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#31 Asmo

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Posted May 02 2016 - 09:22 AM

Okay. I'll tell you guys. He is Turkish, from Istanbul.


Poor turks... They're getting a bad rep lately :P

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Posted May 02 2016 - 09:28 AM

I'm just wondering now if you signed the note or left it anonymous.
If you put your name under it that would make all the difference for me if I were him. But saying it in person would be the preferred way imho

 

I didn't sign the note.


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Posted May 02 2016 - 09:38 AM

Good chance he mainly got pissed because of that. Or he can't smell and it all came as a terribly shameful suprise. Who knows? Just confront him friendly (like you did in the note) so you can hear his reaction right away. If he's unreasonable its better to find out soon.. :P

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#34 Piaf

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Posted May 02 2016 - 10:11 AM

So in Turkey "parents don't teach their children basic life skills, like how to do laundry and take care of yourself on a regular basis"?

 

My experience with Turks was completely different. Clean people, clean children, with normal hygiene habits. 

Anyways, dude has issues, and I doubt it has anything to do with the culture. 


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Posted May 02 2016 - 10:13 AM

Or did you mean that it's a culture where mothers and sisters do everything for male members of the family, and end up raising giant babies who can't even do the laundry on their own?

If yes, you're wrong. 



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Posted May 02 2016 - 10:16 AM

Good chance he mainly got pissed because of that. Or he can't smell and it all came as a terribly shameful suprise. Who knows? Just confront him friendly (like you did in the note) so you can hear his reaction right away. If he's unreasonable its better to find out soon.. :P

 

It is likely that he can't smell his own scent, because he is so used to it.....


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Posted May 02 2016 - 10:19 AM

So in Turkey "parents don't teach their children basic life skills, like how to do laundry and take care of yourself on a regular basis"?

 

My experience with Turks was completely different. Clean people, clean children, with normal hygiene habits. 

Anyways, dude has issues, and I doubt it has anything to do with the culture. 

 

 

Or did you mean that it's a culture where mothers and sisters do everything for male members of the family, and end up raising giant babies who can't even do the laundry on their own?

If yes, you're wrong. 

 

I didn't mean to stereotype the culture.


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Posted May 02 2016 - 06:06 PM

um i think i need to start bathing and cleaning house...my momalways complains of my smell amd dirty clothes but i ignore her
I think you made me realize how serious a thing this could really be
Is there a way you could make him want to do it?
like say boy this place would look nice clean or i dunno
tell him peopke are complaining and want to kick him out but you wont say who might work
does he like women? you might somehow bring up the fact women like cleanliness and good smelling things
or just tell the landlord

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Posted May 02 2016 - 06:20 PM

Since you've already sent him a note and talked to the landlord about this, it's been an ongoing issue, and you seem to be determined to get results, you may need to consider legal action.

 

I'm not sure what real estate law is like in bc, but there is a general legal principle of "quiet enjoyment" in real estate law.  That is, that you have a right to prevent others from infringing on conditions necessary to your enjoying your legal place of residence.

 

You may want to talk to your other neighbors and see if it is an issue for them too.  Then talk to a real estate lawyer (a legal clinic would be cheaper if you are eligible).  In principle there might be a book on real estate law or other free/low cost info on the subject.

 

If in fact you have a legal right to quiet enjoyment (I'm guessing that you probably do), you may be able to send a letter (via a traceable method so it serves as formal legal notice) to the landlord (along with other tenants if they feel the same) demanding that the issue has to be resolved or that you will stop paying rent (along with your neighbors, if they want to do this).

 

There may have to be some legally defined period of advanced notice, but this is a typical method forcing landlords to do stuff when they drag their feet on something.

 

The landlord in turn would basically be forced to tell this guy that he has to clean up or face eviction proceedings.



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Posted May 02 2016 - 08:27 PM

so basically, hipforums has taught us that turks are a bunch of whiny guys who can't get laid (except by male hookers), smoke synthetic weed, and smell bad.


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#41 Ashalicious

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Posted May 02 2016 - 10:30 PM

I just thought of something - what is ft he is on some type of antidepressant that has a side effect that makes a person sweat excessively?

If this is the case, then I'll feel like a real asshole............
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Posted May 03 2016 - 03:29 AM

Sweating excessively shouldn't make the hallway stink. Nor should the smell become so strong it penetrates your wall.

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Posted May 03 2016 - 03:35 AM

My experience with Turks was completely different. Clean people, clean children, with normal hygiene habits.


Turkish men, women and children seem clean enough indeed but it remains curious that they all have a moustache
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Posted May 03 2016 - 03:49 AM

I just thought of something - what is ft he is on some type of antidepressant that has a side effect that makes a person sweat excessively?

If this is the case, then I'll feel like a real asshole............


What does the smell actually smell like?

I didnt bother reading that gynormous first post

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Posted May 03 2016 - 06:06 AM

Turkish men, women and children seem clean enough indeed but it remains curious that they all have a moustache

 

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#46 Ashalicious

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Posted May 03 2016 - 06:54 AM

What does the smell actually smell like?

I didnt bother reading that gynormous first post

 

Like stink. Like spicy, dirty, stinky man. Like spicy, dirty, stinky man that hasn't washed his clothes or opened a fucking window in 6 months.

BUT the smell is intermittent. Yesterday, the hallway didn't stink one bit.

 

It's weird.


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#47 Vanilla Gorilla

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Posted May 03 2016 - 11:42 AM

Like stink. Like spicy, dirty, stinky man. Like spicy, dirty, stinky man that hasn't washed his clothes or opened a fucking window in 6 months..


Now it kind of sounds like you want him

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Posted May 03 2016 - 11:47 AM

Now it kind of sounds like you want him

 

No. Just no.

 

The hallway fucking REEKS right now. I am SO ANNOYED. How hard is it to take your dirty clothes down to the quarter wash and do a load or two of laundry? HOW HARD IS IT?

 

How hard is it to go to the market and buy some fucking AXE for $4.00?

 

Oh my god it is going to be a long summer.

 

On a positive note, I'll be taking the stairs up to the 9th floor more often than not, as there is no way I am riding the elevator with him.

 


Edited by Ashalicious, May 03 2016 - 11:49 AM.

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Posted May 03 2016 - 12:31 PM

No. Just no.
 
The hallway fucking REEKS right now. I am SO ANNOYED. How hard is it to take your dirty clothes down to the quarter wash and do a load or two of laundry? HOW HARD IS IT?
 
How hard is it to go to the market and buy some fucking AXE for $4.00?
 
Oh my god it is going to be a long summer.
 
On a positive note, I'll be taking the stairs up to the 9th floor more often than not, as there is no way I am riding the elevator with him.


It's strange you say it's intermittent though.

How can it be like BO and be intermittent, either he doesn't wash for days or he does.

You sure it's not dead bodies you are smelling? He's a serial killer and every time he gets himself a new trophy he cooks up a mean curry to hide the smell.

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Posted May 03 2016 - 12:35 PM

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Is that you? You've put on weight......And a whole lot of bronzing powder


I'm kidding of course, I know who that is, I know that's Bruce Jenner

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#51 Ashalicious

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Posted May 03 2016 - 12:36 PM

It's strange you say it's intermittent though.

How can it be like BO and be intermittent, either he doesn't wash for days or he does.

You sure it's not dead bodies you are smelling? He's a serial killer and every time he gets himself a new trophy he cooks up a mean curry to hide the smell.

 

It IS strange how it is intermittent...it is really bizarre. Yesterday, the hallway didn't stink at all. Today, it fucking reeks.

 

I don't know what a dead body smells like, but I am sure it smells better than the fucking hallway does today.


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Posted May 03 2016 - 12:38 PM

I'm kidding of course, I know who that is, I know that's Bruce Jenner

 

Dude, I literally just laughed out loud and spat on my fucking computer screen when I read this.


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Posted May 03 2016 - 12:43 PM

... your front yard is the fucking ocean.

 

Throw him in it, and see if he smells better after he gets out... if he can swim.  :D

 

He is Turkish

 

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Posted May 03 2016 - 12:49 PM

Okay. I'll tell you guys. He is Turkish, from Istanbul.

...

 

 

It's asshat, isn't it...


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#55 Ashalicious

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Posted May 03 2016 - 02:42 PM

Is Atsi around these days, or did he get banned again? He actually might have some good advice on how to resolve this issue.


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Posted May 03 2016 - 07:46 PM

Or did you mean that it's a culture where mothers and sisters do everything for male members of the family, and end up raising giant babies who can't even do the laundry on their own?

If yes, you're wrong. 

 

To some people it'll always be Constantinople I suppose.  


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#57 Ashalicious

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Posted May 03 2016 - 08:06 PM

Istanbul is actually on my list of places to travel to in the next few years.


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Posted May 04 2016 - 03:01 AM

^

Best city trip I went on. Definitely recommended!

 

To some people it'll always be Constantinople I suppose.  

 

Or Byzantium

 

 

Oh my god it is going to be a long summer.

 

On a positive note, I'll be taking the stairs up to the 9th floor more often than not, as there is no way I am riding the elevator with him.

 

It sounds like you have given up without even trying to speak to him. I thought you guys had nice neighboury chats before? Why avoid asking him to solve this matter in person exactly? Its better to throw up in your mouth in your own hallway the whole summer?


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Posted May 04 2016 - 08:25 AM

 

It sounds like you have given up without even trying to speak to him. I thought you guys had nice neighboury chats before? Why avoid asking him to solve this matter in person exactly? Its better to throw up in your mouth in your own hallway the whole summer?

 

I'm a chicken shit. I hate conflict. I hate awkward situations. I suppose I could man up and just bring it up next time I see him. I can do it in a kind way, of course, It just sucks that I have to be the one to do that. He is a grown man, I am not his fucking mother. It really sucks that I have to tell a grown ass man to take a shower and wash his clothes and wash his sheets.

 

I think part of the problem is, he hasn't washed his bed sheets in a few years. Since the last time his parents visited, I am going to assume. Which was two summers ago. 


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Posted May 04 2016 - 10:32 AM

At first i thought maybe this person uses alot of garlic and other herbs and spices alot not pleasing to the nose...but from what you say, it is filth......so i do not know what i would do in a situation like this..probably suffer.........to avoid and neighbor wars.......or buy a close pin....lol


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