If You Are A Confident Man, Why Are You So?

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  1. atsizat9050

    atsizat9050 Members

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    Your sucsess in your job or school? You are important in people's eyes or are you handsome or something? What makes you confident? I don't ask this to women because just being women should be enough for them to be confident. I know a girl who says damn I am beautiful. She is too confident for sure.
     
  2. r0llinstoned

    r0llinstoned Gute Nacht, süßer Prinz

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    First you must be happy with yourself
     
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  3. Meliai

    Meliai Banned

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    damn I'm beautiful
     
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  4. Joshua Tree

    Joshua Tree Remain In Light

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    big willy
     
  5. AstralBear

    AstralBear Feed the Bear

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    I realize that despite are differences that we are all the same, because the spark of life in us all that makes our hearts beat is the same. My blood is the same as anyone else. I am confident, because I know those things.
     
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  6. Moonglow181

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    OP. don't get the feeling ever that you like women very much. You see them as sex objects only, maybe....Maybe you better do some deep self discovery before you embark on any real relationships in life. Maybe you really like men better...You never sound as if your treasure the female race...You make too many generalizations and don't talk about females like they are real people.
     
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    I can walk in high heels better than most women..
     
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  8. AceK

    AceK Scientia Potentia Est

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    confident in what? i'm confident in my ability of some things, others not so much.
     
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  9. Wizardofodd

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    That's an interesting question and I look forward to reading more responses. I think the answer for many people may be a reflection of what they value and how good they think they are in those areas. (Another interesting way to look at it may be....do some people tend to lean towards what they value based on their abilities in those areas?) So if you value sex highly and you're really good at it? You probably gain a lot of confidence there. But what if you're really not very good at it? Does that make you more insecure or does it make you value sex less? Or both?
     
  10. AceK

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    i think it's value first, then ability/skill, you gain confidence as your skills improve.
     
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  11. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Killer ass here. ;)
     
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  12. Wizardofodd

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    Pics or it didn't happen! ;)
     
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    Must be the synthetic weed....
     
  14. tasdev126

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    I am confident man but could not pin it to anything apart from personality
     
  15. hotwater

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    [SIZE=medium]Tall, Thin, Handsome, I’m good at most things I try, sexually I’ve had every opportunity imaginable, as a general rule things always seem to break my way – that luck component is difficult to quantify [/SIZE]


    [SIZE=medium]Hotwater[/SIZE]
     
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    ....[​IMG]
    ...EGO



    Cheers Glen.
     
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  17. themnax

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    nothing suc seeds like a parot with no beak.

    not me. i've never felt like i had to prove anything to anyone.

    i just totally don't believe in nor care about that concept at all.

    the kind of world we all have to live in, that's what interests me.

    that and living where it looks as much as possible like how nature intended it.

    little houses, little trains, little computers, little gardens, that sort of thing.

    the whole bullshit of trying to impress anyone by what you have, or excitement addiction either one, are both a total load of useless crap.
     
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  18. Wizardofodd

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    In all fairness...it's kind of a loaded question which is why I didn't actually answer it to begin with. It's like asking "What makes you awesome?" or "What do you love about yourself?" You can't really answer it without patting yourself on the back.
     
  19. hotwater

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    Narcissism at its delightful best [​IMG]


    Hotwater
     
  20. atsizat9050

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    But I would give more damn to hang out with a woman than a man.It is just that girls have egos just because they are girls, like saying damn I am beatiful. It was just an example. I can't stand them being conceited. This is why I wrote being a woman should be enough for them to be confident.
     

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