even the doctors take blood from and say you're 100% healthy. Good fats, good cholesterol and everything about her is healthy. But she's not thin at all, she's quite cuddly around the edges. I walk with her, I eat salads with her. She doesn't drink. Doesn't smoke. She's admitted to me that she has a hard time losing weight no matter what she does. I even once met her father. Her father said that in her mothers family there was always one bigger sister, not fat, but just one was always larger than the rest and the photographs showed this over generations. I never saw the photos but it's understandable.

Anyway, she's not terrible by any means, just larger. She has a tall partner, skinny. She's very short, he's very tall. Always get looked at by people. It's funny though, they never speak of shameful looks, but rather, what is this short larger woman doing with a man of this size, this shape and caliber? Shit, he must do her good, and she gotta be doing something good to keep him too. Lol.

I guess, keep them guessing. If they're staring, they're unsure and if they're unsure then, well, the upper hand lies with your for in just that split instance of guesswork, you've got it over them.

Now if someone is single and staring and judging. Lol. Saaaaad.
But this couple also takes notices of the stares from couples and it's at that point where they have their own fun with it. He'll show that couple, by showing his own partner attention, that their relationship doesn't need to survive on the pettiness of weight and looks, and once that random women sees this, she'll start questioning the values of her own relationship.

 

I’m not perfect but at a lean 6’2” and 180 lbs I'm still looking good as I approach middle age.

My point is wherever I look as I walk the streets of Boston and other major cities across the country women are becoming bigger and wider and they don't seem to care.


Hotwater

 

Perhaps it's men and women getting bigger? You just only notice the women because your not looking for a fit guy?
At 6.2, fit and lean, and good for your age, why you hanging around so many 'big girls'

 

"Are you gonna take me home tonight?
Ah down beside that red firelight
Are you gonna let it all hang out?
Fat bottomed girls
You make the rockin' world go round"
Can I get an Amen for Freddie!
Hotwater there is a difference between "Large" and "Fat".
C/S,
Rev J

 

I had girls of all shapes and sizes. Big girls tended to be single and not play games. They eat actual real food when you hang out with them and have more to offer in the fun areas. Growing up, the big girls were ignored so they were happy with any attention and showed their appreciation.

 

i tell him that almost every day.

 

I'm a bigger girl, and my dating life is much better than my sister who is fit and spends her life in a gym. This wasn't the case when we were younger though. She always got hit on more than me until our 30's. I think men hit a certain age where the stigma of being with a bigger girl isn't the same.

I think a lot of men like big butts too. I've been told several times by men that pursued me, that it was because I have a bubblebutt. I had a one night stand with a guy I met at a concert a few years ago that seriously looked like a male model. I remember telling him that I couldn't believe he was into me after we hooked up. He said that he had always wanted to do it doggystyle with a big woman, which I was all fine by me. It was really bad. I remember lying in bed with him and laughing because he said one of my cheeks was wider than his entire GF as he smacked my bottom while I was giving him a blowjob. It was probably one of the more sleazy things I've ever done, but still a good pretty experience.