Hi everyone, I am a newbie to these forums but I have a question to ask about wet dreams if that is okay. My name is David and I'm a 43 year old guy with a skinny build, young looking for my age but I am pretty healthy and do some exercise and sport. Also, I have never had a sexual relationship before so I am still a virgin. Every so often, about once every 2-3 months or even twice a month, I have a wet dream or nocturnal emission during sleep. These are usually accompanied by a sexual dream (usually hetero-erotic, occasionally homo-erotic or even kinky) and I always ejaculate in my sleep then wake up soiling my pyjamas. I had my first nocturnal emission when I was almost 16 although the frequency was greater then than what it is now. I don't really mind having wet dreams and apart from making a mess I actually quite enjoy them, but are they still normal in men my age as I thought that usually these episodes petered out after the mid-late 20s or so? I also sometimes have erections in the early hours (morning wood) but have heard that this occurs with guys of all ages. I probably masturbate around once a week or so, but would this and the fact that I am still a sexual virgin make a difference to me having nocturnal emissions or the frequency of them occurring? Thanks for reading but I just wanted reassurance that older guys still get wet dreams and I am still sexually healthy I guess! David
43 Three And Still A Virgin You Say......Next Thing You Will Be Telling Us Is The World Is Flat...... Cheers Glen.
if you're really a virgin who only masturbates once a week, you're lucky you're not cumming in your pants every time you see a girl on the street. man's gotta have a release sometime.
Having wet dreams once every 2-3 months is not a medical problem. There is no indication from what you have described that you have any disease. If you want to avoid wet dreams, don't eat or drink for a few hours before going to bed. Also don't wear tight underewear/pajamas, and don't don't have blankets that keep you too warm. Is it your intention to remain celebate, or is there some other reason why you are a virgin?
