I'm in a loveless sexless relationship so have to satisfy my own needs, my partner does not want any intimacy but seems to have issues with me having some 'private time', I try and wait till the early hours then quietly go to the downstairs toilet and masturbate, we still sleep in the same bed which is agony for me as I'm laying there dying for sex, hard and praying I can hold out till the early hours, it's horrible. She came down stairs last week, I didn't her her as I was relieving myself, she came in as I was almost about to come, yelled at me and slammed the door waking everyone up. Now when I do it I come within half a minute where as before I could keep going for 10 minutes. I just get embarrassed and paranoid everyone knows what I'm doing but what does she expect? I have to do it in the shower so no one can hear me, even then I can only last less than a minute, I can't enjoy it now, this is really frustratibg
Dude,you got a lot to learn.practice makes perfect.over the years of dealing with women, im at the point i prefer stroking my own.nobody knows you better than yourself. I can't even begin to describe the levels of pleasure iv had, all thanks to me.
Do you have a job? ...resources? ...friends? If so, I suggest you stand up for yourself. Lay in your bed and masturbate, blissfully! No blankets...let her watch your cum spurt! Tell her it's your bed to and your gonna enjoy it; at least by yourself! If you dont have resources, create some! It's bad enough to be relegated to masturbation as your only and sole sexual outlet without a "partner" bullying you in the process. Good Luck!!!
Hey man... that's what it's there for I don't understand why she would be freaked out about you pleasuring yourself. I'd tell her, hey! Somebody's gotta do it! My cousin knows a guy in the military that got caught and he just put his finger up and kept doing what he was doing until he was done As you were, soldier.
do you have any balls? locate them, and go jerk off in your own bed. that's the least you can do in this given situation.
Sounds like there's another side to the story. Like maybe you arnt fulfilling her emotional needs so she's depriving you of sex...in relationships people need to be happy/neutral for sex not mad/sad. If she gets mad at you madturbating are you doing it to porn? Maybe she feels inadequate. But if she gets mad it means she cares, which is love. So unless you don't love her-you should leave, but if you do love her quit worrying about your dick.
I'll never let anyone tell me when, where, or how I want to masturbate in my own house. Ive had roommates and GF's and although im respectful of them and the common space, its still a very normal thing to do for anyone and shouldn't be looked down upon.
The OP should just get out of that relationship. Masturbation is one's own responsibility first and foremost. It's kind of not anyone else's place to say anything about it when all one is trying to do is to relieve one's sexual tension in one's own private time(which one is totally entitled to have). The OP's partner does not grant him that. I don't even know what she wants. She doesn't give him the intimacy otherwise needed in a loving romantic relationship, and she doesn't give him the freedom to masturbate on his own time. Sorry but this is ridiculous, and the way I see it, it's bordering on abuse. Ditch the bitch.
