Straight Young Man Curious About Gay Sex

I am a 23 year old straight man who is recently very curious about texting/hooking up with a man.
I have never done this before and would want to go slowly before meeting yo but I definitely am interested in meeting new men.

Add me on *removed
Or message me on here for my number.

 

Hey! Understand. Been there. Did it!

I suggest the internet is a good place to meet local gays. There are a variety of gay dating sites - I wish I had them when I was younger! Decide also whether you want to top or bottom. Don't sweat the whole gay/straight thing - you are a normal human with sexual desires. Enjoy yourself and be safe. Let us know what happens though and whether you liked it or not. Try it a few times too. One time may not be great, but a second or third would be awesome. You are young and have the freedom to experiment.

 

i would say that if your thinking about that sort of thing u might not be straight. also, putting labels on people like gay or straight when there is a lot of possibilities in between is kinda shallow and narrow minded.

 

The logical not to that is those that are least shallow dont put labels on people. Whereas the subset of those in the "would fuck anthing" category, dont care about labels because they would fuck anything and yet are the most shallow

My point as usual is perspective, its dependant on the observer, who you are saying that too.

In one context, one set of people, saying labels arent important, sounds encouraging, a nice thing to say

Another context, another set of people, say that and it just sounds like you are saying you'd fuck anything

i.e, gets interpreted the totally opposite way

Another context, another set of people, it sounds like you are saying you'd fuck anything cos you are just that desperate

Not always a good thing to say labels arent important

 

Being that the OP has not had any experience with men, and is about to go out and try, I'd also see labeling of any kind here as counterproductive.

I have been around the block for more than just couple of times. Labels come in handy in many situations. And, at times, the labelling just does not work.

If a hot dude who insists that he is str8, and even has a pattern of behavior to prove this, wants to steer away from his usual path, and have sex with another man, well, more power to him. I do not see anything desperate about having sex with a shaggable, consenting adult. I may not want to marry him or even start an LTR with him but yeah, I'd have no problems jumping his bones...

KD