The Oblivious Virgin

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by JohnnyTest, Nov 22, 2014.

  1. JohnnyTest

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    Alright Men, I need your help once again, the time is ticking, ticking fast. Long story short I'm a 20 year old virgin and ever since Hs girls have always wanted to have sex with me but my dumbass self was so got damn oblivious to notcing any of it. There would be times I would notice it and wouldn't know what to do.

    Here's why the time is ticking, I recently posted a pic on facebook after like months and a few girls that liked it, and I'm pretty sure they all want to fuck me. One of them even flashed their vagina at me in my bathroom once when we were drunk and me being a gentlemen didn't do what she wanted me to do.

    How should I go on approching these women?

    I do not want to ruin this chance.

    I'm also a horrible texter, I need tips.

    I'm in the friendzone but I'm sure both of these women want me to get out of it and want to take my virginity, because I'm not a bad looking man.

    So please help, The vag is waiting....
     
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  2. Mr.Writer

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    You have to be confident and just go for it. If your friend literally flashed her vagina to you then I think it's safe to say you can just walk right up to her and make out with her at the next party. You just need to take what it is you want, that's likely what she wants you to do. Unfortunately there's no "trick" to this, you have to believe you can have it, should have it, and will have it. You might just need to grow up more.
     
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  3. JohnnyTest

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    She flashed me a long time ago tho.
     
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  4. Mr.Writer

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    I guess you don't want it then? Because you're typing some bs excuses on this forum instead of telling her you want to make her toes curl.
     
  5. rocketman88

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    Try not to let it bother you less than a week ago I lost mine at 25 a few days before my birthday. Take up hobbies this is a great way to meet new people but also boost your confidence in talking to people and it gives yourself stuff to talk about. I will tell you its not all that is hyped up to be at this point im interested in meeting the right woman now. I lost it to a woman i cared about and it was long distance so things didn't work out but I don't regret it. I suggest never hiding this fact that you are one once you have created a good bond. I have told many women about it in the past and have never had a bad response about it. As she knew she was perfect with the whole thing for me and didn't force anything I admire her for that. I can put it this way i was a virgin who had never really kissed a girl and she over a space of a 4 days totally slowly got me over it all. If you hide it they can assume you used them to lose it, are crap in bed or a totally lied to them. my interest lies in the fact I was this guy a week ago and 2 year prior I was the guy who didn't do anything about it. I never thought i was attractive its only the past 2 years I grew my confidence in my self and looks. I started off by joining clubs to have fun and enjoy my life and hopefully meet women via socials within these clubs and such. I dressed myself and started to wear contacts which gave me a boost. I dabbled with online dating and even did a speed dating event which was good fun. The best choice i made was rejoing my uni's cocktail club mostly to meet women but really to practice on approaching big groups of women. I joined in my first year briefly and was shocked by the numbers of women at the time 4 to 1 I joined a year later and then became a committee member. This was the best choice i ever made the women were all nice i got to chat to them all in a social environment with few other guy and as I approached them I look super confident as i was approaching a group of them. I say start small before you go and do that but it did wonder to my confidence and so did the dates that didn't lead anywhere. I give a warning to online dating don't jump into it first or do it on its own its very daunting and can actually really reduce confidence. Join clubs as a first stage as they are fun and well women like men who can talk about lots of interests.
     
  6. legalizedrugs

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    I'm 40 and I don't want it but the opiates I am on destroy my Libido.

    If I was 25 again I would probably do things differently. Have some fun I suggest, but I would be careful about "consent" issues when a female is intoxicated with alcohol.
     

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