My Girlfriend Cant Orgasm From Penetration?

My girlfriend can never orgasm from penetration, only clitoral stimulation, the problem with this is after she has orgasmed she tightens up and penetration becomes painful for her, so whenever we have sex if i'm playing with her clit and she has an orgasm i cant carry on because it hurts her, if not i will cum and then have to give her an orgasm with my fingers, is this quite normal?

 

The clitoral only? Yeh that's quite normal. The tightening up and becoming painful, don't know about that being normal :/

 

no its not normal......lose this one my brother.....if she isn't lying then she's just too much trouble.....one of those 2 is true my friend.....my guess is she is full of shit and deceiving you......involuntary muscle contraction of the vagina but only after orgasm?////bs



at least a few girls will jump to her defense after my critique....they wouldn't have answered unless I provoked them.......


don't matter none.....still bullshit

 

Thing is i love this girl and i'm pretty sure she isnt lying, she really enjoys sex and this has even reduced her to tears before because she knows it frustrates me. She can even squirt through clit play, but penetration just isnt her thing i guess

 

I cannot cum via standard sexual penetration. I have had sex with MANY men and I have never been able to. It is proven that some women cannot cum this way. It is more common than men want to belive (Google it, seriously). I only orgasm via oral or fingering during sex. A popular one for me is to lay me on my stomach so I can finger myself while he continues to have sex with me. That way we can both cum. it is kind of like an art. Not being able to cum in the 'standard' way shows your girl that you really care because you are not only thinking about YOU cumming when you are having sex with her. you have to be a little more creative.

 

Its because if she lets you stick it in, sex will only last 30 seconds and you will never try as hard ever again

 

I have been with a girl who orgasmed for the first time during sex with me - despite many sexual partners in the past. After that, she almost always came when I did - evwn for second helpings...!

Now I am married (to a different woman), my wife confesses that she very rarely cums from penetration alone. Again, she has had quite a number of sexual partners - Young thrusting bucks and older experienced guys - but has enjoyed few penetrative orgasms. However, just once or twice, with the right angle, the right rhythm, and the right depth of penetration, she has cum on my cock - usually after a good helping of cunnilingus first though....!

 

This is very common. We resort to finger stimulation while penetrated in missionary position and we always orgasm at the same time. If she rides on top of you then she may be able to find a position which can stimulate her clit while penetrative movements alone (no fingers). I always encourage my wife to ride me.

 

I agree. But you can try coital alignment technique or ride you man on top will make easier for the woman to orgasm without finger stimulation.

 

It's very common that some can only orgasm from clit playing / oral sex. Some women can only orgasm by using toys.

 

Not being a smart ass....but you see this question all the time anymore. When will young guys learn porn is not how sex is.

 

my wife's pussy creams on my cock when she orgasms. I love that feeling.

 

My wife finds it difficult to have orgasms through penetration. 99.9% of the time, her orgasms are the result of oral, fingers, or toys.

This. Every once in a while, if she's really "wound up" and everything is just right, she'll have the occasional orgasm through penetration.

 

This is pretty normal, especially if you're new to sex. I think it took me 2 years to finally orgasm from penetration alone. I recommend a lot of foreplay, porn if that gets you off, and just give it time.

 

ive never been able to get a girl to orgasm through just rubbing her clitoral area, its just to sensitive. I caress her body with my hands for hours that's the only way ive ever been able to achieve it. Its very hard to achieve and unless you are prepared to put the time in I cant see how anybody can achieve it. Im guessing it takes somewhere between 6 to 8 hours that's no BS. My arms where aching and also my nuts. Blue balls. Orgasm is very allusive beast still if you are patient and persistent you can achieve it.

 

My wife used to orgasm regularly from penetration but post menopause not so much. I think it is uncomfortable for her which kills the mood for her...I can't cum from oral so I usually get her off with my finger or tongue then finish inside her....things change as you age.

 

You could see if she would be into
you eating her out after you creampie her