My boyfriend took my virginity less than a year ago and when I come home from university for holiday breaks, the sex is unbelievable. I always end up on the bottom, usually because he always eats me until I'm begging for sex. I have only been on top of him 5 or so times and though he displays great pleasure, I feel very uncomfortable with my body and also feel like I'm not doing a good enough job (even though my entire body is shaking and he is trying to hold in his moans and groans...) could anyone give some tips and tricks for better confidence and even performance on top? xxOC
Work your hips; don't just sit on him with your entire bodyweight while bouncing up and down. Watch some porn scenes and see how the chicks do it. It can be educational sometimes.
Yeah, what he said. What really works for me with I'm being ridden is if the lady just settles her weight on me (once I'm completely inside her) and then slowly grinds her hips in a circle. That will launch me into orbit every time.
Yep, you're on top, therefore, you dictate pace, depth, angle, which hole - (if you're into that!!) .... the lot. Don't be shy. I know that sound easy, but it sounds like you're off to a good start - just keep practicing as much as you can
