Oral Sex- Problem

Gamer, I gotta ask, Have you French kissed her?

 

Yes, but how does that relate to this topic?

 

Jesus fucking christ man /. Peace be upon him..

oral sex is not haram .. get your dick sucked and get over it.. enjoy life with your lover before your life no longer is..

 

OK, show of hands. How many of you are surprised by this answer?

 

I'm not 100% sure why it's "impure" per se, but in our religion being clean is one of the most important things, so perhaps that's why. I guess it has more to do with the "unholy" aspect. In our religion, the mouth is mostly sacred (as it is used to recite prayers and our holy book) and for that reason fluids such as pre-ejaculatory fluid and semen should not enter the mouth (during Oral Sex).

In fact, some scholars (in our religion) say Oral Sex should not be performed altogether, because the private parts should not enter a sacred place (mouth). However, other scholars are more lenient and open-minded, and say that Oral Sex is permitted under the condition that no fluid (pre-ejaculatory fluid/semen) enters the mouth. So it's a debatable topic.

Honestly, the only reason I'm trying so hard (by somehow preventing the fluids from entering the mouth) to get Oral Sex is because I've heard it's so amazing and everything. In fact, it's a fantasy of mine (a really strong one), as I find the thought of it a huge turn-on. Perhaps it isn't all that amazing as it is said to be. Just a question- how good is a blowjob compared to a lubed (saliva, etc.) handjob? I mean is a lubed handjob pretty equal to a blowjob? If it is, then I guess I don't have to go out of the way (by finding ways to prevent the fluid from entering the mouth) to get Oral Sex.

 

@Skip,

Thanks for understanding the situation man.

Regarding Anal Sex- it's strictly forbidden in our religion (this one is actually stated in our religious books). Oral Sex is rather debatable, but this one is said to be forbidden altogether.

If I can ask, how exactly does mutual masturbation (with lube) compare with Oral Sex in terms of pleasure? You said Oral Sex is as close to real sex as you can get, but if someone is getting real sex in the first place then Oral Sex isn't really a must, is it? I mean vaginal sex, I would assume, is more pleasurable than Oral Sex, and I've heard that the mouth (during Oral Sex) kind of simulates a vagina; so if you're getting a vagina then a simulation (mouth) isn't really needed for pleasure after all (because you're getting the real thing anyways). With that, I have 2 questions:

1) If you're getting real vaginal sex, then Oral Sex isn't a *must* in terms of pleasure is it?

2) How does a good HJ with lots of lube compare to a BJ?

Thank you for all the replies! Much appreciated.

 

They're not even not only in the same ballpark, they're not even in the same galaxy. Even a bad blowjob is better than a handjob.

 

To answer the sexist question, Islam is not sexist. I heard a famous Islamic quote once and if my memory serves me correctly it goes as follows, "Islam is not what Muslims DO, but it is what they're SUPPOSED to do." Sexism is mostly a cultural practice, not an Islamic practice. It's true there's a lot of sexism in Islamic countries, but that's because the culture is screwed up and Islam is tweaked there. True Islam does not permit sexism against women.

In terms of HJ and BJ, I should be more specific: A HJ with lube or a restricted BJ? By restricted BJ, I mean the kind that is permitted in my religion (done in a way so no fluid is swallowed). In order to avoid that, most likely a condom would be worn, and a HJ with lube will most likely win against a BJ with condom. Another way to overcome that problem (avoiding fluids) will be to avoid sucking, so no fluid gets in the mouth; this will mean only "licking" will be permitted; plus this will be done for a short amount of time to avoid fluids althogether. So I should rephrase the question as:

In general, what's better- a complete HJ with lube or a BJ with only licking (no sucking) for a short amount of time?

 

If the guidelines of sexual intercourse, in this case oral sex, are debatable, then why are you not allowed to come to your own conclusion about the matter? Because the opinion of an imam might be that precum/cum is impure does not necessarily make it so. As has been pointed out, impure in what way? While the mouth may be a sacred place, is not precum and cum also sacred, in the sense that precum helps sex, and cumming from sex potentially generates new life?

Mutual masturbation with lube, for me personally, is really really good. But your question regarding, why you would need oral if you can have vaginal sex, can be answered by asking the question, if people can have vaginal sex in missionary, why do they do doggy style? The answer is, because it's different. The pressure you feel from their mouth compared to their vagina is different, the temperature is different, the feeling of wetness is different. And not just in a physical way, but it differs in terms of the psychological pleasure you derive from it, that feeds back into the physical pleasure you get from it.

 

Try Condoms!

Millions of women do!

 

The more I hear about your beliefs the more I thank God I'm not a Muslim lol

 

to OP: sex is not for you. there are restrictions for a reason. just dont have sex.

 

It looks like the 'magic' product I was looking for is coming out in 1-2 years. It's called the 'Galactic Cap'. It's basically a 'just-the-tip' condom; it only partially covers the head of the penis, and by doing so it leaves the coronal ridge and shaft fully exposed. It involves a base and a cap; the base partially covers the head of the penis, and the cap is applied on top of that, and this will leave everything from the coronal ridge to the shaft completely exposed. More information can be found on the products main website: http://www.galacticcap.com/ (according to the website, you can pre-order it and expect it to arrive in 1-2 years)

It's great how this is exactly what I wanted- it partially covers the head (preventing any fluids from escaping), and leaves everything else (coronal ridge and shaft) uncovered (for maximum pleasure).

 

maybe you should really respect your own religion by abstaining from what is deemed wrong rather than look for loopholes or flaws in the writings which in itself is blasphemous.