Fantasizing About My Bf With Another Woman?

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by aw2andes2, Jan 30, 2015.

  1. aw2andes2

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    This has been the fantasy that's really getting me going lately. Watching the love of my life being pleasured and giving pleasure to another woman. I Want to be involved to I think. I really want him to have the threesome experience.

    However I think id be ok just watching too? I don't want to be humiliated or any of that. Nothing crazy no bondage or anything. I just love him and find him sexy. Our sex life is great.

    This seems to be very out there and taboo to have this fantasy. Most of what I find its men wanting to see their SO with another man. Not so many women wanting this. Anyone else? Any experiences? Anyone know what this is called or why I feel so intense about this?

    I'm also thinking about making this a reality. I trust him with everything. We have been together 5 years and are on each side of 30. I'm not a very jealous person. He also knows I feel this way but I think he feels is "to Good to be true" I want to work towards a threesome. Maybe just us giving him a bj first?

    Where do you find a girl for this? I don't think my friends would be down lol. just thinking about it is so good I want to make it happen.
     
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  2. naturegirl1

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    My husband & I have swung with another couple so getting to watch ones partner with someone else is part of the deal. No it'd not that weird, on balance i would say that he got more out of watching me indulging rather than me watching him indulging, but yes, it is a very erotic & exciting experience. As long as all parties to this arrangement are up for it & fully understand the situation, then yes...go for it!
     
  3. MochaMood

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    Try swingers networking sites like sdc.com, or sexual dating sites like adultfriendfinder.com.
     
  4. Vanilla Gorilla

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    It is unusual, it is usually the guy wanting to see his wife get done. Most girls would turn into a jealous nutcase at the very thought of such a concept. I wonder why that is
     
  5. aw2andes2

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    I've read cuckqueen, that's more of a getting "humiliated" kind of fetish. I don't want to be humiliated, just watch take part of :) but that's the closest term I've heard, but no humiliation for me.
     
  6. jimandjan

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    If you do find a woman to join you. The one thing you can expect is that your man is going to want to see you and the other woman go at it. As a man I know that is something any man would want to see. That is just the way we are! Since we have been in alot of swinging experiences, I have seen about every thing a man would want to see.

    And I know my gf at the time tended to be more jealous seeing me with another woman, than I was seeing her with another man. She never showed it at the time, but I could tell later. And later we married and lived happily everafter.
     
  7. wslutw1955

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    Everybody has their fantasies. I have watched my husband with a number of other girls and I find it intensely exciting and adds to our sexual experiences. I have also joined in. I agree with the connect that as long as everybody agrees it can be amazing.

    There is nothing wrong with healthy sexual fantasies and moving from fantasy to reality can be amazing. But make sure that you talk it over before you do it. Gourd rules can sometimes be very helpful
     
  8. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Oi
     
  9. Just_a_woman

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    I'm like you, OP. Many of my fantasies involve my man with other women. Unfortunately, he prefers to have sex with one person at a time. When he's back home, I want to know all the details. My favorite fantasy is about two beautiful blonds giving him oral.
     
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