Cuckolds

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by highlivin229, Jan 23, 2015.

  1. highlivin229

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    When I was 16 years old, I hooked up with a girl at a party. We wound up having sex in a bedroom—while her boyfriend was outside, screaming and crying and banging on the door as we did it. The bf was 18, a lot bigger than me (a jock, while I was a stoner/musician/computer geek), and he threatened to kill me; in fact I was so scared that he would kill me that I had to sneak out of the party, for fear of getting my ass kicked in by the guy and his buddies.

    When I was in college, I had an intense affair with a 35 y.o. woman who was finishing up her doctorate; she was my T.A. in one of my courses. One weekend, by chance, I happened to run into her and her husband and their kids at a Ben & Jerry's. The husband basically thanked me for making his wife happy. The husband couldn't look me in the eye. He was diffident and awkward; we both were, I suppose. But I remember—vividly—how he said to me, "Julia says you're pretty thick . . .", and then left that hanging in the air. He must have realized after he said the words out loud how incredibly awkward and embarrassing and inappropriate they were. He quickly shut up and didn't say another word. The woman and I continued our affair, even more blatantly and openly than before. One time, the husband stopped by my dorm room to pick her up after we'd spent the afternoon together.

    I'm 46 y.o. now. I have had countless relationships with couples; I'm not interested in having a furtive affair behind a husband/boyfriend's back. I want them to know—need for them to know—that I'm with their woman. Whether they are in the bedroom or not, all the men whom I've cucked have known that I'm with their woman.

    Some men are threatened and humiliated by my relationships—and they act out those feelings of insecurity.

    But there are other men who not only accept the situation, they actually seem to feel better because of it.

    I don't mind if the cuck is in the bedroom. I like it when he watches, and I like it even more when he participates, either by preparing his wife/gf, fluffing me, or getting more hard core. I love it when a cuck rims me while I'm inside his wife/gf—and I absolutely love it when I take a cuck anally. It doesn't happen all the time; some cucks resist it (even as they often clearly want it). But when it does happen, it is very, very special.

    There is a special bond that is forged when a man takes a cuck in full view of his wife/gf. I'm not sexually interested in men by themselves. I've had the opportunity to have sex with bi and gay men, but it hasn't turned me on. What does turn me on is penetrating a cuck, while his wife/gf watches. The dynamic is incredible. Often, I can feel how the cuck resists me, even as he offers himself to me, fighting with himself during the entire experience, until he finally gives in—a total head trip. He doesn't always give in on the first encounter; sometimes, it can take four or five experiences before they finally give in.

    But when he finally surrenders to me and gives himself over completely, there is a distinct, clear sensation of peace, of release—for both of us.

    For me, when I feel a cuck give himself completely, I feel a tremendous sense of affection and almost tenderness for him. I am very careful not to hurt him when I penetrate him—though I make sure that he knows he's been fucked good! :) (I don't believe in denying a cuck his release: either I or his wife/gf will jerk him off to completion. But he won't cum inside his wife/gf—I have a hang-up in that I can't be with a woman who is being penetrated by another man while I'm in a relationship with her. Just my thing, but most couples I play with are fine with that.)

    For cucks, I've talked to a few, and they have told me that being penetrated gives them a feeling of release as well. Almost none of these men have had same-sex experiences before. But they all feel released and happy. But something else, too: Our relationship changes, and becomes very close. It becomes sort of like an older brother and his kid brother kind of deal. There was a subordinate at work (call him SaW), and he used to be very difficult and disruptive, constantly challenging my authority, etc. At a Christmas party, his wife and I started an affair, and eventually, I took SaW while his wife watched. After that, my relationship with SaW changed dramatically. He no longer challenged my authority, but instead, tried to help me achieve my goals, often with really good ideas and incredible effort and work-hours. He wasn't my suck-up—he was his own man, and when he disagreed with me, he let me know it. But instead of fighting me at work, he became my collaborator. Around the office he became known as my most loyal subordinate; people started calling him "Highlivin's foot soldier". This was four or five years ago, my relationship with his wife petered out a while ago. But SaW is still working for me, still one of my top guys at work.

    For the women, the relationship changes too. They've told me that, after they've watched me with their husband/bf, they feel that they can let go and "be themselves". Sometimes, this translates into better orgasms for them when I'm with them. But often, it changes the dynamic with the husband/bf. Their communication becomes more open, the woman feels she's freer and more in-control of her relationship. At least that's what they've told me. I've noticed too that women start being more clear in their needs and desires, more honest. They stop subordinating themselves, and allow their needs to be articulated, and thus their needs met.

    A couple of times—but only two-or three times—I've seen the women become openly cruel and spiteful to their husband/bf, after they've been taken. But for the most part, the women become gentle with their husbands/bfs. Gentle, but very, very firm in what they want, and clearly unwilling to give in. Which seems to me a healthy thing.

    In my own case, I am married to a wonderful woman. We have a toddler, and are expecting our second child. I could never imagine her being with another man. In fact, I know for a fact that I would not be able to continue in my marriage if my wife were with someone else. I guess I'm just insecure. But I just wouldn't be able to stand it.

    Which is why I am always amazed at the cuck husbands and boyfriends who are okay with me being with their wives and girlfriends.

    Why am I writing all this stuff? I don't know, just thought it might be of interest.
     
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  2. footkisser

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    On my third marriage
    First swingers
    Second she left me for her BBC
    Third All's well a I promised to Love, Honor & Obey. Obey no matter what so it works for us!
     
  3. r0llinstoned

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  4. jimandjan

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    Not sure about the term cuckold. But have been the third male in several mfm threesomes. And have had another join me and my woman. All for good fun and sex. At no time was it to humilate any person.
     
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  5. mh1263

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    Me and my hubby was against this for years as far as him watching me with another man. But the more i thought about it the hotter i got. We talked about it and to make a long story short, we are really into bi and straight guys. I have met a few online and brought them home. But only if they agree to play with both of us. I really like watching him sucking cock, this really gets me going. About a year ago, this guy that fucked me, stayed all night and he wanted to fuck my husbands ass and he agreed to it. This was totally hot,,,,,i was giving the commands and telling them what to do, and whatching my husband taking cock was far more exciting than i ever thought about. He enjoyed it too, but not at first. we both had a great time sharing derek's cock.
     
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  6. Running Man

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    Great first post mh.

    My wife fantasises about such things but I'm struggling to get her fantasies turned into realities.

    I'm hoping that she will agree to try a threesome one day soon.
     
  7. kaleigh_babe

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    My boyfriend likes watching me getting it good from other guys while he watches. Some guys just love sexulalizing their girls getting laid in front of them. I do admit I love being watched tho ;)
     
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    Sounds like you're the perfect match kaleigh.

    You are such a lucky couple!!
     
  9. MichaelCar

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    My wife and I were talking about how sexy cuckolding would be just three nights ago. My wife and I love sex and she really likes the thought of having another man (or men) taking her to bed for a good romp from time to time while I watch or listen to their sounds from another room. We are both completely heterosexual but are very turned on about this fantasy.
     
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  10. Running Man

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    Me too Michael.

    A threesome (MMF) with my wife is my number one fantasy that I hope to make a reality one day.
     
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  11. Guest12345

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    My husband recently starting sharing me with an ex boyfriend of mine and the sex has been so good! I was very nervous at first and wanted to make sure my husband truly wanted this. I almost didn't go through with it. Looking back now, I am so glad I agreed to it, even if it's only temporarily. My ex is in incredible shape, has a large thick penis, and can last a long time in bed! Sometimes it takes my husband a few minutes to get erect, but when my ex pulls it out, it's like WOW!
     
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    I don't get it. I mean what's the point of being married or on a committed relationship if you are letting someone else screw your wife or girlfriend? To me that is totally being selfish on the womans part as she is the one who benifirs the most in this situation. Also sounds to me line a man must be a a total tool and punk to do that.
     
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    It's definitely not for everyone but my husband and I have both had this fantasy for several years now, and with a lot of communication, we have decided this is something that we BOTH want. I would never cheat on my husband, ever. But, I will admit, there is something incredibly hot about having sex with another man who has much better skills in bed than my husband, and that has a longer and thicker cock as well. Maybe it's the eroticism of the taboo, but whatever it is, both my husband and I crave it (okay, maybe me a little more...).
     
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  14. Hedgeclipper

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    that's a pretty fucked up thing to do to a person, but I guess they want it. Is this something that they ask you to do to them, or is it like a sort of elaborate psychological trap that you set up for them, and then somehow they end up wanting it?

    When I think about somebody else fucking my partner, I not only feel jealous, but intensely turned off. I remember trying to bang an ex I had after we had broken up for a while and she had slept with somebody else, but I just wasn't able to make myself feel attracted to her. I have a lot of difficulty understanding how someone could be turned on by this, but I guess that it must make sense in some sort of psychological paradigm.

    I have a friend who is into cuckolding people also. I guess it is his fetish, but I have always gotten quite frustrated with him. Before he found a good outlet for his fetish, he was always trying really hard to bang everybody's girlfriend in our friend group. He would go on about how he felt that he was just trying to liberate the women but a lot of time the attention was unwanted. I guess it is better now that he does this thing somewhat more consensually with people, but somehow it still angers me because of his behaviour in the past. He has been a close friend of mine and yet he still tried to bang my girlfriend on multiple occasions, and I saw him allow some of the psychology of cuckolding into his interactions with me. We are a very sexually open group of people, but he would often overstep those boundaries in ways that I did not agree with.
     
  15. Guest12345

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    Yes we BOTH want it. We discussed our deepest fantasies one evening, and I told my husband that I would love an orgy with a few men, and my husband immediately got hard and told me his deepest fantasy has always been to see me with another man. For my husband, it's the opposite - the greater the jealousy, the more turned on he gets. He even likes some humiliation, which I reluctantly agreed to, but am now starting to enjoy. So I might say something to my lover like like "Oh gosh, I love your big c@ck f&cking me" or perhaps "I could get used to that big thick c@ck inside me every day" while I am staring at my husband.
     
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  16. Hedgeclipper

    Hedgeclipper Qiluprneeels Nixw

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    Well I guess I'd better try to never become an office manager/boss then :p
     
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    Hi There.Just asking does your husband like to suck it with you ?
     

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