Guys: Slut Or Whore?

I do not think you are in a position to authoritatively declare what I want. There are plenty of women who actually are for sale, and typically they make thme selves easy to find. It's better for business that way. Perhaps in other countries this isn't true, but in New York City, your average 11 year-old won't willingly give you her virginity for cash. Women who aren't advertising wares are generally not for sale. Generally. Offering to buy is offensive to more women than (perhaps) you'd like to pretend.

At the party, I neither ignored nor addressed the EX basketball player. I didn't like him when we worked together, but I was nice to him whenever I had to be. Where we worked, the culture was one of party or die. I was one of three people in the whole office who wasn't doing coke, and in order to fit in I had to stay out late with these assholes nearly every night drinking and doing whatever activity drinking was centered around. It was a sales job that paid way more money than I knew what to do with, and I wanted to keep it. I kept it until about a month after I figured out it was a money laundering front for a Colombian drug cartel. A few weeks later they were on 60 minutes who was investigating them for ripping people off. A few weeks later a man I'd accused of stealing $1400 from me stabbed his wife (and mother of three children) 18 or 19 times. The timing of my exit was good. The EX (emphasis on ex) NBA player had left a few months prior to my exit.

So, now you know under what circumstances I knew him. At the party, everyone was within earshot of everyone. It was a fairly intimate party. In fact, he was the only attendee who hadn't been friends for 20 years with most of the other people there. He was there because the hostess wanted to have sex with him. He knew that. He also knew she was my very best friend, because when she got me the job where I met him, that is how I was introduced. She was the prettiest woman at the party, and had been the best salesperson in our office. Why he would agree to come to her house and then do that in front of everybody, including her, is beyond me.

A few weeks later he took her to the Bahamas for a week and she got what she wanted. She's always been a shit-head magnet. She just finally eloped with some loser. I hope this one doesn't kill her. I've saved her from a few bad situations, but this time her scumbag is a cop. She is for sale in a way that is more common than a straightforward trade of cash for sex. If she likes you, you can get her to date you. But dating her is extremely costly. You need to provide jewelry,purses, shoes, and money for hair and nails. This cop had to pay off $20k of her tuition. The phrase cheaper to keep her will never be true of her. Many women are for sale in that way. But that's not what you were talking about.

 

i cant tell if you are euating me to a cad or a gent?......ive been both butno thati am older i lean towards gentlemen in rl....

i can tell you i will never be able to afford a a lexus.....or women like the op that get driven home in them


i'm just fine with the class of women that like my honda accord....

 

Just appreciate that they know what they're doing.

If I were a woman, I think I would be a lesbian and eat as much pussy as possible...but of course...I say that as a guy.

 

It was an undirected comment.

 

I just do not think that is necessarily the case. Few? Why would there only be a few women who are capable of drawing the conclusion that it's easy enough to prevent disease and unwanted children, and therefore unnecessary to pretend not to want the sex when it is wanted?

 

I said some, not all.

 

Good lawd this thread is ridiculous.

 

Indeed. But where have you been hiding? Haven't seen you around much lately.

 

Real life has been distracting me from the Internet in lots of good ways .

 

Translation: You've been getting suuuuuum

 

^^^that's not entirely false . Derby had a lot to do with it too, but it's off season now.

 

I used to think it must be an unpleasant life being a prostitute, but I recently saw and interview on youtube with a woman who used to work as a "paid companion" at the Emperor's Club (that's the place that Elliot Spitzer got caught paying for prostitutes) and she enjoyed her work there. She said her clients were always respectful and that there were a few she really enjoyed and hoped that they would come back. She also said that the meetings with her clients didn't always involve sex. Her job made good money too. Maybe if I was a woman I could see the appeal of doing that kind of work, legality and safety aside.

I could also see the appeal of being a slut and having a reputation not just for being one but being known for being really good in bed. The kind of girl guys would say "the things she would do to me" about.

 

On the original question (slut or whore) I think that (for me) it would greatly depend upon the definition of slut. If you just time of a slut is a woman who'll have sex any time, any place, at the drop of a hat, then my last girlfriend (before I met my wife) was a slut. I mean that in a very complimentary and desirable way. I would have swapped bodies with her in a heartbeat if it meant being to experience the mind bending intensity, length, and frequency of the orgasms she had when we were together!

In general though, I'd have no trouble being an extremely slutty woman, who had the opportunity to fuck any attractive guy she fancied. There's be a few caveats and provisos however. I'd want three things: 1) I get to feel safe (no creepy stalkers or dates turned rapists when they don't get exactly what they want), 2) I have options at my disposal to minimize (to the extent possible) the chance of picking up an STD, and 3) I have adequate control over my own reproductive abilities (mainly, the Pill works very efficiently and has minimal side effects.)

I realize that I just listed points that would make virtually every sexually active woman in the world say, "Well, Duh!" If only it were as easy as saying it. However, given the hypothetical choice at the beginning of this thread provides me with option of making my choice as I'd want it to work out under perfect conditions. Unrealistic? You bet. Undesirable? Not even close.

in my perfect world, men and women would have each have as much sexual freedom as they wanted and would have the mental health to cope effectively and happily with that freedom. Case in point, I would just love for my wife to come home from work some day looking a little tousled and more tired than usual, and tell me, "You know that cute new guy at work that I told you about? Today we went out to lunch together, he fucked my brains out, and he was amazing!" And then, she tells me about it, blow-by-blow.

You may say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one... - John Lennon

 

Haven't read the whole thread yet, but I think you're comparing apples to oranges. Being a slut isn't a profession. It would totally depend on what the alternative profession was.

I might pick whore over housewife.

 

Good point! How about your average office job, like admin or IT or something?

 

...whore...

 

My wife is a total slut, We have a country home with lots of privacy and we host swingers parties once a month. However these people we invite over are close friends and we have ongoing sex with them all the time. My wife is a total slut and her legs are always open and ready for the next cock. Let's just say she and her friend Sally are total cum dumps.

 

I work as a male escort so my answer would have to be whore. Some of my clients refer to me as their whore too, as well as other derogatory name calling.

Yes the role is all about my clients pleasure and not my own, and yes I would say I'm not attracted to some clients but I'm also a naturist and appreciate anyone with the confidence who enjoys getting nude.

As for the dressing up, it's obviously different being a guy, most clients like me in tight shorts, but I will wear whatever a clients wants me too and several do enjoy the female dominance of dressing me as a female whore in heels, stockings etc.

Yes I routinely sleep with married women but then I'm not judgmental and it's up to them what they do. Getting caught is my only worry!

There is pressure to look good, be fit, and obviously to perform well and act as though I enjoy each client more than any other.

But it is great fun, pays extremely well, and I get to meet a wide range of fascinating people. I'm also invited to many parties and other social occasions, days out, nights out, get to visit places I've never been to before, I really enjoy my lifestyle and get paid for it. And all I have to do is stay fit, get naked, offer good sex and whatever other kinky stuff clients ask for, half the time with ladies who are fairly attractive too.

 

It is clear a lot of guys have kind of a slutty inclination already, maybe this would change if it was really perceived as how a woman is perceived when doing the same thing (which is often defined as being slutty). But in a lot of cases it is not.

Now, thinking about if guys with this slutty inclination would rather prefer to get paid for being that 'slutty' than just sleeping around for free. I think a fair amount of them would. But this is not how it works for most males in reality: see how many male and female whores are there. The old case of supply and demand and the reason why the demand for male whores is not as high as with the male demand for female whores. Although there is SOME demand I think I for one would prefer to be some kind of slutty (or rather just overly flirty) chippendale rather than a male whore.

 

i would rather be a ho - since ill be going to hell alteast ill be getting paid.