How Do I Legally Keep Someone Away From My Children?

I hate my dad's girlfriend. I think that when I have children, she will try to come around them.

I will tell her "I don't want you around my children." And what if she keeps trying? I don't think they make restraining orders for such things.

She doesn't do drugs or anything like that. I just don't like her.

I can't threaten her or I will go to jail.

 

Hmmmm....I would tell someone that they were unwelcomed, and if the person does not have sense to stay away and keeps pushing themself on you, go tell the authorities and maybe they can issue a restraining order. I don't know what type of person would push themselves where they are not welcommed....sick, I guess.....and border stalker.
Also, maybe your dad's situation might be different when you have children.

 

No, they will still be together.

But my dad and her are always together. What am I going to do? Tell her to wait in the car?

I don't want them to ever come into contact. I don't want them to even be aware that she exists any more than any other complete stranger.

 

What does she do that makes you hate her so much then? Is she a threat in any way to you or your unborn children?
Have you told her how you feel. People do not all read minds.....you know.
Just tell her that you and she do not mix....nothing personal if she is not doing anything bad really....be honest.....

 

Can you speak with your dad and tell him that you do not want his girlfriend around you?

 

That would be the thing to do. And tell her myself.

 

What has she done? I grew up with a step grandad...wasnt easy for him, but you know what.. he was brilliant.
We were not allowed to call him grandad,, i wish i had. Made sure my kids did.
My grandparents divorced befor i was born, no one was more shocked than me to find they actualy knew each other.
What ever the reason you hate her, is it wise to bring such hostilities around children? Hate is a hard word to take back.
Is your dad happy? Is your mum?
Dont bring children up to hate, there is enough of that in the world...

 

My parents got divorced in 1988. She is a complete stranger (to me) that he met on a swinger website several years ago. Now, she talks to me like she knows me.

You're right, it's not good to raise children around hate, which is why I don't want her around.

I don't want the baby to confuse a complete stranger for a family member.

 

she's your dad's girlfriend and they met several years ago. How old are you? If you're older than 18 you're too old to act like a bratty teenager and if you're younger then stop talking about babies, yuck

 

I have news for you...your dads girlfriend IS a family member and you are being a petty asswipe about her......so fucking what he met her on a swingers site........does not make either of them a bad person.....grow up....26 years ago your mom and dad split up....get over it

 

Put a moat around your home and fill it with alligators.

Lower the drawbridge for welcome guests only.

/I have crocodiles in mine because I have a salt water moat.

 

moats do not work in Canada...they freeze in the winter and the mother in law just walks across the ice


can she climb?.....maybe a tree house of some sort?

 

oh yeah if your parents split up in 1988 you are way too old to still be bitter about their divorce and subsequent relationships. Grow up and be happy your dad isn't lonely.

 

I didn't say I was bitter about their divorce. And no she is not a family member. Consult a family tree. Can't find her.

 

Damn. What if I win the lottery and people start coming at me for-----------oh. never mind.

 

family tree?....your definition of family is from 2,500 years ago.......hopefully your parenting skills will be from this century......

 

My best friend is more family to me than most of my actual family.

OP, I know what it's like to be down on your family. Unfortunately if you have a relationship with your dad you have to accept his partner.

 

She is no best friend. My grandma has a boyfriend, but I like him, so I would let him around.

 

so convince me/us...what exactly is wrong with this woman?

what are her flaws

be specific....

 

Do you see your dad? Does he know you don't like her?