Can't Get Over Girlfriend's Ex-Bfs Penis Size

Hey guys,

I'm completely new to this, so I appreciate any feedback and advice you can give. I'll try and keep things as succinct as I can, and hope to still leave in the most pertinent details.
So about a month into my relationship with my girlfriend, she divulged the penis size of her ex bf (whom she dated for about five years). Mind you, this is after I asked her. Needless to say, it turned out that he was significantly longer and in possession of more girth than myself. At the moment, the answer didn't bother me, but as the relationship progressed, it found its way more frequently into my thoughts, and as such, into my sense of security. To the point that now, I rarely have a desire to have sex with her given that any time the topic of sex comes up, I think about; His size (and my lack thereof), how much more satisfied she must've been with him (due to his size), how frequently they must've had sex over 5 years, how my sexual abilities will never match up to his given how much longer they'd been together, and my general lack of adequacy in the sexual department.
Mind you, these are thoughts that I've never had in past relationships. I'm at the point where I have a negligible desire to have intercourse with her, although I do love her. What am I to do?

 

Get over it....good grief.

 

Dude, you are insecure. It's not the size, it's how you use it.

 

have intercourse with her.

 

I'd start signing up to random forums and post about it.

 

have you tried lube?...

 

stop trolling the forums. you will feel much better

 

that's so crazy it just might work!

 

Purchase copious amounts of dildongs.

 

this all sounds strangely familiar, like this has been posted here before, almost verbatim.

gee, I wish the trolls would at least come up with something new and original.
pretty fucking sad when trolls plagiarize each other.

 

Perhaps you should accept the fact that you're really a woman trapped in a man's body & elect for the surgery.

 

Was it like a babies arm holding an apple?

C/S,
Rev J

 

Nah, its the size

 

Girth

 

If I were you, I'd make a request to my girlfriend to not bring up his penis size...or personality, intelligence, posting ability, etc...

 

Interesting to read about trolls.... more in the sense to the notion 'Let first the elders answer before the newbies answer. If the answer for real than chances are good its not a troll.' ;-)

 

First of all, regardless of who brought it up, she should NOT have divulged that fact or even should have lied about it for the exact reason. Size does matter for the record,it matters a hell of a lot.However my ex was the biggest I've had but certainly not the best.Not the best kisser, not best inter course, not the best oral.Current partner although on the big side of average possesses far more ducking skills, and most importantly i am far more sexually attracted to him.Chemistry is what matters the most as far as In concerned. if getting your partner off is your top priority than her exs big don't will be the furthest thing from her mind Sort of unrelated but my bf confides to me that when my ex dies(God rest his soul) a couple years ago he felt an extreme relief and much more secure in his masculinity. who knows why.In sure he'd deny that now

 

Don't mean you don't actually feel better to her trust me

 

Put on a strap on when she isn't looking.

 

This is for you, especially starting at about 2:15

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RC-e5vs6NeY