Bathing/showers With Significant Others

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Irminsul, Jan 14, 2016.

  1. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Does anybody else shower with their partners? We shower together often enough like if we are going out or something, or we've come home and want to wash.

    Last night we tried a bath but it's not a very big bath so we kinda just squeezed on in there, legs, hair and arms splayed about, wasn't the most comfortable so I tried laying on her a little and we got it to work, but it wasn't as romantic as we'd have hoped. :D
     
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    saves on water ..
     
  3. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Hrmm well you'd think so but then I'm not sure... I guess it speeds you up. One thing we always bicker about in the shower is who's getting all the hot water lol. Well it's usually me complaining because for some reason I just freeze when I'm getting no water where she says th steam keeps her warm. But not me... She also has relatively quick showers and I tend to draw them out.. Sing.. Talk to myself.. Hold a couple of interviews and trip out. Right, I'm like 90% of the time stoned in a hot shower. It's my go to thing after smoking. Hot shower omg.
     
  4. Meliai

    Meliai Banned

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    We used to shower together a lot early on in our relationship, sometimes for mess free sex and sometimes to save time and spend more time together before work.

    We hardly ever do anymore, I think we've grown too selfish in our relationship lol.Fact is, someone is always left out in the cold when taking a shared shower. Neither of us want to be that person.

    I do still jump in with him occasionally to do a quick rinse off but I can't stay long or we'll start fighting over the hot water
     
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  5. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    i dont think the plastic shower floor is strong enough
     
  6. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Hotel showers can be really really big, too bad the waterheads are generally terrible and you know, no hotel ever has a exhaust fan. I think they have some sort of kinky fetish with cleaning up soaking wet steamy bathrooms.
     
  7. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Lifetime Supporter

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    Showers. Tubs are often troublesome, but we will go hot tubbing/sauna/steam room or natural spring soaking.
     
  8. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    We will get a spa one day i think for outside and under our pergola. :)
     
  9. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    we built a larger shower just for those occasions. Put the shower head up a little higher to help out but what we should have done is put in another head. oh well, live and learn.
     
  10. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    I dont even bath by myself its too disgusting, you are just sitting in your own filth
     
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  11. Pieceofmyheart

    Pieceofmyheart Grumpy old bitch HipForums Supporter

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    Unless I had a huge shower with two heads, I don't really like to do it. If you are the short one, you get the water right in the face. I'm with VG...hate sitting in a tub, just hate it.
     
  12. Rots in hell

    Rots in hell Senior Member

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    When we stayed in the "Titanic" Hotel in Liverpool The shower head was About Three feet square
    You could have a party in that fucker
     
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  13. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Sitting in your own filth only applies if you're a filthy person to begin with. Which I'm not. I also rinse myself off under a cold shower quickly when I do exit to cool down and strip away the rest of my sweat. I think if you're too upset to get into a bath from that reason alone, you're a little bit of a girls blouse and I'd loathe to be around you when you sweat and start to whine in public.
     
  14. soulcompromise

    soulcompromise Member HipForums Supporter

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    I have done this before when I was seeing somebody and have always loved soapy tits! But I have to say it is a little bit awkward in the sense that you have to share a confined space. Also the temptation is there to wash the other person who may not want to be washed for whatever reason. It's a judgment call, but I say nay if I have the option again.
     
  15. buzzgunner

    buzzgunner 180 grains of diplomacy Lifetime Supporter

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    I'm not so sure about that. When my wife and I shower together, we tend to stay in twice as long!
     
  16. Karen_J

    Karen_J Visitor

    When I take a shared shower, I always come out dirtier than before, and need to take another one. ;)
     
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    army, 3min soap on soap off showers and thats being generous. so I dont mind short showers, and I rarely get dirty enough to be in there long .. I can shower with a sig and they wont even know I was there.
     
  18. Karen_J

    Karen_J Visitor

    Giving a little more thought to the OP, I don't think I would like lesbian sex in a shower, unless it was just a finger fuck with nipple sucking. Spending time on my knees on a hard surface is very uncomfortable for me. I'd rather wrap my legs around a guy and have him pin me against the wall.

    My shower is glass on two sides, with plenty of room for three people. I've had four in there, but it was tight.
     
  19. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    I never mentioned anything about having sex in the shower, just showering in general. :D

    The way you do it two girls is is to push into a corner and make out and yeah, fingers. :)
     
  20. Karen_J

    Karen_J Visitor

    You also didn't say it wasn't allowed. ;)

    Whirlpool tubs are great too. Those water jets can deliver some world-class orgasms, and some of the tubs are big enough for two girls. [​IMG]
     
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